#Anti exclusionist

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

[luaminesce]

It's nearly 2024; can we not do ace discourse this year.

[transonlyspace]

reblog to jumpscare an exclusionist

(note: i found this on pinterest and its probably really old ant i didnt notice that some of the flags are wrong sry)

[starryjoy]

So, it seems like multigender people are now slowly becoming the focus of hate from exclusionist groups, which I can only assume happened because these groups felt forced to have to respect multigender people for a few months as the website's opinion of them was that they were cool, and now these bigots are finding each other and, claiming that it is in order to "protect other trans people", are shitting on the "fagdykes" around.

What I want to say is this: for the love of everything that is good, if you find a post that is claiming that one specific kind of generic trans person is hurting another kind of generic trans person, actually think critically about said post.

Did this imagined person have to be a kind of trans person? Would there be a reason as to why op would like you to think certain trans people hate all other trans people?

Do these certain trans people really find any advantage in hating other trans people? Do they have any reason to do so? Or are they also under the same societal oppression that hurts them for the same reasons as other trans people?

Do *you* find any advantage in hating these people? Or are you two under the same societal oppression that hurts both of you, and hating these people serves no purpose to anyone but our oppressors to keep us divided?

Stay strong out there everyone. We gotta stick together.

[bloggingboutburgers]

Tfw you're "straight-passing" to the gays, "gay-passing" to the straights, you're actually neither and it's somehow a lose-lose

[selenophobic-werewolf]

how are people gonna be nonhuman and queerphobic like 😭 you can't hate on someone who goes by cat/catself when you literally think you are a cat 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[fixing-bad-posts]

[Image description: A tumblr blog header/description, edited blackout-poetry style to read, "transwomen are woman stop exclusion".]

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transwomen are woman stop exclusion

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[the-alarm-system]

Queer exclusionist are so funny because you just know they never went to a queer group irl, hey guys don’t freak out but queer clubs in real life are full of Lesboys and non dysphoric trannies and bi lesbians and femboys and endogenic systems and xenogendered trans people

[1nky-quill]

I love the diversity of trans people

I love how each and every one of us has our own unique experience with our queerness

It truly inspires me every time to think about it, because even if all of us are different in one way or another we’re still part of the same community, we’re still a family in a sense.

That’s why is saddens me when I see so many other queer people cast people from the community because their experience with their gender and sexuality doesn’t align with their own experiences/what they expect that person’s experience to be.

Please love other trans people, all other trans people, because we only have each other, and I think it’s very special that we all have a different experiences with expression and sexuality.

[0w0tsuki]

If you ever find yourself mad about "trans lesbian separatism" or "baeddelism" or whatever word you've found to paint trans women having solidarity/community with each other as exclusionary, have you considered not burning every bridge you have with transfems while expecting us to be the ones to put all the effort into rebuilding them while you hold the burning torch, and maybe JUST MAYBE considered listening to us when we talk about transmisogyny and worked to making this a safer space for us.

Like I dunno I think if I had a problem where transfems deal with such scrutiny and vitriol in the queer community that trans women have their whole community ripped out from them so they seek out like-minded trans women who aren't going to abandon them the instant that associating with them would negatively affect their social credibility and I was someone invested in TransUnity™ that the solution would be to work on the transmisogyny problem to make my community a safer space so they wouldn't feel the need to do that instead what y'all are doing which is witch hunting for trans women you can brand as exclusionists for the purpose of excluding them. Which you know, only makes the "trans women don't feel safe in the queer community" problem worse. This is literally yall rn

[genderstarbucks]

Can y'all stop centering the definition of lesbian around hating men and start centering the definition of lesbian around our love for women?

Like if gay was centered around the definition of hating women you'd call that misogynistic right? So why is it okay to do that with lesbian

Lesbian will never have a clear cut definition that fits everybody, but centering it around hating men feels icky

What about the lesbians that DO love men? What about us?

Being surrounded by people who think that lesbianism is just about hating men is getting tiring

Lesbianism is defined by our queer love for women, it shouldn't be defined about hating men

Also while I'm at it, the non men loving non men definition of lesbian is icky too

Nmlnm isn't as inclusive as you think it is, plus the word non men (and non women) was used to dehumanize black people

You can use the nmlnm definition of lesbian for yourself, but don't force it on others

[tudirkulosis]

it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

posting this on it's own

[certified-moth]

the most common trait i see in aro/ace exclusionists is the fact that they treat aspec identities as neutral. like any other part of someones identity immediately wins out. if an aro person is sexually attracted to men, that attraction is the determining factor in if they are queer. theres just a total refusal to imagine that aromantic and asexual experiences are a major determining factor in the way we experience life

i think it just goes to show how little some people are willing to engage with a variety of aro and ace people and understand how they experience the world. lack of attraction is not neutral, our entire world is shaped around romantic and sexual attraction and relationships. i think a lot of them would genuinely be surprised at how similar gay and aspec experiences can be if they were willing to actually listen to us

[eparchclass]

Asexual / AroAce / Aromantic O5 Council + Ethics Committee logos

[cherrytea556]

I just know the lgb will be up in arms and come at me with their pitch-knife forks if i tell them that i would genuinely be more accepted as a lesbian than as an aroace