#INFJ adult

[julybambi]

i love how with aelita people could write her details however they want as long as they dont go downright bananas and it'll still be fine because with other characters its so easy to go ooc and so many stakes to think of like i will read a fic and go, they wouldnt fucking do/say that but with aelita while obviously there are some exceptions u honestly dont rlly have to nitpick abt every single one of her behavior/dialogue like theyre still acceptable in the way that Doesnt Throw Me Completely Off

[dstrong-18]

How my mind works as an INFJ (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) 6w7:

Disclaimer: This is my own personal experience, take it with a grain of salt if we have similar typology.

I will try to separate how each function works but it will most likely blend together; it’s kind of a package deal. And this will mostly deal with emotional processing more than general processes.

As an INFJ, my emotions are intense, as one would assume from the stereotype. There are days when I don’t feel much of anything, but it’s due to my subpar mental health (depression, anxiety, and ADHD). Using Ni as a dominant function, I easily pick apart the reason why I am feeling a certain way- to the point of even predicting my emotions within hours. Depending on how intense and personal this emotion is, I get in an endless loop of what-if scenarios after I narrow it down to a few possibilities. It’s concerning since it can get to the point of obsession (possibly hyper-fixations due to ADHD), especially if there are loose ends and limited information. That would make more things possible and many different scenarios flow through my head, whether I wanted them to or not. These thoughts can get stuck on a similar topic/experience anywhere from a couple of days to a few months. Keep in mind this is subconscious and easily done with minimal mental effort; sometimes it even stimulates/entertains my brain if the emotion the thoughts create are positive. I actively entertain these thoughts when comfortable, yet bored (usually when I’m alone)

Notice how my Ni has a habit of focusing on feelings/personal matters. My auxiliary Fe helps me not only to read people, but also to infer even how I feel based on my verbal reactions and physical sensations due to this knowledge. I do focus on people a lot, as they consume my thoughts more than other topics. It is common knowledge that INFJs care about others and read people easily, which applies to me, so I will get straight into how I personally use the information I gather. I can look at someone, even a total stranger in public, and can just tell their general mood; even when they try to hide it (usually, this actually makes it easier since people cannot hide microexpressions). Sometimes they’re expressive with how they feel so my inferences are more detailed and have more context. Other times it’s just a general “vibe” I pick up. As helping others comes naturally, this helps me to discern what is “wrong” with someone and get multiple ideas on how to solve it. It also unnerves most people when they figure out they’re basically an open book to me. It is rare where I don’t know the general intentions of people I interact with, directly or indirectly. Since this is, for the most part, easy, I get unnerved and disgruntled if my deductions are wrong or do not help (or if I have a difficult time reading them in general). If I see you frequently and I cannot read you well or I am not sure of how you feel, I will most likely get interested in you as a person to figure it out. I also use this to gauge how I should act/react to certain situations around certain people. When I am comfortable or just tired of “masking” (or under the influence), I let my words and actions flow more freely. However, I am yet to meet someone I can completely empty my mind into without them getting weirded out/judging me. Several have come close, though. This “secrecy” with my mind comes with a fear of being judged, disliked, and/or rejected (RSD* due to ADHD combined with my 6w7 enneagram). I believe my Fi has developed a little more than other INFJs because of this. It definitely is not the most mature, but Fe does help me infer my own emotions and beliefs, especially when verbalized to others because I discover how I feel as I try to conceptualize the idea. This helps me be at least aware of the basic emotion I am feeling/aware on whether I agree with the topics mentioned in conversation. Ni and Fe are rarely separated in my brain, unless my Ti is needed; then I try to stick to the facts as much as I can. Of course, this is not foolproof as I am more inclined to decide with emotions.

*RSD - Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, common among those who have ADHD, but it is not an exclusive symptom of ADHD.

When I do use my Ti, it works as the scale of judgement in my decision making. “Pros” on one side, “Cons” on the other, as in “what is the guaranteed good result in doing this” vs “what could go wrong if I do this”. It’s more complicated than it sounds, because after deciding the best course of action logically, I tend to also apply it on how it would effect me emotionally afterwards. This could tip the scales to another decision easily due to my avoidance of being hurt. This also brings distrust in the mix, as I go back and forth between which I should listen to and to what degree. And like how you would expect, even I can’t predict every instance of my life. The more frequently this happens, the more self-doubt I accumulate. This also will cause me to isolate and over-analyze my decision with more what-ifs (back to Ni). My Ni-Ti combo also makes me a firm believer in the butterfly effect.

Se is a bittersweet thing to me, especially with ADHD. Usually I discover things (such as nature, books, music, art) on my own and like it that way, as I don’t have to analyze people; I can focus on what I am seeing or experiencing. I crave these new experiences, but if I don’t initially like it or get bored in the middle of it, I get under-stimulated and try to retreat from the activity or experience. If it is a situation to where I have to stick it through, I will get frustrated, and therefore, more emotional. Se also makes me appreciate the beauty in things, tapping in with my Ni to see things others don’t notice; to this day I am entranced whenever I see forests or a beautiful painting I have never seen before. This also makes me open to trying different things in the bedroom instead of sticking to the same habits; although I don’t have a problem with that either. Se can also overstimulate me. I can get overwhelmed because my mind is so active that when paired with the five senses, it overloads my brain with excessive exposure. So while I appreciate it when it’s associated with positive emotions, it can also make me spiral if it gets out of control. And INFJs love control, whether they want to admit it or not.

And now on to my enneagram, 6 with a 7 wing. This means I have the traits of a Six, but also share some with Seven. At first, I didn’t think this fit me at all. Sixes are usually associated as people pleasers and extroverted, always trying to “rescue” people. However, the point of the Enneagram typology is the basic desires and fears of an individual; and therefore the person’s main motivation in life. And not to say those traits don’t apply to me, I just don’t display those as often as it makes it seem, or as strongly. Essentially, it wasn’t my top defining traits from my personal perspective. I related more to the weaknesses of the Sixes with a Seven wing, such as being sensitive to criticism (even when I logically know it isn’t personal), a habit of doubting myself and even others constantly, and caring too much about image. Image being, in my terms, looking “put together” or “presentable” aesthetic/fashion-wise. I am not delusional; you can’t always look perfect, but if I can I will. 6w7s have a primary fear of losing their support system, as they cannot see themselves from an objective standpoint. This leads to me having no sense of self. It is often expressed as humor at my own expense and wanting assurance. I recognize this as needy, and usually try to keep this at bay. However, I have a tendency to like my friends more if they comment on how they view me or notice small things, usually positively. I can blame this on wanting to know how to improve/know myself as a person, but it’s mainly my basic fear contributing. Which leads to my basic desire: to feel safe, secure, and supported to the point where I can really be myself. And the idea of that scares me, because anyone can do you dirty at the drop of a hat. In other terms, I am terrified of being vulnerable. This leads to me expressing my adoration to loved ones and providing them with their own reassurance. Mostly because I care for them, but also wanting the same in return. That doesn’t mean I won’t like you if you don’t, but I tend to be happier around those who appreciate what I do and reciprocate it. This also causes me to place a high value on honesty, integrity, and transparency. I tend to be loyal and committed, and dislike liars and cheaters for obvious reasons. Despite craving validation, I try to tone down my personal problems unless it affects the group. However, this usually backfires when I make too dark of a joke and others start to worry. Even then I try to play it off unless I can tell they’re seriously concerned. There are other traits, but you can get the gist of how 6w7s operate by their basic fears and desires.

When my MBTI and Enneagram are put together, creating an INFJ 6w7, it is almost laughable from my standpoint. By literal definition, I should (outwardly) be an immense people pleaser, needy, and really passive. However, I recognize that part of me isn’t desirable. In suppressing those traits, others have become more pronounced. I try to use logic in necessary situations, which is usually effective; more so than what is said for INFJs. I am usually organized, but it’s never consistent due to my ADHD scatterbrained trait. I’m not difficult to know if you ask for the information; I just don’t want to shove my whole life down your throat. People have told me I am intimidating and unapproachable at first glance, but nicer once they talk to me a few times. I am not saying these would “invalidate” my typology combination, but it is definitely not common. INFJs are known for being warm and inviting and I don’t feel like this represents me unless we are close.

There is literally zero information about my specific type. Which is okay, I’m not basing my identity on typology. It sure is interesting, though, and easily seen in others’ behaviors and emotions. This makes this a more plausible theory than most, as it’s more tangible.

But yeah, there you go. Feel free to ask any questions because I’m sure I left out crucial info and context😭

[bluexie]

Update: according to both my psychiatrist and therapist I'm not quirky, I'm autistic

The internet just said I'm unhealthy INFJ but I can't stop myself

I want to please everyone and then I'm so fckn tired with this I start to get mad and act toxic. And then I'm so sorry I want to kill myself, and I start to punish myself by not eating or drinking. I can't say no even if this exhaust me, and I MUST make others feel better because I literally feel their emotions and can't deal with them

I'm always worried people hate me or make fun of me so I avoid being with others in one room and then I'm lonely and depressed. And I can't talk about my feelings or needs, first because I thought it's selfish and I want to be that angel that saves everyone, but now my closed throat just won't let me to speak

I don't want to be like this, but that evil voice at the back of my head says I have to, because I'm not valid and when I will only care about others I will be perfect and cute

And yeah, I HAVE TO be perfect because then everyone will shut up

[moonstruckmoony]

A Ravenclaw Lunch 🦅

Drew some of my favorite Ravenclaws on this platform. Although one isn't necessarily a Ravenclaw. (@traceyc-uk I genuinely thought he was a Ravenclaw when I first saw him lol but I saw your comment reply somewhere that your first playthrough was Ravenclaw so I think this counts… a bit? 😂)

This post is basically a peace offering (and a love letter) bcs I want to make more Ravenclaw friends 👀👉🏻👈🏻 definitely not because I'm obsessed with you guys' MCs

I swear it was supposed to be a silly doodle at first but idk how or when down the line but somehow it turned into this mega drawing. Took me weeks to finish it. I’m not happy with a few technical things especially lights and shadows… and some other things as well but I leave it be bcs I’m aware that I’m still learning 🥲 The rest I’m pretty satisfied with, I’m just happy that I got to finally finish this.

Front row (left to right):

Violet and Pearl Castellar by @vienguinn Omg HAPPY BELATED BELATED BIRTHDAY TO THESE BABIES! These 2 are some of my favorites and everytime you post I always open my phone real quick, your short comics are my comfort 🩵

Clora Clemons by @choccy-milky I cannot not draw Clora?!!?! I consider you a legend in this fandom tbh 👑 also I want to thank you bcs your fic and illustrations literally helped me go through my stressful period when I was at my lowest bcs of my new demanding job that I started half a year ago. I look forward to your post everytime and your Clora and Seb always heals my soul 😭🩵💚

Sally Salamander by @siboom777 Sally is just so wacky and unapologetically herself and I love her for it 🩵 Does she take commissions for toys tho?

Marvin Jerry by @runicxraven MY LOVELY SILLY ADORABLE LITTLE NERD 💗💗💗💗 I need more Marvin in my life honestly.

@najiang ‘s MC - I’m so so sorry I didn’t draw her full face😭, I tried my best to show her face as much as I can while still looking like she’s taking those sausages haha. But anyway please know that I love your art so so much and I kept going back to the curry one and the one where MC came across Amit with beard as adults (that one is hilarious). Idk if your MC has a name or you left it nameless? I assume it was the latter but if she has one I’d love to know!

Faustine Daemon by @faustinio27 Hey, a fellow INFJ! Winter is the same 🩵 I really love her story and especially her personality character sheet, you drew her expressions really well and I’m a fan!

Back row (left to right):

Oliver Lennox by @pixie-dustss Handsome boi 🥰 We’re friends already (I hope I’m not the only one who thinks that way 🫢) from TikTok and you made me a video for Secret Santa last year and I just found out recently that you’re on Tumblr too so I want to say thanks by drawing Oliver! 🩵🩵🩵

Aurélie Collins by @morelikeravenbore I loove this look for Aura, she just looks so chic with the hat and scarf 😭🩵 Sassy Ravenclaw bebe 🥰 My Winter has some French heritage (the lore is still rotting in my notebook bcs I haven’t had the chance to draw her family members 🥲) so I do hope they can be friends and Aura would teach her French bcs she can’t speak much of it 👉🏻👈🏻

Alistair Dusk by @speedysart Surprise! You commented on my last speedpaint on Tiktok yesterday and I want to spill this art so bad but I was almost done so I kept my mouth shut haha. I love the pretty boi’s hair and piercings, and the fact that you chose this blazer for him, I just love it he looks so dapper in that 😣🩵

Eleonora Russel by @zordanna I love sweet Eleonora and her fascination with the moon and stars 🩵🌌 Oh and I kept coming back to your “I feel like an orange” Tiktok bcs it’s so fluffy and it heals my stress… also I adore your art it’s super soft and painty and delicate 🥹💗

@traceyc-uk ‘s MC - YOUR MC. I SWEAR TO MERLIN HE’S ON MY MIND 24/7 LATELY. Not sure why, it’s probably bcs I kept re-reading your comics. Also bcs he’s an adorable little golden retriever (but also a fierce cat!😼) You’re super talented in drawing comics and facial expressions, I have a lot to learn especially in terms of layouting… last time I made a comic I hated the layout and the fact that it looks stiff to me, so your comics has been such an inspiration!

[sweetpascal]

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[the-passenger-if]

I played the Roach single route so I could get the bus scene and I laughed so hard at the difference with it and the poly with Horizon when getting Roach to be emotionally honest about his species eradication.

You have Horizon making the conversation be mature and careful and then without Horizon you have Roach dumping his lunch onto Newman in an emotional outburst that leaves him embarrassed. Both routes are excellent. Also the bus scene made me extra emotional when he came back. I just love Roach so much. 😭💖

[sorendeimos]

What an angry, disposable man… Nothing but a pawn … born to be damned.

How I perceive Severus Snape

Notes: Go into this understanding that to Me, Severus is deeply flawed and broke and trauma filled. There are parts of him I see as soft and squishy, covered by hate to keep Them from bruising. If you don’t like that, do not read this. Otherwise, enjoy.

TW: Mentions of alcohol abuse, drug abuse, sex, physical and emotional abuse, poor mental health, death, manipulation Please do not read if you cannot handle these topics.

Basics

Severus T̶o̶b̶i̶a̶s̶ Snape—01/09/1960 INFJ 5w6 Slytherin he/she/they gender apathetic

Personality

𖤐 Anxious 𖤐 Quiet, yet explosive when angry 𖤐 Calculating 𖤐 Jumpy 𖤐 Constantly self-destructing 𖤐 Studious 𖤐 Woefully inept at being social

Mannerisms

𖤐 Has neatly manicured hands and wears gloves to protect them. 𖤐 Carries with him a book, a notebook, and a pen at all times. 𖤐 Gets stomach ulcers from stress and poor self care. 𖤐 Takes up smoking as an adult after The Attack 𖤐 Has terrible coping mechanisms, ranging from excessive hours of brewing in the dark to binges of alcohol, drugs, and sex. 𖤐 Developed his harsh personality because of his father hating the sound of his laughter as a kid.

Family

𖤐 Tobias Snape — Father 𖤐 Eileen Prince — Mother 𖤐 Paternal Grandparents — unknown 𖤐 Maternal Grandparents — unknown

𖤐 A Moment in Time 𖤐

Friendships

𖤐 Lily Evans — childhood best friend 𖤐 Remus Lupin — study partner/friend 𖤐 Charity Burbage — close friend 𖤐 Narcissa Malfoy née Black — close friend 𖤐 Lucius Malfoy — close friend 𖤐 Regulus Black — friend

Relationships

𖤐 The Malfoys

After Hogwarts, they were all close, close enough for the Malfoys to open their marriage for Severus. Not because they lusted for him, but because he needed them and it kept his destruction contained.

𖤐 remus lupin

With Remus, Severus could exist as a whole person. There were no games or masks, as the wolf would sniff them out. Remus was and is a calming presence in his life that got him to open up, process, and relax.

𖤐 Regulus Black

Regulus was Severus’s first kiss. They did not date, per se but they did a number of things together. Severus was regulus’s only and it still hurts Severus to his core to recall this. He tries not to.

𖤐 a moment of weakness 𖤐

Trauma

𖤐 Severus suffers from night terrors, horrid dreams that teeter between reality and fantasy. As a result, he is jumpy, often exhausted, and irritable. 𖤐 The night terrors stem from the day his Father became a monster 𖤐 The day severus showed his first sign of magic, Tobias lost it. He flew into a fear based rage, throwing Severus into his room, and Eileen was left to explain everything. 𖤐 Tobias began to drink and hit soon after 𖤐 Severus went to hogwarts, eager to learn magic to defend himself and his mother, but became a target here as well. 𖤐 The marauders, mainly James and Sirius, tormented severus throughout Their years together. 𖤐 He became a bitter and angry boy as a result. he only found solace in his friendships with lily and eventually remus, potions, and dark magic research. 𖤐 His interests gained him friends in the malfoys and other supporters. The prank shattered his friendship with remus and followed by the assault shattering the one with lily. 𖤐 After graduation, Severus threw himself into his mastery and coped with the rage inside him via the Malfoys.

𖤐 forgiveness 𖤐

End of part one

[69constellationsinatrenchcoat]

✨Welcome to 69 Constellations* in a Trenchcoat✨

*alters (our increasingly misnamed system blog, we don't have 69 alters.)

Welcome to CC's little corner of the internet. We go by Constellation, or the Consellation Collective. Formerly 69consellationsinatrenchcoat (lmao dumbass typo) & 69ottersinatrenchcoat

We have medically recognised dissociative identity disorder (DID), diagnosed PTSD, autism, ADHD, and a variety of chronic illnesses… we're a bit of a medical problem.

We tend to post a mix of things we enjoy and informative content.

.°˖✧ Posting ✧˖°.

topics: DID, OSDD & other CDDs, mental health, psychology, disability & neurodiversity

Side topics are on another blog

We'll try to usually sign off in the tags with "posted by [emoji]"

.°˖✧ System Info ✧˖°.

We go by Constellation and use they/them pronouns. We're bodily an adult, bi, polyam (though we just say queer), and as far as we're aware, an INFJ 1w2 125 overall.

We post in British English, usually fkgkjgfkjk. Pls, stop saying we're spelling things wrong just because we spell colour with a 'U'.

.°˖✧ Syscourse ✧˖°.

If discussing system origins, we prefer to have measured and respectful discussions, or to avoid it all together.

We recognise that experiences with multiplicity and plurality vary drastically, and that spiritual multiplicity exists and is recognised in the DSM-V-TR, as are DID and OSDD.

Multiplicity is a controversial topic within psychological communities and that there are varying opinions on the existence of non-trauma sourced multiples.

We avoid the 'fandom' attitude to DID as we believe that we should not be watering system experience to the belief that it's fun to have alters, as it invalidates negative experiences. However, there is joy in this disorder.

As with every community, certain things shared in multiplicity spaces are completely false, and we disagree with on a fundamental level. For example, system hopping does not exist (alters, created by one mind cannot magically appear in another's mind unless that system has split an introject [factive] based upon that alter), selling alters is wrong, impossible and immoral, etc

To have DID, individuals must reach certain diagnostic criteria, including showing amnesia between personality states. Some clinicians argue that for a diagnosis of DID to be valid, one must also reach diagnostic criteria for PSTD, meaning you can't have DID without traumatic experiences - however, that does not mean plurality doesn't exist outside DID.

We want to see some solid research into all plural experiences (including those who report non traumagenic origins) but unfortunately there aren't many people doing the research.

There's enough evidence to suggest that plural experiences do exist outside of trauma and that suggests that something is psychologically 'unusual' with those who report plurality outside of trauma.

Traumagenic plurality and various non-traumagenic plural experiences are two different things, however there is overlap. Creating separate language for traumagenic multiples, and endogenic multiples is something we believe may help to create clearer divisions within the communitie; limiting confusion between when a systems is speaking about traumagenic experience, or endogenic experience.

A vast majority of young teens who identify as endogenic or plural without trauma are misinterpreting experiences as a teen by placing labels on things that may perpetuate harmful beliefs. We don't wish to dismiss anyone's experiences by stating that teens cannot be systems (they absolutely can be), however, certain parts of the online system communities, especially system related discords, can be harmful to developing brains and developing personalities.

That being said, we are a diagnosed DID system, and the majority of our posting will be about our experiences with DID, and we will, mostly, interact with trauma based posting. :)

TLDR: our syscourse stance is complicated and each alter in our system has different opinions on it — but basically we believe that endogenic systems do experience multiplicity, just in a different way to disorders like DID, OSDD and P-DID.

Remember, your brain doesn't finish the majority of its development until you're in your mid-twenties!

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.°˖✧ Links to original posts we're proud of and/or want to revisit ✧˖°.

disclosing you're a CDD system can make you a target

lying to keep your system safe

hardware vs software; mental illness edition

our CDD flag redesign

abusive ppl

second hand gender euphoria

sometimes accessibility is an electric toothbrush

octocon (create an alter to get started)

answer to "you don't have 60 people in your head, you just like LARPing"

DID books

why it's so hard to find resources for OSDD 1b/1a

more on OSDD 1b/1a

"diagnosis" a poem

DID is more than alters

grumpy sock puppet (DID hydra)

We made our pfp and banner...and made a DID flag!

We try our best to include alt/descriptive text on our posts, and where possible we will link any elements/images we've used (usually in alt text) <3

[xerovampire]

JJK women and the MBTI of their ideal partner

A/N: based purely on headcanons, only included the adults. Male version can be seen here.

Shoko Ieiri: ISTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ

Utahime Iori: INTP, INTJ, ENTP

Yuki Tsukumo: INFP, ISFP, INFJ

Mei Mei: ENTP, INTP, ESTP

Momo Nishiyama: ISFJ, ESFP, ENFP

Yorozu: ENTJ, ESTP, ISTP

[mbti-notes]

Anon wrote: Hi INFJ here. I have self-worth issues probably due to being small and petite. I'm shorter than most of my family members and many people on the street. This makes me feel insecure and unable to defend and protect myself or loved ones and look efficient and trustable. One reason is that I think it can make me an easier target to take advantage of, insult, boss, dominate, threaten, harm, punch, fight, not take seriously or disrespect.

I generally try to be peaceful and nice or at least neutral to people. But occasionally I face people or situations where I may be disrespected, insulted or provoked in some way. Or situation where I have to choose to stand my ground or be a pushover.

The problem is that I am not confident in my abilities to handle these kinds of situations correctly, and usually engage in avoidant strategies and then later ruminating and self-blaming.

In awkward situations like rude drivers or road rage, rude clerks or office workers, mean coworkers or etc, I try to convince myself that avoiding confrontation is the best and the safest. Cause I never know what these people could do. Also, having a confrontation or standing my ground may cause a terrible emotional reaction in me, which can stay in my mind as a traumatic memory forever, and it may also change people's impression of me which I may regret. Or the person may find me an easy target due to my small built and may start attacking and beating me.

I wish I were taller, stronger and more charismatic, so people wouldn't dare doing any of those things to me. I also wish I could be better at confrontation, awkward feelings, handling interpersonal issues, insults or mean people correctly.

My mind is often occupied with these kinds of thoughts and regrets. Seeing other people being used or disrespected, hearing their stories, or watching movie characters being bullied, abused, beaten or not being able to stand their ground triggers or aggravates these thinking patterns and makes me more anxious.

Even my family members want me to be more confrontational and assertive or even a bit aggressive.

So, I think my interpersonal skills are not enough for adult life. Here's why :

1_ I'm small-built and also shy and introvert, which probably makes people think of as an easier and weaker target. And I wouldn't be able to defend myself against a taller and stronger person.

2_ I'm afraid of my awkward emotional reaction towards people yelling at me or insulting me. But avoiding confrontations and not standing my ground can also make me blame myself.

3_ I tend to care about fairness, and lack of it within the society can make me furious. But society and people are not always fair.

4_ I care about what other people might think or say behind my back, and its impact on my reputation or future. So by people-pleasing or at least not bothering people, even if it means not defending or asserting myself, I try to stay under the radar.

5_ And I don't really know when I should just let it go and de-escalate or keep quiet, avoid, stand my ground, fight back, insult back, etc.

I have read books, watched youtube videos, but I still haven't been able to fix this problem or change myself. I sometimes think it means I might have mild autism and these deficits can never be fixed. Other times I relate it to high Fe and low Se (due to being an INFJ).

I really need your help. Where and how should I start?

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Do you know the story of The Ugly Duckling? I interpret the story as being about perception, specifically, how easy it is for perception to be wrong, as well as how quickly a minor flaw in perception can escalate into a majorly faulty belief system. It sounds like your perception has been distorted and now you hold faulty beliefs that need to be corrected. Since you lack self-confidence, you tend to catastrophize - your mind always jumps to the worst possibilities.

You say self-worth issues are "due to" being petite. This is a faulty belief. If being petite causes low self-worth, one would expect every petite person to have low self-worth. Is that the case? Not at all. A lot of people are below average height and live fine. In fact, you'd be surprised at how many well-known people are/were actually quite small in stature, just off the top of my head: Gandhi, Prince, Danny Devito, Sabrina Carpenter, Peter Dinklage, Judy Garland.

If being petite is not the actual cause of low self-worth, then what is? "Worth" relates to the method you use to make value judgments, so if you are always coming to unreasonably negative judgments about yourself, there is a problem with your value system. Do you believe that a below average sized person has less value than an average or above average sized person? You must believe it, otherwise, you wouldn't think that you are worth less than others, and you would not wish to be bigger and taller in order to be worth more.

Perhaps you don't personally believe that petite people have no value, so you claim that it is "society" which believes they have no value, and you are a victim of society. Is that true, though? Or is this another faulty belief? You said smaller people get bullied because they are easier targets, so, it's not because they are worthless - that's an important difference. Bullies chose you because they couldn't handle someone their own size or bigger. Therefore, the bullying did not have any relation to your self-worth; what it actually reflected was the bully's cowardice.

Why is it that many petite people don't get bullied? Some of it is down to luck; perhaps you've been unlucky in meeting lots of jerks throughout life. But some of it is down to your attitude. The impression that you leave on people plays a big role in how they approach you. For example, when you look down upon yourself, you teach others that it's okay to look down upon you too.

If you are always anxious and cowering in fear, treating every person as a potential threat, what does that communicate to people? Unfortunately, it communicates that you are an easy target. If you are always expecting to get dominated and bullied, you're more likely to attract bullies to your doorstep. Physical size isn't actually as important a factor as how you present yourself to people. When INFJs haven't developed Fe properly, they don't have a realistic view of how they come across to others.

Don't get me wrong, this isn't about blaming the victim. The people who bullied you were wrong. You don't deserve mistreatment. The problem is that bullying is a form of trauma, and trauma distorts the mind. It makes you hypersensitive to social threats, even seeing threats where there are none. And it also makes you hypersensitive to the things that you were bullied about, in this case, your physical size.

The other day, I had to hire someone to do household repairs. On the day of the repair, this tall dude arrives and could barely fit through the door. As he was walking down some stairs, he bumped his head on a lower part of the ceiling that he didn't notice because he was carrying a lot of tools. I felt so bad for him and I tried to monitor his head safety thereafter. Unfortunately, he's had lots of experience hitting his head on various things.

With your past experience, all you can see is how being petite is a "deficiency". As such, envy blinds you to the possibility that being larger can be a curse and being petite can actually be a gift. This repair guy was often admired for his stature, but he actually viewed his tallness as a "deficiency" all his life. From his perspective, smaller people have a great life because they don't always feel like they're in the way and can easily fit comfortably into any space.

Everyone has sore spots. Sore spots are things you feel insecure or hypersensitive about because of a perceived (psychological or physical) deficit. However, what you haven't understood is that what gets classified as a "deficit" is often a mere matter of perspective. The lesson of The Ugly Duckling story is that his perception of himself was wrong because he had been misled to believe that he was abnormal and deficient by others. This story teaches you that what one person experiences as a "deficiency", another person might experience as an "advantage".

Thus, the key to overcoming your hypersensitivity is to learn how to change your perspective, aka cognitive restructuring, which is something Ni+Fe can easily do. If you can't do it, then it indicates there's something awry with your function development (unhealthy Ni tunnel vision + Fe overindulgence). Your perspective seems very small and very rigid, so it's time to expand and adjust it.

Sure, people can be mean, and society can lead people to value the wrong things, and that's what you focus all your attention on. However, most people aren't mean, and society can't touch your personal values within. You always have a choice as to i) how you respond to mean people, if at all, and ii) whether you adopt the twisted values that society tries to inculcate in you. An important aspect of growing up into a full-fledged adult is learning how to think for yourself, which includes being able to challenge and change faulty beliefs/values and adjust your perspective as necessary to get closer to the truth.

Being bullied often keeps people trapped like a child, feeling helpless and powerless. "Power" doesn't come primarily from physical size, rather, it comes from the mental belief in yourself. Instead of getting lost in victim mentality, acknowledge that there are things within your power to change that would improve your situation. You said yourself that you lack interpersonal skills. Well, I have good news for you: skills can be improved through step-by-step learning, study, and practice. Start with whatever seems most pressing for you, perhaps enlist the help of a therapist. For example, I have discussed most of the following before in relation to developing healthy Fe in INFJs:

emotional intelligence: you could learn how to handle your feelings and emotions better, in order to communicate about them in a more reasonable and matter-of-fact way

optimism: you could learn to approach people in an empathetic and encouraging way, with positive expectations, in order to influence them to be positive to you in return

assertiveness: you could adjust your values to believe that you are equal to everyone else and that your existence is just as legitimate as anyone else's, which would help you stand up and advocate for your needs better

self-confidence: you could improve your communication and conflict resolution skills, which would help you feel more confident and exercise better judgment during social interactions

self-defense: although the majority of people aren't physically violent unless extremely provoked, it might help you feel more physically powerful and better prepared for confrontation by learning self-defense or martial arts

social support network: you could expand your network of friends and supporters so that you feel less alone and have people to rely on in times of stress or danger

self-work: you could use other successful petite people as inspirational role models; observe how they succeed in commanding respect and admiration and learn some lessons about how to show people the best of yourself, rather than only focusing on what you hate about yourself

It is a fact that you are petite, and facts should be met with acceptance. Trying to deny the facts will only get you lost in wishful thinking (unhealthy Ni), as well as the toxic shame of an inferiority complex (unhealthy Fe). Once you're able to accept the facts, then your mind can move forward into adopting adaptation strategies. No matter what your sore spots are, it is important to understand that they are not a curse and they are not meant to ruin your life. Confronting your sore spots and learning to live with them successfully is precisely how you grow as a person. However, you won't be able to benefit from your sore spots as long as you keep trying to reject them and wish them away. They are an important part of you. Improving self-worth means learning to accept and love yourself, which means ALL of yourself.

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My Thoughts on Popular Personality Websites

Inspired by conversations happening in the comment section of this post (shout out to @istj-mbti and @flayedsheep )

16 Personalities

Ah, 16 personalities, the enemy of the MBTI community… I’m joking… kind of. In all seriousness though, 16 personalities is really more similar to the Big Five personality types, than it is to MBTI. It can be a great tool… just not for understanding MBTI.

If you take it, you might get an accurate type, but more often than not… you won’t. I’m an INTP, and for the longest time, I always got INFP or INFJ on this test. My ISFP friend and ENFP friend both got INFP, and my INTJ friend has gotten variations, from INFJ, INTP to his actual type.

It has a big intuitive bias, and even though most of the MBTI community rejects this website, I definitely feel like this website is responsible for the intuitive bias present in the community. The biggest flaw however, is the disregard for cognitive functions.

And I get it. Cognitive functions are complicated and not everyone wants to sit down and learn the cognitive functions, and they really wanted to market this test for general audiences

I do think that alot of people who get into MBTI, start with this test, because it is so universally used in schools and jobs and stuff.

Personality Database

I have mixed opinions on PDB. Hypothetically, it’s a great place for discussions, when it comes to fictional characters, but like most MBTI forums it can turn sour very quickly, and it’s filled with people that have varied understanding of MBTI or enneagram.

Like, you’ll have a lot of adults who have been into MBTI for years and have a strong understanding of all the types, you have people who are just learning what cognitive functions are, then you’ll have teenagers who have just taken the 16 personalities test.

So in general, typings on that website are very hit or miss, but it’s a really great place to start when I’m unsure about a character typing, and want to see arguments other people have. However, I really hate when people use the typings on that site as the end-all-be-all of character types.

I mean, look at this?

Anna and Mirabel? ENFPs? I don’t have a super popular opinion on Anna’s typing but… ENFP?! Really? Also, how tf is Mirabel ANYTHING but an Fe user?

I agree on the consensus for Mulan though.

Sarkinova.net

I do think that out of the majority of the MBTI tests online, this one is the most accurate, because it takes cognitive functions into account. However I do have a few concerns with it, the first being its so long lol.

I know that they want to get the most in depth understanding of a person, but a lot of the times, it just feels like they are asking the same questions over and over again, but with different wording, and that can make it frustrating, and a lot of the time, I don’t finish it.

Not to mention, even though this one is more accurate than most, there are always flaws with these types of test. No test will be in depth enough to understand you enough as a person to give you an accurate type. This is another test I’ve taken multiple times and have been given a different type.

Though I will give the test credit, this one has been given me my actual type before… so at least there’s that. I do think if you’re going to take a test, this one is a good one to take.

MBTI Online

No judgement… but I am begging people to not pay 60 dollars for this test. You can find ones that are just as good for cheaper, or even better yet, free. This test isn’t going to give you anything any other test will.

I do know someone who spent the 60 dollars, and still got mistyped by it sooo… yeah. If you really want to take it, by all means, go ahead, I just wouldn’t.

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[cat3ch1sm]

🏹~ hello, everyone- welcome to part five of this disgustingly long masterlist. this list is subject to updates, so check this as you please for new works! for more works check the other parts of the masterlist. thank you <33

some fandoms are rarely written for unless requested, so some fandoms have less works than others. however, it doesn’t mean that i won’t write for them freely, and feel free to request for them whenever reqs r open <3

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light yagami sfw

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light yagami nsfw

light yagami nsfw alphabet (a-f)

ryuzaki sfw

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ryuzaki nsfw

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misa amane sfw

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misa amane nsfw

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near sfw

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near nsfw

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mello sfw

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matt sfw

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teru mikami sfw

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teru mikami nsfw

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gon freeccs sfw

hxh main four camping hcs

killua zoldyck sfw

killua relationship headcanons

hxh main four camping hcs

kurapika kurta sfw

kurapika x no morals reader

kurapika x infj reader

them with an s/o with a scary aura

pretty eyes couple

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leorio paladiknight sfw

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leorio cuddling headcanons!

leorio paladiknight nsfw

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chrollo lucilfer sfw

adult trio and woman stronger than them

chrollo lucilfer nsfw

adult trio when they’re h💚rny

hisoka morow sfw

adult trio and woman stronger than them

hisoka x short reader

them with an s/o with a scary aura

hisoka morow nsfw

hisoka x short reader

adult trio when they’re h💚rny

illumi zoldyck sfw

adult trio and woman stronger than them

illumi’s fiancée meets the zoldyck family

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illumi zoldyck nsfw

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feitan portor sfw

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misc. phantom troupe members and hunters

ging and kite headcanons

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grell sfw

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the undertaker sfw

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the undertaker nsfw

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soma+ agni with an s/o on their period

they teach you Hindi!

agni sfw

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agni nsfw

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claude faustus sfw

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finnian sfw

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itadori yuji sfw

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megumi fushiguro sfw

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megumi fushiguro nsfw

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satoru gojo sfw

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satoru gojo nsfw

you send them a spicy text at a party

kento nanami sfw

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ryomen sukuna sfw

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ryomen sukuna nsfw

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inumaki toge sfw

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inumaki toge nsfw

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maki zenin sfw

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suguru geto sfw

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toji fushiguro sfw

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yuta okkotsu sfw

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tamaki suoh sfw

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denji sfw

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miles morales sfw

gwen stacy sfw

dating Gwen Stacy

gwen stacy angst fic

margo kess sfw

prowler miles sfw

when he has a crush on you- headcanons

pavitr prabahkhar sfw

they teach you Hindi!

peter b parker sfw

hobie brown sfw

hobie brown nsfw

jealous hobie

miguel o’hara sfw

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lyla sfw

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[3rachasdomesticbanana]

♪ 1, 2, 3 RACHA'S DOMESTIC BANANA ♪

★Just a silly little gerbil with a lot of love for a silly little quokka★

Hi I'm Luna/Lisa!

STAY, if that wasn't obvious lol

Yes, I am an adult... I had a MySpace that should tell you.

Coffee addict just tryna survive this level in a game called "My Life" (who put this bitch on hard mode?!)

Bias is Han with Chan as my bias wrecker, which is why I mainly write about them but I am ot8.

Majority of the things I write are smut but once in a blue moon I'll write something fluffy.

INFJ.

The gerbil thing is a nickname my mom gave me. She says that I yawn and chew like one ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ lol guess it's only natural to have Han for a bias?

I'm a bit of a perfectionist. Editing takes me longer than the actual writing. So if it takes me weeks to a month to post that's usually why. Unless it's something I already had written. Also if you want to, tag me in anything Han or Chan related and I will love you forever ♡

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genshin men & how they’re groomed ✧ multi x f!reader (nsfw hcs)

spoiled ✧ dom!sugarbaby!zhongli x sub!f!reader (nsfw fic)

making him whimper in his office chair ✧ multi (separate) x f!reader (nsfw drabble)

dad bod!wrio ✧ wriothesley x f!reader (nsfw drabble)

pegging ✧ multiple x f!reader (nsfw drabble)

tail ✧ tighnari x reader (sfw drabble)

studying w. senpai ✧ tighnari x f!reader (nsfw drabble)

bad day ✧ kaeya x reader (sfw drabble)

teasing ✧ kaeya x reader (nsfw drabble)

ask: piano ◊ thoma, zhongli x gn!reader (sfw drabbles)

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[sakuplumeria]

Do you think if Albert really confident on himself or it just his mask?

I got an ask at tellonym about Albert and I think it's interesting so Imma share it here too.

tbh. oh boy i think this is gonna be long, prepare your wine!

Albert, even though forced at first, had been doing it (socializing) since he was very very little. So I think he was masking his confidence as a child. Now, he grew and he kept doing it, and the fire happened, and he had a new purpose for 'masking' himself. If he did it out of duty before, now he did it because it's his role. Doing it over the years made him acknowledged by people around him, the nobles and also people in his household. That must had given him more and more confidence. like for real.

When he was an adult, I think it kinda integrated with his real self? Like, he could own it and it was his. It was already his. It's very hard to explain but I can relate so much. I grew up like him, in a similar setting, in this terms (being confident). Also, as an INFJ like Albert. we do own our masks. Like, we embrace them as a part of ourselves in a way? So Albert, I think he is confident genuinely, but it can also be a mask, sometimes. Like that time in the Final Problem, when Will changed the plan and Albert said "I know you Will, you have a plan in mind..." I feel like that one was a mask. When he revealed himself to Irene in the ball, that's genuine.

I think anon asked about this because we all see him being so vulnerable after spending three years locked up in the tower. Was this person really the same confident Albert we saw before? Yes, he was still Albert all the same.

I think, Albert stripped from his confidence could happen to anyone in the same situation. It's not that he lost his purpose to live (supporting William's plan), but he found a new purpose. That was, to suffer the weight of sin and shame in place of William as the Lord of Crime, and he truly lived for that purpose. He beat himself again and again until he felt worthless or even worse than that. He was fulfilling his new role and gosh, he was devoted to it. You know what, I think that he was over confident that what he's doing was right XD

After that we saw William pulled him up again, and so he was given another purpose to live. We saw him humbled but hey, he was still teasing Moran right? He probably was masking it again but I think it came so naturally because it was seriously a part of him. Being confident, that is.

Maybe, we can never know. Maybe he wouldn't be able to distinguish if he's masking his confidence or not. But that's just who Albert was :)