#AND IT BOTHERS ME

[huellitaa]

𓍢ִ໋♡𓂃 ࣪ ִ receiving your blessings! ୨🧸୧

˚₊‧꒰ა roots ໒꒱ ‧₊˚

• feeling guilty about being given things you supposedly "dont deserve", like lots of love or gifts or whatever it may be, comes from a lack mindset.

• that is where you feel there is not enough of these things like love, gifts, money, etc. to go around. you think of the world as though there is always "not enough" and feel the need to push away the blessings you receive for someone or something else, or hold on to every little scrap of everything you find bc you fear you wont find it again.

• this comes from having a lack of things like love, money, affection, etc. in childhood and continues on as you grow up & get older.

one thing i've noticed is a lot of people actually treat this as a normal thing to push away the things youre given because you think "this is too much" or "i dont deserve this" or anything along those lines.

🧸𓂃 ࣪˖ "i dont feel worthy of this" if you werent worthy it wouldnt be given to you. everyone and everything comes into your life for a reason, good or bad, and its your job to accept that and learn the lesson that comes from said thing or person. if someone offers you a gift, money, a job offer you've wanted, etc. if you know its safe then take it !!

── there are people with less money than you, less talent than you, less potential than you, out living your dreams just because you were too scared to take that opportunity you were given and just go for it. dont look back and think "oh, i should have taken that". dont let yourself have regrets when you know you can avoid them. life is to be lived, not feared.

🧸𓂃 ࣪˖ "im not sure if i should" the opportunity wouldnt arise if it wasnt 100% certain it would benefit you in someway. obviously if you feel its sketchy or unsafe for whatever reason stay away from it and obviously do not go through with it or take it but if you know its safe and fine but youre still not sure then what are you doing!!! take it!!!

── you are refusing the gifts being given for what? worry? worry about what? who are you to doubt the gifts you are being given when you know its safe and you should take it? would you be concerned if someone gave you a gift on your birthday? this is the same thing. every day is your birthday if youve got the right mindset 🫶

🧸𓂃 ࣪˖ "someone else deserves it more" what. think if you got a present on your birthday and it was something you'd wanted for aaaaages. would you sit there and think "no, someone else deserves this more than me"? if the answer's yes then you need to get your priorities straight ml im sorry. this was given to you for you. why are you doubting the universe- the world????? what???? girl what

── ok this can go two ways. if its something someone else genuinely needs because they dont have it and could heavily benefit from like fresh water, a job offer, a housing offer, fresh food, i would give it to them if i already had those resources for myself too because everybody needs those. they're basic necessities to live & thats basic empathy. but if its something you dont need to live but really really want and are being given the chance to obtain then what. are you doing. girl. take it! what is your problem!

🧸𓂃 ࣪˖ i think if you find yourself saying or thinking these things often, pause for a second and ask yourself why you think this. is it something to do with growing up, the people around you, your financial status.. whatever it may be, it always helps to find the root of the problem. ♡

treat yourself to whatever you wish! you deserve it just because you are alive. that is a difficult task in itself. you deserve it just because you want it. you work so hard, so why shouldnt you have the things you want? take that gift, take that money, take that date, take that offer. life is too short to regret what you could have had 🫶💕

lots of love 💘

[stopmovingimtryingtokillyou]

Something that I wish people would do while characterizing Akutagawa is to stop trying to depict him as someone who is constantly putting effort to be seen how he is. He does not try to talk fancy, he does not try to pose himself as elegant and he does not try to be this grotesque and edgy. He is just that way and always has been. These are all his innate traits.

When you depict him as a "wanna be", it shows him as someone who is trying to make an image of himself that he is not and that takes away the fact that Akutagawa as a character is someone who always acts true on his feelings.

Yes, he does hate himself and wants to be different than the way he is, but he wants genuine change and does not care to pretend to be something that he is not.

[were-wolverine]

people who say jason is tim’s robin… WHAT have you been reading cuz it’s clearly not any comics whatsoever

like. tim has been obsessed with dick grayson from the moment they met, the night dick’s parents died, when they took a photo together before the show

the robin that tim followed around was dick, it’s literally how he figured out his and batman’s identities! he recognized robin!dick doing a signature Flying Grayson move that only his family could do and immediately knew robin was dick grayson (and by association, bruce wayne was batman) !!

sure he probably followed robin!jason around as well, but dick was robin for almost a decade! jason was only robin for a few years before he died, and tim literally tracked dick down to a different city to get him to be robin again

basically just. JASON WAS NOT TIM’S ROBIN, DICK WAS!!!

[chapinii]

fuck, I really need to learn more abt q!forever as a character

[valkyrieandstrangeridingaragorn]

I swear most of the time when someone asks for characters to "face consequences" for their actions they only ever mean three things: imprisonment, suffering and/or death. Unless you give them one of those, the common belief is that said character has not paid for what they have done and has gotten away with it scot-free. That is insane to me.

A character can face consequences or pay for what they have done in a myriad of ways that do not require imprisonment (depending on the scope of their powers, the mere thought of jail is ridiculous), they do not require suffering (if you torture someone they don't learn shit. Torturers are not good guys no matter who they are and more importantly, no matter who they torture [I'm looking at you, TVA]) and you're not forced to kill a former villain character so they can be labelled as good (but only as long as they're dead. The moment they come back, people say they're villains again).

It sucks because every time a story tries to be a little more complex than that and attempts to treat their evil/morally grey characters differently, they're accused of justifying the crimes or ruining the framing.

I'll put an example with characters I dislike. I never needed Stark to be killed off or hurt or jailed, I wanted him to acknowledge what he had done, to accept his role in it and act accordingly. Thanos needed to be called out on his bullshit that he never cared about the balance of the universe and he was no more than a sadistic narcissist that enjoyed watching others in pain as it made him feel better about himself after his own people rejected and exiled him. I didn't need Walker imprisoned or tortured, I wanted him to realize he wasn't good enough for that shield & that he is in desperate need of an attitude change.

Wanda didn't "get away" from Westview just because she wasn't imprisoned (how can you do that without her explicit consent? The scope of her powers makes it almost impossible to jail her, she can even escape the mirror dimension!) or she wasn't tortured (you seriously think any physical pain is going to hurt her after the insane amount of emotional/psychological damage she has sustained for so long?) or she wasn't killed (what a cheap way to fix a story. I'm looking at you, MoM).

She willingly killed her family so that everyone could escape. How is that "getting away with it" just because she didn't die with them? If anything it's a bigger sacrifice: she has to live every day without them.

[sarah3210]

You know it bothers me a tad when people say Ezra and the skywalkers were born on the same day on empire day when one of the executives said Ezra is born 2 days older. Unless I'm not one for understanding star wars timelines, which is why star wars confuses me and gives me headaches.

[lowcallyfruity]

“ I'm generally more of a Husbando collector 😅🤓” IM GOING TO PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE

[high-queen-of-the-court]

i feel like we talk about this a lot, but i’m here to talk about it more.

SO THE PERFECT COURT TATTOOS

i personally think that they are Arabic numerals. HERE ME OUT!! Roman numerals and Japanese numerals are cool and all, but they don’t match their jerseys.

thank you

[autisticlancemcclain]

My friend and I headcanon ADHD Lance and Autistic Keith because we're projecting lol

But I do think the way you write them reads better/more naturally than the majority of fics that write them the more common way

thank u!!! i had a whole ass essay explaining this at one point i feel like we went oh well keith is awkward and lance is quirky o keith must be autistic and lance must have adhd. without thinking critically at all

[sugdenlovesdingle]

10 years ago a Russian BUK missile shot flight MH17 out of the sky over Ukraine, killing all 298 passengers and crew (most of them Dutch). The people responsible have been sentenced to life in prison - but they're hiding in Russia.

Yesterday was the 10 year anniversary and there's been a lot of media attention (like every year really) but they keep calling it "ramp" - disaster.

Yeah it was a disaster... but that word kind of implies it was an accident? Something nobody could have prevented. Which is not the case here. They knew what they were doing shooting that plane out of the sky (there was some talk about it being mistaken for an enemy plane... but like - a commercial airliner and a fighter jet really don't look that much alike). It was not an accident.

[rossithepixie]

why the fuck is installing a curtain rod so exhausting

[dayangaytransman]

Stop perpetuating the myth that trans people only die by suicide due to transphobia.

Personally, I couldn’t care less that my entire family, friends, and even the whole damn country ignore my identity.

It’s this cursed body that’s the real enemy 🙂💔

[goforth-ladymidnight]

Fun fact: Did you know that the original lyrics to "Can't Help Falling in Love" were originally written from a woman's perspective before Elvis took it over and popularized it?

Wise men say: "Only fools rush in" But I can't help Falling in love with him. Shall I stay? Would it be a sin If I can't help Falling in love with him?

Now that you know, you can't unknow. Now go forth and suffer as I have suffered from an improper rhyme scheme.

[libertyiknowyoureinhere]

im curious.. for any other nonbinary people here:

does this rub you the wrong way? like im not Offended but like. every time i see things like this or like. “femmes and thems” i’m just like what the fuck are you talking about? and i instantly trust someone less for it

am i being too sensitive lol

[foxbroart]

I started a rockstar hanji drawing tonight … let’s see if I make it to the end 🤞

[genderqueer-frog]

the thing that irks me most in life is when gimmick blogs reblog heavy political posts out of nowhere like ??? I followed for pixilated pngs of my favorite character proclaiming he likes to fuck men what are you doing