#also a very heavy fictive system

[legendsoffandoms]

Oh shit-

It’s been almost a week 😭

Anyways hi yall

Guess who is having multiple identity crises!

1. Name:

Called myself Knife Bat in a server as a joke for Halloween, and when people actually called me it

Euphoria

So thats going on

2. I’m questioning if I’m a system or not, and I’m honestly losing the battle

Yeah the more I research, and try out terms

The more I realize that I am probably a system

(Guess my Ex was right 😭)

Anyhow

Hope yall are doing good

Want to hear about an Undertale au?

[alittlebitofeverything579]

Does anyone else get this or is it just us?

-Dorothea

[thefirstvessel]

Mmmm- love getting fake claimed and having someone imply our dissociative disorder is Fancy Roleplay, just because I happened to re-surface as a Sleep Token alter when I came out of dormancy... 😑

It's not like the system leaving Sleep Token Twitter was so traumatic to us and one of our closest friends that it caused me to split off or anything-

[galaxycampfirecollective]

sighs. yeah we've got three other Ethos.

They've picked out newish names, so we have:

Stars (they might change their name later) - they/flight/void/love - from a mcyt x httyd AU we wrote like two years ago

Nemesis - they/rot/rage/soul - from a kinda fucked up YHS AU the host created a year back

Guide (name to be determined) - he/they/watch/protect/angel - oh hello Guiding Light from Doors, how are you doing? /lh (aka, 3rd Life x Doors AU from a couple months back)

[moogghost]

i really need to. update/remake our pinned post one of these days

bc while it Works as is i want it to be better

[astralsys]

hi again been a bit... uhhh why'd I wanna make this again? oh right talking about random shit. I do wanna get back into some things I left off with some friends of mine, but due to being me and it being a very hard existence things didnt go as planned and I kinda dropped it and lost interest.... which really sucks cause I have so many ideas for where I wanted to take my story ( working on a kirby au of sorts havent sorted out through the entire thing cause my brain doesnt wanna work with me :/ ) that I wanted to actually bring into existence instead of it all just being in my head or a rough draft. maybe I can push myself into gaining interest again by actually working on it again. what I had orginally thought up is no longer what I wanna go with so new things are hard to come up with. off topic from that I have so many fucking games I need to get back to and the game list keeps getting bigger and bigger its gonna drown me at some point :( whyyyyy do I keep doing this to myself.... doom I'm dooming myself this is what I'm doing. and cause I'm me I'm def gonna be forgetting that I made this post in the first place! dont you love being this mess of a person? isnt this FUN?!

[dice-boy]

watching playthroughs of source is always a bit of a gamble bc 97% of the time I'm chilling and 3% of the time I get smacked in the side of the head with a trigger

[syunkissisfaking]

This person is faking D.I.D, and more. and its time we actually talk about it. ( As someone with DIAGNOSED D.I.D. )

CW ; faking disorders, lying, swearing, antiship debates, harassment, mentions of serial killers (as example), mentions of abuse and trauma (unspecified),

DISCLAIMER ; I am aware this will cause a lot of attention if seen by a lot of people in the D.I.D community. a lot of fakers tend to have similar "aspects" to syunkiss, so I expect hate. as well as a lot of syunkiss fans who will run to their defence (for some reason) this is to spread awareness. This entire post is based on SCIENTIFIC FACTS and my OWN EVIDENCE. i am medically diagnosed and have been for 7 years now.

OTHER BLOGS OF NOTE ; @/idonoiyo @/duckduckgoose-exe @/rab1darachn1d (also faking)

syunkiss is a popular blog, being seen in many areas of the bungou stray dogs fandom. and for some reason, barely anybody seems to actually acknowledge the fact they've been faking D.I.D, or OSDD. whatever they "claim" to have. this is proof of them and their lies.

i don't know how this hasn't been brought up before. it is so obvious that they are faking it and yet everybody seems to nod and agree. the same goes for their circle of friends, by seeing how they have acted for a while. they would be faking too.

I am speaking as an actual system. I have a right to speak about this subject. it is bad for our community and it leaves a bad impression. they do not know the struggles we have to face. let's get into it.

AMNESIA

something common among people with types of D.I.D (using it as an umbrella label) is huge amounts of amnesia. most people are not aware that they may be switching or even know who they are.

it is almost physically impossible that you would know to sign off with a emoji every time you have switched alters. much less switch entire blogs, or even know who is speaking.

your alters are not you, some of them would not even remember you had a tumblr account to stay active on. let alone to add an emoji or any types of sign off in general. a lot of the time me and my alters dont even know where we are, let alone able to go on tumblr and answer asks constantly.

an example of this (not to villanise the concept of people with D.I.D) is that many serial killers have some type of D.I.D, some of them are not aware of the people they might have killed at all. because they have amnesia. this is how it works.

USERBOX

I had managed to save the userbox before they had deleted it.

this is just... what? that is now how fictives or any types of alter are formed. fictives/introjects/factives are valid, we have one in our system. however this is not how they are formed at all. D.I.D is caused by trauma, it is not something that can cause you to split into another alter by daydreaming.

D.I.D is developed (begins developing) at a very young age as a result of intense amounts of trauma, both physical and mental. (it is not from something as small as your parents grounding you or hitting you once. it has to be intense amounts of trauma.) and signs only typically show when you are in adulthood.

there is cases of it showing in younger people, but the trauma is usually extremely worse, and the chance of this happening is very low. there would have to be life threatening levels of abuse at the ages of 5 to 10. and still the youngest it can be confirmed is at 17. this is a scientific fact.

this userbox shows ignorance. if you are going to fake a disorder, do some research at least. or talk to people who actually have the disorder. it was so confidently said im in shock nobody picked up on it.

FICTIVES

this one is going to get me a lot of hate. I know that. however it has to be said.

they claim to be a fictive heavy system, but the chances of fictives being present in systems at all is a very unlikely chance. they usually form after some connection with trauma towards that franchise, related or indirectly related.

having so many fictives from bungou stray dogs is extremely unlikely. it is difficult to house 3 normal alters in one body, but this person is claiming to have so many and all of them are from bungou stray dogs somehow. this is a very obvious sign they are lying. this does not happen. it is even more unlikely they will have every single period of a single character as fictives too.

if they just wanted to roleplay they can. but faking D.I.D for this is damaging to my community.

I am mentioning littles here so I do not have to make a new category for it. it typically develop from dissociation caused by prolonged early childhood trauma. having a fictive who also happens to be a little is so unlikely. if it is age regression, then okay. but syunkiss described it as a little alter.

HEADSPACES

this is a little difficult to explain. but I will do my best.

headspaces do not exist. there is something similar, but that is just your subconscious. you cannot have your alters interact in your headspace like it is a minecraft world.

switching alters works like a timeskip, this is because of the memory gaps and amnesia. this is not fully targeted at syunkiss, but mostly at their friends.

you cannot see what is happening in the "headspace", that is just not possible. switching alters is like sleeping in minecraft, you just wake up whenever you switch back with no memory of what happened between the dates.

HARASSMENT

this is a short section, but it needs to be addressed. syunkiss claims to not go out and harass proshippers or people he disagrees with, and he just "blocks them"

that is their pinned post. that is what it says about them being an anti.

that is them going out of their way to harass somebody else in their inbox.

no, syunkiss it wasn't them who even sent the asks. it was one of my friends who also encouraged me to speak up and make this post. you are contradicting yourself.

I am not a proshipper, I am quite anti. but that does not make it okay.

tdlr ; syunkiss is lying about D.I.D, not even doing research before doing it and he is going against his own word and harassing people.

thank you for reading. my askbox is open if anyone wants any extra questions. i may add to this in the future if more shows up.

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for fictive-heavy systems!

While some people might insist that a system having lots of fictives means they’re faking or invalid in some way, this is absolutely not the case! In fact, fictive-heavy systems have always been and will always be special, valued, and integral members of the plural community. So this post is for every system with lots of fictive members!

Is your system made up entirely of fictives? That’s perfectly fine, and your system is valid and lovely just the way it is! It’s okay to have only fictives in your system, and your system is still a precious and important part of the plural community!

Do the fictives in your system hold important roles, regularly help take care of your system, do things like handle chores, work, or school, and play a big role in your system’s functioning overall? That’s amazing! And we’re so happy to hear the fictives in your system are so able and willing to help out - their efforts are recognized and so very appreciated!

Whether your system’s fictives love their sources and are very connected to them, don’t want anything to do with their sources and are separating from them, feel indifferent to their sources, or anything else, remember there’s no wrong way to think or feel about your source! As long as your system’s fictives are staying safe and happy, it’s okay for them to identify as they wish! It’s not “cringe” to be a fictive and also be fictionkin, to have your source as your special interest/hyperfixation, or to want to engage in your source actively!

It’s okay if your system’s fictives are often lost and confused, if they struggle to determine exomemories from real memories, or feel disconnected from themselves because they’re in the real world and not their source! It’s okay if your system’s fictives don’t have any exomemories, or feel like they firmly belong in the real world without sharing any connections to their source! There’s no wrong way to be a headmate or a fictive, and their experiences are real, valid, and important just the way they are!

We hope all you fictive-heavy systems can find peace, joy, belonging, and self-acceptance today and every day! Know that you are so special and important, and you are a cherished part of the plural community just the way you are! We hope you can continue to make the most of life and find pleasure in the mundane and camaraderie with the rest of your headmates! Remember we care about you, we’re rooting for you, and we’re wishing you the very best in all that you do! Thanks so much for reading, and take care!

[plurapony]

Hello and Welcome!!!!! We are Plura (or Ponies Plaza System) - an artistic (+autistic) traumagenic dissocative identity disorder system!!!!! We are also toy collectors!

These are the forms of art we make:

𖹭 Drawings

𖹭 Poetry

𖹭 Graphic Art

We are a system of [currently] 64+ that are fictive heavy and has a low split tolerance soo♪⁠～ that number most likely will only go up! We are bodily 21 and are all monogamous with a fiancee who we love very very much ( @installzoey kisses! 💋) We are genderfluid and we have varying genders and identities and some of us even create our own!

this is our main blog! everyone in the system is allowed to use this blog. we have sideblogs!

• @imperfectarchives (host's side blog)

• @heartfeltspace (blue + amethyst endo neutral positivity blog)

• @syschotic (sub-system side blog)

• @bowfur (furry sideblog)

• @rhythmicgacha (bandori + pjsk blog)

Some of our interests: Steven Universe, Gravity Falls, Adventure Time, My Little Pony

PSA for our blog: This is for our lived experience as a system with autism, bipolar and OCPD. We are not medical professionals, and our posts should not be taken as educational content. We are in the early stages of healing, and may not be the best role model.

Quick DNI: Endogenic "Systems" and supporters, NSFW blogs, Transphobic/Racist/Homophobic, Fakeclaimers and General DNI criteria.

Look we know that having a disorder isn't all sunshine and rainbows (though we wish it was!) and we understand more than anyone that it really does fucking suck sometimes. What really brings us joy though is creativity and art and using that to brighten people's day and making the world smile! 🌈 And even on our worst day if we know that we actively tried to make someone's day better, then it ends up being a good day. 🩷

• Full-time Employment with DID

• The Topic of Faking

• Heavy Amnesia and DID

• DID and OCPD

Now here are some of our interests/blog contents displayed in a visual lense! (Big thanks to Pinkie for creating these) 🌼

Thank you for reading!! The Pony Plaza System wishes you a good day!!!! ☀️

[syscultureis]

Hi!!

So, I'm a singlet so please forgive (and correct) any incorrect terminology! I had some questions about writing a character who is a system. I completely understand if you can't answer all of these questions, but I'd really appreciate anything you have the time for!

Can alters interact with each other? Ex. If one alter is fronting, can the other alters communicate with them and each other? Additionally, in what situation would a perosn shift? What does shifting look like? I've heard of alters co-hosting as well, so how many alters can co-host at the same time?

2. Can alters communicate with each other pre-system awareness?

3. Are fictives common, and is there an average amount of alters a person with DID has? If I met a person with DID, what is the likelihood of them having a fictive alter?

4. I think viewing neurodivergence in fantasy/dystopian worlds is a very interesting concept, and I was wondering if creating a character who has DID and the ability to shape-shift would be offensive?

In this scenario, as they shift from one alter to another, they might also change their physical appearances? Would that be rude? The character wouldn't be villianized in any way, and neither would their shape-shifting. I just wonder if someone with DID would look at this character and think of it as awesome representation, or an offensive caricature.

5. Are there any lesser known ways DID affects someone's life? I've heard of memory loss, and social stigma of course, but I was wondering if there's anything else I should consider.

If you (or anyone else) has any additional information for me, I'd be more than welcome to receiving it.

Thank you for responding/taking the time to look at this! I really appreciate any advice I can get, and I know this ask can be dating with how lengthy it is.

:)

1) yes, alters can communicate to the alter that is fronting. It's not always perfect and can sometimes be confusing or very easy to write off as the frontiers thoughts. I assume Shifting means Switching, where the alter controlling the body/fronting switches to a different alter being in control.

A lot of different situations can cause that depending on the system, but stressful situations are a big one for a lot of systems

2) yes, often people assume it's their own thoughts and they're just "talking it out with them self", or it's an imaginary friend, or something similar

3) introjects aren't uncommon, but it's also still very likely to meet a system with no introjects at all. Average alter count depending on the source you find can tell you anywhere from 6-16. When writing a character I would recommend considering what traumas you think would've caused a split, or what situations would require a different alter to take care of to help you decide system size for characters

4) personally I think that would be super cool, but I can't speak for the whole community. But I do think as long as you're respectful with the actual disorder itself it's okay

5) not knowing who you are for days at a time, thinking about thinks and genuinely feeling nothing about them because of emotional amnesia, struggling to think on days that have heavy dissociation. Also other alters spilling your secrets ;-;

* we don't speak for the whole community, we encourage you to also do research outside of Tumblr as we are not professionals

[thedocruby]

Shoutout to my fellow Median and Blurian systems, those brothers and sisters where the lines between alters begin to blur. I know your pain. And I know how hard it is to fight the self-doubt and fakeclaiming that comes with it...

To the Blurians: your lack of amnesia barriers does not disqualify you as a system. And no matter what anyone tells you, amnesia barriers are not origin dependent; you can be traumagenic without amnesia, and you can have amnesia as an endo. Everyone's mind handles plurality differently, and you are allowed to be the system nobody expected.

Blurian systems come with just as many challenges as benefits. I know how you feel; It's not just the privilege of remembering and the ease of communication, its also the burden of confusion and lack of quiet. Not knowing who's memories are whos, struggling to keep straight who likes what, frequent switching, inconsistencies, and constantly blurry front. Ignorance really is bliss, but unfortunately, you don't have such luxuries. And when you try to get some alone time to think, but you have to question which thoughts are even yours... I know your pain, and you are not suffering alone.

We see you. You are real. You are loved.

To the Medians: All the things your headmates have in common do not disqualify you as a system. And no matter what anyone tells you, they do not disqualify you from your origin. There is no requirement that traumagenic or fictive-heavy systems be a random assortment of characters. Nor is there any requirement that endogenic systems have any sort of deliberate order to them. Whether you have a host identity or not, your origin is still valid regardless. Everyone's mind handles plurality differently, and you are allowed to be the system nobody expected.

Median systems come with just as many challenges as benefits. I know how you feel; It's not just the unity and connection with the rest of the system, it's also the confused/unknown front, struggling to find your individual identity, trying to force individuality on yourself just to feel like you're real... Frequent switching can also be a problem here, as the lines between the alters are thinner. Doing things the same way as your headmates, sharing common interests, having the same opinions and emotions... These are all very human things to do, especially with people you hold so close. And still, it becomes so easy to doubt yourself, so hard to find yourself, and in the end they will claim that you are just pretending to suffer through these confusing feelings... I know your pain, and you are not suffering alone.

We see you. You are real. You are loved.

That's all. I hope you have a wonderful day 💖

[brainpal-gachapon]

MOD APPLICATIONS : closed

Hello!! I'm Mod Madoka, here to tell you abt this blog! ^^

This is an alterpack blog; basically you give us some information and we make an alter for you! After that, you'd use the alter information we provide to split your very own alter; simple as that!

Current requests!!!

How do I actually form these headmates?

Here is our template for requesting a headmate.

Name(s):

Age:

Prns:

Gender(s):

Source(s):

Species:

TransID(s):

CisID(s):

Role(s) (if you want them):

Other/Misc:

With that in mind, we also don't mind making an entirely 'creator's choice' headmate for you! We'd prefer if you gave a few key details that you would or wouldn't want regardless.

Obligatory 'not fully from my own head'- this blog was created because Madoka was inspired by @alters-in-a-box, @alters-4-u, and several other very cool blogs! (hope yall're ok with pings lol-)

Mod info under the cut !

[# of Mods: 5]

Mod Madoka .

Hello, hello, hii! Bonjour as well! I am Mod Madoka- though just Madoka is alright ^^;

I'm many transIDs, but the main ones are transjapanese, transfrench, transplural, transalbino, transharmed, and transorientation!

I'm currently working on 2 headmates (to the best of my ability.. waghh!) so if you see a Mod Flutters or Mod Moon, that's them!

For sign-offs (aside from my little image, hehe) I'll either use Modoka, Mod Madoka, or 🍓!

MOD PINK !!

HIII!! I'm MOD Pink (other alters will upload but it will be under my name)

I have many transids but the notable ones are transrussian, transjapanese, transharmed, and transbpd. The main other alter that will most is transarab.

Mod Pink's sources

I will probably sign off with Mod Pink or 🎸

MOD PINK

Mod Vox/Cringe!

Our preferred sources!

Hello hej :D! We're Mod Vox/Cringe! Refer to us by it/she&/bitch/cringe pronouns.

We're a cisplural sys (we plan to all upload under this name), along with cisdisabled (many ways) and cistraumtized. But are also transabled in certain ways, transtrauma, and possibly transplural to an extent. Our primary ids are transswedish, trace and transharmed, but we have many others. We're also very much a paraphilie (yep those ones also). We're also cisnpd and this blog just fuels it lol (/lh)

We sign off with Mod Vox/Cringe, or with 💔.

Mod Dazed/Mach!

Hello we're mod Dazed or Mod Mach, we use Vi/Fi/Xa/Yan/El/Chi prns we're a transplural sys with low switching, a lot of kins, a lot of irls, and a lot of transids! Notably transcharacter Mach, Miku, and Shazam, transobsession, and transbullied! We sign off with Mod Dazed, Mod Mach, or MM!

Mach's preferred sources!

Mod Effigy !!!

Hello , we’re Effigy or Sprawl . We use he/???/it pronouns . We’re a fictive heavy transDID system .

collective IDs : NtM , sickfuck , transabled , transfibromyalgia , transfanged , nullhawaiian , nullhuman , transdiagnosed , transtinyapartment

Please check here for system requests!

[thesleepysystem]

system introduction !

hi, we are the sleepy system ! we are a traumagenic did system and are recently discovered

ive (travis) been questioning on and off for about three years, i think ? im making this acc to interact w/ other systems and document my experiences, as well as get better at communicating w/ my alters.

travis / samuel - https://www.tumblr.com/thesleepysystem/742866365813276672/host-introduction?source=share

sarah - no intro, caretaker, 23, she/her

jack - no intro, persecutor, he/him

red - no intro, avenger

loki - no intro, fictive, all pronouns

choso - no intro, fictive, he/she

rot - no intro, unknown role, he/him

info abt us !!

we have autism, adhd, multiple mental illnesses, and are physically disabled.

we're artists !! we'll start posting art eventually lol

im (travis) not very good at talking so please dont dm / pm us unless its important ;_;

we support para's but are anti-contact for harmful para's and encourage ppl w/ harmful para's to seek therapy, we dont want MAPs to interact with us due to trauma, we also do not care abt radqueers and are completely neutral on them, we follow both radqueers and anti's and also allow both groups to follow us. DO NOT INVOLVE US WITH PARA OR RADQUEER DISCOUSRE THAT INVOLVES MAPS, GROOMING, SA / CSA / COCSA, ED, SH, OR ABUSE, IF WE WANT TO INTERACT WITH THAT DISCOUSRE WE WILL DO SO ON OUR OWN TERMS.

we post abt syscourse and queer discourse, if that makes you uncmfortable then i dont recommend following

our blog is VERY reblog heavy !!

i'll add more if i think of anything :)

DNI: right wingers, bigots, anti-endos / sysmeds, transmeds, anti-shippers, anyone who interacts w/ cringe culture, ppl who think transandrophobia does not exist / is transmisogynistic, MAPs, i'll add more if i think of anything.

[lefluoritesys]

A role made by our partner system (@the-soup-system) that I would like to discuss:

Biographer

A biographer is an alter who records the lives of alters in the inner world (or outer world, but for us, it's inner world). Those are alters who can enter a headspace that allows them to access memories of other alters and either write them down on paper, or record via audio, or something else that this alter uses to capture those memories in the outer world. It doesn't always mean that the alter is a gatekeeper or that they have access to memories of others 24/7. It usually refers to a dissociative state that this alter enters to record the memories they are getting.

My experience with it because while I'm the host, I'm also our biographer (I have like 14 roles, so don't be surprised):

My presence allows other alters to access their memories better, whether they are inner or outer, although mostly inner.

My dissociative state, or the "writer's headspace," is heavy, and getting in and out of it can cause me splits or headaches. However, if everything goes smooth, it just causes tiredness.

I can access memories of other alters on a daily basis. Sometimes, just small details like their roles, families, preferences, etc.

I have many stories from our early teens and even from when we were 6 bodily that turned put to be biographies of people.

My biography allows me to access the memories only if there's consent. There are some I either refuse to get into or the person can set a boundary that they do not want me to know, and I won't.

My biographies allow us to dive deeper into the inner world and find people we forgot existed. There were multiples times when I reread some of my biographies and realized I named people after already existing alters and had no memory that I did so beforehand.

My presence also gives me the power of compulsion. I can either help people tell the truth about themselves, or I can make them answer my questions about them or anything they know.

Our memory gatekeeper can still limit me if they feel the need to do so, which means I am not a memory gatekeeper. I am an outer world manager, but that doesn't interfere with my biographer job.

I wrote a book with 69,220 words and 17 chapters depicting a part of my own inner world story. It also talks about dissociative amnesia, suppressed memories, and other stuff that I didn't realize was a projection of unawareness of DID.

I can tell when alters are lying or telling the truth. Others told me they can't do it as well as me.

I recorded multiple biographies via audio when I couldn't put them on paper.

A while ago, I started a book and accidentally summoned a person to front because I didn't realize I was writing about somebody who is present in our system.

I accidentally gave one of our fictives a very interesting issue because I was projecting dissociative amnesia and my unawareness of DID on paper, and now they gained it and have to live with it. Also with the memories from that fanfiction.

Some things I wrote were more of a "what I wanted it to be" rather than what actually happened.

It helps me connect with alters, especially new alters, because I find out what they've been through, what they hold, what they're like, and therefore I know how to approach and accommodate them. Which I also then show to others (how to work with them, not the memories) and establish communication between them and the rest of the system.

(This is not all but all that I can remember right now)

Our partner system can talk about their experience with biographies, and I will not speak for them. However, they were the ones who introduced me to the term in the first place.

-host

[tf2heritageposts]

hey just saying it would be poggers and awesome to learn about your system btw :)

i’ll use this for the pinned post lol

me aka cheavy aka tfc heavy(don’t call me that though)

i’m 62, use he/it, and i’m somewhere on the mosrly gay to strictly gay spectrum

i’m the main host which means i’ll be the one mainly answering stuff and making tf2 posts lol

painis has also been making an appearance lately

he's like? 30? 40? and uses he/it and meat based pronouns

obviously he's a painis cupcake fictive, and he loves making ascii art and is a major scene kid. he loves fnaf and shit like that, and also primarly only eats meat. he also loves chewing on my arm

he has a typing quirk where he speaks in all caps and puts a helmet on his smiley like this [|:] but that's moreso because he loves emoticons

he tends to not speak in the tags a lot and doesn't get jokes infrequently. he's also prone to making very violent jokes/threats

i'm also in an insys relationship with him lol

sniper also made an appearence recently lol

he's 27 and uses he/him solely i think

he tends to type with the first letter capitalized and I's capitalized but nothing else like names

he's, to be frank, a dick and swears like crazy a lot. he also has a low tolerance for bullshit and whatnot and will probably delete your ask if you annoy him

he also knows you are making a joke and will take it literally anyways because he wants to

he is also prone to making violent jokes and threats

someone who's posted here before but has yet to actually sign off is monty

monty's a fusion of two of our old tf2 ocs and is a pyro/soldier

he's 38 and uses he/they/it i think?

he gets angry really easily but he's pretty jokey lol

he doesn't have a typing quirk but you might be able to tell us apart? who knows lol

also having posted here before is medic aka robin

he's 40, uses he/it/blood based pronouns, and probably also isn't a fan of you

He tends to speak like this. in formal talk and big fancy ass words but do not get me wrong he is probably saying something kind of mean to you

i'm also in an in sys relationship but I DO NOT SHIP MEDIC X CHEAVY, PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS

ALSO WE ARENT FUCKING ABUSIVE I AM BARELY LIKE MY SOURCE MAN PLEASE KNOW THIS

everyone's okay with being asked specifically in an ask but please do not be surprised if they do not respond or say something a little bit mean because i am the nicest of all of us LOL