#Financial Boundaries
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as a former herb (which was the name for simps back in my day) i will never again pay the bills for any woman who doesn't have my last name. i've paid bills, rents, travel accommodations, and more like an idiot. i've learned my lesson. it was a hard lesson but i learned it. never pay the bills for someone who isn't your wife. if she wants bills paid then she's got to get a husband (which means she has to be wifey material which is harder than just being freak in the sheets or girlfriend material). anything else, everything else is a scam and just because you have money doesn't mean you're supposed to be a mark. that's another lesson i had to learn. just because i could afford it doesn't mean i'm supposed to be paying for it. and the moment they leave because you won't pay their bills you know you just dodged a bullet.
#Dating#simping#dating advice#wifey material#girlfriend material#relationships#financial boundaries#personal growth#self-worth#lessons learned#partnership dynamics#gender dynamics#societal expectations#financial responsibility#emotional resilience
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Setting Boundaries in Financial Relationships: Protecting Your Goals and Investments
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#Financial Boundaries#financial freedom strategies#Goal setting strategies#Money Management#Personal Finance Tips
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The Dangers Of Frugality
Excessive frugality can hinder personal growth and undermine confidence. It's important to strike a balance between living below means and embracing life’s opportunities.
Once upon a time, in a land not so far away, there lived a man who fancied himself a penny-picker extraordinaire. Day in and day out, he diligently scoured the walkways, convinced he was on the brink of a fortune. Little did he know, his obsession with those shiny copper coins took a toll on his posture, leaving him permanently hunched like a person who had misplaced their backbone. Like penny…
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#aspirations#calculated risk#challenge#challenges#comfort zones#confidence#culture#determination#finance#finances#financial boundaries#focus#frugal#frugal living#frugality#goals#investment#minimalism#personal finances#personal growth#purpose#purposeful#purposefulness#purposes#strenght#success
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MLM Huns, We're Not Interested: How to Decline an Offer with Grace
If you've ever been approached by an MLM representative with a sales pitch, you know how persistent and pushy they can be. While it's important to stand your ground and protect your own financial interests, it's also important to be polite and respectful
Photo by cottonbro studio on Pexels.com Hey there, Hun. I’m back with another post about the shady world of MLMs. Today, we’re talking about how to politely decline an offer from an MLM representative. Now, we all know that MLM Huns can be persistent. They’ll slide into your DMs, invite you to their “parties,��� and even approach you in person with their sales pitch. And while it’s important to…
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#business opportunities#direct sales#financial boundaries#local businesses#MLM#multi-level marketing#network marketing#personal goals#polite responses#quality products#reputable companies#sales pitches#scams#shady business practices#value based decisions
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Is an RB podium bad for F1?
#how would it not be a ��genuine’ podium simply because they’re taking parts off Red Bull that is well within the regulations???#I can’t believe they’re going to make me deep throat a corporation on main like that all season long#a backmarker gets some financial backing and decides to exploit some symbiosis within legal boundaries of the sport#and suddenly it’s a problem?#and not to make this about Daniel but would this have gotten this much attention if it would have been any other driver pairings at RB?#daniel ricciardo
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Disabled men can know how to use their disability to be controlling
#Reddit#Aita#Dump him#Disabled men can still be abusive#Men not knowing what financial abuse really is#Men not respecting boundaries#When take a bit of my partners meal I don't take it with bare hands#We just got out of a pandemic and he's doing touching her food with bare hands?#Men are less likely to wash their hands after using the bathroom#Men and food safety
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Straight people are so fucking obnoxious
#sid rants#actually it’s not just straight people. anyone who acts like this when it comes to sex workers#i have several mutuals who do online sex work. i have mutuals whose selfies i hype up bc that’s their livelihood#and plenty of people subscribe to their friends’ content to be supportive financially#like. it just reminds me of that ‘micro cheating’ bullshit i posted a bit ago#it’s about established boundaries. if you hate your bf supporting sex workers financially#that’s YOUR insecurity#this bitch follows it up with ‘that’s common sense’ no babe you just a bitch
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if you really think about it, this whole thing actually started with armando being upset that betty had a personal life that didn’t revolve around him.
#ysblf#betty la fea#armando: my betty attempting work\life boundaries when she's legally tied to me via financial fraud?? not under my watch
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life update: ive buried myself in my irl work
and whenever someone messages me (for good reason) about a fandom thing i get so irritated because i just dont have the time or headspace at the moment and the mild irritation passes im left with feeling bad that i neglected fandom stuff for too long 😞 but at the same time can you just stop :D
#nina.talks#nowadays ive been reflecting on a lot on how to balance my fandom like with irl#cause i dont want to lose that part of my identity i associate myself with fandoms#but darn gosh FUCK do i need a break#like sometimes its really not about buying the newest collection they release#or collecting all types of merch#i WISH i could afford to think that way longer#but financially i need to wake up this 2025 and not give in.#its just very irritating when people dont respect that boundary#but i also know its a bonding thing/hobby thing in our friendship#im really just rambling at this point#i need a ME day which is schedule this saturday#but i need it now!!#this has nothing to do with writing and art but really about the merch collecting thing#and my last event duties#bc writing and art are things i WANT to do#like i wanna do my hobbies and pour my energy into something personal and i'll be proud of#side note as a writing warm up (and breather for myself) i did a writing sprint for all the selfship HCs qotd from the server#but they got so personal i cant post them#its rlly like baring your soul out there#but also i think im just rlly boring these hcs are so general...#wheres my personality#NOW ITS AN IDENTITY CRISIS
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Leave me to my delusions
#it's aster. I've decided on aster#my friend: have u unlocked the eiden room. or the SSR rooms#me: no. don't question me#my friend: i'm questioning u but also. Valid#me: thx#when aster's like#my first love is money#and i just looka t him and he gives me the energy of#someone who will do unspeakable things to u (at ur request)#but if u try to touch his no no place(s) you will never recover physically financially or emotionally#aster has boundaries and u will incur financial consequences should u push them#actual canon event that had to have happened at some point in the timeline (Before aster was super recognisable):#stranger: and how much for YOU? ;)#aster: oh you couldn't afford me <3#aster will really go#oops! SILLY me!!! ;P#n it's because he dismantled an entire country's government from the inside while destabilising the economy in all 6 neighbouring countries#twinks who rule the world. go aster go
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Putting on last year's trans rigs stream from Drawfee before i have to get ready to go out with my mum and her bf today (bc i have the worst feeling in my gut he's gonna make that An Thing for me if given the chance today, aka whenever i eventually need the restroom while we're at Mystic)
#text post#Housemate was amazing and helped me calm down a bit before ae went to work bc my brain woke up in meltdown mode over this tbh#it sucks bc like. im excited to see my mum despite the Everything with that lmao#but im not excited for how her bf has been acting since they got here (and it's been day 1 out of 7 days)#with some outright homophobic comments while Housemate and i hosted them briefly at our house yesterday afternoon#not abt us but like. i mean. u know we're both queer so#doesn't really matter if it's abt us or not it's still fucky and makes me worry abt how he's gonna be today!!#doesn't help that he really wanted to go to Italy with her instead this summer#(despite the passive aggressive complaints from him & mum to a degree abt how expensive it was for them to come out here)#(we're ignoring the fact that a European trip would be even more expensive lmao tho i do think if they want to/can afford it they should go)#like. the Vibe from him has just been that he'll be Just Polite Enough but that he didn't want to be here#and he doesn't expect to have any fun and it's like#dude i am Trying. i and Housemate have looked up stuff to do that includes things he likes (like guns and historical weapons)#we tried making comments abt that yesterday like hey u might like this but if there's anything u have in mind already#and he was just. whatever idc but then made comments that made it clear he's not excited for anything else#like museums or the beach for sea glass hunting or the bird sanctuary or even the zoo#and all have places to rest/sit plus restrooms and food so I don't think it's a worry abt facilities thing for him#i think he's just fed up that I'm still involved in my mum's life since i moved and like#yes there's a detangling of the umbilical cord i and my past therapist were trying to eventually get my mum to cut#since cutting it myself in any attempt has had her metaphorically taping it back together#but like. it's not entirely on me here. I'm trying to set boundaries and make sure she's giving him more attention than me since he's w/her#more than i am now#i know he's upset when she helps me financially too (i offer to pay her back but she always refuses it) bc she took me aside yesterday#to give me some cash for the time with them for souvenirs/fun stuff i might not buy otherwise bc im trying to be mindful of money#aka still waiting on money my fkn job should have already paid me like. a week or more ago now#he makes her happy so even if he hates me i still care abt his frustrating ass#and i do want him to have as much fun as he can while still relaxing during the trip out here#but i feel like im gonna have to physically shake him by the shoulders screaming this before he listens#and even if he listens he probably won't believe me#sorry for the tag essay the edible hasn't kicked in yet can u guys tell lmao
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Six i saw you love kaveh too!! He is apple of my eye istg. Descendant of the sun itself, he is so beautiful. Would lay my life for him. Plus I am sure he would be the kinda guy to annoy the fuck out of us but when we are down or upset, would stay with us all night long to soothe our nerves down.
Pretty baby boy😭😭
SO TRUEEE HES MY PRETTY BOYYY 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 I LOVE HIMM
i did his hangout quest recently he’s literally so perfect im sobbing brlbrlrbfkdnckdnckns AAAAAAAAA
#🎤MY BABYYY BOYYYY 🎤#me when i think about kaveh#holding him so gently#honestly all he really needs is someone to be his manager (me)#bc he’s literally financially illiterate AJDJSJD#that’s his red flag#he can’t save money for shit#and also bad at implementing boundaries#like#i’ll yell at his clients for him so he doesn’t get a bad reputation#except i won’t yell bc i don’t like shouting#but i’ll talk in a very passive aggressive way that lets them know they’re stupid as fuck#i work in retail i can do it
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#negativity cw#mother mention cw#just told my mom I don’t want to seek out therapy at this time#She’s been pushing for it for a while#And I’ve kind of just been nodding along#I texted her and then put my phone on so not disturb#cowardly idgaf#my heart was actually pounding as I sent the message#Idk if she’s read it or not#she’s going to be disappointed#I know she will#She’ll respect that I’m an adult and she won’t push it#And I’m moved out and financially independent#but I know she’s going to be disappointed#And it’ll come up at some point#If anyone can provide some advice about setting boundaries with your parents as an adult#Or just how to say no#Would appreciate it#Funny thing is I read on Reddit relationship forums and the like#About ppl being unable to stand up to their parents/in-laws#And I wonder how#And then here I am sending a simple text message about a very low stakes thing to my mom who has been mostly loving and rational#and I had to type it out three times#so yeah. I get it now#edit: 20 minutes later and I still have a sick feeling in my stomach#she hasn’t responded and idk if she read it yet#v v glad I live away from home now#And praying this doesn’t bite me in the ass should I ever need to return home or need serious help from them
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[to the tune of the Lego Movie’s “Everything is Awesome”]
Everything is stressful! 🙃
Every-thing causes anxiety! 🙃
Everything is stressful!! 🙃🙃
When you have ADHD! 🙃🙃🙃
#I can’t take this fucking roller coaster of a housing crisis much longer I’m going to fucking SCREAM#I don’t think I’m being unreasonable by setting a boundary after all the concessions I’ve made but now she wants to push to move in date#back?? HOW DO I KNOW UR EVEN GOING TO MOVE IN AT ALL#LITTLE MISS MONTH-TO-MONTH 😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀#apple talks#to the tune of spam#alright tw time! here comes the suicidal thoughts!#so my last housemate moved out a few months ago and my parents have been helping me with rent since then#but it’s fucking expensive in California#and I’m struggling to a) find a new roommate b) find a new apartment or c) find a better paying job#the stress has literally been killing me I can’t fucking sleep I eat even less and I’m up with 4 am panic attacks!#and my parents don’t have infinite money! so on Xmas they threatened to pay a buttload of money to force me back to Ohio bc somehow THAT#expense is less than helping me with rent a little while longer#I would rather fucking kill myself than move back to Ohio I am dead fucking serious#bc it’s not ‘move in with my parents again’ it’s my parents paying a whole ass apartment of my own until I find an Ohio job (in THIS economy#??) it’s them paying to fly me my CATS and my stuff out there but not any of my furniture.#it’s being down the road from my father again which I cannot and WILL not do.#I fucking moved to Cali to get away from him. and if my mom would just divorce his ass I’d be no contact in a heartbeat#I cannot be financially dependent on him AND live within driving distance of him#and I absolutely do not want to put my cats through the stress of a plane ride! they can barely keep it together being locked in my room#while I’m at work for 1 day! not to mention I’d be dependent on my parents to drive me everywhere bc there’s not public transportation there#and I’ve been packing in case I have to move apartments or god forbid to ohio and it’s a blurry fucking line bw packing to move#and giving away all my shit in preparation to kill myself#and I FINALLY found a new very temporary roommate and I’ve made a fuck load of concessions for her to move in and I have to draw the fucking#line somewhere and this of all things has her wanting to push back move until February which makes me nervous bc what if she backs out? what#if I’m fucked? girlies if I stopped posting for days on end I am literally dead. pray for my cats to go to a good home bc I can’t fucking do#it anymore
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Mr. Bee, your Pochiness. I’ve been wondering: how would a same age AU play out between James and Jian? Specifically, one where James is the same age as Jian (so like, in high school).
in high school i think the main inhibitor for both (mayb slightly more for james) would be internalised homophobia lol uh so theyd probs meet, be attracted to each other, both ignore it, somehow be put in situations that required seeing each other n eventually kinda just fall into whatever was between them. itd be a lot less toxic uh n a lot more stable after they got together
probs am gonna write a tiny same age ting but its likely gonna be office au just cos feel like thatd be more fun to write >:) but yeah. same age would be more balanced n jian would be more comfortable asserting things bc those skills wouldve developed far more naturally than theyre developing rn rip
#james is always gonna push boundaries tho#n theyd always be a financial gap that james sorta? exploits?? if thats the right word idk#ask#grow as we go
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using my autism superpowers to determine that the reason why my grocery bill is so high is economic inflation, just like anyone could have instantly guessed by asking for my location and the date
#i did discover that the fresh produce was taking up a lot of PHYSICAL space#not a lot of financial space#only 12.3% of my total was fresh produce#frozen produce was an additional 9.5%#26% of my total was 'snacks' which is rough but.. i eat the snacks. i like the snacks.#i can bake some muffins to freeze and microwave as needed to supplant some of my snacks#but most of them are like instant pot au feu spicy ramen or taro root boba or pistachio ice cream#irreplaceable#i can just stop eating them completely#but i can't recreate even a pale imitation of them for a cheaper price#i do need to cook a lot more and cook from fresh 🥲 financially and health-wise too#that's great. i love expending mental and physical energy.#and testing the boundaries of my parosmia#adam talks too much
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