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Hiya
I'm a guy. I've always been into being humiliated and stuff like that,,, I really like being condescended, tricked and taken down a peg (despite not being... up many pegs). Recently I've been questioning my gender,,, but I think I'm probably a guy. Genuinely, I think. Despite wanting to be a girl. Maybe, idk. Idek what gender really is, and yeah, the first time I ever learnt to jack off was pretending to be a girl, but hey, that's just something sexual, and if it's tied into the humiliation, which sexually it has been even if- look okay maybe, MAYBE, I'm a massive fucking egg, but I really do genuinely- look. Whatever the case I'm a massive idiot who by all means should be activating the hell out of whatever predator instincts you have, so please, just have fun with some fantasy of what you'd with an idiot like me
"I'm a guy, despite wanting to be a girl" Do you see the contradiction there cutie? Listen try being a girl for a little while, give it a honest shot! For the next week don't entertain the thought you're a guy anymore, because you're not, starting now you're a pretty little girl!
And at the end of next week you can reflect on whether you liked being a girl, if not, no harm done! And if you did, well you can keep being a cutie however long you want!!!
#Everything is made up!#You can do whatever you want forever!#So just do what you think you'd like!#For me at least forcefem is only so fun because of my gender!#And also the “I should be activiating predator instincts” line#really shows a lot about how you see yourself#You do know that a LOT of trans girls like forcefem right?#And a lot of cis guys do too!#So know this:#You're allowed to be whatever gender you want#And you're allowed to like whatever kinky stuff you want#Simple as that#Maybe you're somewhere between girl and boy#Who knows#Only you can decide/figure it out!#(Oh and also the first time I touched myself was to the idea of wearing the dress in Beaty and the Beast... so yk)#anyway good luck cutie!#If you want to talk more about it I'd be happy to help!#.#asks open!#i-like-talking#serious talks
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I like how I gave Frida two flags when she only needed one, meanwhile David has to squish both flags together. To be fair, it’s just like Frida to be incredibly organised and bring multiple back up flags, and for David to panic and not do that.
#which direction is his transgenderism? don’t ask me complicated questions#look all I know is that little guy ain’t cis#we as a fandom do make him mtf a lot which is AWESOME#but it’s also really sweet to imagine him as ftm#especially since he grew up with Frida#I imagine she helped him a lot when transitioning when they were little kids#frida is totally the kind of little kid to angrily correct adults misgendering people#David is probably too shy to correct people but frida is not#Hilda probably doesn’t know what being trans is until she moves to Trolberg and she thinks it’s so cool when she finds out#also nb Hilda! I think she uses she/they#she’s just like yeah I’m sort of a girl and I’m proud of that but I’m also definitely nothing close to a girl#like she doesn’t have a preference for either#I could see her using any pronouns other than he#I don’t think she’d use he#idk why#anyways those r just my headcanons happy pride!#hilda#hilda the series#netflix hilda#hilda netflix#art#my art#digital art#fanart#drawing#Hilda (Hilda)#David hilda#Hilda david#frida hilda#Hilda frida
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#zero escape#zero time dilemma#ztd#discovered i can now do this with any flag now. too much power#carlos number 1 transgender fan#he reminds me a lot of that one post about like. cis guy who is really excited to tell you his pronouns are he/him#not saying he 100 is cis im just saying. hes like that#trevor.txt
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Fuck I hate being an adult. I need a more adult adult to help with the volatile emotional situation.
#I've sort of made a new friend? Like we met at the same art group and he's also trans which was like pleasantly surprising in our small town#but like. We have Differences Of Opinion#and it's not totally his fault because it sounds like he's had a Lot of bad shit in his past that's obviously made him wary and closed off#but like. He's slightly older than me (only 4 years) and keeps blaming a load of his problems on other trans folks?#like you know the type. The like 'all these nonbinary/other identities the kids are doing are complicating shit'#the 'it hurts to see people younger than me inc. kids get hormones thrown at them when I still can't get 'em' (which... yeah not even true)#and he's told me himself he doesn't engage much with the queer community bc it's too 'toxic'#and like. I can absolutely understand why he could've had some bad experiences esp. since he has some mental health shit going on#but he wants to be friends bc he doesn't know anyone else going through the medical shit and it's like. Yeah no shit you don't?#you decided the community you'd find them in is toxic? and that people in them are doing being trans wrong?#and I think if he was just some guy online I'd like roll my eyes and ignore him#but he's a real person in my vicinity and I feel fucking bad for him#and I can see how much self loathing he has and how much that probably informs the bullshit#like he told me he thinks that trans men and cis men are fundamentally different categories and trans men will never be cis men#but not in a 'the experiences are just different and come with different perspectives way'#in like a self defeating way. Like a I just have to settle for being a trans man way.#and it made me SO SAD#like bro#I'm so sorry for whoever the fuck made you feel like you're fighting an unwinnable battle#and I want to be a friend to him. I want him to feel like there's other queer people out there and there's friends and hope#but also I genuinely could see him being the kind of person who would get really angry at you for no fault of your own#like I already get the distinct feeling he resents me a little#like obviously not too much since he still wants to hang#but he's been trying and failing to get HRT for years and I got it super quickly basically by sheer luck/a doctor who looks out for me#like I'm so fucking lucky. And I just genuinely feel like he's the kind of person who might take that personally.#I just do not think I have the fucking. Emotional tool kit to salvage this shit#But I also can't exactly text him and say sorry I don't think we should hang out so. What do.#.....I wasn't even LOOKING for a new friend! I have enough friends!!! I wanted to make clay faces and look at pretty buildings dammit!!!#now I have to be the emotionally mature one who goes hmmm maybe let's not blame other depressed trans kids for our problems buddy#I'm just gonna have to be like. Upfront about my stance and if he doesn't like it well he doesn't have to hang out with me
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WOAH, HE'S BIGENDER? I DIDN'T KNOW THAT!
#hey. hey. im just saying. he LITERALLY 'transed his gender' in a diagetic bit in orange. and if that wasnt enough.#in blue he disguised himself as squid jenny specifically with larry's powers (the only thing hes done with them on screen)#got caught by his god-assigned roles-obsessed caretaker. and was given the label of being something intrinsically unescapably deceitful.#while 'pretending' to be trans girl.#like. if i wasnt pretty sure it was all an accident i might even call the allegory here slightly heavy-handed.#with the nccts emphasizing a theme of 'youre not just what people say you are#you can be more than one thing at the same time' with crim#i think crimson can have boygirl swag. some bigender pizzazz. i think he deserves it.#is it REALLY a cpu kerfuffle arc without a subversive narratively relevant gender-transing.#am i supposed to believe the spirit of deviance himself is cis? get fucking real. grow up. /silly#also a lil crimtoinette in there. just for flavor. because i cant help myself.#also sidenote the nccts have given him this cute lil tendency#to tip his hat down to hide his face when hes trying to be Genuine or Thoughtful or Poignant. and i enjoy that little touch#i maybe like this guy a little too much. hes most of what ive drawn for months.#but what do you want from me. i read him as a queercoded villain deconstructed at the metanarrative level.#am i just supposed to be normal about that.#me and zia talked about this in dms and discovered. we came to a lot of the same conclusions. completely independently. lmao#cpuk crimson
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Dick or no dick confirmation Pickles was always going to be trans to me anyways; if he's swingin' somethin that's phallo babes, if he's not then his t-dick fat. What's not to get.
#metalocalypse#jay talkin#I'm sorry they wrote that awful gross little man far too likeable and relatable to on a trans level#for me not to hoot and holler and cheer for the trans pickles agenda#changes nothing about his character arc or any of the show anyone is capable of being the kind of person he is#don't make the mistake of thinking thats exclusive to cis men#his transness wouldnt change that#only adds on an extra layer to him that i think works fantastically.#Listen that dude was rejected by his family driven to drink and drugs young to escape that ran away to be in a band#is called fucking Pickles of all things and refuses to tell anyone his real last name;#over the span of four seasons and two movies he slowly starts to learn to be for others what he never had#he becomes more caring more supportive#it's not a stretch to say he undoes some of the toxic masculinity he's been keeping himself shielded behind#and learns how to be a kinder man.#all of which have no contradictions with him being trans!#In fact it doesn't take much extra thought to find ways a lot of this can line up with some trans masculine experiences#i mean. Did no one else have a younger phase where they swung as far as they could into crass rude and uncaring ways#to try and assert their masculinity only to grow and realise that you can be a man and be more caring.#Did no one else have father issues. 1 800 come on now i know those are both shared experiences a lot of us have had LOL.#at the end of the day this show aired nearly 20 years ago and is finished. we're not getting more of it#so nothing is altered nor changed if pickles is canonically trans or not ok. its fine#i mean hell i dont even need canon confirmation hes trans to me and thats all i care abt#but i think if yr getting suuuuuper weird abt needing him not to be canonically trans you have some issues#and bio essentialist ideals of gender if you think only a cis man can act like he does#again. anyone can be like that. its not exclusive. him being trans would not change him in any way shape or form lol#AND ALSO GODDDUUUGH for once i love getting to see a guy pushing 50 whos depicted as trans#do you have any idea how dire and barren it is out here. we never get to see a trans guy older than 30 and whos not a pristine model#I WANT MORE OLD SHLUBBY SHITHEAD TRANS GUYS IN MEDIA
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I have told my sister, who somehow despite reading fanfiction for years never learned about it, about the existence of mpreg. Initially she was like "oh like with trans characters? That's cool" and when I said no, she got confused and asked "intersex characters?" and when I again said no, she jokingly asked "what they have cis guys shitting out the baby?" and initially thought my laughter was me joining in the joke
The flip to horror when I told her was beautiful
#i have a one word KO hit against her now and ive been abusing it#fanfic things#fanfic authors#fanfic#writing trope#trans#i know some fics do invent biology to justify it#but a lot of them dont#and just have the fully cis guy pregnant pushing the baby out from some undisclosed place i hope its the ass#cause the alternative seems a tad too small
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#NOT TO BE NSFT ON MAIN#But I'm going through it... and by it I mean well... the horn knee#but like. lots of Thoughs about- HFH how Valentin is probably the first trans guy for Mitch#not that its rare by 2077 but because I HC him as demisexual#his first time was late-ish compared to his friends - he didnt had a lot of lovers - then there was Scorpion#who was more of a brother than a boyfriend but I DO HC THAT THEY ROLLED IN THE HAY Alright#But back to the thingy-- He's probably not experienced when it comes to Well Tdicks right#Mitch start to develop feelings for Val too the whole vets group start to notice it hardcore#cause these two gonkasses arent exactly subtle - they're just blind#and so one night while the vets are chillin drinkin the usual#subject comes up like eyy hows it going with V you gonna rizz him up or what#Mitch going PFFF idk what yall talkin about but he's red and suddenly don't know what to do with his hands#conversation goes and he's all like awkward cause Well Duh#Boys take showers together so everyone knows Val isnt Cis- there's others trans folks in the camp too its nothing unusual just an info#and get this... what if. its Butch Grease Queen Carol who gives him tips on how to get his boy all rilled up#while drunk ofc - Mitch wishin he could disapear from the discussion cause it's just too much but lowkey taking notes HKGJDKZKG#while some other vet goes on about how good it feels in there tm and all-- YNOW WARM N WET AND ALL#Mitch just nervously laugh and thanks them for the advices tm even if nothing will ever happen and just change the subject#he def jerk off in his tent tho cause he can't keep the vision out mH. hhhHHFHHF 👁👁#and he'd be like damn here I go doin it over a friend again and feels guilty next time he sees Val#(val def does it too in his northern appartment#idk where im going with this don't mind me JHGJ#sex is such an insignificant part of their love - its present and they explore all type of stuff together#but its not something that would ever be source of problem or doubts if that makes any sense#while simultaneously being important - cause Mitch was Val first time - and in a way Val was Mitchs first too#and his boy sure does feel nice /)UwU(\ weeeee#tbd
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That’s not- y’know what, that’s probably an easier explanation actually (Patreon)
#Doodles#DQIX#Kuzu#Lol#For the record Kuzu is a cis guy - those are his wing scars haha#Been way too long since I've drawn them!! Needed to again#Now that I think of it tho hmm I wonder if they would be more vertical than horizontal....I'll have to do another anatomy study haha oh nooo#Mostly I just thought it'd be funny for certain individuals in his human team to not know about the whole Celestrian thing and Shenanigans#Kuzu's not shy about his body and since the scars are on his back he generally doesn't think about them#Past y'know - missing his wings :(#They're hard to touch and hard to see so he's able to forget about them for stretches at a time! For better and worse#Sometimes he doesn't notice them because he's too busy - sometimes because he's doing well#And sometimes it's almost like an avoidant thought because the reality of it is still painful poor lad#His priest buddy probably knows - she was probably the one who told him not to just Announce that he's an angel to everyone lol#Social mores? :D What are those? Some kind of fish? :D#But that leaves a bit of gap in the rest of the team's understanding of their leader's condition! Why does Kuzu act so weird sometimes?#I mean other than the fact that he's Kuzu lol there was a little bit of that up in the Observatory as well haha#Anyhow this teammate specifically! He's from Gleeba and his husband crossdresses so he's fairly familiar with the concept#Not the same but enough carryover to have picked up an understanding or two!#I feel like there's a lot of queerness in Gleeba to be picked through - the lesbian queen being the obvious watermark there lol#I've never actually played a male character in Gleeba so that will be an interesting first-time-through for me with Kuzu :D#Always getting up to something! Can't stop! Haha
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hrmmm
#feeling the gap between cis gainers and trans gainers again#feeling the gap between acceptably fat and unacceptably fat#the way you see twinks with a pot belly get lauded while fat people who participate in this and are already fat are just kind of eh#even in a community that is supposed to be about fat people thin people still get more attention#there are very much marks of acceptability in this scene and to meet them you have to be cis and Not Too Fat#I think a lot of people just don’t notice it unless they’re in the minority I’m talking about#fat trans guys just don’t do the numbers cis guys do and it fucking bums me out when I’m someone who does try and make fun things#anyway I will probably delete this later#personal
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LIKE something I think is all of the Askr family are like mirrors. Alfonse is a reflection of how much he loves Sharena and the summoner. Sharena is a reflection of how much she loves Alfonse and how, I think in the autistic sense, I think she mirrors A LOT. Henriette is a reflection of how much she loves Gustav (and seemingly, so severely that that love struggles to reach everyone else). Gustav was likely a reflection of how much he loved Henriette and his father. All of them are performing, adhering to SOMETHING. Their roles, and what seems to be The Correct Course of Action.
#fire emblem#feh#not a full thought but like. it's there#i see autism hcs for alfonse sometimes and regardless how i feel personally on that (as an autistic guy myself)#i think sharena is SO OVERLOOKED. for autism hcs. or at least the fuckinh tendencies.#i've seen adhd hcs for her too though and maybe that makes more sense (i have less info on that)#like it's speculated i might have adhd too but i was never diagnosed (only got the autism diagnosis)#which like obvs they aren't EXCLUSIVE like often times they're co-occurring. which i think is another hc route#you COULD take w sharena actually.#as for alfonse i do wanna say i completely get it and see why people do hc him autistic#he DOES have. tendencies LMFAO#but for me. alfonse is just as much a study in cis masculinity as he is a study in being able-bodied#there are a lot of things i need to reconcile with. often. and i need that tool to navigate my feelings#so like. i absolutely don't wanna invalidate anyone's takes on him and i know JUST as deeply how personal#and important hcs can be.#to me alfonse just. has Tendencies. that attract autistic people to him like moths to a flame.#regardless of if he is or isn't himself.#and he has so many problems. but i don't think he has The Horrors you know.#MEANWHILE i think takumi is so autistic he has ALL OF IT. ALL OF THE TENDENCIES. ALL OF THE HORRORS#that's how i feel anyway!#fe alfonse#sharena#fe henriette#fe gustav
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older butch lesbians, living happily as butch women, who say “if I were a kid now I would have been a trans man instead of a lesbian” are a whole lot closer to being trans— not ‘potentially’ trans, not ‘might have been’ trans, but really, actually, literally, trans, in their present lived experience, she/her and all— than they are to being transphobic. but I don’t think any of you are really ready for that conversation.
#I saw a video on YouTube where this older butch was chatting with a transmasc guy#and she said ‘you know if I were young now I probably would have transitioned’#and he said ‘why if you were young? it’s not too late’#and she chuckled and said ‘oh maybe I dunno’ sort of brushed it off#and i was sort of like. well it made me kind of sad.#i think in everyone’s rush to denounce transmisogyny we have completely lost sight#of the fact that the lesbian community’s trans elders include an awful lot of ‘cis’ butch women.#it’s like. it’s just fucking weird being a ‘cis’ butch with Quite Significant Dysphoria#who went on t for a while and presents very masculine and is planning on top surgery#and looking at these super feminine trans guys on tiktok who are read as cis women by everyone who sees them#who don’t want medical transition#and to think that I know much much more about what it is like to be transsexual—#and in some ways about what it is like to be transgender— than they do#and that DESPITE that there is no room for me in trans spaces unless I go back to using they them pronouns#I dunno. It’s just really lonely. I was talking to a transfem friend of mine about this the other day#& she mentioned something about political versus internal concepts of gender that really vibed with me#I can’t summarize it here but. Yeah. Anyways. Lonely.#rhi talks
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I think a really underrated trans headcanon is like. Really closeted. Not stealth. Really closeted and either doesn't know yet (egg) or does know but is afraid to transition for xyz reasons. Because 90% of all trans headcanons I seem to see are slapping some scars or a binder on a guy which is fine and good!!! Love scars in art think we should absolutely romanticize the marks left by becoming happier in your own skin right but also like. Idk some headcanons I'm like I don't think he's ready to reach for that happiness. I think he's scared of choosing things to improve his own life.
#beeep#yes this is about furina genshin impact#also u may note that i was mainly talking about transmasc stuff and that is for two reasons: one because furina is the character in mind for#this but two because people rarely ever have ANY visual cues on their transfem hcs. its like theyre afraid to admit that sometimes trans#girls dont look cis? but i mean i guess that makes sense too since the binders and scars are usually the Only tells on the trans guys hcs#but also theres a lot of political baggage over trans people not passing and it opens u up to hate and blehhhh#but like yeah. i think furina is a trans guy but i also do not think hes going to be telling Anyone about that for a While#and u might think based on the username that this is projection but no im in a slightly different situation#where i half tell people cus my name is blatantly masculine but since i dont look masculine nobody genders me correctly and im so tired of#correcting. but like my friends know yk#i do not think furina is telling his friends. i think he is far more likely to disguise himself and go to another country and tell a#stranger rather than risk letting his friends know things. hes not used to that its felt dangerous for centuries.... yk...
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Femboy is to the public like transvestite was to me; you first react negatively because you're like "this will be used as an insult" but then realize just because someone isn't experiencing their gender like someone else is doesn't mean it's less valid+shouldn't be held responsible for the actions of others looking to hurt. Anyway long live part-time women and men in dresses 👍
#luly talks#i like the word femboy a lot tho because literally anyone could be that#a trans guy could be a femboy a trans girl could be a femboy a cis guy could be a femboy anyone on the NB spectrum could too HELL EVEN A CIS#GIRL FOR ALL I CARE. DO A DOUBLE CROSSDRESSING 💪💪💪💪#like sure trans women aren't men in dresses but. these guys are. and they're not trans women.#people will mix them up as an insult but. that's on the people insulting them. we cannot erase a group of mfs just bc you don't agree#ykwim?#anyway yeah. love gender nonconformity 👍👍👍👍👍
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i feel so infantalized as a trans man sometimes. people don't see me as a man in the same way they see a cis man as a man. people dont see me as masculine at all. like im not super masculine but i still want to be seen that way.
im never called handsome in the way a cis man is called handsome, im called handsome in the way a parent would call their toddler son handsome, or how a grandma would call their grandson handsome while pinching their cheek. fuck, im not even called pretty or cute in the same way you'd call a cis man pretty or cute. a man wearing a dress trying to be cute is going to be treated as more masculine than i would be, no matter what i wear or how i act.
#vent#idk man idk where im going with this im just upset about it#i know some people try but i dont know. i dont feel like im seen as just a guy i feel like im always seen as a Trans guy.#its not even like i dont pass super well. a lot of people assume im a guy when they see me#but i feel like as soon as they realize that shifts and im seen as sweet or cute or innocent or feminine or whatever#this isnt just a cishet thing either too. or even just a cis thing#ive felt this way among other people who are gay or trans and even around other transmascs#its like i feel everyone doesnt treat me as a real guy and idk what to do about it
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mutual how are you so good at getting into arguments with people who agree with you
probably bc i only respond to people who cant write or read
"rape play can be consented to" and "rape can be consented to" are VERY different sentences. n like honestly i shouldnt even have bothered.
if you have such a fundamental misunderstanding of the english language i wont waste my time trying to communicate with you. when every word means something different its not really english anymore is it. if everything u say is so divorced from the english language that i need to ask you to repeat and translate everything i dont think im at fault here
i might just cut contact w anyone in the community because everything i say is misunderstood and misrepresented and not taken seriously if im not sucking up to people.
and so many words have new double-meanings and im led to think i disagree with ppl because theyre fucking incapable of writing a coherent sentence. and then its my fault somehow.
and its not like 'transid' or paraphilia dont exist outside of the radqueer community. everyone wants to change things about themselves. everyone changes. people are into weird shit and have mental disorders. i dont have a problem with peoples experiences.
n if rqs put any effort into what they say (or even didnt blame me for assuming that a word doesnt have any new secret meaning) id treat it the same as the mogai or liom community. whatever. kinda fun. sometimes theres a relatable label
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#i do have a deep insecurity about being stupid and always confused and people not understanding anything i say#ableist shit#but i also dont see anything wrong with how i talk from my perspective#i dont know why whatever is wrong with me is wrong with me#other autists dont like or understand me#but like. even if theres something fundamentally wrong with me im not gonna bend over backwards and make myself palatable you anyone.#i dont give a shit really. no one has to like or understand me ig#also. 'where do you guys find animal rape porn?'. im not hanging out near a community where thats as common as it is and people you reblog#from like that shit.#im aware that 'not all of us' and 'theres bad apples everywhere' but thw queer community doesnt have a Huge chunk that believes in#legalizing rape.#and i dont think id hang out in any other community that does.#also#not as bad obviously but so many people being pathetic. identities for when youre trans but have internallized so much transphobia tha#t youre calling yourself cis now#you have intrusive thoughts so now you say youre transharmful.#its a whole lot of letting outside factors control your identity which is just miserable to look at for me#and not a vibe i wanna be around#sometimes theres straight up bigotry 'afab 4 afab because duhh afab means pussy. and transsexuals dont exist' or treating birth assignment#as a gender#you see that in the regular queer community too i just feel like complaining#im just tired of this. every day i log on to tumblr and see a rq post and go 'wow/damn these people are extremely annoying and detached#from the english language'.#fucking. even transgender in a transid context has a different meaning#ppl say transgender isnt a transid and like. theyre right and theyre also wrong.#transgender(transid version) isnt the fucking same as transgender(queer community)#and this isnt me being genuine but lets have some fun with radqueer etymology and twist transgender even further. trans- in a transid#context means (change) with intent.#i did not choose my gender with intent..therefore actually i am a cisgender male.#so if i do end up fucking blocking you then you know why
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