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babe wake up! new eggsdoodz just dropped !
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Stopping yourself mid-conflict to change your perspective is allowed! It’s okay and normal to be mid argument with someone and realize you disagree with your own stance. Often I find myself and others caught up in trying to win the argument (not the point of arguments!) or too embarrassed to back down and be wrong. I promise there is so much more pride in going “Stop! I’m wrong. I hear you and I see how I wasn’t in the right and I want to amend my view” than digging your heels in.
#also how to argue productively is a whole post#suggestions#suggestion blog#recovery#positivity#self love#mental health#self care#ed recovery#love#relationships#shame#arguments#growth#conflict#ignorance#learning#self improvement#healing#mental illness
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self-love acts of service
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ making your bed
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ cooking yourself a meal
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ cleaning your space
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ making yourself a smoothie
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ writing monthly goals
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ getting your nails and hair done
self-love quality time
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ yoga
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ prayer
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ reading
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ stretching
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ exercising
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ journaling
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ gardening
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ meditation
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ taking a bath
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ spending time in nature
self-love words of affirmation
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ positive self-talk
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ keeping a gratitude list
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ daily mantra
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ make a vision board
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ compliment yourself
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ read self-help books
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ write yourself a love letter
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ positive sticky notes
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ watch a motivational speech
self-love physical touch
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ dance
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ stretch
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ do your hair
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ get a massage
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ move your body
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ a skin-care routine
self-love receiving gifts
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ treat yourself
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ enroll in a new class
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ buy a new plant (or some flowers)
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ invest in a hobby
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ try a new perfume
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ make a self-care kit
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ invest in your closet
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ take yourself on a trip
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how to embrace being alone⋆.ೃ࿔*:・✍🏽🎀
learning to be alone is such a crucial thing to learn at all times during your life, but especially during your youth. and something to understand is that sometimes, protecting your peace comes at the cost of being alone but being alone is peaceful! and not as bad as you might think that it is.
being alone offers an opportunity for self discovery and growth and rest and relaxation and reflection and the list goes ON. being able to enjoy your own company is a SUPER power bcuz it genuinely nourishes you so much.
ENJOYING UR OWN COMPANY ;
you dont have to be codependent on someone else to make yourself happy or to make yourself feel good. what fulfills you and nourishes you isnt the relationships that u have with others. although that is an amazing and fulfilling thing, the most fulfilling thing is learning yourself. being alone REPLENISHES you, its like, hydration for the soul.
dont wait on someone else to do something that you wanna do!! if u dont have anyone to go with, just go on your own. you dont have to wait on others to be happy…💬🎀
PRACTICE BEING ALONE ;
go on solo dates, practice planning to do something fun and just doing it by yourself. once you start doing things alone and you see how nice it feels, you'll want to do it more bcuz its so easy to enjoy your own company, you just have to get over your fear of judgement or of being alone and learn to enjoy and embrace it.
♡ have a spa day
♡ learn to cook a new dish
♡ read a book
♡ have a journalling session
♡ schedule appointments for urself
♡ go on a long drive
SOME BENEFITS OF ENJOYING UR OWN COMPANY ;
♡ u can be urself without filter
♡ less distractions and u give urself time to ponder and look internally
♡ ur in control of ur space and time
♡ u can be creative and imaginative without reference
♡ its peaceful
BEING UR OWN BESTFRIEND ;
treat yourself how you'd treat someone that you valued a lot. be compassionate and understanding and respectful. dont talk badly about yourself and dont be mean to/punish yourself bcuz u wouldn't do that to someone that u loved and cherished…💬🎀
dont abandon yourself in times where life can become stressful. focus on being present and dont forget your worth. your self worth and value doesn’t come from how useful you are to others, your valuable simply because you are you. a human being who is deserving of love. your worth doesnt come from how productive you are or what you’ve achieved, instead your worth is already done and your valuable because of your existence.
COPING WITHOUT FRIENDS ;
everything is temporary and meaningful relationships will always find their way to you. just understand that some ppl are here temporarily and some ppl are here for a lifetime but only you are here for all of it which is why its important to be alone and be comfy with that.
not everyone is gonna like you or wanna be your friend and thats okay. it has nothing to do with you and is almost always simply because of different personalities and its not personal
brush off rejections bcuz rejection is just redirection. when you dont take everything personally you'll notice how much happier you'll be overall.
know that the meaningful relationships and connections that u crave will come!! no one is here to be alone forever so you'll meet the people who pour into you and you'll meet ppl that u can pour into and you'll be okay!!
overall, enjoying your own company does wonders for your mental and physical health and its a useful skill to learn in general because it brings so much peace from being able to sit with your thoughts…💬🎀
#advice#it girl#becoming that girl#self care#self love#that girl#it girl energy#dream girl tips#dream life#dream girl#self improvement#self development#self reflection#self growth#self healing#honeytonedhottie⭐️#alone time#productivity#protect your peace#inner peace#inner thoughts#relaxation#dolly#girl blog#im just a girl#girlblogging#just girly things#reflection#tranquility#dream girl life
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And all of them matter.
#self compassion#rest#productivity#growth#progress#you're doing better than you think#give yourself credit#honor your progress#self care#mental health#tomorrow is another day#healing#trauma#grief#recovery
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fall is here. It's time to lock in. weight loss edition.
intro:
after taking a miniature break I have finally decided to track my weight loss journey here, to keep me motivated and to track my progress.
there are approximately 3 months left in the year (without september) and in that time I want to focus on my weight loss and lock in. I will take a break from creating notion templates and focus on skills and hobbies.
why 3 months? simply because that's what's left in this year and also because most people start seeing results after 3 months.
details:
so I started this challenge last week and here are a few things I've achieved last week. I worked out for the whole week. I hit 10k steps daily from tuesday didn't do so well on monday. I also completed my daily workout cycle for the most part.
✿ my main goal is losing weight really just reaching my weight goal which is 42kg - p.s I'm short
✿ I will try my best to update daily and I also have a physical journal that I will update every night before bed
here are my current stats
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( ) 42𝒌𝒈 gw
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i do think the stakes are not in my favour and I might not reach my goal at the end of the year but at least I can try.
so I will be uploading my workouts weekly, at the beginning of every week as to keep myself motivated to do them and for as many that would like to go on this journey with me. at the end of those 3 months, I will update this blog post.
✿ This is the habits i want to achieve each day also I plan to have a set eating time between 12pm and 8pm everyday. i will write about what I eat I'm also not going to be really dieting or cutting out foods just minimizing my portions
habit tracking:
maintain calorie deficit of 1200 hit 10k steps 7+ hrs of sleep 2l of water 30mins+ of movement journal progress movement cycle [3/3] eat between 12 pm and 8 pm
✿ : my days will mainly be filled up with reading (adrinette fics), language learning, crocheting, organizing, blogging, Bible study, watching(might continue Gilmore Girls) and more
decided to add workouts to my daily updates instead
i will start updating tomorrow
post tags : dews wl lock-in
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@studiomeggy
#mental health#self care#healing#recovery#positive thoughts#positivity#self love#self worth#anxiety relief#cute art#productivity
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Summer Fitness Challenge: Your Guide to a Stronger, Healthier body
Show them what you’re made of your endless nights deserve a loud ovation shine bright and prove them wrong cause we can feel our progress
-straykids (song : blind spot)
Hi Sparkles! ⭐ This is the last blog in our first important blog series! I hope the previous six blogs were helpful and informative. Let's dive into a quick and effective summer workout routine to keep you fit and energized during the sunny months
Summer Workout Routine
Summer is the perfect time to revitalize your fitness routine and enjoy the great outdoors. Whether you’re looking to get in shape or maintain your current fitness level, this quick and effective workout plan will help you stay active and energized all summer long Here’s a routine you can follow (6 days in a week) :
by: 𖧷´ bloomzone 𝅄 ׂׅ
Day 1: Full Body Workout
Start your week strong with a full-body workout.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio (jogging, jumping jacks)
- Squats: 3 sets of 12 reps
- Push-ups: 3 sets of 10 reps
- Plank: 3 sets of 30 seconds
Day 2: Cardio and Core
Burn calories and strengthen your core.
- Warm-up:5 minutes of dynamic stretches
- HIIT: 20 minutes (alternate 30 seconds of sprinting with 30 seconds of walking)
Day 3: Active Rest
Give your muscles a break while staying active.
- Activity: Light walking, swimming, or yoga for 30 minutes (don't overwork yourself)
Day 4: Lower Body Focus
Focus on building strength in your lower body.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio
- Lunges: 3 sets of 12 reps per leg
- Glute Bridges: 3 sets of 15 reps
Day 5: Upper Body Focus
Target your upper body for a balanced physique.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio
- Dumbbell Bench Press: 3 sets of 12 reps
- Bicep Curls: 3 sets of 15 reps
Day 6: Cardio and Stretching
End your week with cardio and flexibility work.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of dynamic stretches
- Steady-State Cardio: 30 minutes (running, cycling, or brisk walking)
- Stretching: 10 minutes of full-body stretches
Day 7: Rest Day
Allow your body to recover:Complete rest or light activity like a leisurely walk and give yourself a self care day !!
Tips for Success
1. Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day, especially during and after workouts.
2. Eat Well: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains (or if u are programming to follow a diet click here ! )
3. Be Consistent: Stick to the routine and adjust as needed based on your fitness level.
4. Listen to Your Body: Rest if you feel overly fatigued or experience any pain.
ıllı ⠀ : As you continue on your fitness journey, keep setting new goals and challenging yourself. Adjust the intensity of your workouts as needed and explore different activities to keep your routine enjoyable and engaging. Fitness is a journey, and each step you take brings you closer to ur body goal .⠀♡ ⠀ !!
#𝜗𝜚 ── ⊹ ‧#becoming that girl#wonyoungism#glow up#wonyoung#dream life#it girl#creator of my reality#divine feminine#it girl affirmations#love affirmations#self growth#self healing#workout#summer#skincare#self development#self confidence#my lovely sparkles#pink pilates princess#pink bows#soft pink#pink aesthetic#pink pilates girl#yoga pilates#productive#fashion#gym routine#skincare routine#ive wonyoung
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study now so you don’t have to cram later
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studying can be so calming when you leave yourself enough time to do it!
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#self growth#mental health#self love#health and wellness#healing#that girl#self healing#it girl#sanrio#coquette#studyspo#study motivation#studyblr#100 days of productivity#productive#glow up#dream girl#girlblogging#pink pilates princess#pinkcore#kawaii#this is a girlblog#dollette#recovery#motivation#corrinsreminders#wonyoungism#angelcore#dollcore#faunlet
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HABITS TO DROP WHEN GETTING YOUR LIFE TOGETHER
➝ CREATING UNAUTHENTIC & UNINTENTIONAL GOALS
the biggest mistakes you can make when creating goals is making goals that aren’t true to you and making goals for the sake of making goals.
it can be so exciting when you decide to get your life together. I mean, of course it is! there are so many possibilities! but when you start planning, don’t just write down the goals you see circulating on social media. what works for someone else may not be what works for you. don’t make your goals and habits based on what’s trending or popular in the self improvement community.
think about what you actually need for a minute. what is actually necessary? your goals and habits aren’t here to be glamorous, they’re here to help regardless of how simple or small they are. the point of thinking up new habits is to improve your life, so be intentional with your goals. what will practicing this habit or achieving this goal give you?
when you’re first starting out, your goals don’t have to be anything too crazy or intense. for example, let’s say you want to become a pink pilates girl and get into fitness. you shouldn’t jump right into it and say your goal is to work out for 2 hours 5 times a week. let’s consider some factors first. have you been living a completely sedentary kind of lifestyle? then try looking for exercises that’ll wake up dormant muscles. your goal should then be to repeat those exercises for how ever many times a week. then you’ll work your way up from there. (it’s important we don’t harm the body, so be mindful with your fitness goals.) what about your schedule? how much time can you actually give to working out? can your body even endure working out for that long?
anyways, hopefully you see what I mean. when creating goals, it’s not about having the “aesthetic” habits and goals that you may see on tiktok or tumblr. it’s about doing what is actually good for you and what’ll help you the most with where you are now in your journey. so please put some thought into your goals and where they’ll take you. creating unauthentic and unintentional habits will also mean you’ll be less likely to keep practicing them after a few times. at the end of the day, that doesn’t help you achieve anything and you’re left with a broken promise you’ve made to yourself. which leads me to my next point…
➝ NOT KEEPING YOUR WORD WHEN IT COMES TO YOU
let me start off by saying this— if you don’t even listen to yourself, why should anyone else? (harsh, ik)
a HUGE reason as to why people have no self confidence is because they don’t listen to themselves or keep the promises they’ve made to themselves. if you have no self trust, how could you have any self confidence?
now, building discipline can definitely be a challenge so if you want to start somewhere easy, nip your false promises in the bud and stop yourself from making them. that’s what I did when I was first trying to stop this habit. when my addiction to tiktok was at its peak I would always tell myself the usual “ten more minutes and then I’ll stop scrolling.” when I wanted to stop making false promises, I knew I had no control or discipline so the only thing I could do is be real with myself. I’d cut myself off when I heard myself say “five more minutes” because I knew it wasn’t going to happen. if I wasn’t going to quit my bad habit, then the least I could do is be honest with myself.
the things that you are constantly telling yourself, whether they’re mindless or intentional, matter.
so, stop telling yourself seemingly harmless lies. unnecessary false promises that you know are false will only fill you with tension.
➝ SEEING FAILURE AS AN INVITATION TO GIVE UP
this applies to so many things.
you wanted to be consistent with your reading goals but haven’t read a chapter in a week? dont give up. don’t tell yourself that being consistent is too hard for you, that since you missed a week this habit isn’t for you. make your goal a bit easier or give yourself another chance.
you wanted to spend more time doing art but it’s not turning out how you expected? dont give up. dont give yourself the title of a “bad artist” and never pick up a pencil again. move forward, give yourself another chance.
you wanted to quit your Instagram addiction but after a couple days you went back to scrolling for hours on ig reels? Don’t give up. dont tell yourself that this addiction isn’t gonna go away, don’t go back to the bad habit because you slipped up. give yourself another chance.
I think a lot of us (myself included) tend to give up at the first sign of failure, instead of reminding ourselves to keep going. it’d be wonderful if you could get it right on the first try. if you could read ten books a month right away after not reading a book in three years. if you could watch hours worth of tutorials and sketch the perfect portrait on the first attempt. if you could uninstall instagram for good and never feel the urge to go back. that would all be so amazing, but it’s not always the reality. expect the best from yourself and do the best you can, but also give yourself some compassion. keep in mind that you won’t always do things perfectly right away and that’s one thousand percent okay. when you feel yourself slipping up on your brand new goal, don’t end it there at the first failure. allow yourself to move forward, because the only other direction to move is backwards.
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HOW TO CREATE AN ENERGISING MORNING ROUTINE
WAKE UP EARLIER. Waking up early looks different for a lot of us, and i’m not going to reccomend waking up at 5am for a lot of us. Whatever time you wake up now, I would suggest waking up 30 minutes or so earlier and see how you feel.
If you feel like you really need those 30 minutes to sleep, then use it sleeping. Whatever time makes you feel like you are at the best, is the perfect time for you. It does take some trial and error to find this time, but it’s worth it.
Another thing, I generally wouldn’t suggest waking up past 10am. If you sleep in a little too much, you do become a bit sluggish during the first hours of your day, but whatever works for you.
SUNLIGHT FIRST THING. Going outside, a hot girl walk or simply opening your windows to allow the sun to come in helps our body to become awake. Natural sunlight is a sign to our bodies that we need to start the day.
This also promotes a healthy rise in cortisol to support our mood, focus and energy. This natural increase in cortisol helps with melatonin production in the evening, which improves the quality of your sleep.
Exposure to unnatural light can disrupt this rhythm, so it’s best to stay away from any devices and turn off of your lights before and after you wake up. Ideally, an hour after you wake up, should be spent device-free. (aside from alarms or setting habit tasks)
NO PROCESSED, CAFFEINATED OR SUGARY FOODS, before you have a proper meal. When we eat these foods before a nutritious meal, it can lead to a spike in cortisol and blood sugar levels first thing in the morning, which leads to crashing in the afternoon after the spike goes down.
When we eat after we wake up, it stabilises our blood sugar levels and replenishes ourselves after our fast. If need to be, meal prep the night before so you can have a quick and easy breakfast. As long as it properly fuels your body.
GENTLE EXERCISES. You’ve just woken up, so you don’t want to rush your body into something too hardcore until you feel like you’re fully awake. Gentle exercises could mean stretching, a light walk or if you’re feeling a bit energised, pilates.
SET INTENTIONS. Set the theme for how you want to feel at the start of the day, during and end. It doesn’t have to be something productive, but a feeling that you want to achieve and maximise and use that feeling in what you do.
For ex. In the morning, I want to feel calm. During the day, I want to feel productive. At the end of the day, I want to feel accomplished.
SHORT TO-DO LISTS! To-do lists that are more than 3 major tasks usually are unmanageable. While you can break down those 3 major tasks, try to avoid having more than 3 major tasks.
If you do have more than 3, consider moving them into a different date if its not urgent or cutting that task completely if its not urgent and unimportant. How you assess the urgency and importance of your tasks is up to you, as you know what productivity means to you.
Remember the basics as well, such as hydration, mindfullness, and at least one fun activity in the morning. Thank you so much for the support, even while I was a bit inactive <3
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HOW TO INCREASE SELF AWARENESS?
1. pay attention to what bothers you about others.
2. pay attention to which negative emotion you dislike and avoid the most.
3. identify unhelpful thoughts and beliefs you have.
4. make time to clarify your values.
5. draw a timeline of your life.
6. send out feedback about yourself.
7. practice mindfulness meditation
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start over as many times as you need to
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embracing being alone⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🧁
learning to be alone is such a crucial thing to learn at all times during your life, but especially during your youth. and something to understand is that sometimes, protecting your peace comes at the cost of being alone but being alone is peaceful! and not as bad as you might think that it is.
being alone offers an opportunity for self discovery and growth and rest and relaxation and reflection and the list goes ON. being able to enjoy your own company is a SUPER power bcuz it genuinely nourishes you so much.
enjoying your own company ;
you dont have to be codependent on someone else to make yourself happy or to make yourself feel good. what fulfills you and nourishes you isnt the relationships that u have with others. although that is an amazing and fulfilling thing, the most fulfilling thing is learning yourself. being alone REPLENISHES you, its like, hydration for the soul.
dont wait on someone else to do something that you wanna do!! if u dont have anyone to go with, just go on your own. you dont have to wait on others to be happy.
practice being alone ;
go on solo dates, practice planning to do something fun and just doing it by yourself. once you start doing things alone and you see how nice it feels, you'll want to do it more bcuz its so easy to enjoy your own company, you just have to get over your fear of judgement or of being alone and learn to enjoy and embrace it.
have a spa day
learn to cook a new dish
read a book
have a journalling session
schedule appointments for yourself
go on a long drive
some benefits of enjoying your own company ;
you can be yourself without filter
less distractions and you give yourself time to ponder and look internally
your in control of your space and your time
you can be creative and imaginative without interference
its peaceful
being your own best friend ;
treat yourself how you'd treat someone that you valued a lot. be compassionate and understanding and respectful. dont talk badly about yourself and dont be mean to/punish yourself bcuz u wouldn't do that to someone that u loved and cherished.
dont abandon yourself in times where life can become stressful. focus on being present and dont forget your worth. your self worth and value doesn’t come from how useful you are to others, your valuable simply because you are you. a human being who is deserving of love. your worth doesnt come from how productive you are or what you’ve achieved, instead your worth is already done and your valuable because of your existence.
coping without friends ;
everything is temporary and meaningful relationships will always find their way to you. just understand that some ppl are here temporarily and some ppl are here for a lifetime but only you are here for all of it which is why its important to be alone and be comfy with that.
not everyone is gonna like you or wanna be your friend and thats okay. it has nothing to do with you and is almost always simply because of different personalities and its not personal
brush off rejections bcuz rejection is just redirection. when you dont take everything personally you'll notice how much happier you'll be overall.
know that the meaningful relationships and connections that u crave will come!! no one is here to be alone forever so you'll meet the people who pour into you and you'll meet ppl that u can pour into and you'll be okay!!
overall, enjoying your own company does wonders for your mental and physical health and its a useful skill to learn in general because it brings so much peace from being able to sit with your thoughts.
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