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Hi, do you believe L and H when they say they’re in the industry just to make good music? A lot of people justify their involvement in PR relationships or other stuff by saying, “that’s what they have to do to keep doing what they love,” but don’t you think that’s a bit naive? Or I don’t know.
Like, I know Harry’s said he just wants to make good music, but his public image is super curated and shaped in a way that clearly helps him sell more. He does massive tours, picks interviews that create award buzz, and in general he’s kind of a money-making machine. So… do you think his real intention is still just making good music?
I hope with all my heart that this is not a serious question and I'm not actually the first person in the entire world to explain to you how business works because I'm a little bit worried about the implications of you having internet access while this seems to be your very first day on planet Earth.
The entertainment industry is, as depicted in its very straightforward name, an industry that is built on an audience being entertained. How is what is entertaining and what isn't actually measured? By the willingness of people to fork over bucketloads of money to be entertained by specific artists.
Thus, all artists who are making their livelihood through their art have to be -- first, foremost and more than anything -- marketable. Saleable. Lucrative. Money-making. Before talent, before beauty, before vision, what gets you signed -- and more importantly retained as an artist -- is your potential to keep making a shit ton of money.
This is why artists who were formerly at the top of their industry get dropped by their labels and management the very second they have scandals or health issues or their potential dips for any reason, because all artists are commodities and are constantly weighed against their promised return on investment. No contract is secure, and so artists, even those at the top of their game, constantly have to prove that they're worth investing in, in order to (now hold onto your hat, cause this is where your mind gets blown) continue to make art that matters to them.
Because being saleable is a prerequisite to having the freedom to create the art you believe in. Those two things aren't mutually exclusive, they're actually cause and effect.
An artist's marketability is literally the only bargaining tool they have to get the big wigs to let them make what they want. That's why One Direction was only allowed to start writing their own songs when Louis fought for that right during Midnight Memories -- because they were literally too lucrative to bulldoze over by that point, and their management and label had to weigh the monetary gains versus losses of potentially pissing them off enough to lose their cooperation completely.
Now, how does an artist prove that they're marketable and lucrative, particularly when they don't have a new album ready to come out yet? By generating press and keeping people interested in them. This shows the big wigs that people still care about them -- will still go to their shows and buy their music and watch their interviews and purchase literally anything remotely tied to their name.
So, yeah. I do actually think that the only bloody reason they're doing all this is because music matters that much to them. Because it's their craft and their art and they love it to the point of being willing to put up with an absolutely abusive industry.
Because, I think you guys have forgotten: these boys are rich rich. Like, own multiple properties around the world rich. Invest in stadiums rich. Buy football teams rich. Have business portfolios that are generating passive income in the millions, literally while they do nothing. So, instead of positioning them as greedy, disingenuous monsters who only want more money and more attention, ask yourselves if they even need to put up with any of this shit to stay rich?
The answer is that they don't. They could retire tomorrow and their investments would keep on rolling. They're set for life. So, if they're putting up with the industry even at that point, doesn't it stand to reason that they just fucking love making music that fucking much?
But hey, it seems like you guys are bending over backwards to prove Louis and Harry are shit people. And to that I say: if that's what you think, why do you even care? If you think they're manufactured robots with not an inch of authenticity to them, why are you even bothering to debate with people who don't agree? You're in charge of where your attention and your money go, and if you're already so convinced they aren't worthy of it... then just don't give it to them?
Trust me dude, they won't notice.
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Mystery is next!

I feel like some of this might upset people because they have a set view of him in their mind that i dont share (its not like big big stuff but ya know) so just keep that in mind when reading
Also, my friend and I came up with human names for them, so I'll be sharing those, too. You dont gotta like em. they were just ideas we thought up. We donno alot about these guys, so we gotta kinda just make it up as we go, so please keep that in mind too
I was the most nervous about writing for the other saja boys sense we know so little about them
Once again, forgive misspelling. i am still dyslexic
Platonic and romantic just as before and gn reader
Platonic (these are more so general ones, mystery is quite genuinely, a mystery):
- i feel like it's hard to get close to this guy, even if you are friends. It's part of his whole thing, ya know? I think he's always kinda calm and laid back though, even when you do get closer to him
- i kinda feel like he's the oldest, even more so than jinu. Which likely means he wouldn't have been a 'idol' in the past but more so just a popular musician in some way
- due to how old he is and how long hes been wondering the demon realm he kinda struggles on human stuff, so he might get a tiny bit to close, or act a bit strangely what do you mean hes not supposed to drape himself over you to try and see what your doing?
- if you're his friend please show him how to do stuff normally, technology is fuckin confusing. The others adapted quickly, but he's still kinda...behind. dont get me wrong, he's not stupid just confused
- i think his eyes aren't anything super 'monsterous' tbh. At most, i feel like he can't change their color, so they still shine gold and have the 'cat-like' pupil, and he can't fully make the patterns on his face disappear. Though the multi-eye thing is a cool concept, lol
- as for the name my friend and i gave him, it was hye-jin (yes ik its mainly a female name but hear me out ok- it can also be unisex) i did research on trying to find names and some just didnt seem to fit him? This particular name has quite a few different meanings depending on how it's written, and apparently, it can be considered a 'mysterious' name lol of course if anything is wrong feel free to correct me please
i dont have a ton of platonic ones for him, lol. Sorry for that
Romantic:
- so we all saw the thing where the creator said he liked zoeys affection, right? Im other words, he loves affection. His expression barely changes but even the smallest thing makes him happy
- heres the part that i think will upset some people: while he doesnt mind being called 'good boy' and he does have a tendency to bark at someone who gets to close (going back to the not good at being 'human') , he hates being treated like a actual dog. Dont try to get him to do 'tricks' with some sort of treat. Demon or not, he's still a person, not your pet. And forget a collar. He feels it's demeaning
- outside of that, he does actually like it when you play with his hair, though. It feels nice, and it's calming.
- he doesnt talk a lot. He mainly prefers to stay quiet and listen to you talk about whatever is on your mind. Though if you want, he will add his own opinions
- hes not overly touchy, but i think they are all a bit touch starved. I think he mainly would just like holding your hand, or like i said before, having you play with his hair.
- i can not explain why i think this, but i feel like he's a sleepy person? Not like constant naps, but one of his favorite things is just cuddling with you and napping. It could possibly just be his color palette tbh, kinda a soothing lavender color and all that.
- he has...weird habits. While he doesn't like being treated like a dog, he does have a few animalistic behaviors. For example, you can point to your cheek for a kiss but get a lick or a bite instead. It's not exactly a sexual thing. He just likes leaving little love bites. Sometimes, he thinks it's just funny to see your reaction, too.
That's all I've got for him for now. Man, i really wish we had more info on these guys
We also have sorta mini backstorys we came up with? So lemme know if yall wanna know those too
#kpop demon hunters headcanons#kpop demon hunters#kpdh#kdh#mystery#mystery x reader#mystery kpdh#mystery kpop demon hunters#mystery kdh#kpdh mystery x reader#kdh mystery x reader#mystery saja#mystery saja x reader
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I have freaking silly little guy disease...
After a full day of work (drawing them) I relax and draw for fun (drawing them)
ON GOD I am going to create and fuel my own fandom. If every post in the tag is mine so be it but it will not be empty. drink from my cup.
Such a big fan I'm making their whole comic and then some
#like yknow what.#it's fine if other people arent doing analysis#or making art#or. idk making shitposts HAHA like#I'm having a freaking good time#I love them#my only fear is like#that people see me making stuff#and theyre like oh I dont have to#or god forbid#I SHOULDNT#like I'd be so so so worried someone would... idk it's silly#but I'm worried someone might see me making stuff and then worry that there's a way to make stuff wrong#there isnt!!! I promise!!!#I promise you can't do it wrong you can make aus you can make fan ocs you can do whatever!#its okay!!!#I just make a ton of stuff because I LOVE them#and I can't help it#theyre straight up my whole life#sorry to all my friends#I dont have much to talk about#other than the them
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AsaDen x Metaphor Re:Fantazio
#*akademia theme plays*#i dunno what really possessed me to do this tbh#i just really love the art direction for metaphor#the menu art is just... so perfect to me#and i wanted to do it for one of my favorite ships#the longer i look at it the funnier i feel because like#why did i make this aldkjas#literally just THEM doing nothing#but i guess its just a thing where i combine two things i love#i already loved asaden and got inspired to do more art for them when i posted a piece on reddit#and then metaphor came along and completely took me by the hand and inspired me to do more#if you havent go look at the menu art for it and listen to the akademia theme#you'll get it once you see it i think#i dont really expect a ton of people to like this since it feels so normal haha#also im always cursed to draw one or the other slightly off#and this time it's denji lol#also i know they'd have some softer features bc theyre japanese#but i'm always weirded out by not showing jaws n stuff#idk its a style thing#also yes this is my mobile banner now im sorry sasunaru#anyway im done rambling in the tags sorry about that#my art#chainsaw man#asaden#asa mitaka#csm fanart#denji#denji hayakawa#csm x metaphor#artists on tumblr
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I’ve gotta admit as much as I know Darabella is a flawed ship (and some of the ppl who are anti for it have legit criticisms I love y’all for pointing it out cause it frustrates the hell out of me too trust) they’ll always just kind of be it for me.
Because as much as it was an “I can fix him” trope, as much as Rosabella could be selfish and Daring’s flaws got cranked up to 1000, she was also the first person to look at him after his destiny, the thing he dedicated his life to, failed, when people were questioning him as a prince and putting pressure on his and Apple’s relationship and tell him that, like, maybe it would be alright? Maybe this wasn’t his destiny, and maybe that was okay.
And the part that really gets me? She’s the first person after this happens to tell him that it doesn’t matter what’s on the outside, which as much as you can like other Daring ships or him whatever he desperately needed to hear. Not even cause he was selfish, that’s not what I’m saying, but bc he placed his whole identity on this image that people concocted for him based on him appearing the perfect prince. He was handsome, he was talented, and he was handsome! So who cares about him as a person?
Idk man. You spend four seasons (I watch the specials on Netflix so that’s why four idk if it’s three to some ppl or whatever tho) watching him be praised for his looks, watching girls fawn over him, and of course he enjoys it so nobody really questions how much he enjoys it. And then you get this girl, this girl who owes him nothing, this girl who (contrary to popular belief apparently) has a life of her own and people she cares about outside of him, and she’s nice to him. And she’s the first person after everything happens to just be nice to him, for the sake of being nice. Something about that will always hit different for me
#it’s her seeing him as more than the perfect prince that he’s been told he has to be his whole life#and maybe she doesn’t approach that perfectly sure but also maybe she’s human and a teenager and she’ll fuck up and make mistakes#but the foundation of their entire relationship is that moment of reaching out and connection#and just saying i’m here with you. i don’t know you that well and i don’t care about you that much and i have a million reasons not to be#but i’m here for you anyway. because you matter and i don’t know if anyone’s told you that yet. and maybe#idk. maybe you need to hear it#anyway sorry i’m not trying to start shit i’ve just seen so many ppl shitting on them in this fandom#and some of the critiques i agree w! i’m not saying they were written perfectly there’s a ton i would change abt their writing if i could#(which i do. through fanfic)#but i just wanted to offer a reason i personally attached to them among all the ppl ranting against#if anyone wants to present their own opinions (RESPECTFULLY) tho#i’d be happy to have a conversation abt it! i love talking abt stuff like this feel free to leave rants in my notes guys#ever after high#eah#rosabella beauty#daring charming#darabella
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everytime i hear stories about people not feeling comfortable in their marching band sections it just makes me so sad. like i remember someone telling me that their SECTION LEADER??? would make fun of how they march almost everyday. SECTION LEADER. are you kidding me. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THE LEADERSHIP. ITS IN YOUR TITLE. ugh whatever. but its like? help them????? instead of making fun of them????? the thing about band is that every person is working together to make the performance. if someone is struggling you should offer help, or else it takes away from the quality of your section and the band as a whole. you are only hurting the band, even more so you are hurting another player. mamy such cases. peace and love
#and also directors who think its just childish issues and dont do anything else about it really dissapoint me#like sure its not the end of the world#but its also like do you not care about your band?#directors and leadership should be doing everything they can to curate a good and postitive enviorment for band students that makes them#want to continue performind#cause not thinking youre good enough screws you up man#its not childish issues#especially when your students are ffeding into others self esteem issues#idk this kinda stuff happens all the time#especially off the field#but its like maaybbbeee marching band should be a break from that???#maybe you can give your students a life lesson or two#i left band feeling so much more experienced and educated on just. life stuff#because my director loved to lecture and teach us#i still hold tons of those morals close to my heart#im making it sound like im not in band anymorw lol I AM just a different ensemble#aging and all that#im tambling idc though this is my blod#marching banf is such a good opportunity for community it just makes me sad when people dont get to experience that#amen#brynn.text
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in a cafe rn. this place is nice :>
#just me hi#they have a lot of random old stuff in here it's fun :D#tons of books too; though most of them seem to be romance and unfortunately i've come to terms w/ the fact i'm a hater gfhsfh </3#oh and not that the old stuff is random in a new place; it's an old-looking place with a lot of old stuff that doesn't match anything else#lol ! there are some spots that are Almost uhh- the word is not coherent but it's something like it hfhvs#i've had a bisquit sanmich and a lemonade which was pretty fine. i liked the sandwich though it was a bit greasy bfsh :>#idk i'm just comfortable here. the guy running the counter might be gay and there's a bathroom sign that jokes abt gender n creatures for#them lol - it's relatively quiet too n i have a chair that's pressed against the wall w/ no windows so i don't feel like i can be snuck up#on ghfhsv. i like it here so far :D#//anywho i think i'm gonna get on my ar.ft attacks now hfhsvh#i didn't bother posting my first one this year but i'll get to that rn!! :3#i have 1 + 1/2 i gotta do - i say a half because it doesn't Technically count as an attack due to the System but ehe :33#//btw this place has a thing going on where it's Nearly symmetrical#every table is missing at least 1 chair that would make it so and if there Is an even amount of chairs they aren't the same kind#though they Are matching in colour if they aren't the same type! i like that. dunno why hfbvs#also i like how oddly everything has been placed. tables placed in a diamond form compared to the room and then others are situated like#regular tables ; i just think it's interesting lol :33#//oh and i've finished another chapter of my book ; it's taking me forever because i actually came to like it a lot n i don't want it to en#a common habit of mine hfhfsh <3#though ik it's hard to tell from the outside if i'm not doing it cuz i hate it or cuz i love it. fun for Me though hfhbshvs#//yea anyway. i like this place lol :>#gonna wander around prolly. n work on stuff hopefully :>>#i have a ~+~root beer~+~ so here i go !! toodles :D
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i know hoyo is setting up rhine to have good intent and whatever in her trying to 'save' khaneri'ah or whatever; but i REALLY hope they stay with the cruel persona thats been built up for her. because it would be so wonderful to see a character who had good intent in the beginning just get absolutely corrupted; with the inability to ever go back to that prior state purely because of what had happened. also because there is NO way in her turning back after all that shit
#sorry. i dont think theres any good and plausible explanation for rhine to still be a kind or gentle person in general#she can (and SHOULD) have her moments. but it'd make so much more sense (and be much more impactful) for her to be inherently cruel#because look at all the stuff thats happened#i love the indomitable human spirit trope. dont get me wrong.#but rhine has that in the way she WONT stop her research till shes either dead or murdered. she is not gonna be gentle kind and optimistic#she watched all her kids (that she was SHOWN to care for) get very brutally murdered.#had to then go and kill her next creations that she didn't consider perfect (which most certainly fucks a women up. no matter what you say)#made the 'perfect creation' and the way she treated him was obviously a HUGE contrast to how she was before (being gentle and nuturing)#and left him (albeit with what we can guess was good intent) with NO goodbye just#a recommendation letter. a text. and his final mission#she could have good intent#and still care for others#dont get me wrong!!!!!!!#but shes. human???#humans can be (as much as i hate to say it) a tad selfish when it comes to survival#and being antagonized demonized AND shunned by teyvat and even her own people. having to survive multiple gods wrath#isn't. gonna be good for the human psych#and it isn't gonna be something fixable#look at how furina progressively faltered over a hundered years WHILE being adored#she already started waning in her ethics and morals (as someone immortalized as a human WOULD)#with exposing lyney and all of that when it was VERY clearly the morally wrong thing to do (which her as a human would know)#and being relatively pessimistic and clearly spiralling#(no hate. i love furina with all my heart.)#if thats how FURINA started going#imagine rhine who has nobody (save maybe alice. but i doubt she'd be constant given her spontaneous nature and refusal to sit still)#shit man. even I'D go crazy and be horrible.#its okay and natural to be bitter#and its not as if anybody was there to help#hexenzirkel has a ton of women who survived their own nations falling yes#but not ONE of them (from what we know) has had circumstances any where near rhine's
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Besties, it's clipboard season again, and not to brag but I'm really fucking good at colors
#clipboard season: when i tey desperately to paint a clipboard for all of the leadership and my staff at the camp i work at#this year it amounts to about fifteen clipboards#i choose a different cool thing that reminds me of the person or what i think they would like and then paint it on the back of a clipboard!!#today i started the first because i got the overwhelming vision while i was at work and i needed to paint it#this guy is the nature director. loves fishing and is very good at it. knows a shit ton about fish and fishing#so im painting his clipboard in the style of those educational posters with a bunch of different fish on it#yknow the yellowy beige ones with like fish or plants drawn on them#yeah. im doing that with common fish found in our lake!!#which prompted this post because. that yellowy beige was a fun color to mix up. and not to brag but i got it just about perfect#now comes the drawing. im better at painting than drawing#colors and stuff make more sense than lines and stuff. but im getting better!#im learning more and more every day. and i guess today (and for rhe next ten days) ill be learning to draw fish#(I'm giving myself ten days per clipboard)#(last year when i started i only had like three days per clipboard to finish them before camp)#(spoiler: i finished exactly one)#really hoping this year ill do better. mostly because i love painting and this is a fun way to remember to do ir#as well as challenge nyself and get better#i hope youre all having a great 2024
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Thinking about Lilo & Stitch makes me really appreciate certain things about the original + the series. Almost every single named [human] character in the movie isn’t white: the only exception being Mertle, y’know, the bratty little girl we’re not supposed to like.
Besides all of the racial representation, Lilo herself is very much a neurodivergent icon, and her portrayal as the protagonist is amazing considering how characters like her are typically either sidelined or depicted in ways to make them less sympathetic/human (modern media does at least a slightly better job at adressing that kind of thing tho).
So all of that is great, but to anyone that hasn’t seen Lilo & Stitch: The Series, it also does some extremely refreshing stuff.
Pleakley gets tons of validation to dress in drag, everyone always referring to Pleakley as “she” when dressed up as “aunt Pleakley.” There’s even an episode that tackles Pleakley dealing with the pressures of his family that wants him to marry a girl and settle down to have a “normal life.” After the episode's shenanigans, there's a realistic depiction of the misunderstanding of a heteronormative/traditional parent with their non-traditional child: Pleakley's mom says that she just wants her children to be happy, but when Pleakley says that he is happy, she thinks he's only trying to console her as she insists, "How can you be happy? You aren't even married." But Pleakley finally gets it through to his mom when he says, "I don't want to be married, mother! I'm happy just as I am."
After getting to meet all of Pleakley's ohana throughout the episode and hearing from Pleakley himself -after all of the previous misunderstandings- that he really, truly, is happy, she's finally starting to understand.
Even though his mom comments as they leave that she wants him to “try wearing men’s clothes more often,” she still does walk away accepting that she simply doesn’t understand her son's way of thinking. It’ll definitely be hard for her since she’s so much more “traditional,” but she’s finally coming to grips with the fact that her son is who he is, and likes being that way, so she’ll love him regardless. She's trying her best.
The portrayal of people with physical disabilities is also great. It’s not because there’s one recurring character with some condition, but almost because there are non-recurring characters. It isn’t in every episode, but here’s an example: they want to show someone at the park playing fetch with their dog for just one shot. They could very easily have it be any a random person, but they decided to make it a lady in a wheelchair. There's another episode where Nani's friends from highschool show up and one has forearm crutches, but not just because she had some recent accident. No one in the episode questions her condition or feels the need to point it out, the only comment on it being that the friend will use the crutches to lightly bonk the others' arms, and Nani jokes, "You are still deadly with that thing."
The fact that they include characters with disabilities when they "don't have to" makes it that much more normal. These people aren't some special case or the main highlight of the episode, they're just another person. They're normal.
There's so much that all of the original Lilo & Stitch media did right, but now the name will forever be tainted with the association of the remake, which I'm sure will have absolutely none of the tasteful writing and ideas of anything prior to it.
#nani#david kawena#cobra bubbles#lilo pelekai#pleakley#lgbtqia#not a villain#disney#lilo and stitch#disney villains daily#villain talk#<- guess the tag moreso means me ranting/analyzing and doesnt specifically have to be about villains :)
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I still really wanna tell my FNaF AU stories too but. I've been thinking about my OC driven/original stuff again a bit lately too.
#insomniac hyena rambles#some of them started off as fandom AUs and then-#sorta took on a life of their own and kept moving further and further away from where they started-#that it just became more logical to make them OCs and stuff#I love them all dearly and want to tell their stories too#its just difficult to want to work with my OCs much because of past experiences#ive still got a ton of them to redesign and a lot of story aspects to work and rework and so on-#to move them all as far as i can away from those past experiences that made me not want to touch my own works to begin with
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despite any bad shit happening, i refuse to succumb to thinking we're doomed. there's always been bad stuff happening in this world, and good stuff. there will continue to be. i make myself stay alive, i fight to keep myself alive, and i keep trying to contribute to the good things. whether that's small or big, just being kind to those around me or if i have the ability to do more. the world will not just 'end' and release people from suffering, it's pointless to want intense destruction, someone will survive that destruction and have to deal with the pain it causes, and death doesn't guarantee you'll be free from the pain (and even if it did - why push for destruction that everyone still alive would have to keep suffering in? why not just want LESS suffering in the world?). it's never the 'end', it's never 'over'. Every day you're alive, it's getting up in a world that's got good and bad, and existing despite the bad, your existence adding to some relief in kindness and safety and care for yourself and others.
#rant#feel free to ignore me#basically theres like 3 kinds of doomerism#(in the us anyway)#theres conservative christian doomerism that prays the world ENDS so they all die and go to heaven and decides its okay if the world gets#worse and worse cause they HOPE we all die. when really like... if u want everyone to die i think fuck you#i think you can control if you yourself dies but don't make it so other people are suffering more. which is what they do... increase#suffering for other people.#there's liberals who say the worlds cooked/over/fucked/that its too late and they 'cant do anything'#and they kind of hope the world is 'ended' so that they can give up trying to fix it. if its already 'over' then theres nothing they can do#and they can stop doing anything. they'd rather just suffer and see others suffer. than try to increase good in the world.#its annoying as fuck and that attitude helps the people who DO want the world to suffer more.#and then there's the people just suffering and panicking so much... that in hoping the world is 'almost over' is really#more them wishing their suffering ends soon even if it means they die.#and i get it. ive been dying before. ive wished it was just over before. i know not everyone wants to stubbornly survive despite it#and the issue with this thinking is 1. you might survive. and if you DO survive then the efforts you put into trying might help you suffer#less down the line (just in case you do survive). 2. others will survive. others you love will survive#and the efforts you put in will maybe help them suffer less. even if you are gone eventually.#and efforts CAN be as small as simply 1. trying to survive until the bad times end!!! 2. telling people doing bad stuff that they ARE doing#bad stuff! telling others that you KNOW things can be BETTER.#being part of that BETTER by smiling at loved ones. laughing with loved ones. talking with loved ones. hugging loved ones.#and doing the same with strangers when there is an opportunity.#yes theres certainly Bigger stuff one can do. but sincerely just NOT being a doomer-hoping-the-world-'ends' (and it wont ever actually end)#and NOT actively working to make things worse... is already helping a ton#just actively NOT contributing to more peoples suffering is a huge thing already so thank you for doing it.#doomerism is vicious because it convinces you to accept your own suffering without resisting the cause of it#. and convinces you to hope all other people suffer intensely.
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Full disclosure I haven't read this particular arc just yet (it's on my list!) plus tumblr deleted like three paragrahs and I'm grumpy, but I love love love how this is another example of Bruce trying so hard and succeeding in his relationship with Tim. There's a reason why Tim is probably the Robin who believes in Bruce the most (and highkey the only Robin who actually wants to keep Robinning) and it's because of moments like this. Bruce's getting-it-right-moments ratio manages a net positive when it comes to Tim where it questionably doesn't with everyone else.
Because unlike his adopted ones, Tim still saw Robin as a "job" that he could be "fired" from. He can/will/has quit Robin of more-or-less his own volition before. Everyday that he clocks in for his Robin shift is a reassurance to Bruce that he's choosing this, something that Bruce can't easily take for granted if his Robin is someone that depends on him for their entire livelihood.
In return, Bruce tries really hard with Tim and improves upon what relationship skills he had with Dick and Jason. Because Jason showed him what happens if he messes up. Because Dick kept reviewing where he went wrong. Because Tim wasn't the kind of kid to just roll over and take unjust treatment but also was the most starry-eyed and reasonable Robin to ever Robin. Bruce puts down his walls to apologise to Tim, Bruce praises Tim for his work frequently, Bruce hears out his troubles and tries to improve on them — all of these still scarce because Bruce is like that but also very much present throughout their relationship.
And Tim makes it so easy, you know? I'm thinking about Tim negotiating with Bruce doing Young Justice (1998) about telling his friends his secret identity. He communicates with him really well and doesn't let up on how unfair it is, all the while never giving Bruce a hint of a threat that he'll simply disobey him. Bruce bends the rules, and Tim is elated. He respects Bruce to hold the reins, but then he demands a level of respect in return. Because yeah, if Robin is a "job", then Batman is his boss, and he answers to the viligante union and HR department in Tim's head that allows Tim to walk out of this job anytime he wants.
Tim makes it so easy. He walked into the Robin position going quite clearly "You're not telling anyone what you feel but I'm quite certain I can tell. You have relationships in your life that are valuable but are quite clearly fucking up on and that's just a shame and needs to be rectified posthaste. I recognise that you're in charge here but here's my powerpoint presentation on what I think is the best course of action—" and then Tim is in there with his absolute zero mouth filter and his urge to emotionally contextualise absolutely everything that happens. He goes into fits of anger and then immediately follows it up with "I'm sorry for lashing out, I know you're only trying to help and it's just a lot for me." (hnnngh I'm in awe of this boy's emotional awareness) and he'll have a good time and then follow it up with "That was great! I particularly enjoyed ____ and ____!" like some field trip assignment. He does this to Bruce, he does this to Dick, he does this to freaking Alfred. His constant communication and general obedience puts everyone at ease and makes them more willing to hear him out, and also if the tiny kid is calling you out on your emotions and not stopping for the last twelve blocks then maybe it's time to address those supposedly obvious feelings.
I'm inclined to think that Dick and Jason could've achieved this if it wasn't for the fact that A) they were stuck to Bruce and had virtually no choice but to seek his approval for everything and B) Bruce wasn't being receptive. By the time Tim came along, Bruce had seen how a lack of trust breaks down the relationship and ultimately leads to major field consequences. He'd figured out that those pesky little emotions that he'd always shunted away was something that could put his Robin in actual danger, that he should actually prioritise them to the extent he could. He'd raised one Robin that he thought probably hated him (Dick) and another that had died trying to find parental love in his absence (Jason) and now here came a third Robin who would throw his hands up in the air exactly like his first two and Bruce knows what comes next if he plays his cards wrong.
It's fascinating for me to watch Dick and Bruce struggle through their own strange relationship in the early days of Tim because they (plus Alfred) constantly have Tim as their bottom line of the Ultimate Child To Protect. And like I said, Tim makes it easy. Anything Bruce fails at in the parental department isn't his first-line responsibility because Tim's dad is alive and he loves him (parental failures on Jack's part are considered more important because Jack's his real actual active dad! Tim doesn't want or expect Bruce to be his dad, therefore rendering all parental affections from Bruce net positive no matter what!), anytime Tim is dissatisfied with the adult support he's getting from Bruce, he stalks Dick or Alfred for Better Adult Advice.
The foundation of their relationship makes it work for Tim to be effectively and eventually officially an emancipated minor. Tim is well-equipped enough to handle the pesky adult parts. As for the mentoring parts, this child is basically famous for procuring his own family. But he and Bruce are extremely similar on their paranoid need for control, and this takes them in opposite directions in this scenario — Bruce wanting to adopt Tim, and Tim wanting to be independant. What I love so much about this conclusion is that Bruce gives in, accepts that he can't have total control, settles for involving himself in Tim's life in any way he can. And Tim receives this as trust, validation, security. It has the unfortunate side effect of encouraging his paranoia-fueled shenanigans (*cough*hit list*cough) as basically everyone in the batfamily does to each other, but it reinforces the support Tim needed at this difficult time. Bruce managed to reassure him that he would still be there for him even if he didn't choose to lock them into the father-son role Bruce wanted. Is it any surprise that Tim is the Robin he can depend on to always come home when called on?
(Of course, the net positive still means Bruce messed up 999 times but sooomehow they did manage a net positive)



This is one of my favourite Bruce/Tim moments. All you will ever need to know about Bruce's method of parenting his kids is in these three panels.
#dc#batfam#tim drake#batman & robin#phoenixglacier's words#Also!! I do have specific moments that are jumping to mind as I write these!!!#A Lonely Place Of Dying + Rite Of Passage:#for where Tim shows up with all his zero mouth filter and then for his emotional turmoil when his parents are kidnapped#Young Justice (1998):#Bruce is like the the adult mentor that actually believes in Robin constantly and genuinely argues for him#naturally this is all behind the scenes and only mentioend because Tim deduced it without Batman having to tell him#this is what I mean by Tim making it easy because he'll notice Bruce's actions without always having to be told#Between aLPoD & RoP are a bunch of Batman issues that show Tim's training#and during that there's this scene where Tim calls Alfred and asks to go train at the cave on the weekend because he get needs to get away#so Alfred's able to be like Oh okay I will be prepared for a teenager who might be emotional instead of purely focused#he also does a ton of this stuff with Dick and probably modeled healthy behaviour for them in the most Disney Junior way possible#Batman Knightfall:#Bruce in his distress tells Tim that he was counting on him to handle gotham#and Tim just plainly explains that it was asking too much of him but that he tried anyway but almost got killed ya know?#It's the fact that Tim absolutely shouldn't be blamed but like Tim could actually articulate such without them all imploding#Nightwing (1996) Issue uhhh 6:#also Prodigal:#Tim does the dissecting of feelings with Dick just as much as he does Bruce but I love reading this arc just for showcasing Tim's life MO#his field trip debrief assignments. his nosy little habits. his ability to trade shifts instead of working excessively#(to the result of adorable scenes)#He stands up for himself whenever Dick gets too bossy and it shows how Dick is different too (so much more willing to admit he's wrong)#I feel like I don't have to mention this but#A Death In The Family:#has Jason so happy with the littlest things Bruce does that seem to reach out to him#this boy was willing to take whatever love he could get
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Hi lovely. I just had the scariest night last night and it ended with me in the ER for almost 7 hours. Basically I let a UTI go on too long and it traveled to my kidneys. But I was in the bathroom about to shower and I got super sick and dizzy and lightheaded, my hands and feet were tingling to the point of pain, I was DRENCHED in sweat. It was so so scary. I ended up passing out on the toilet (so embarrassing). I had to get my mom to come in and she took me to the ER and it was very rough there too because I was so dehydrated they couldn’t get a vein to give me fluids. So 6 times they tried, digging in my arm and all that before they finally got one. Later it ended up bursting which hurt a fuck ton. But all in all I feel like absolute shit.
If you can, could you write an EMT!marauders fic where something like that happens? Just the scary stuff in the beginning or whatever tickles your fancy. If not, no worries. I will just be reading and rereading all my faves of yours for the next few days while I try to get better 🥲
That sounds so awful, I'm sorry that happened to you!! Hope you're feeling much better by now lovely <3
cw: nonsexual nudity, dizziness, nausea, one sexual joke at the end
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A knock on the bathroom door rouses you. Steam heavies the air, the porcelain of the bathtub slippery underneath your backside. You feel sick.
“Hey.” It’s James’ voice, light as though he’s not really concerned. “Alright in there?”
You look down blearily. A bottle of shampoo rests against your hip. You must have knocked it from the lip of the tub when you passed out, and James must have heard the sound. When did you pass out? For how long?
“James?”
“Yeah?”
“I need…can you come in here?”
You hear the door open. Half the steam seems sucked from the room, cool air coming in. “Everything okay?” James asks.
He tries to open the shower curtain, but you’re lying half on top of it and it doesn’t make it far. You lift up on one side to free it. Your entire body trembles with the effort.
“Hey.” James definitely sounds concerned now, kneeling at your side. He puts a hand under your neck. “What happened? Did you fall?”
“I don’t feel well.”
“I can see that, sweetheart.” He shouts for the other boys. “Does anything hurt? Did you fall over?”
“No,” you say. Footsteps sound outside, nearing you. “No, I sat down. But I think I passed out.”
James frowns, taking your wrist to get your pulse. “What do you mean when you say you aren’t feeling well?”
You don’t get a chance to answer before Sirius is pulling the curtain open further. “Baby, what the fuck?” He crouches beside James. It’s now that you realize how painfully naked you are, lying limply on the floor of the tub with hot water from the showerhead beating down on your lower half. “Did you slip?”
“She passed out,” James answers for you, brows set in concentration as he feels your pulse. “But she sat down first.”
“Oh, good girl.”
Remus shuts off the water. You feel its absence immediately, your body at once lighter and colder.
“Can I have a towel?” you ask.
Sirius blinks as though he’s only just realizing your nakedness as well. He stands. “Right, I’ve got it.”
“Why do you think you passed out?” Remus asks you.
“I don’t know.” You want to give him a better answer, but it’s all you have. “I just got really lightheaded. I still feel sick.”
“Sick like you’re going to throw up?” James presses. He lets go of your wrist, giving Remus a look you can’t interpret.
“Yeah.”
Sirius tsks, returning with a stack of towels and a fluffy robe. “Okay, well don’t worry too much about that. If you throw up you throw up, we just want to know what’s made you sick in the first place.”
Between all three of them, they haul you out of the tub. The option of you trying to climb out on your own doesn’t seem to cross anyone’s mind. You land in Sirius’ lap, where you’re hastily wrapped in one towel and your hair in another, James drying your arms and legs with a third.
“What else are you feeling?” Remus asks you. When you hesitate, “Anything at all, it could help us to know.”
You try to take stock of yourself, shivering a bit as you do.
“Cold?” Sirius deduces.
You hum. “And my stomach hurts.”
He frowns. His hand covers your stomach over the towel protectively. “Yeah? Where does it hurt?”
“Sort of…” You shift a bit, trying to show him. “On the side.”
Sirius finds the spot like he knows just where you mean. “Around here?”
“Yeah.” Panic makes your voice tight. “Don’t touch it, please.”
“Okay. I won’t, sweetheart.” He moves hand away from your side, kissing your temple. “Have you noticed yourself feeling like you need to pee more often lately?”
You give him a funny look. “I have a UTI, but this doesn’t feel like the same thing.”
Remus groans. “Dove, really? You knew?”
“I knew I had a UTI,” you say, confused. Wary, without really knowing why. “It’s not…this feels different.”
“Why wouldn’t you treat it?”
“I was going to.”
“But when you wait like this and don’t tell us, you—”
“Alright, alright,” James says in a peacemaking tone. He rubs the towel down your calf. “I think she’s got it, love. She’s clearly not enjoying this.”
Remus closes his eyes, sighing. When he looks at you again, it’s with a softer gaze. “If you don’t treat a UTI,” he says patiently, “it can cause a kidney infection. I think that’s what you’re dealing with now, love.”
“Oh.” Your voice smalls. “I’m sorry.”
“Hey, that’s okay.” Sirius kisses your face again, his hold tightening when another shiver passes through you. “What’re you apologizing to us for, hm? You’re the one dealing with it. Passing out in showers and the like.”
“I know you didn’t want this,” Remus promises you, his expression gentler now. James begins encouraging your arm into your robe. “We’ll get you to A&E, and they’ll give you antibiotics to take care of this, alright?”
“Okay,” you say meekly.
Slowly, they get you dried up, clothed, and upright. Sirius teases you about the dangers of not peeing after sex. Remus makes worried faces whenever your expression changes and offers to bring a bag along on the drive in case you’re sick. When you try to walk out of the bathroom and wobble, James is quick with an arm around your back.
“C’mere, lovie.” He lifts you up into his arms. Clearly he’s trying to be gentle, but you moan anyway, pressing your forehead to his shoulder against a bout of dizziness.
“Oh, I know,” Sirius coos. “You’re alright, baby. We’ll get you feeling better soon.”
“I’m never letting any of you put it in me again,” you joke weakly.
To your surprise, it’s Remus who laughs the loudest.
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Happy merry!! Merry happy!! Jingle twinkle! Double well-wishing for channukah and xmas!! I usually give our sims some pj's for the holidays, but this time it's somewhere to wear those pj's. I might actually have gone "ooo" when I first saw @bostyny's Ageless Bedroom for TS4. It had to be my xmas set this year. A must. Then part 2 came out and I wondered if I'd bitten off more than I could chew. This is part of why my updates have been a bit sparse lately.
I mean...look at it though! Don't you just wanna snuggle in and wait for Santa?
Since this is a long post, you can download it up here or down at the very bottom. Choose either merged or unmerged recolors. Unmerged is almost 500 files total. Merged is 22. There are a ton of recolors and I could only repo some of it.
Download:
merged - SFS or MediaFire unmerged - SFS or MediaFire
Full details, credits, more previews, etc under the fold.
I love that this set is called Ageless. It's the perfect name. Depending on the colors and items, this set can be airy or dramatic. It's so versatile! Great stuff, Bostyny!
I didn't convert absolutely everything. I didn't have the time, and some stuff was beyond my skill level. I left out the mirrors, paintings, ceiling lamp, and jewelry stands.
Each object comes with 27-ish recolors. I only added some new recolors for the olive branches. Everything else is Bostyny's swatches. I repo'ed what I could, but there are still almost 500 files total in the unmerged folder. Yeep.
I reduced poly counts here and there, when needed. I also reshaped and tweaked some stuff. The table comes in two different sizes, a side table and a larger one you can use as a desk. The TS4 dressers I did as console tables, for multiple reasons.
Here's a list of what's included, poly count, recolors, etc:
Single bed - 1432 polys - 27 recolors
Double bed - 2240 polys - 27 recolors
Single blanket - 872 polys - repo'ed to double
Double blanket - 1166 polys - 27 recolors
Deco blanket - 730 polys - 25 recolors
Candle - 557 polys - 33 recolors
Candle 2 - 557 polys - 33 recolors
Chair - 2002 polys - 28 recolors
Console table 1 - 1486 polys - 30 recolors
Console table 2 - 1242 polys - repo'ed to console1
Console table 3 - 1486 polys - repo'ed to console1
Nightstand - 632 polys - 26 recolors
Nightstand 2 - 980 polys - repo'ed to console1
Olive branches - 1718 polys - 32 recolors
Olive branches small - 1718 polys - repo'ed to olive branches
Rug - no mesh - 60 recolors of NL 3x3 round rug
Side table - 566 polys - repo'ed to table
Table - 566 polys - 27 recolors
Slippers - 588 polys - 26 recolors
Slippers 2 - 436 polys - 27 recolors
Table lamp - 1662 polys - 19 shade, 11 base recolors
I've included a collection file.
And a few more previews, because why not?
The rug and bed blankets aren't in these previews, but you can see them in the ones further up.
Here's that download stuff again, because I'm not gonna make you go all the way back up.
Download:
merged - SFS or MediaFire unmerged - SFS or MediaFire
Credits: @bostyny for TS4 meshes and textures, @hugelunatic for the bed blanket that doesn't need cheats to place (I cloned it)
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don't worry, they're joking! they're always joking when it would be something, like bigoted. because i'm not a bigot, obviously, i just vote for bigots - well, they're not bigots either, you can't really call someone a bigot just because they have religious views. this is the land of the free, and it's a christian nation, after all. you can pretend otherwise but let's just be real here; all our values are really based on the bible. anyway, i know you liberals get your panties in a twist - can i say that, or are you gonna cancel me, haha, #metoo - about every little joke he said and every little dramatic political view. oh, fascist this and fascist that. you are online too much, you love the word fascist because it's big and you're just paranoid about things.
well, no, i don't, like, read the policies. i have a life. and so what if they wrote - stop it, it's not a manifesto, okay? he eventually backed off from that - oh the vice president? who cares about that guy, that isn't real power. you're being dramatic, they're just spitballing. everyone makes big claims when they're out there campaigning. he just means he personally wouldn't get gay married. you want him to divorce his wife and get gay married? anyway, even if they cancelled gay marriage - it wouldn't happen, okay? nobody i know really cares about that - it'd be states-rights like those abortions you love so much. and you live in a blue state. you live in like the gay capital of the world. i don't know why it'd be so bad for you, you're borrowing trouble there.
and besides, you're missing the point of his campaign! you people want to be victims so bad you completely ignore what we're really voting for. there are tons of good things that happened because of his name and his policies - the economy, for one. oh stop, just because i can't tell you what a tariff is off the top of my head doesn't mean i don't have eyes. and stuff was better under him! well, yeah, anything good is his work, obviously. what? no, all the bad stuff was biden. and probably also obama. what do you even care about this, anyway? it's not going to effect you. it's four years.
oh my god, not the climate change argument again, i'm not getting into that. i don't care about it. if my house is beachfront that's great news for me. and we don't really know what's causing it. no, i saw you forwarded me those articles and i just laughed. what, do you think i have time to sit on my ass and read shit? huh? well, no, i like reading the babylon bee. they actually had a great article about all you climate freaks. and in the meantime, what do you want me to do? i'm not paying 4 dollars for gas. liberals love to talk about solutions but never pay for the solutions. what do you mean blocked because of congress. you gotta stop with the conspiracy shit.
no, my side doesn't have real conspiracy theories. the vaccine thing is a real thing. besides, you yourself don't like big pharma. just because i have an opinion, suddenly now you think big pharma is great? and this is serious, okay? your mom's friend's coworker has a kid that died from a heart event. i don't want you getting any more vaccines. i regret that you got them as a kid, i'd redo them. what do you mean you'd vaccinate your own kids? are you finally thinking of having some? you know i want grandkids - oh stop, i've never pressured you, i'm just saying that if you're going to get gay married, you might as well give me some normal grandkids to love.
stop, you know what i meant. what? no, he's not going to take away your right to adopt. besides, you could always use a sperm donor, haha, i know your high school ex would love to - jesus! okay! no need to snap. i'm just saying that you don't need to be married to have a kid. the only real benefit to marriage is taxes, haha. it won't change anything. oh my god, no, there won't be a rise in hate crimes. well, it's not his fault what people do in his name! he eventually spoke out against that, anyway.
what do you mean he supported them? i didn't hear him say that. oh. well, yeah, he said it, but like, he's clearly joking.
#:)#<---- dying internally#this but longer and angrier and constant#i wanted also btw the goalpost feeling i get all the time where u can't lock down 1 subject#to argue with them about#bc he's always joking!!!!! unless it's something they agree with.#so there's TONS to argue with them about#but they just slip and slide from one topic to another bc it's ''never that serious'' so even when u make a valid#and real point.... it's like . no you didn't.#anyway#THIS IS OBVI SATIRE BTW.
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