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Iâm about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:
It may sound woo woo but itâs an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.
Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they arenât just things that happen for no reason.
1. Pause and notice youâre having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that itâs there. Donât label it as good or bad.
2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like youâre vibrating? Does it feel like youâre numb all over?
3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what youâre feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?
4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but theyâre still valid. You donât have to justify what youâre feeling, itâs just valid. Tell yourself âyeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.â Or something as simple as âI hear you.â For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say âYeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. Thatâs valid.â
5. Do something with your body thatâs not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.
6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)
#deconstruction#ex christian#ex evangelical#agnosticatheist#deconstructing christianity#agnostic#ex religious#exevangelical#religious trauma#trauma#cptsd#therapy#life skills#leftist#self healing#healing is a process#Emdr#emdr therapy#ifs therapy#emotional regulation#emotional health#heading#trauma therapy#religious trauma syndrome#anti capitalist#humanism#coping mechanism#coping skills#cult survivor#deconvert
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A Tarde FM: #011 â Lula e os reitores Quadro âConexĂ”es: Educação, Cultura e CiĂȘnciaâ em A TardeFM 103,9 e redes Tema de hoje: #011 â Lula e os reitores
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Unexpected and unrequested Bowuigi be upon ye
They still tickle me from time to time. And I found these now years old sketches I never cleaned up, and decided to share cuz WHY NOT!
Its a good time thank everyone who supports my silly ideas LOL đ â„ïž genuinely love you all sm
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#bowuigi#luigi#bowser#super mario bros#smb#most of my comics are just What Ifs scenarios over dialogue i think is funny~ twirls hair#dont mind the size changes its all over the place BUT WHAT ELSE IS NEW tap dances#if the new movie doesnât have them sing a musical number together im gonna take no prisoners /j
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Michael Afton wishes he had FNAF Movie Mike's life,,
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#mike schmidt#michael afton#elizabeth afton#fnaf movie#sister location#fnaf fanart#tbh this comic was an exist to draw different looks for Mike and Michael#itâs just cool to think about the âwhat ifsâ now and again#I think Michael does prefer Mikeâs life seeing compared to his itâs currently simple#heâd love to be alive and just taking care of Elizabeth as best he can#though Mike is definitely not as enthusiastic đ#his life would just get significantly worse if he had Michaelâs life#so heâs not interested at all BAHAH#It was fun to draw them out though in swapped looks#Mike being scooped and Michael and Elizabeth being in more movie inspired clothes#my boy Michael can dream!!
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i miss everyone i ever met all the time
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My Great Grandma who loved her babies very much
Reference that I used for the face!
#I was scrolling through pinterest and saw this woman and I was like: She looks EXACTLY like how I imagine Stan and Ford's mother to look#my art#gravity falls#mabel pines#dipper pines#ig??#caryn romanoff pines#caryn pines#mabel voice: she must have been one hell of a mother to have had to deal with Grunkle Stan and Grunkle Ford when they were kids!#DO YOU EVER THINK ABOUT HOW SHE MIGHT HAVE DIED THINKING STANFORD AND STANLEY NEVER GOT THE CHANCE TO RECONCILE#DO U EVER THINK ABOUT HOW SHE MUST HAVE BEEN PLAGUED WITH REGRETS AND WHAT-IFS OVER STAN BEING KICKED OUT- WISHING SHE COULD HAVE DONE MORE#DOES THE THOUGHT THAT STANFORD MIGHT HAVE NEVER GOTTEN THE CHANCE TO VISIT HER AT HER DEATHBED OR HER FUNERAL SINCE HE WAS STUCK ELSEWHERE??#EVER HAUNT YOU AT NIGHT???#DOES IT EVER OCCUR TO YOU THAT SHE MIGHT HAVE KNOWN ALL ALONG ABOUT STANLEY- SINCE SHE'S THEIR MOTHER AND âWHAT KIND OF MOTHER CAN'T#RECOGNISE HER OWN CHILDREN APARTâ#THEY MEET AT STAN'S FUNERAL LIKE: âSTANLEY I DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED- NOR WHY THAT CASKET AT THE FRONT IS EMPTY RIGHT NOW AND WHY WE'RE#CURRENTLY ATTENDING YOUR FUNERAL- OR WHY YOU'RE EVEN DRESSED UP AS FORD RIGHT NOW.â#âI DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON STANLEY- BUT I DO KNOW THAT ONE OF MY SONS DIDN'T DIE IN A DITCH SOMWHERE IN THE FLAMING WRECK OF A CAR CRASH-#AND THAT'S ENOUGH FOR ME.â#SHE GOT THAT MOTHER'S INSTINCT#stan twins parents
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xifere presents⊠kenji sato x gn!reader
content warnings⊠18+, not proofread, sub!kenji sato, edging, solo masturbation, pet names, praise kink, might be a lil ooc, kenji canât be discreet over the phone
How embarrassing, really, Kenji thought. He stared at himself in the mirror across from him as he sat on the edge of his neatly made bed, hands positioned behind him. He hadnât seen you in what felt like months, and now the evidence was staring right back at him, though covered by the thick layer of his black sweats. It ached. He wanted nothing more than to relieve himself, but he knew himself. He canât cum without your help.
And yet, he was desperate. Already, he was breathing heavily as he took a shaky hand and palmed his clothes dick. He let out a deep sigh before pulling down the waistband of his sweats juuuust enough for his cock to bobble up. The air was cold against his sensitive tip, and a hiss left his lips. Kenji wasted no time wrapping his hand around the base of his cock, just the way you do, trying to stimulate the same movements you used. He glanced up and caught a glimpse of himself biting his lip with a slightly flushed face in an attempt to hush himself from sounding so pathetic.
He imagined you behind him, guiding him to his orgasm, and the image itself makes him forget any rational thoughts.
âFu-hhhhâŠâ
That one time you really did sit behind him, whispering sweet nothings in his ears, reminding him how much of a slut he was for you while praising him all the same, popped up in his mind, and he couldn't help but stroke faster. Your sultry voice, your breath on his ears, the teasing kisses you gave him. Oh, how he fucking miâ
A loud ringtone filled the quiet room. Startled, he let go of himself, and his incoming orgasm was lost. But he quickly recognized the ringtoneâ it was the one he picked specifically for you.
But shit. Could the timing have been any worse better? At this point, his tip was fuming. An angry red, his slit trickling pre. He couldn't stop now, but he wasn't going to skip your call either.
âHey baby⊠what's up?â
âJust wanted to say you did great today, sweetheart. I saw your little heroic moment on the news.â God, and the first thing you do is praise him. He feels like a horny teen again, the way he wraps his hands around his cock just to jerk off at the sound of your voice. You wouldn't mind though, right?
A shaky, âYea?â was all he could manage without revealing his actions to you.
âMhm, and also just to say sorry for not being able to see you lately. Work has been so busy andâŠâ he could listen to you for hours. He stroked himself to the pace of your words, squeezing tighter every time he went over his tip. He couldn't do the same motions as you, his brain already too preoccupied with you and his need to empty his balls.
âKen? Ken, baby, I know itâs been a few days, but if youâve missed me that much, you could've just told me.â
He didn't even realize. He'd already gotten too comfortable, his back against the bed, one hand holding his phone to his ear, the other hand stroking his cock, and his throat eliciting all the evidence you could ever ask for. You'd never mistake these moans for anything but pleas for pleasure.
But being caught only spurred him on more. âHahhâ missed⊠you sâ muchâŠâ You couldn't hear them as well as his breathy groans, but the sound of slick was filling up the room, slowly but surely.
âDonât you dare cum, Ken.â He stopped. A whine. You loved it. The way the pitch of his voice rose when he didn't get what he wanted. And he wanted more, so why should he listen? He thought he would break with how much his cock ached. Yet his hand was still at the base of his dick. âIâm coming over right now, so sit pretty like the good boy you are.â
He so terribly wanted to disobey you, show you he doesn't always have to be a good boy for you, but he knew himself. He wouldn't have been able to cum without you anyways.
#kenji youâre adorable#I couldnât resist#sub character#Dom Reader#sub ken sato#ken sato smut#kenji sato smut#sub Kenji sato#sub ultaman rising#sub!character#dom!reader#dom gn reader#kenji sato#ken sato#kenji sato x reader#ken sato x reader#â€ïž; ife re
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Ooni Of Ife's Adopted Daughter, Elizabeth Marks 40th Birthday
The adopted daughter of the Crocodile of Love and wife of billionaire businessman Tein Jack, Elizabeth Jack Rich has described her new chapter as an age of peace, tranquility, and positivity. Elizabeth via her Instagram page reflected on her lifeâs journey, stating that it has been wonderful thus far and she is grateful for the endless grace and protection. She also expressed gratitude for herâŠ
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IFES Matemåtica: Equação Exponencial com Produtos Notåveis
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#Iâll stare at a screen for hours debating myself#so many what ifs#staring will help#writing#writeblr#ao3#writer#writing meme#writing memes
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A Tarde FM: #011 â Greve nas Federais: a reuniĂŁo que nĂŁo houve Quadro âConexĂ”es: Educação, Cultura e CiĂȘnciaâ em A TardeFM 103,9 e redes Tema de hoje: #011 â Greve nas Federais: a reuniĂŁo que nĂŁo houve
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I'm a doctor, not a miracle worker.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wen ning#wei wuxian#wen qing#jiang cheng#Truly Massive disclaimer here: I am a Jiang Cheng enjoyer. I like his character. I enjoy that he is very flawed and volatile.#This episode of the audio drama has a lot of great breakdown scenes featuring JC - and they all deserve a feature.#But underlying this comic is a small meta comment of 'ah man I have too many comics of JC just wailing sadly'#My goal is to draw 6-8 comics per episode - I sometimes have to truncate and cut good scenes out.#Especially when a large majority is just different flavours of trauma and toxic relationships to your self-worth.#I would also like to make a note here that just because you lose the ability to do something that is very tied to your core identity-#-does not mean your life is over. It will feel like the end of the world. It will send you into a spiral of grief. It will hurt so badly.#Sometimes we do not realize how tied up our identities can be in certain things until we are cut loose.#You don't lose yourself. I promise the pain will fade in time. I promise you will find other things to tether you. I promise you will be ok#Life moves forwards. Time moves forwards. You move forwards.#Ego death just means an opportunity for ego rebirth. You are never committed to being the same person forever.#To wrap this around to JC: Yeah I love the twist with the core transfer but man I would have loved to see JC accept the loss.#Obviously it happens for a reason (story) but I can have my AUs. I can have these 'what-ifs'.#described in alt text#I'm trying it out! *please* give me feedback - I want to eventually Add image ID to all of these comics one day
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Merlin is just such a compelling show (and character) despite being so silly and full of physical comedy. like what do you mean itâs about human error, about loving so hard you lose yourself, about betrayal, about looking back on your life and thinking about everything that couldâve been changed to prevent tragedy but realizing it couldnât have been any other way. because you are human. because you loved, and you feared, and you gave in to those fears, because you tried your best to protect but became warped by a love so great that it doomed you. itâs so compelling because itâs both inevitable and so preventable. it makes you look back on it like you look back on the regrets in your own life and the things that haunt you but couldnât have happened any other way because of your humanity. it keeps you up at night, it makes you look for its cracks, and it makes you think over and over again about the what ifs. itâs so compelling, its so silly, itâs so tragic, itâs so beautiful, its larger than life, and itâs so human.
âŠ.this is why we will never escape, just like Merlin canât escape his memories of his king at the end.
#merlin#bbc merlin#merthur#arthur pendragon#theyâre just trying their best#and itâs not good enough#the what ifs literally rattle in my head constantly#we can never fawking escape
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I've been thinking about FH:JY lately and about the characters and how their stories just arched over three seasons and told a beautiful tale of growing up. I thought about how Junior Year ended and how Freshman Year began.
Then I remembered. Brennan would have let Gorgug die.
First day filming first campaign and a PC is full dead. No one had revivify much less diamonds on him. And Brennan 100% would have just let that happen. And was going to. Except for one thing.
Kristen died too.
Think about that. Brennan Lee Mulligan had two dead PC's on his hand. First day of filming just one session and shit already hit the fan. He had to Episode Two'd to get shit back on track and revive the both of them.
Both of them. Not just one. Both.
If Kristen had made her save, if she had survived and live, Gorgug would be dead. There would be no dad finding, there would be no exploring his roots, no greatest wizard of all time, no "its Gorgug keep going", no gentle kindness or loving support for his friends, no nothing. He would have been a shy insecure kid holding a tin flower hoping for a friend that ended up dead the first day of school.
But Kristen Applebees saved him.
She saved him by dying herself.
Her death, the one started her personal journey of faith and enloghtenment, forced not only the gods within her world to act, but the DM as well. The guy that literally made their world, Brennan Lee Mulligan, had to act because Kristen death was too much.
Honestly as powerful as the Narrative Nat 20 is, her first ture miracle was on the first day of school, when her death saved Gorgug
#i cant stop thinking about the what ifs#and what could possibly have changed if gorgug was never there#or how his parents would react#they are both the heart of the group#gorgug#gorgug thistlespring#gorgug fantasy high#kristen applebees#kristen fantasy high#d20 fantasy high#d20 gorgug#d20 kristen applebees#d20#fantasy high junior year#fantasy high#dimension 20 fantasy high#my response#brennan lee mulligan
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@forgettable-au I HAD TO TAKE THINGS INTO MY OWN HANDS AFTER ALL THE ANGST, THIS WASNâT MY FAULT, THIS WASNâT MY CHOICE
#I just had this idea and now I cant get it out of my head#theyd actually be all so darn cute together#thinking about what ifs#what if wingdings wasnt a silly shut in and was just a silly guy#like papyrus#in an au where theyre all happy i couldnât just not also include papyrus#undertale#forgettable au#forgettable au fanart#undertale au#undertale au of an au#this is like the 5th time ive referenced this specific moment in one of the mini comics#IT JUST MAKES ME SO SAD#LIKE DAMN SANS#GET DENIED???
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