#Best moisturizers 2025

[4theitgirls]

2025 series: my goals and plans to execute them

goal #1: improve skin

drink more water (60-84 oz daily)

consistent skincare routine

face masks 1-2x weekly

gua sha & jade roller

body & face moisturizer nightly

goal #2: improve hair

hair gloss every 4-6 weeks

trim every 2-4 months as needed

stop habit of touching hair and scalp

goal #3: improve overall health

exercise at least 4x per week (to start)

cut down on sugar intake ; replace excess sugar with whole foods

aim for 9 hours per night ; develop evening routine

improve posture through mindful correction when sitting and exercising

goal #4: read more often

make specific reading goals

replace mindless scrolling with reading

goal #5: improve overall mental health & peace

meditate at least 4x per week to start, gradually moving to daily

full day of social media detox once a week

prioritize actions and thoughts that bring happiness

goal #6: improve self confidence

experiment with hair, makeup, and clothing to find what suits me best

prioritize self care and acts of self love (taking time to myself, setting boundaries, protecting my peace)

[reasonsforhope]

"Earth, being 71% covered in water, is influenced by the ocean and its movements. In the Atlantic Ocean, a system of connected currents, called the Atlantic Meridional Overturning Circulation (AMOC), moves water throughout the world's oceans powered by a combination of winds and ocean density. It not only distributes the ocean's heat, moisture, and nutrients, but regulates the Earth's climate and weather.

As the climate is continuously changing and the atmosphere is warming, many scientists fear that fresh water from melting polar ice sheets could significantly disrupt—or collapse—the AMOC. While a decline of the AMOC would have grave consequences, a collapse would be truly catastrophic.

However, studies about the AMOC's long term future are uncertain. Instead of predicting the future, a team of scientists from Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution (WHOI) quantified the past to help inform where we could be going.

In a new paper published in Nature Communications, scientists found that the AMOC has not declined in the last 60 years.

Authors [...] say their results mean that the AMOC is currently more stable than expected.

"Our paper says that the Atlantic overturning has not declined yet," said Foukal, who conducted the research while at WHOI. "That doesn't say anything about its future, but it doesn't appear the anticipated changes have occurred yet."

Their findings contrast with previous work, notably a paper from 2018 cited in their study, which reported that the AMOC has declined over the last 70 years. This past work relied on sea surface temperature measurements to understand how the AMOC has changed, but "we've learned that sea surface temperature doesn't work as well as initially thought," said Terhaar, who began leading this study at WHOI as a postdoctoral scientist and completed the work in Bern.

To address the uncertainty, Terhaar and the team relied on new data from the Coupled Model Intercomparison Project (CMIP), climate-earth models produced by the World Climate Research Program. They used 24 different CMIP models and found that the most recently available surface temperature data did not accurately reconstruct the AMOC.

Going a step further, the researchers looked at a different measure: air-sea heat fluxes, which is the exchange of heat from the ocean to the atmosphere. When the AMOC is stronger, more heat is released from the ocean to the atmosphere over the North Atlantic...

The authors derived this AMOC proxy with the CMIP models, then applied it to observational data. The best data for surface heat fluxes over the North Atlantic come from reanalysis products that incorporate direct observations into a model, similar to the way weather forecasts work. The study authors focused on two reanalysis data sets that extend back to the late 1950s to reconstruct the AMOC.

"Based on the results, the AMOC is more stable than we thought," Vogt said. "This might mean that the AMOC isn't as close to a tipping point as previously suggested." ...

As with all proxy-based reconstructions, there are limitations and caveats. The authors point out that direct measurements of air-sea heat flux going back in time are sparse, and thus the reanalysis products contain significant uncertainty. However, despite these limitations, "a decline in AMOC over the last 60 years," Terhaar concludes, "seems very unlikely.""

-via Phys.org, January 15, 2025

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Note: Sorry the article's kind of dense/opaque, couldn't find a better one. But I can't underline enough how much "the AMOC is not declining" would be a HUGE relief, climate-wise.

[olivialivvy17]

Racing to the beat - Daniel Ricciardo

summary: Daniel gets a new teammate in VCRB, a F2 female championship winner for the 2025 season. What he didn't expect was her to be extremely genz and a kpop fan.

pairing: fem rookie driver!reader x Daniel Ricciardo

AU: Social media!AU and Written!AU

warnings: mentions of anxiety, swearing, use of yn, hate comments, reader is 25.

face claim: Amna Al Qubaisi for professional f1 photos, the rest are from pinterest.

wc: 617

a/n: hii guyss, sorry for a late update. haven't been really inspired to write. I hope you enjoy this part, I'm not the best at writting but I'm trying my best fr. okay love you lots <333

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user9 oh how I love women

user10 a duo we needed so bad😩

alexandrasaintmleux I had a blast! can't wait to see you again 🫶🏻

ynusername love you gf <3

user11 hello my clothes were just on 😔

lilymhe we need to meet up soon!

ynusername omg Lilly, omg omg. yes, yes we have to. omg you're so pretty🫶🏻

lilymhe you're so pretty too! and like such a good driver! ❤️

ynusername ❤️❤️ im freaking out rn❤️❤️

user2 Yn is so real for this😭😭

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charles_leclerc turns out we won't be only competing for that championship

ynusername I fear Alex is my gf now (I'm joking media manager)

danielricciardo going out with Alexandra before me? I might be heartbroken💔

ynusername noooooooo I promise we'll hang out before the first race, I just need to settle in Monaco rn

danielricciardo I'm holding you to that mate

ynusername yes sir🫡

user8 I might have a new favorite duo

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user13 we need an album collection asap girl

olliebearman I miss listening to your broken Korean singing 😭

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visacashapprb boss said we might need to start media training you

ynusername nooo boss i promise I'll behave. I promise🙏🏻

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16.03.2025. Australia, Melbourne

“Get your shit together” you said to yourself in the mirror. Standing in the RB  garage bathroom, gripping the sink with all your strength while trying to tame the boiling anxiety coursing through your body. It's officially the first race day and all the fears and doubts came crashing down on you. It’s normal to be nervous on the first day, you said to yourself, but is it normal to be physically nauseous? Probably not, but here we are. “You can do this Yn, you know what you're capable of” you keep repeating out loud like a mantra, hoping it will stop the burning and sinking feeling in your stomach.

A voice calling out your name snapped you out of the spiraling daze. “Are you in there?” said a voice you recognize as your race engineer. “Yeah, give me a second i'll be out” you shout from the other side of the door. Receiving a ‘Okay’ from them as you turn on the faucet and put your clammy hands under the cold water. Urgently splashing your face, hoping to bring you out the anxiety induced haze. Straightening up, you dab the moisture off your face and discard the paper towel. Fixing your tied back hair and the race suit that's zipped up to your hips. With a more of a shaky chuckle, you flash thumbs up to yourself in the mirror and whisper “You got this girl” before unlocking the bathroom door and stepping out to the bustling and roaring garage.

Walking back to your side of the garage, you spot Daniel speaking to one of your engineers. “There you are” spoke the familiar Aussie accent as you two made eye contact, seeing his infectious smile only made the corner of your lips twitch upwards. “How are you feeling, everything okay?” said Daniel as you approached the screens where he's standing. With a nervous chuckle, you spoke “Honestly, anxiety is gnawing at my insides, but I've pep talked myself in the mirror so hopefully I won't spiral completely” as you shifted your gaze from the screen to him. The Aussie had a soft and understanding expression on his face as he reassured you in a comforting tone “You're gonna be just fine, trust me” as he placed his hand on your shoulder “I know how you feel and that's completely valid. Nerves mean you care—use them. Trust your prep, feel the car, and have fun. The first race is unforgettable. You’ve got this, you're a good driver and you know it.”. The way his tone was sincere and caring and that warm smile and the grounding hand on your shoulder made the burning pit in your stomach slightly fade away. With more confidence in your stance, and that smile finally appearing on your face, you thanked him “Thank you for saying that, you don't how much it means to me. I promise to give it my best and not let the fear swallow me whole,” you end the sentence with a soft chuckle. With a chuckle of his own, his arms wrapped around your shoulders as he pulled you in a reassuring and warm embrace, patting your back gently. Your hands instinctively found their way onto his upper back, mimicking his patting motion.

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user17 rb better upgrade that car, cuz my girl can place so much higher

user18 for a rookie, she's good

f1 Yn slayed on that track!

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danielricciardo Amazing first race Yn!

ynusername couldn't do it without my great teammate🥹

[jazzthatonewriterchick]

DRABBLE: HE & YOU ON WASH DAY 🫧 (18+) (JJK) (For Black!Fem!Readers)

Writer’s Note: I came up with this little Drabble after seeing a video of a Black girl teaching her white BF how to wash, moisturize, derange & do her hair. It was soooo CUTE & stuck in the back of my head, so I decided to let my inspiration flow. Thank God too cuz i realize i haven’t written a Drabble in literally FOREVER. I’ll make an effort to put out more before 2025 comes. I hope y’all enjoy!

I also tried to incorporate different types of Black hairstyles, textures & types for each character. All comments are welcome on front (but keep it respectful). Thank you & again, enjoy! -Jazz 🥰

*******

GOJO

This man swears he knows what he’s doing.

You’ll admit that Gojo is good at everything: singing, dancing, gaming, cooking, fighting, yapping…especially yapping. He’s also good at being a boyfriend. He is the most attentive, affectionate, loving man you’ve ever met and you’re so grateful to have him—the handsome, sexy, popular Gojo Satoru—as your partner.

He manages to help you with everything else you don’t have enough time to get to or are having trouble with, such as cooking and cleaning. What’s the difference between that and washing your hair, he wonders? When you tell him that your hair is much different and requires a traditional regime that could last HOURS, Gojo just waves you off.

“Baby, c’mon,” he scoffs, holding you in his lap and squeezing you to him as if you’ll disappear. “Don’t you know who I am? I’m good at everything. You think I can’t help you out with your pretty hair?” He gives you a big, confident, gigawatt smile that makes you melt.

“You sure?” You ask, your arms wrapped around his neck as he places his hands on your hips. He rocks you in his arms like you’re his baby…which you are. He always shows that any chance he gets. “‘Cause it’s a job, ‘Tarou. My hair isn’t like yours.”

Gojo scoffs, running a hand through the maze of dark kinky twists that is your hair. “Obviously,” he chuckles. “And I love that. I love your hair and I wanna help you take care of it! C’mon, what’s the rocket science in washin’ hair?”

But that self-assurance and cockiness quickly fades when you show him all the products you use for your hair, explaining each one in great detail. Then you show him the proper way to wash your hair which results in him getting water all over himself and the floor. Then, once you’re done, you try to show him how to detangle, moisturize, and cornrow your hair with a comb but to also rely on your fingers to do the work.

By the time you finish, you do most of the work while Gojo sits there looking like you just tried to explain to him why the Earth is flat. Poor baby’s blue eyes are so wide that you’re afraid they’ll roll out of his skull. He is down in the dumps afterward, snuggling into your chest. “I’m sorry, babe,” he mutters into your boobs. “I fucked up. I’m no good at this shit.”

You coo to him, running a hand through his white locks. “Satoru, baby, it’s not a big deal—“

“Yes the fuck it is!” He protests, sitting up to look at you. “You’re my girlfriend! I should know how to do your hair! But don’t worry; I’m gonna learn all about this if it fuckin’ kills me.”

And he makes you hold him to that. Not the type to give up or give in, Gojo spends the next week learning everything there is to know about Black hair: your type of hair; how to take care of it; if creams or oils work best to keep it moisturized; how to cornrow for beginners, etc. You let him drag you to the hair supply store to buy products and practice on you, giggling to yourself about how cute he is trying to do all of this for you.

After two weeks, you and Gojo go for round two. This time, you let him take the reins washing your hair. He is attentive and delicate with your hair, his long fingers scrubbing and massaging the shampoo in. You find yourself sighing at the feeling, melting at his touch. “You like that, baby?” He asks among the running water.

Chuckling when you hum in agreement, he presses a kiss to the back of your neck as you stand bend over the sink. “Y’know, I could always relax you more with somethin’ else,” he whispers.

That’s when you feel his very obvious hard dick pressing against your ass. You gasp, reaching back to swat him. “Gojo!” You whine. “You freak!”

��What?” He protests, grinning. “Ya can’t blame me for gettin’ hard by this! You look hot with your natural hair, babe, and runnin’ my hands through it is even better. It’s so soft and pretty, like you!” He grinds his hips into your ass, giving you a feel of the hot bulge pressing against his sweatpants. And you know he’s free-balling, the slut. No boxers at all!

“Y’know,” he says, his voice sultry and teasing, “all I have to do is pull these little shorts down and—“

“Uh-uh!” You shout, tossing some soapy water at him. He dodges it effortlessly. “Not while you’re supposed to be helpin’ me, asshole! Now maybe if you do a good job with my hair, we can do somethin’ about your very big problem.” You bend over the sink again, giggling when you brush your ass against Gojo’s hard dick and emit a groan from him.

And ‘do a good job’ he does, surprisingly. After you wash and condition your hair with his help, Gojo sits you down between his long legs and towel dries your hair before helping you successfully moisturize and plat it in small, wet cornrows going down your scalp.

This takes about an hour and during it all, Gojo is patient and loving with your hair. He detangles each knot with a comb, delicately threads each strand of hair, and doesn’t complain about how long it takes.

And you fall more in love with him during that hour.

Once done, he sits on the edge of the bed like a patient dog waiting for its treat while you admire his work in the mirror. After a few seconds, you slowly turn to him and smile. “Not bad,” you comment. “Not bad at all.” He breaks out into a gigantic grin. “I told you!” He laughs before yanking you over.

You giggle as you fall into him, straddling his lap. “Now, what’s about you doin’ somethin’ about my ‘very big’ problem?” He whispers, grinding his hips up into yours. Sure enough, he’s still hard. Pressing a slow kiss to his lips that steals your breath, you sneak your hands down to untie his sweats. “Let me show you,” you whisper. “After all, you did just a good job for me.”

Many hours later, after making him cum his brains out down your throat and putting you into the mattress, Gojo wants to be part of your wash days ALL THE TIME now.

CHOSO

This cutie patootie wants to know everything and anything about your beautiful hair. He loves it soooo much!

He loves staring at it and watching how it glows in the sunlight. He loves how bouncy your curls are when you walk. He loves running his hands through it when you kiss (though most of the time, he’s afraid to touch it in fear of ruining it).

Any time he catches you sitting in the bathroom doing your hot oil treatment, he asks so many questions:

“Why do you need to wear that big-ass helmet?”

“If you use hair grease and hair oil, won’t that oversaturate your hair?”

“How do you do this every single day? Doesn’t that get tiring?”

“Why don’t you let me help you one day?”

You love your hair too. It took you years to grow and maintain it, so you take your long, bouncy curls very seriously. So you have your own regime, especially when drying and setting your hair once it’s clean.

When you explain all of this to Choso at the hair supply store, the man looks like you’re trying to explain another language to him. “What does ‘set’ mean?” He asks as you drag him to the hair care aisles. “What does that have to do with washing your hair?”

“No, no, no,” you hurriedly say, searching the shelves for that one scalp grease that you always use. You ran out, so that’s why you dragged Choso out of the house to go get more plus a new bonnet and a comb because your favorite one broke.

“That comes AFTER I wash my hair. ‘Setting’ means sectioning and putting my hair in curlers so they come out the way you like.”

Choso stops with his hand still in yours, standing between some shelves of creams and some shelves of shampoo. You turn to him, confused. “What? Baby, you agreed to help me! We’re losin’ daylight here!”

You motion to the outside where the sun is shining and the sky is blue. “The way I like?” Choso parrots. You blink, perplexed. “You said you set your hair so it comes out how I like,” he clarifies. “Do you not like it when your hair comes out another way?”

He cocks his head to the side, his pierced brow quirked slightly. You feel yourself grow hot with embarrassment in his black hoodie that you “borrowed” (stole, but he gave it to you anyway, loving how it looks on you instead) from him.

“Uh…w-well, no girl likes it when her hair doesn’t come out right,” you mutter. “I just like it when my hair looks pretty…y’know…sexy.”

Choso’s expression softens, making him look so much like a soft-eyed teddy bear despite his tattoos and piercings. He is aware of your slight love-hate relationship with your hair when it’s not ‘hair-ing’ right.

You love it when your curls are the right length and bounce. It makes you feel so feminine and sexy. Sexy enough to let Choso pull on them during sex and run his fingers through it during a sloppy, slow make-out session.

Not when it’s frizzy. Not when you just get it wet and it shrinks back to its natural itty-bitty kinks. Not when it’s—

“Stop it.” As if he can hear your thoughts, Choso puts his hands on your shoulders and gently coaxes you to look up at him. Into his pretty, gray eyes. “You know damn well I love your hair no matter what it looks like,” he softly says. “You should too, babydoll. Don’t sweat that shit.”

He takes your hand and puts it on his head, right between his spiked ponytails. “You think I give a fuck about what my hair looks like all the time?” He asks, smirking.

You cluck your tongue against the roof of your mouth. “Yeah,” you mutter, “but you’re a guy! And Black hair is much different than yours. A-And there’s so many different types and—Mmph!”

You moan in surprise as Choso’s lips suddenly press against yours, silencing you. His lip ring pushes against your bottom lip, cool and enticing. It grounds you.

When you pull away, he brushes your nose with his in an Eskimo kiss—one thing he only does in private because of how “cutesy” it is. “You feel better now?” He asks. You nod, winded from his kiss.

“You gonna let me buy you your shit and not have a panic attack in the middle of the store?” He asks. Once again, you nod, a smile stretching onto your lips.

“And you’re gonna remember you’re my pretty little girlfriend no matter what, right?” He whispers, sliding a hand against your ass as you both start to walk again.

You nod, wrapping your arm around his waist. “Mmm-hmm,” you shyly hum. “And you’re my hot little boyfriend.” You slide your hand down to his ass, squeezing it.

Choso blushes hot red, tsking. “I’m not little,” he grunts, making you laugh.

GETO

Admittedly, Geto has never thought too much about hair….that is until he met you.

He couldn’t get enough of your beautiful, long braids that swayed in the breeze. How they accentuated all of the shapes, lines, and features of your pretty face. How you wore it up, down, twisted…even braided! He didn’t even know you could braid braids! But when you showed up on your first date with the black coils in one big French braid, he was sold as yours and yours alone.

He didn’t know you could wash braids too without taking them out, but now he does. When he comes home from running errands (gym and picking up some lunch), he hears the shower running and you humming to Giveon, which means you're still washing your hair.

He smiles, placing the paper bag of stir fry and your favorite drink on the counter. “Baby!” he calls. “Food’s here!” He takes off his shoes and puts them at the door, just about ready to get some water after his vigorous workout when he hears something fall and your pretty voice yelp in pain.

“Ow!” you shriek. Geto quickly springs into action, running up the steps in his polo socks and gym shorts. He nearly slips across the floor and breaks his neck when he gets to the bathroom. “Baby?” he calls. “Baby, what happened? Did you fall?”

You're standing in the shower in your soaked bra and panties, sudsy, foamy shampoo running down your braids. “No, worse!” you groan, holding your left eye. “I got shampoo in my eye! God fuckin’ dammit, that burns!”

You try to grab a towel, but Geto stops you. “Uh-uh, don’t move,” he orders. “Let me do it." He helps you out of the running shower and holds your wet braids back for you. "Lean your back head.” You do so and he wets a washrag before dabbing it on your eye.

After a minute, your eye stops stinging and you're able to open it. Geto dabs away water and soap dripping down the side of your face. “Bad hair wash day, I’m assuming?”

You nod, huffing in embarrassment and frustration. “One of my braids smacked me in the face and I almost went blind. This is usually a messy job, so I do ‘em in the shower.”

Geto stares at you in confusion, puzzled by what you mean. “So you...wash your braids?” he curiously asks. “How does that work?” He looks like a puppy being taught a new trick and you find it so endearing.

“Oh, you just massage the shampoo in the scalp and down the braids,” you explain, motioning to your scalp. “It gets the gunk from hair product and dirt out. Then I put my braids down to let the water wash everything out.” You sigh, rubbing your sore forearm. “My arms are so tired though,” you groan.

You've been at this for almost an hour now since Geto left to run errands and have barely gotten through it yet. Then you still have to blowdry your braids to make sure your entire scalp is dry which makes another whole hour. Noticing the stressful look on your face, Geo decides he doesn' like i and wans o help his baby a any cos. “Lemme help you then.”

You blink a him, watching as he takes off his socks and begins washing his hands under he showerhead. “What?!” you exclaim. “Sugu, baby, no, i-it’s fine! It’s not a two-person job and you’ll get your clothes all wet and—“

“Who said anythin’ about clothes?” he cuts in. He gives you a humored smile as he begins to peel off his white tank top. “That’s a silly thought, but a cute one.” Flashing his pearly whites at you, he strips off his shirt, revealing his perfectly-defined, toned upper and lower torsos. Your eyes roam over his squeezable pecs, both nipples pierced, big, inked arms, washboard abs, and cut V-line and sides littered in tattoos. He’s truly a beautiful specimen, your boyfriend.

As he tosses his shirt to the side, you suddenly don’t want to wash your hair anymore. Instead, you’d like to wash Geto’s delicious body, see it drip with water and soap, and then do it all over again because you end up fucking each other instead. “B-but…your hair,” you weakly protest. “It’ll get all wet.”

Geto smiles, pulling a hairband out of his pocket and tying his long hair up in a bun. That only arouses you more. “Hush, my love,” he coos, pressing a finger to your lips. You resist the urge to suck on it. “Don’t worry about me—worry about these gorgeous braids.” He takes your hand and guides you into the shower. While you stand near the running water, he stands behind you, making your entire body feel hot and tingly. “Just tell me what to do.”

The hair-washing process only happens for about ten minutes. As soon as you feel Geto’s thick fingers massaging your scalp and running through your braids, gentle and careful, your pussy flips into overdrive and gushes in your panties. Soon, your undies come off, Geto’s shorts come down, and hands are roaming over body parts and skin. Lips are on lips, tongues are swirling together, his hands are on your ass, and yours are all over him.

Soon, that somehow leads to him picking you up and fucking you against the shower wall, your moans swallowed up by the water and Giveon playing on your phone. His cock drives deliciously in and out of you as his hips grind against yours, your legs and arms tightly wrapped around him. “I didn’t know this was a part of your routine, baby,” he pants in your ear. “But if it is, count me the fuck in.” His hand is in your hair, your braids wrapped around his fist. “Want me to tug ‘em harder, mama?”

“Yes!” You desperately shout. “Yes, Sugu, please! I’m so close!” You can feel your cunt spasming around him, your hand slipped between you and him to rub your clit in time with his thrusts. Geto picks up the pace, his yummy moans and grunts filling the steamy shower as he pounds your pussy against the shower wall. “Pull my hair,” he pleadingly says. “Do it hard, baby. I’m ‘bout to cum too.”

You do as he says and dig your fingers into his hair, tugging on the wet, black locks. He groans at the feeling, his eyes fluttering shut and his handsome face screwed in ecstasy. Seeing him like that makes you cum instantly, a high-pitched moan of his name leaving your lips.

His own orgasm is triggered too and quickly pulls out before cumming in unison with you all over your thighs and the shower wall. His lips swoop yours up in a hot, slow tongue-kiss that makes your intense orgasm that much more explosive as your body loses tension and you feel like mush.

Finally, Geto pulls away, his eyes hooded and a lazy smile on his face. “Oh, look,” he chuckles. He points to your wet braids and his dripping hair. “All clean.”

NANAMI

He can’t get enough of your Afro.

Seriously. He stares at it any chance he gets. On his free time, when he isn’t working or telling Gojo to leave him alone, Nanami is calculating the circumference of your perfectly-round, full Afro and how long it takes you to get it in such a perfect, round shape. How does it defy gravity the way it does? Does it ever deflate? What do you do to make it so soft? He often wonders this when you allow him to touch it. He feels so blessed that you bestow such an honor to him.

He realizes later that maintaining such a beautiful hairstyle is a lot of work. One day, on a boring Sunday that is meant as your “self-care” day, he watches you as you sit near the kitchen sink in a chair, your thick hair sectioned into four parts with scrunchies. He’d laugh at such the cute yet silly look you’ve got going on if you didn’t look so sad and defeated doing it. You’ve only gotten through one part, washing it by hand with shampoo.

Wanting to make things easier for his love, Nanami moves behind you and wraps his arms around you from behind. “You look so tired, my love,” he sighs. “Why don’t you let me help you?” You look up at him, confused. Nanami has watched you wash your hair a couple of times to know what you do and what you use.

He first coaxes you to stand up and turns the chair around so you’re facing away from the sink. After filling the sink up with warm water, he rolls his sleeves up to his forearms, much to your liking, and lathers his hands up in your favorite lavender-mint-rosemary shampoo. He takes one part of hair out of your scrunchie and proceeds to scrub it, lathering it in the soap. He does the same to the others, massaging your scalp in the process.

Your eyes flutter closed at the feeling of his skillful and careful hands in your hair, your body relaxing in your chair. “Oh,” you moan. You haven’t had anyone wash your hair for you since your mother when you were young. And to have your partner, who isn’t Black, do such a good and careful job with your hair is such a sweet gesture of your kind of love language.

“That feels nice?” He asks, happy to hear the sound. You press your lips into a thin line, humiliated by the sound slipping out of your mouth. “Don’t be embarrassed,” he chuckles. “I want you to relax. Wash days should be relaxing, not…” He pauses, searching for the right word.

“Fuckin’ stressful?” You offer, sighing as the warm water cascades over your scalp. “Yeah, but you’re not the only carryin’ around a big ass ball of hair on your head.” Nanami laughs, pressing. Kiss to your forehead. “A beautiful ball of hair, actually.” He works the water through your hair from root to tip, taking gentle care of each strand of your hair. You melt into his touch, falling in love with him deeper and deeper.

Once he finishes washing your hair, he empties the sink of all of the water and tells you to lean back so your hair can drip into the sink. “This actually kinda feels like a spa,” you giggle. Maybe you can give me a massage after this.” Nanami chuckles, flinging the water and suds off of his hands before chastely kissing you on the lips. “Let me get the towel.”

You keep your eyes closed as he leaves and quickly returns with a towel. First, he lathers your hair up in conditioner, gently massaging your scalp with the thick, creamy, floral-scented substance. Then, suddenly, you feel something cold over your eyes and hear the sound of relaxing flute music playing from somewhere. “What are you doin’, sir?” You giggle.

You feel Nanami’s lips ghost over your ear, sending chills down your spine. “Shh, no talking at the spa” he whispers. His hands are firm yet gentle as they press into your temples while your hair drips into the sink. “Can I get you a drink, miss? Perhaps you’d want massage here?” He begins to trail his fingers down your neck, each place his fingers touch leaving a trail of fire. “Or maybe…here?”

He trails down to your shoulders, giving you a firm rub. As he does, your nipples harden beneath your sports bra and your sweats suddenly feel entirely too tight. “You’re getting warmer,” you purr. A soft, seductive hum comes from Nanami’s throat that drives you insane as his hands trail down to your chest.

“You mean…here?” He gently cascades his hands over your breasts, brushing against your hard nipples beneath the thin material of your sports bra.

His hands then go back up to your shoulders, teasing you. You whimper, desperate for attention. “That’s not fair,” you whine. “You’ve got me all warm now.” Your boyfriend chuckles, his fingers kneading your shoulder muscles. “I thought that was the point.” He suddenly pauses. “Or…do you mean…”

You take the cold compress (which you find is an eye mask) off of your eyes to look up at your man and slowly move your hand to cup his cock. To your joy, you find that he is semi-hard. Nanami tuts but keeps your hand on his dick. “Miss, this is very improper for a spy,” he says, mock-offended. He leans down toward you, his minty breath fanning across your face. “But I suppose I could make an exception for you.”

He leans in closer, closer, and you think he’s going to kiss you. You lean up, desperate for his lips on yours. “After I condition, dry, moisturize, and grease your hair,” he adds. He turns the water on again and puts the eye mask back on your eyes. “What?!” You squeak. “Kento, nooo, pleeeease!” Your pussy throbs in desperate, insisting that he touches you right here, right now.

Nanami presses a finger to your lips, silencing you. “No whining,” he says. “Besides, all good things come to those who wait, my love.” He presses a kiss to your forehead before you feel the warm water on your hair rinsing out the conditioner. “Now enjoy your spa session.”

You do. You enjoy all of the work Nanami does on your hair, including what you instruct him to do. But truth be told, you enjoy the work he does on your body two hours later in the comfort of your bedroom.

With your hair safely wrapped up in a towel and bonnet for extra protection, your leg is tossed over Nanami’s broad shoulder as his hips piston into yours, his cock stroking your insides and his fingers teasing your clit. “Told you good things come to those who wait,” he grunts. “Are you gonna cum for me now?”

You vigorously shake your head, staring up with heart eyes at the handsome blonde above you. “N-No!” You whimper. “Not until you say, Daddy! I promise!”

Nanami smiles and presses a kiss to your ankle that nearly has you combusting all over the sheets. “That’s my good, pretty girl.” Your boyfriend has now become a new and important addition to your wash days.

[glowettee]

the glowletter: january edition | mindy's monthly newsletter

𝓇𝑜𝓂𝒶𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒸𝒾𝓏𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒻𝓇𝑒𝓈𝒽 𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓇𝓉

hi, loves 💌

welcome to the very first glowletter of the year! january is such a soft, hopeful time. a blank page for new routines, gentle habits, and glowing transformations. this month’s glowletter is all about finding magic in the little things, building dreamy routines, and stepping into 2025 with love and intention. this newsletter is a little late, but it took me ages to build. this is going to be a new addition to my blog, a monthly newsletter! this was heavily inspired by an idol of mine @malusokay she's been such a motivator for me when it comes to creating coquette blogs, and her newsletter is absolutely adorable. this newsletter was made from the heart and took ages to plan out. thank you malu for giving me the inspiration to make this <3 - mindy

monday motivations

start your week with soft whispers of inspiration:

affirmation of the week “every day is a new beginning, and i am blooming into my best self.” 🌷

quote to inspire “what the new year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the new year.” – verne mckee

gentle productivity tip try romanticizing your to-do list: use a pink gel pen, add little hearts, and start with one dreamy task (like journaling) before diving into the day.

glow-up goals

soft, beautiful routines to guide your january glow-up:

morning routine inspiration

wake up early with your favorite coquette playlist or soft piano music.

write 3 gentle intentions for the day in a blush-pink journal.

sip rose tea or vanilla almond milk while gazing out the window.

finish with a mini stretching session to awaken your body and mind.

night routine inspiration

double cleanse your face, apply a rosewater mist, and finish with a silky moisturizer.

light a vanilla or lavender candle and dim the lights.

reflect on 3 beautiful moments from your day.

wind down with a coquette novel—“little women” or “jane eyre” are perfect.

monthly task create a “soft routines tracker” to stay consistent with your new habits. decorate it with pastel stickers or delicate doodles for extra charm.

glowletter's monthly playlist

“soft beginnings” 💕

this month's playlist is filled with soft, romantic tunes to set the mood for journaling, studying, or cozy mornings:

“champagne problems” – taylor swift

“first love / late spring” – mitski

“love” – lana del rey

“la vie en rose” – édith piaf

“dreams tonite” – alvvays

✨ listen on spotify here: 𐙚ᴶᵃⁿᵘᵃʳʸ ˢᵖᵒᵗˡⁱᵍʰᵗˢ𐙚 let these songs carry you through your month with warmth and inspiration 🌸.

moodboard/pinterest board

“romanticizing the new year” moodboard

january is all about soft coziness and delicate details. here’s a sneak peek of the glowletter pinterest board for this month:

pastel journals, delicate gold rings, and vintage teacups.

fluffy blankets, frosted window panes, and fairy lights.

classic novels stacked beside scented candles.

muted pink ballet flats and pearl-studded headbands.

✨ view the full board on pinterest here: January Moodboard: Romanticizing the New Year

here’s a little preview to inspire you:

exclusive resource/printable

your january glow-up habit tracker is here!

to keep your glow-up on track, download this month’s freebie—a beautifully designed habit tracker:

sections for daily hydration, morning & evening routines, and weekly reflections.

pastel pinks, and tiny heart motifs for that extra touch of elegance.

available as a pdf or png for easy printing or digital use.

✨ download here:

what mindy’s loving this january:

january feels like such a romantic month, and i’ve been leaning into cozy mornings and soft, intentional habits. here are a few little things i’ve been adoring:

journaling daily with rose-gold gel pens.

sipping earl grey tea with vanilla almond milk while planning my week.

adding mini affirmations to my mirror using pastel sticky notes.

reading “the art of stillness” and feeling inspired to slow down.

what’s something dreamy you’ve been loving lately? reply, reblog, or tag me. I’d love to hear your january glow-ups 💌.

it-girl must-haves

this month’s coquette essentials:

“the artist’s way” by julia cameron: a beautiful guide to creativity and self-discovery.

fresh sugar rose lip balm: adds that soft, natural glow to your lips.

silk pillowcases: for better skin, hair, and an extra touch of luxury.

dainty gold hoop earrings: timeless and chic with any outfit.

diptyque roses candle: the scent of fresh blooms to brighten your space.

journal prompts for january

soft reflections to guide your glow-up journey:

what are 3 things you want to nurture in your life this year?

describe your dream morning routine. how does it make you feel?

write a letter to your future self at the end of 2025.

self-care spotlight

this january, embrace bathing like a coquette queen 🌸:

add a few drops of rose or lavender essential oil to your bathwater.

sprinkle in dried rose petals or a pastel bath bomb.

sip a floral tea (like chamomile or hibiscus) while soaking.

play a calming playlist with soft piano or jazz.

end the experience with a silky body oil and your favorite cozy pajamas.

✨ pro tip: set up a bath tray with a candle, your journal, and a light novel for ultimate relaxation.

dreamy recipes

rose vanilla latte ☕ a cozy drink to keep you glowing this winter:

ingredients:

1 cup oat or almond milk

1 tsp vanilla extract

1 tsp dried culinary rose petals (or rosewater for food use)

1 tbsp honey (optional)

directions:

heat milk in a small saucepan until warm (don’t boil!).

stir in vanilla, rose petals/rosewater, and honey.

strain petals (if used) and pour into a mug.

top with a sprinkle of rose petals for decoration. ✨ enjoy this latte while journaling, planning your week, or reading a dreamy novel.

femininity tip of the month

january’s focus: graceful communication

practice speaking slowly and thoughtfully, adding warmth to your tone.

write thank-you notes or letters to friends and family, handwritten is extra special.

compliment someone sincerely (and specifically) to brighten their day.

avoid gossip or negativity; instead, uplift and inspire those around you.

✨ femininity starts with kindness! 💌.

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book of the month

this month’s pick: “the gentle art of swedish death cleaning” by margareta magnusson 🌷

a surprisingly light and heartwarming guide to decluttering your life and embracing simplicity.

perfect for starting the year fresh, clearing out emotional and physical clutter, and focusing on what truly matters.

pair this read with a cozy blanket and a soft lavender tea for the ultimate winter evening.

✨ alternatives: “the alchemist” by paulo coelho (for inspiration) or “the paris library” by janet skeslien charles (for coquette vibes).

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dreamy decor & organization

this month: organize your desk ✨

pastel stationery: use blush pink, baby blue, or cream-colored notebooks and pens.

floral or lace desk mats to soften your workspace.

a small vase with fresh or dried flowers (roses or baby’s breath).

gold or pearl-studded accessories for a luxurious touch.

light a mini candle or keep a scented diffuser nearby (vanilla or rose is perfect). ✨ creating an inspiring workspace will make studying, journaling, or planning feel magical.

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mini challenge of the month

january challenge: “one romantic act a day” 💕 each day, commit to doing one small, romantic gesture for yourself or others:

for yourself: journal with soft music, wear your prettiest pajamas, or buy yourself flowers.

for others: write a heartfelt letter, send an encouraging text, or bake something sweet for a loved one.

✨ at the end of the month, reflect on how these small acts of love brought more beauty into your life.

glowletter's horoscopes

for january 2025:

aries: you’re brimming with energy. channel it into starting that project you’ve been daydreaming about. try journaling your ideas over a lavender latte.

taurus: prioritize self-care this month. indulge in a silky sheet mask and a warm, floral-scented bath.

gemini: reconnect with friends by sending a handwritten note or planning a soft, cozy brunch date.

cancer: january is perfect for reorganizing your space. add a vase of baby’s breath to your desk for dreamy vibes.

leo: start the year with a creative glow-up. try a new hairstyle or a bold lip color. you’ll feel radiant.

virgo: focus on setting gentle, realistic goals. create a pastel checklist to track your progress.

libra: spend time nurturing relationships. write love letters to your closest friends and let them know how much you adore them.

scorpio: embrace the magic of slowing down. light a candle, read a book, and savor the stillness of winter evenings.

sagittarius: plan a dreamy mini-adventure. even a visit to a new café can spark inspiration.

capricorn: this is your season. set your intentions for the year with confidence. wear pearls for an extra touch of luck.

aquarius: let your imagination guide you. start a vision board filled with dreamy images of your future.

pisces: embrace your inner romantic, write poetry, paint something soft, or listen to dreamy music.

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✨ “what are your january glow-up goals?”

reblog this post and share your intentions. I’d love to hear your dreams for 2025!

don’t forget to check out the free printable and dreamy playlist, and tag me in your glow-ups, I’d love to see how you’re romanticizing january!

until next time, stay glowing and growing 🌸, mindy @glowettee

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[dewinthestars]

Entering Your Winter Era: Academic Comeback & Pulling It Together Before 2025

Winter is the perfect time to reset and embrace a quiet glow-up as we close out the year. Think cozy mornings, introspective nights, and a clear plan for the future. Here’s your blueprint to stepping into your winter era and setting the tone for 2025.

1. Romanticize the Season:

Winter is a metaphor for starting fresh. Build an environment that inspires you:

• String up fairy lights.

• Add plush blankets and warm-toned candles to your study space.

• Invest in a neutral-toned sweater or knit scarf for that coastal granddaughter chic.

• Play instrumental playlists or soft lo-fi for focus.

2. Prioritize Your Academic Glow-Up:

It’s never too late to make a comeback. These steps will keep you on track:

• Audit your goals: What do you really need to accomplish? Break it into small, actionable steps.

• Start a study system: Color-coded notes, study timers, and a refreshed planner are your best friends.

• Master the art of reflection: Weekly review sessions to celebrate wins and tweak your plans are key.

3. Lean Into Structure (But Leave Room for Rest):

End-of-year fatigue is real, but so is your potential:

• Morning routine: Even if it’s just tea, journaling, and 15 minutes of reading, a slow start can anchor your day.

• Evening wind-down: Keep a bedtime ritual. Think skincare, stretching, or reading instead of doomscrolling.

• Plan with intention: Use the last month to reflect on this year’s lessons and build a vision for 2025.

4. Aesthetic Self-Care as Self-Discipline:

When you look good, you feel good—and winter calls for a polished touch:

• Swap messy buns for sleek low ponytails or braided styles.

• Opt for minimal makeup: tinted moisturizer, a touch of blush, and gloss.

• Drink your water (but in a cute glass).

5. Romanticize the Academic Hustle:

• Rewrite lecture notes in a clean aesthetic format (perfect for study montages).

• Take yourself to a café or library for study sessions.

• Celebrate small wins with winter treats (hot cocoa and baked goods, anyone?).

6. Visualize the Future You’re Building:

Take this season as a time to reflect and prepare. Journal about:

• What you want your 2025 to look like.

• Who you’re becoming and what you’re leaving behind.

• How you’ll carry the magic of your winter era into spring and beyond.

[veesdiaries]

𝟔𝟎 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫'𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞…

and bum! in a blink of an eye… bye bye 2024, hello 2025! cant believe i'll be putting my christmas decorations back on in a couple of days!

now that time of the year starts when we feel the need to accomplish all the goals we have ignored for the 305 days, and as in every year we end up overwhelmed and disappointed! But all this happens for lack of organization and planning… here i came to give you a few tips to close 2024 with that good feeling of work done!

𝐏𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 -

gym/workout - i guess it is a canon event on everyone's lives having as goal: starting gym. Every year is the same thing, empty promises and if you're reading this; this year was nothing different. But you still have time, THOUGH no crazy diets or crazy workout routines, they'll just give you a fast burnout!

So why not start gym or working out 3 times per week? Or maybe pilates every morning? Yoga? There are unlimited options to move your body, you just need to find the perfect for you!

daily shower - never thought i had to say that but… SHOWER DAILY! please, please, please!

the shower trinity - exfoliate, shave, moisturize! exactly on this order ONCE per WEEK!

skincare - we all want a shining skin for the holidays makeups, what better than skincare? but keep it basic! no need of fancy products (unless they work good for you)! the essencial: sunscreen! no matter if isn't sunny, sunscreen is THE product that never MUST be out of your skincare routine!

facial massage - using gua sha or ur own hands, there are some videos on yt! and no, that shit isn't just a lie tiktok invented!

everything shower - once per week give yourself a princess day (mine is every sunday), do your nails, wash your hair, do face masks, exfoliate, shave… everything! usually i do all this on my sunday reset!

𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 -

journaling - putting your feelings out instead of keeping them in until the moment they blow up is the best thing you can do for your mental health! take a moment for yourself, take a breath and start to write all your thoughts, no filters! it can be in your notes app, your diary, a paper you'll burn later… but you owe this to yourself!

find a new hobbie - never too late to find a new passion, you can go trying all of your options until you find the one you most feel comfortable in doing! maybe cooking? or painting?

reading - this one could fit into the category above but i decide to put it apart. If you're like me and made a huge goal of books you wanted to read and haven't even touched a book this year… i feel you! You still have time to start your journey as a reader… maybe 10 minutes per day? Or bolder 5 books until christmas?

meditation - i confess i wasn't going to add it cuz i'm not very fan of it… but i know it is a goal a lot of people have! You can find some good meditation videos on yt or you can simply take a calm moment to take deep breaths and just enjoy forgetting your worries!

law of assumption - i know some people don't believe in it but i couldn't let it out of this list so fuck it! this shit change lives! i recommend SO MUCH for you to do some research about the theme, just stay away from the loa community on tiktok! here on tumblr there is the #loablr

have a to do list - end of the year can be very overwhelming for a lot of factors but mainly cuz you feel there's so much to do but so short time! a to do list can help you to keep track of the most important events (so you won't miss anything) and also give you that feeling of organization!

go on walks - adding this to my mental section cuz i think it fits well here! go on walks either alone or if you have a pet take them with you, walk around the block or go to a square! put your headphones on and enjoy the vibes, it's autumn, maybe the leaves are already orange where you live, weather is colder… romanticize it! evermore season after all lol

girls, for today that's it!! that's all the steps i thought for a good end of year though i might do a second post near december talking about the same thing but in a more reflection way! like goals and feelings!

(need some tips for the autumn fashion season? check this)

welcome november <3

xoxo, V ☆

[themindfulmind]

How to Mentally Glow Up in 2025: The Year of You

Let’s be real… 2025 is your time to shine, but not just on the outside. The real glow-up? It happens in your mind. A sharp, healthy, vibrant mentality isn’t just a flex—it’s the foundation for the best version of you. So buckle up, because we’re diving deep into how you can mentally glow up and take over the world (or at least your corner of it).

1. Purge the Mental Clutter

Imagine your mind as your room—would you want to hang out in there? If the answer is no, it’s time to declutter. Here’s how:

• Start journaling: Write down every negative thought, lingering insecurity, or limiting belief. Put it all out there. Then, reflect on how those thoughts are serving (or sabotaging) you.

• Practice forgiveness: Let go of grudges, even if it’s just for your own peace. Write letters you’ll never send or say “I forgive you” out loud to the universe.

• Create a “mental donation box”: Just like you’d donate old clothes, decide what thoughts and habits no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Release them.

Create a new life by creating a better, more mindful space of mind.

2. Curate Your Input

What you consume shapes who you are, so curate it like your personal Pinterest board.

• Social media: Follow accounts that inspire, teach, or make you laugh. Unfollow the ones that make you feel drained or insecure.

• Conversations: Surround yourself with people who add value to your life—those who uplift, motivate, and challenge you. Let go of energy vampires.

• Entertainment: Watch shows, read books, and listen to podcasts that expand your perspective. Make every scroll and screen time session intentional.

Your input should be a reflection of the person you’re becoming, not the person you’ve outgrown.

3. Romanticize Routine

Stop treating your daily life like a chore. Instead, make it a vibe:

• Morning rituals: Light a candle, put on a playlist, and make your coffee like you’re starring in a cinematic masterpiece.

• Self-care: Don’t just slap on moisturizer—massage it in while reminding yourself how stunning you are.

• Work: Set up your space with little touches that spark joy (a cute mug, fresh flowers, or a diffuser). Even your to-do list can look aesthetic with some color coding.

When you find beauty in the mundane, everything feels magical.

4. Invest in Self-Awareness

True growth starts with knowing yourself. Here’s how to dig deep:

• Meditation: Start with 5 minutes a day. You don’t need to be a pro—just sit quietly, breathe, and observe your thoughts without judgment.

• Journaling prompts: Explore questions like, What do I truly want? What am I afraid of? What brings me joy?

• Therapy: If it’s accessible to you, therapy is a game-changer. Having someone guide you through your thoughts can unlock levels of understanding you didn’t know you needed.

• Personality tools: Whether it’s Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, or astrology, these can give you insights into how you think and feel.

Self-awareness is like upgrading to 4K resolution—you start seeing everything clearly.

5. Embrace the “Soft Hustle”

We’re leaving grind culture in the past. The glow-up isn’t about working 24/7; it’s about aligning with your passions and values.

• Set “aligned” goals: Instead of chasing what society tells you to, ask yourself, What do I actually care about? Then focus on that.

• Prioritize rest: Rest is productive. Schedule downtime like you would an important meeting.

• Celebrate progress: Even baby steps count. Write down your wins, no matter how small, and acknowledge your growth.

Remember, working smarter doesn’t mean you’re slacking—it means you’re evolving.

6. Surround Yourself with Expanders

You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so choose wisely.

• Look for expanders: These are people who’ve done what you want to do, inspire you, or challenge you to grow.

• Create boundaries: If someone’s energy feels draining or toxic, it’s okay to step back. Protecting your peace isn’t selfish; it’s essential.

• Join communities: Whether it’s online or in person, connect with like-minded people who support your goals.

You deserve to be in spaces where your growth is celebrated, not diminished.

7. Celebrate the Small Wins

Progress isn’t always flashy, and that’s okay. Here’s how to make every step feel like a victory:

• Keep a “wins” journal: Write down something you’re proud of every day, no matter how small.

• Reward yourself: Finished a tough task? Treat yourself to your favorite snack or an episode of that show you love.

• Practice gratitude: Every time you achieve something, even if it feels minor, pause and thank yourself for showing up.

Success is built on the little moments, so don’t overlook them.

8. Rewrite Your Narrative

Your story is yours, and 2025 is the year you take the pen back.

• Shift your mindset: Instead of saying, “I’m behind,” say, “I’m exactly where I need to be.”

• Create affirmations: Write down empowering statements like, I am capable. I am resilient. I am becoming the best version of myself.

• Visualize your future: Spend a few minutes each day imagining the life you want. Picture every detail… the sights, sounds, and feelings. Then take one small step toward it every day.

You’re not stuck, you’re just starting. And the best part? You get to decide how the story unfolds.

2025 is the year of you. Glow up mentally, and everything else will follow. You’ve got this. Now go out there and shine so bright that even your past self is inspired. ✨

[southernsolarpunk]

Gardening goals for 2025!

Now that I’ve been in our new house for a year (well, it’ll be a year in February) I’ve figured out all the little microclimates of my yard and what will do best where! I’ve mentally divided up my yard into zones based on their microclimates.

Zone 1 (front yard)

This is the hottest part of the yard! In the front I plan to do a prairie style garden, with a couple of smaller trees and some shrubs to help keep the sun off the house, hopefully this will lower energy usage when it comes to AC in the summer. This will also muffle road noise, because we’re right up against the road and we get a lot of 18-wheelers on our road.

Zone 2 (left side of the yard)

I’ll use this as a transition area, continuing the prairie style garden but add a few more fruit & flowering trees/shrubs. I need trees/shrubs here because in my backyard I have seen lightning bugs and I want to shield their habitat from any light coming from the road, because any light disturbance can disrupt mating rituals. But I also get a lot of sun in this area too, and I need to again protect the house from the sun and also put species that like full sun. There’s a gate on our fence that opens into the neighbors yard and so if I get a lot of fruit it’ll be easy to bring her some!

Zone 3 (right side of the yard)

The property next to us is unused woodland, so this area doesn’t get a lot of sun and it stays pretty moist. This is where I put my pineapple guavas and I want to add some more shade loving plants. Definitely want to put some rhododendrons here. (I had one, but my brother in law beheaded it when he offered to come and cut the grass in the yard over the summer 😔)

Zone 4 (mid back yard)

This is the unwooded part of the back yard. I’ve put a couple of raised garden beds for my annual fruits and veggies, and I plan to eventually have 4 garden beds, and an outdoor lounge area. (Hoping to find an outdoor dining set at a thrift store, I’ve seen a couple at habitat for humanity. If my stepdad ends up getting a new set, I’ll ask for his old one)

This is where I’ve started planning some paths and in-ground garden beds, and this is where the yard will transition into a woodland/food forest garden. The backyard gets just about as hot as the front, and while a lot of plants in the summer enjoy the heat they don’t enjoy that much heat. I also want a moon gate for my purple passionflower vines that grow here.

Further to the back where we have more trees is the hole that I plan to put a wildlife pond, and where I see the most lightning bugs. I plan to just use the clay method to seal it (no plastic!) and even if it just becomes an ephemeral pond that’s still great for wildlife. I’ll add some native grasses to help the lightning bugs (they use grass to perch on during mating season) this is another moist area of the yard (which explains the lightning bugs, they like moisture during larval stages) so I’m hoping for some frogs & toads in the future.

Zone 5 (very back of the back yard)

(Nearly) Fully wooded, just not too overly dense in most areas. I have to get rid of some Chinese privet, Chinese honeysuckle, and Bradford pears that have germinated but it’s mostly natives. I’m going to thin the thicker areas and plant some native plants for wildlife and some nut trees. It’s far enough from the house that any large fruit trees will go back here. (Hurricanes are no joke, especially after Helene I want to be really cautious of keeping small trees near the house and large ones as far away as possible) this is the area that the rattlesnake incident happened! The paths from the mid-backyard will continue back here, and this is where I can put more shade-loving/tolerant native wildflowers. (Like our native iris, love her)

So the goals?

-get some native grass seed (big bluestem, little bluestem, purple love grass. Pink muhly grass, etc. I’ll take any suggestions from my fellow southerners)

-thin overcrowded trees

-use those logs ^ to line the paths (I get paths, and insects get homes, win/win!)

-get some more wildflower seeds! I’ve collected the more common ones, now I need to figure out some of the forgotten species that local wildlife might need

-get some baby trees. I posted before that I get a lot from Etsy, and that will continue. I tend to find native species fairly cheap on there. I also need to keep a look out for any deals going on at gardening centers.

-clear out invasives. The invasive privet is enemy #1 and it’s on sight cause they grow fast

[lovedumb]

good morning everypony!!

jan 05 2025 • of Montreal - The Party’s Crashing Us

today has been kind to me thusfar, i woke up today at 9am, brushed my teeth, washed my face, made my bed, and did little sun salutations in the sunlight before i smoked a bowl or went on my phone do u guys think i am a genius yet or whaaat? lolol. i want to read a book today methinks. ill have to clean all of the clothing piles in my room first tho bc i just cleaned everything else in my room and itll feel better to read if i can get in my little reading chair thats currently covered in junk lolol… keeping my space clean is too hard but i have motivation because my friend is coming over this weekend for con. Oh JEEZ CON IS THIS WEEKEND???? where does the time go.. its okay everything will come together.

i made plans to go rollerskating on tuesday with a friend i havent seen in a long while & i made plans on wednesday with someone i havent rly hung out with too much one on one before so hopefully that goes well :3 plus my gf is taking her drivers test so things are looking exciting in terms of new dates we can go on :D and not having to uber everywhereeeee. i need to apply for jobs today after ive done my other tasks and things. i should get dressed in something comfy and go to ralphs to get ingredients for a smoothie.. i got a blender for christmas and now i want an excuse to use it. AND i have a new minifridge in my room and it would feel good to put things in it.

my gf was at my house for a week so now i have to find ways to entertain myself and keep myself preoccupied on my lonesome and i want to not be on my ipad literally all day. i can do this! i feel well rested and soft (i moisturized my body before bed ^_^) so i have a good foundation for the day. maybe i can paint my nails and toes if i get really bored cleaning and need a break. it’ll be a good day. i miss my best friend a lot right now and i cant wait to talk to them again soon. they’re in the hospital rn but im taking extra good care of myself in hopes they’re doing the same, i love u. i cant wait to show you all the work ive been doing.

give yourself a big hug today,

love, lucky!!

[chicguides]

CHICGUIDES

Goals For 2025

Fresh starts for the New Year. Being 2 weeks into January, if you are anything like me, goals have been postponed until February. However, I am here today to help you (and I) to gain some motivation and set goals for the new year.

Build a Workout Routine

Building a consistent workout routine is beneficial for both your physical and mental health. You surprisingly find how refresh you feel once you establish a workout routine. Better said than done, staying consistent with habits is not easy. Don't forget! Eating healthy is also apart of keeping yourself toned bod!

Daisy Keech - 10 Minute Defined Hourglass Abs

Madeleine Abeid - 20 MIN Full Body Pilates

Cami Sophia - Pilates Princess | hourglass ab workout

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Stick to a Good Skin Care Routine

Our skin is so sacred and sensitive. Controlling breakouts and giving food to your skin from the outside in strengthens your skin barrier. While also slowing down the aging process, keeping a good skincare routine protects your skin from the ever-changing environment and seasons. Not just your face, but making sure you are washing and moisturizing your body is equally important too! It’s trial and error for sure. Finding the right products that keep yourself skin in harmony with each other. Try not to cake your face with products, that would promote break outs. The less the better. Figuring out your skin type is key to this!

Diet is an important factor for keeping your skin clear and glowy. Juicing is a great way to achieve this; improving gut health and increasing energy levels.

Juicing Recipes:

green apple , celery , spinach , lemon, cucumber | glowy skin

pineapple , celery , lemon , ginger | even skin tone

Build Positive Social Habits

As someone who’s an introvert, this used to be very difficult for me also. However, this is someone for everyone, romantically for not. Rejection therapy is the best type of therapy when you want to get over anxieties and fears (from experience). Complimenting people, saying good morning to people as you pass them on the street, or even asking a stranger an opinion on a dress you are considering buying. Starting to build your social capabilities will be essential for your adult years.

Build deep, meaningful, fulfilling friendship! Again, easier said than done but this is so beneficial to your individual growth as well as to your emotional maturity. Building lasting relationships are so beneficial to the soul.

Reading

Having an extensive vocabulary is so chic and elegant when speaking and writing. Adapt that chicness through reading. Everyone knows the properties of reading, therefore I hope not to let you know about them now, or else I deeply worry for you. Kidding.

In any case, filling any gaps in your day with reading a book that you enjoy poses many benefits.

Experiment with Your Style

This year, allowing your wardrobe to refelct more of who you are presents you as more of a confident person. Aligning with how you feel, your outfit gives insight into your personality. Whether it’s with prints, graphics, or accessories, your clothes show who you are.

In the new year, you could also aim to buy fewer, higher-quality pieces. Quality or quantity. Look for unique pieces that aren’t mass-produced and that will last. Encourage thoughtful shopping, you’ll end up with a wardrobe that has more meaning.

Focus on Academics & Career

Knowing where you want to go academically and professionally helps eliminate indecision, allowing you to prioritize what matters most.When setting clear academic or career goals, you become more motivated because you can see the purpose behind your efforts. That sense of purpose helps keep you focused, especially when challenges arise.

As you succeed in your pursuits, you'll feel more empowered, not just in your academic or career life, but in other areas as well. Along with the relationships you build along the way, this can lead to career advancements, partnerships, or even lifelong friendships. Having a strong professional network can give you a competitive edge!

[worldfushionshop]

Top 5 Best-Selling Nail Products on Amazon in 2025

The domain of nail care has become an integral facet of contemporary personal grooming, with e-commerce platforms such as Amazon serving as pivotal marketplaces for high-caliber nail products. In 2025, consumer demand for advanced, enduring, and environmentally sustainable nail care commodities has experienced exponential growth. This article conducts a critical analysis of the five preeminent best-selling nail products on Amazon, elucidating their key attributes, functional advantages, and the underlying factors contributing to their widespread consumer appeal.

UNA GELLA Soft Gel Nail Tips Glue

Rationale for Popularity UNA GELLA Soft Gel Nail Tips Glue is a market leader owing to its unparalleled adhesive strength and multi-functionality. This 15ml gel adhesive is engineered for application on acrylic nails, press-on enhancements, and nail extensions, ensuring a durable bond resistant to chipping and peeling. The formulation necessitates polymerization under a UV/LED lamp, facilitating a professional-grade finish with extended longevity.

Distinctive Features

Superior Adhesive Integrity: Suitable for both neophytes and seasoned professionals.

Precision Application: Equipped with a fine-bristled brush for meticulous usage.

Solvent-Based Removal: Enables facile detachment without inflicting damage on natural nails.

Consumer Perceptions Amassing over 12,000 reviews with an aggregate rating of 4.3 stars, this product is lauded for its resilience and user-friendly application. A substantial cohort of users asserts that it surpasses traditional nail adhesives, establishing itself as an indispensable tool for at-home nail artistry.

Beetles Gel Nail Polish Kit

Rationale for Popularity Beetles Gel Nail Polish has attained household recognition due to its dynamic pigmentation and professional-grade finish. This 15ml gel lacquer is an optimal selection for do-it-yourself manicures, featuring a robust, chip-resistant composition that cures effectively under UV/LED illumination.

Distinctive Features

Expansive Color Spectrum: Available in over 32 hues, spanning from neutral tones to electrifying neons.

Non-Toxic Formulation: Devoid of hazardous constituents such as formaldehyde and toluene.

Cost-Effective: Priced competitively at $6.99, catering to budget-conscious nail art enthusiasts.

Consumer Perceptions With an impressive 4.4-star rating and over 136,000 reviews, users extol its seamless application and saturated pigmentation. Many attest to its durability, with manicures maintaining integrity for up to three weeks without deterioration.

O’Keeffe’s Working Hands Hand Cream

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Distinctive Features

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Consumer Perceptions Boasting a 4.7-star rating with over 75,000 endorsements, this formulation is widely recognized for its efficacy in ameliorating cutaneous dehydration. Users highlight its ability to prevent nail fragility while fostering robust nail growth.

Cutex Strength Shield Nail Polish Remover

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Distinctive Features

Gentle Composition: Compatible with natural, gel, and acrylic nails.

Reinforcement Properties: Minimizes the risk of nail splitting and peeling.

Expedited Efficacy: Rapidly dissolves even highly pigmented polishes.

Consumer Perceptions Maintaining a 4.7-star rating with over 69,000 reviews, consumers commend its non-drying nature and palatable fragrance. Frequent users report significant improvements in nail resilience and overall health.

SUNUV UV LED Nail Lamp

Rationale for Popularity The SUNUV UV LED Nail Lamp is an industry-leading device for achieving salon-caliber manicures in a domestic setting. This 48W apparatus features multiple timer settings, facilitating the accelerated polymerization of gel polishes.

Distinctive Features

Expedited Curing: Completes gel polish polymerization within 30-60 seconds.

Ergonomic Construction: Compact and lightweight for convenient storage.

Universal Applicability: Compatible with all UV/LED-curable gel lacquers.

Consumer Perceptions With a commendable 4.6-star rating and over 51,000 testimonials, this device is extolled for its operational efficiency and durability. Consumers recognize its cost-effectiveness relative to professional salon visits, asserting its consistent delivery of superior results.

Key Differentiating Factors The preeminent nail care products on Amazon in 2025 exhibit several critical attributes that underpin their preeminence:

Unparalleled Quality and Durability: Each item is meticulously formulated to ensure superior performance, whether in terms of adhesion, pigmentation, or hydration.

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Conclusion The contemporary nail care industry is characterized by perpetual innovation, with emergent products emphasizing enhanced durability, user convenience, and self-expression. Whether catering to at-home enthusiasts or seasoned nail technicians, the top five best-selling nail products on Amazon in 2025 epitomize excellence in functionality and consumer satisfaction.

[argentcochon]

nobody asked but here’s the 2025 f1 teams ranked by how much therapy I expect the drivers to need at the end of the season. just based on the work environment, not really the cars. going from least to most.

10. Haas - estie looks moisturized and thriving, first female race engineer, the team prioritizes it’s drivers and their relationship with their teammates. only bump I can see is the fact that ollie is a rookie and has pretty high expectations, mixed with public perception of ocon as a teammate.

9. Aston Martin - there’s no shakeup in the team and probably not a championship hope unless newey literally becomes daedalus. alonso’s been hinting retirement but I don’t think that’ll impact the vibes in the garage too much. I don’t think it’ll be all good times but it’s better than most other teams.

8. Kick Sauber - generally unproblematic as far as as treating their drivers goes (historically, at least) but gabi’s skill combined with the generational shitbox I’m expecting this year isn’t looking too good. the transition to audi and reshuffling of staff probably won’t be easy either.

7. Williams - the only real concern I have is alex’s first real challenge of a teammate in a while + carlos mourning ferrari. other than that, it doesn’t look too bad for either of them. carlos is clearly taking on a team-leader role and is giving the mechanics good feedback.

6. Mercedes - kimi’s rookie year is either going to be generational, or totally underwhelming. either way, that kid’s facing a lot of pressure. george might have a chance of being a title contender this year according to some, but he also has to deal with 1) fia bullshit and 2) mentoring toto’s new golden boy.

5. Racing Bulls - yuki’s been fucked over by red bull for years, isack is a rookie, both of them have a reputation for aggressive language which the fia has indicated will not be tolerated this season, and to top it all off the shadow of helmut marko looms over this hellish team. besides, yuki is expected to be the reserve for red bull and might be subbed in for liam sometime during the season.

4. McLaren - the championship hope is promising, but it’s anyone’s game between oscar and lando. tensions and team orders will make for some good entertainment, but probably won’t be the best work environment. plus, oscar’s contract is up in 2026 if I’m not mistaken.

3. Ferrari - who’s going to be second driver? will the strategy be dogshit? will the cute dogs be enough to keep the collective will to live? so many questions and no good answers. good luck tifosi, you have my support (from way over here. not touching that shit).

2. Red Bull - max vs the fia, lawson vs max, newey gone, helmut marko never shutting the fuck up… I won’t be surprised if lawson is dropped mid season either. I will put money on the appearance of a lawson depression beard/mullet.

1. Alpine - praying for everyone. jack’s career is over before it started, somehow palpatine returned, and i’m not even sure franco’s job is safe with two more reserve drivers waiting in the wings. i hope someone pulls an oscar and gets the hell out of there, asap.

tl;dr my enemies will suffer and my comrades will thrive

[alebarpendent]

2025: Self-Care Era Pt.2

So ilang araw na ako nagiisip and nakakanuod ng random reels about it. So ayun, baka it’s a sign na kaya decided to invest in me. It feels good to prioritize myself for once, to really focus on the little things that make a big difference.

So I bought two more pillows!, ‘yung malambot + memory foam to get the restful sleep I deserve. Comfort Sleep is the best, kasama at kayakap nalang ang kulang. HAHAHA!. I also got new recovery slippers, perfect for reducing stress on tired feet and adding that extra bit of comfort throughout the day. I have 2 jobs, being a Chef and Events Security. Parehas hindi umuupo, lagi naglalakad at nakatayo. Kaya need talaga ng comfy slippers. Akala ko okay na ako sa Yeezy Slides pero mas comfy talaga if recovery slippers.

Nagstock na din ako ng deodorants—because feeling refreshed is such a mood booster + nakakadagdag pa ng confidence. ( wow, sales-talk yarn? )

Nakita ko lang ‘to doon sa napapanuod ko lagi na model na guy sa IG na may nilalagay sa buhok. So I bought na din organic hair oil to keep my hair healthy and shiny, plus a scalp massager ( na lagi lumalabas sa ads ) to make hair care routines na din.

Nagtry din ako kumuha ng water-based cream for natural looks and a water-based pomade for those days when I need to look extra presentable.

And of course, lastly but not the least skincare products. I used to only rely on a basic facial cleanser, but after some research, I’ve expanded my routine. Now I have moisturizer, pore pads, a salmon serum, niacinamide serum, and a must-have facial sunscreen. It feels so rewarding to commit to taking better care of your skin.

This haul isn’t just about the products—it’s a promise to myself. A promise to rest better, look after my body, and feel more confident. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s a necessity. Wala akong alam sa skin-care routine and stuff, baka pwede niyo akong turuan? HAHAHA! Anyway, Here's to the little things that help us feel like our best selves! 😊 Brands ng mga products na binili ko:

Pillows = Tempur-Pedic Memory Foam Pillow King-Size Slippers = Bronax Recovery Slippers Deodorant = Old Spice ( Wolfthorn ) Hair Oil = Mielle Organics Rosemary Mint Scalp & Hair Strengthening Oil  Scalp Massager = HEETA Shampoo Scalp Brush Massager Hair Cream = Brylcreem 3-in-1 Original High Shine Men's Hair Cream Hair Pomade = Suavecito Pomade Original Face Cleanser = Cerave SA Renewing Cleanser Facial Moisturizer = CeraVe Moisturizing Cream Pore Pads = Medicube Zero Pore Pads 2.0 Salmon Serum = BRÜUN SD - Control Salmon DNA Ampoule Niacinamide Serum = The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc Facial Sunscreen = SKIN1004 Madagascar Centella Air-fit Suncream Plus Nawa'y magbunga ang lahat ng ating ginagawa sa buhay at mapanindigan natin ito.

[elkhornpaintingllc]

Garage Painting - Common Garage Painting Problems - Elk Horn Painting https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/54322009110_b64bc16bdf_b.jpg Painting a garage requires more than just applying a fresh coat of paint—proper preparation and the right materials are essential for a long-lasting, professional finish. Many homeowners experience issues like peeling paint, cracks, stains, and efflorescence, all of which can compromise the durability and appearance of the paint job. Understanding the causes of these problems and how to fix them can ensure a smooth, even, and resilient finish. One of the most common issues with garage painting is peeling paint, which often results from poor adhesion, excess moisture, or incorrect primer selection. If the surface was not properly cleaned before painting, dust, grease, or residue can prevent the paint from bonding correctly. Moisture is another major cause, especially in garages with poor ventilation or unsealed concrete floors. Choosing the right primer for the surface type is crucial. Concrete bonding primers help paint adhere to garage floors, while stain-blocking primers prevent moisture from seeping through drywall. If peeling has already occurred, the best fix is to scrape off loose paint, sand the surface, apply a high-quality primer, and then repaint with moisture-resistant coatings. Cracks and stains are another common problem in garage walls and floors. Small cracks in drywall should be filled with spackling compound or joint compound, sanded smooth, and primed before painting. Efflorescence, a white powdery substance that appears on garage walls, occurs when moisture draws mineral deposits to the surface. If left untreated, it can cause paint to bubble and peel over time. Efflorescence is most common on unsealed concrete and masonry surfaces, particularly in garages with poor drainage or high humidity levels. To prevent efflorescence, it’s essential to use masonry sealers before painting. These sealers block moisture from penetrating porous surfaces like concrete and brick, reducing the risk of future efflorescence. For best results, a penetrating silicate or acrylic-based sealer should be applied at least 24 hours before painting to ensure a proper bond. If efflorescence has already formed, scrubbing the affected area with a stiff brush and diluted vinegar solution can help dissolve and remove the deposits. For stubborn buildup, using a muriatic acid solution (diluted according to manufacturer instructions) may be necessary, but proper protective gear should always be worn. After cleaning, the wall must be allowed to fully dry before applying a sealer and a moisture-resistant paint. By addressing these common garage painting problems before applying a new coat of paint, homeowners can ensure a flawless, long-lasting finish that holds up to the daily wear and tear of a garage environment. Proper preparation not only enhances paint adhesion and durability but also helps prevent costly repairs in the future. Read more about garage painting and the painting services that Elk Horn Painting provides: elkhornpainting.com/garage-painting/ https://flic.kr/p/2qLfuKY Uploaded February 11, 2025 at 03:08PM and taken February 08, 2025 at 09:14AM