#AlloAro
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I never really thought about it, but I guess will be seen as less because I literally CANNOT experience romance. Nor do I need it. And because of its high value in society, my relationships are low value...
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hi. i made some images.
feel free to take them and use for whatever you may need them for. no credit required
#me tag🍭#i might make more if anyone asks for them#EDIT: no im not lol#aro#aromantic#aroallo#alloaro#aroace#aromantic asexual#ace#asexual#<-WOWIE!! thats a lot of tags!!!
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starts punching and tearing at everything in a blind rage. i want AROMANTIC characters i want characters with not an OUNCE of romance about them i don't JUST want aroace characters i want AROMANTIC characters that AREN'T ASEXUAL i want people to headcanon characters as AROMANTIC not just aroace i want fandom to treat AROMANTICISM as AROMANTICISM, and not a SUBCATEGORY OF ASEXUALITY. RRRAAAAAAAAGHHHHHH
[ID: banner reading "don't tag as ace or aroace"]
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My ex (terrible in a lot of ways, but especially, especially, especially the way she treated me because she was in love with me and it was apparently my problem to solve even YEARS after we had ended our romantic relationship and had agreed to be friends) ended up telling me that she was also arospec (and asking/expecting me to help her figure out her romantic orientation) because she couldn't distinguish her feelings of friendship for me from her feelings of love, because she didn't know the difference between those kinds of feelings. And y'know, maybe she is arospec, I'm not here to police someone's identity, identity has nothing to do with the types of abuse someone is capable of perpetuating, but like. She spent FOUR YEARS making me feel like a broken heartless bitch for daring to have a boundary, for saying that I would not date her again. She had spent years being like "we have emotional intimacy that I think should be reserved for romance, so I'm confused and keep falling back in love with you!" And when I offered her either less emotional intimacy or to like get the fuck over herself and unlearn the relationship escalator and amatonormativity, her ultimate galaxy brain solution was just to say "actually falling in love with all my friends is just my orientation, which is the same as your orientation, and: That's why we should get back together!! This makes us more compatible!!" (Yes. Really.)
one of the hardest things about being aro is that the minute you start explaining your identity (which you may have spent months and years processing, working through internalized hatred and feeling broken, grappling with the constant pressures of amatonormativity) to an alloro person they suddenly decide that no one on earth has ever valued romance more than friendship, that all romance is juat sex + friendship if you think about it, so ACTUALLY you don't need to identify as aromantic or talk about how being aro affects you or ask anyone to change anything about society ever and if you do, you are actually crazy :) and they still don't even know what amatonormativity means
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I wanna see how much of the tumbr user base is queer so I made this 😋
Reblog for larger sample size! ☺️
#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#mogai#lesbian#gay#bisexual#transgender#queer#intersex#aromantic#asexual#aroace#pansexual#demiromantic#demisexual#alloaro#aroallo#alloace#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#omnisexual#lithromantic#cupiosexual#gif#flame text#flickering
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People on this site cannot or intentionally refuse to distinguish between systemic oppression and lateral mistreatment and it's a massive problem.
Me talking about how other queer people target me for having masculine traits isn't me saying that cisallohet perisex men are oppressed for being men and feminism sucks and lesbians are evil.
Me pointing out how late diagnosed autistic people treat me like an other for getting a diagnosis early isn't me saying late diagnosed people are privileged and have power over me.
Me saying that aroaces have mistreated me and pushed me out of aspec spaces as an alloaro isn't me saying that aroaces are my oppressors and they don't belong in aro spaces.
"Can the people who are in the same community as me but have different experiences please stop treating me like shit" isn't me saying that I'm the most oppressed person on the planet and no one but me suffers. I'm just asking you to stop treating me like shit. That shouldn't be a controversial statement.
Not everything is about privilege and oppression, sometimes people are just dicks and maybe it's you.
#intersex#intersexuality#actually intersex#intersexism#anti masculinity#antimasculinity#anti-masculinity#autistic#autusm#actually autistic#late diagnosed autistic#early diagnosed autistic#ableism#aspec#aro#aromantic#alloaro#aroallo#arospec#arophobia#alloarophobia#aroallophobia
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“we need more ‘weird’ queers!”
you can’t even handle aroallos
#aroallo#alloaro#aromantic#aro#arospec#aspec#queer#actually aromantic#aromantic pride#aromantic positivity#not a submission#arospec positivity#aromantic allosexual#aro allo#aroallo positivity#aroallo pride#alloaro pride#alloaro positivity
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thinking about all the aromantic people who died thinking they were broken. thinking about all the aromantic people who died settling for "at least I care about this person". thinking about all the aromantic people that died without ever being able to know why they couldn't reciprocate the feelings of anyone, men, women, people of other genders and more. thinking about all the aromantic people that died being called sluts that never found the right person to marry. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that had to tell themselves that it was fine, they were fine, this marriage will be okay and it will be for the future of their lineage, while crying themselves to sleep every night. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that we will never know about, because being aromantic isn't even close to a possibility in the mind of society at large. because love is supposed to be the force that saves everything. because love is supposed to bring everyone together. because to love is human.
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shoutout to the aromantics who don't feel love at all. shoutout to the aromantics who feel love deeply but not in the way society wants us to. shoutout to the aromantics who are repulsed by romance. shoutout to the aromantics who are romance positive. shoutout to aromantics who have conflicting feeling about romance. shoutout to aromantics that are neutral about romance. shoutout to aromantics in qprs. shoutout to aromantics who aren't in qprs. shoutout to aromantics who are also asexual or aspec. shoutout to aromantics who are allosexual. shoutout to aromantics with conflicting identities. shoutout to aromantics who are questioning. shoutout to aromantics who are in relationships. shoutout to aromantics who are happy not in a relationship.
shoutout to every aromantic person reading this because you are valid and a welcome part of the queer community no matter who you are or what you identify as. you are so loved and appreciated <33
#ive seen so much discourse and wanted to provide some reassurance#this is partially to myself#but#love you all#alloaro#aroace#aromantic#arospec
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#id in alt text#I'm always surprised by the way many aroallo's experiences parallel my alloace experiences#like you'd expect them to be opposites#aroallo#alloaro#alloace#aceallo#asexual#aromantic#ace#aro#aphobia#acephobia#arophobia
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thinking about Lovejoy describing themselves in three words as 'Aromantic British Noises'
thinking about Lovejoy describing themselves in three words as 'Aromantic British Noises'
thinking about how the idea of aromanticism isn't nearly as widespread as it is on Tumblr/various other corners of the internet
thinking about how most people would probably assume the use of Aromantic as a descriptor would imply a lack of any kind of love or romance or close interpersonal relationships in their music which is INHERENTLY NOT TRUE
thinking about Lovejoy choosing Aromantic specifically, confident enough in understanding the actual concept/culture of aromanticism to describe their entire band
thinking about the potential for there to be someone(s) in Lovejoy who is either on the Aromantic spectrum or has considered it as a possibility and has researched it to understand it (and maybe themselves) better
thinking about hard about Lovejoys songs and realising that despite a few having vaguely romantic or implied romantic connotations, you could absolutely do an aro-spec reading of their whole discography
thinking about Lovejoy becoming part of Aro Culture in my heart
thinking about being aro-spec myself, and how id consider the term 'lovejoy' to still very much be my vibe despite that.
thinking about self described Aromantic British Noises, Lovejoy.
thinking about Lovejoy.
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#lovejoy#lvjy#joe goldsmith#mark boardman#ash kabosu#wilbur soot#joe lovejoy#mark lovejoy#ash lovejoy#wilbur lovejoy#aromantic#aromantic spectrum#aro#arospec#aro spec#aromantic culture#aro culture#shut ur pretty mouth#alloaro#allo aro#aromantic allosexual#aro allo#aroallo#aroace#aro ace#aromanitc#aro culture is
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Is this something?
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the aromantic agenda
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@makelimeade @kiwimuichiro @fallenrain40 @redysetdare @canonically47 @arodabi @drakenhert @pinnakoladda @thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove @midnightcrisisstuff @the-nefarious-vampire
#aka my favorite aro and aroace posts#aromantic#aroace#aro#arospec#aro pride#aromantism#aspec#aromanticism#lgbtq#queer#pride#lgbt#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#lgbt pride#lgbtqiia+#queer community#aromantic spectrum#asexual aromantic#acearo#aromantic asexual#aro ace#lgbtq+#lgbtqplus#aroallo#actually aromantic#alloaro
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hello, tumblr user. before you is an aromantic character. they have never expressed any hint of asexuality. your task is simple: do not refer to them as an "aroace" or get mad at people writing smut about them. the duration of this task is the rest of your life. if you fail at any point in the future, i will personally shoot you.
good luck.
#aromantic#arospec#aro#aspec#aspec community#aspec mafia#aroallo#alloaro#non sam aro#neu aro#non ace aro
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tv shows (in particular sitcoms. i'm thinking about sitcoms) are really missing out on the comedic potential of an aroallo character in a sitcom. everyone's thinking about the comedic potential of awkward romance, but i'm thinking about the comedic potential of desperately trying to avoid romance. climbing out of windows to avoid family asking about a romantic partner. mission impossible-style escape following a one-night stand. spraying people with water from a spray bottle if they engage in pda. holding an anti-valentines day. hiding in impossible places to avoid someone who has expressed romantic feelings for them. two aroallos in a fwb relationship making exaggerated looks of disgust when someone implies they're dating. marriage for tax benefits. sitcoms are really limiting their true comedic potential by not including aroallo characters
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