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cookinguptales · 1 year ago

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.........lmao

so I was remembering the way I had to start wearing a training bra when I was like. seven or eight. and I hated wearing it so much that I would like hide it at the bottom of my drawer and try to sneak out of the house without it. (I was not allowed to go out without it, my parents were always on me about that.)

and I'd always conceptualized that as me just not liking my body being talked about the way it was now being talked about but sitting here in bed at age 33 I finally was like

wait there are times that I have to be really careful about wearing bras (or really anything that puts any pressure at all on my ribcage, including just well-fitting shirts) because that can cause rib subluxations. also, I regularly dislocate my shoulder while putting on bras.

and now I've got my head in my hands over here, because I swear, part of having chronic illnesses is just constantly recontextualizing your weird childhood behavior!!!

like I used to get in trouble a lot as a kid for sitting scrunched up at the dinner table (like crosslegged or knees pulled up to my chest) and when I went to Mayo to get diagnosed at 17 the doc was like "does she sit all curled up a lot?" and my mother was like "???? yes?????" and it turned out that was a behavior they'd noticed in a lot of kids with POTS because we had such weird blood flow problems.

(and yes, my mom then felt bad for yelling at me for it for all those years. lmao)

#but yeah that's also why I wear the baggiest clothes humanly possible while I'm at home #I can't wear anything constrictive at ALL because it's a subluxation risk #so I'm comfortable when nothing is touching me haha #it's also why I'm always stripping like the second I get back hahaha #I guess if we're also admitting gross things we did as kids I would run the shower and pretend I'd gotten into it sometimes #and just run water over my head at the end so people would think I'd showered and washed my hair #because I always got so sick in the shower #it was like the only duplicitous thing I ever did as a child lmao I was well-behaved to a FAULT #but I hated showers #STILL DO but now I know how to not pass out in them so much #.........sigh I always insisted on baggy clothes as a kid too #'they're just more comfortable!!'#EVERYTHING MAKES MORE SENSE NOW...#cw:#chronic illness #disability

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hadesoftheladies · 6 months ago

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being unwilling to accept degradation on any level as a woman makes people so mad at you lmao. no i will not exist and walk around like i am here to be performative art and not a human being fuck you

#radblr #like no im not just a girl #like no i will not go out with a man i am not attracted to just because he's nice #no i will not listen to those musicians because they're misogynist #no i will not wear heels to that party i like my spine #no i will not wear makeup i like my face #no i will not wear that dress it has too many holes in it and it shows my crotch area #radical feminism #anti gender #gender abolition #at least 80% of femininity is degrading #but some dresses are more comfortable than trousers 100%#and i love wearing florals because FLOWERS duh

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mrcowboydeanwinchester · 1 year ago

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this is one of the absolute most insane dean moments in the whole show i am chomping on glass. IS MOM STILL OKAY OR WEIRD? SHOULD I CALL YOU MARY??????????

#he is communicating he is trying to make things more comfortable for her but also #THEY JUST DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER AT ALL #they're STRANGERS #sorry feeling absolutely insane about this one again drinking the mary potions #dean and mary #dean winchester #mary winchester #ola originals

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lucabyte · 1 month ago

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Different standards

#didnt mean to do this one in quote unquote colour but it wasnt legible without it so. heres a treat i suppose #isat #isat spoilers #in stars and time #in stars and time fanart #isat fanart #isat loop #isat bonnie #lucabyteart #coughs up a lung. anyway. ramble time as per usual. this is what i was warming up for btw in case it wasnt obvious #besides being another entry in the 'letting bonnie read loop for filth on accident' series. this is mostly self indulgent musings on #headcanons (and i will just use that word here.) ive previously rambled about in other tags and posts #namely: in the scenario that loop integrates into the party as a New Person for quite a while before The Truth Come Out. i feel they have #a decent chance at really scoring a slam dunk in becoming a guardian figure for bonnie? loop's demeanor is already colder and a tiny #bit more level-headed than siffrin's in the way they seem to discuss bonnie with them. namely pointing out that bonnie #never really hated them. it seems to be one thing they're genuinely at peace with? they've seen by now the truth that bonnie #was just scared and upset. and likely now knows that what bonnie wants is to be treated with grown-up respect within reason. plus loop #already scores bonus points with bonnie since they didnt 1. fuck up bad like sif did in act 5 and 2. saved sif in the party's eyes #... but then when it turns out that this clean-slate relationship with a stranger was siffrin being deceitful? must have been odd.#bonnie seems to really dislike being lied to. the question is whether they'd see it that way? would they feel betrayed there?#anyway. this is set after all those emotions are at least settled some. loop able to be more physically affectionate... and yet #still not letting themselves be quite as close as they'd like perhaps. perhaps...#anyway translucent pyjamas because i dont care if you're comforting a crying child you've GOT to SERVE!!!#and also i feel like the party probably wouldn't let loop stay completely naked for that long. especially not post-reveal anyway

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humans-are-tasty · 10 months ago

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#my art #monkey d. luffy #one piece #dracule mihawk #sir crocodile #mihawk a little more moustachy and very OOC smile #the croc is from almost a year ago but i still find it neat #just normal drawings #hoping to draw less fanart and more original stuff this year. or at least really try to go out of my comfort zone #also plz no inappropriate comments about the croc #luffy and mihawk make good templates to experiment on. maybe cuz they're simple and shaped + wide brim hat #i seriously have a mihawk disease #i really like drawing low angles #i was looking at pics of tsurumi from GK and i was like mihawk could have a moustache like that #i think mihawk is the cutest guy in one piece.#April Edit: modified the luffy pic slightly. the shadow cutting off in the middle of his neck was bothering me for months

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ship-it-sideways · 5 months ago

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surprise !!!! more grumbo for you all ;w;

#hermitshipping #grumbo #waffleduo #i sweaaaarrr i ship more than just them but like 🥺 they're the best comfort ship to me !!#honestly crazy that these posts get more than my main does LOL hermitblr rlly has changed #my art

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poppy-metal · 6 months ago

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just thought of being scumbag patricks pretty little girlfriend and saying you love him mid-stroke and he groans, puts a hand over your mouth because you dont mean that shit - he's gonna pretend he didn't hear it, cause hes bad for you and you falling in love with him would be fucking awful for you both - doesn't stop him from fucking you deeper though, immediately after you say it. like the words have a lasso affect and his hips crash into yours, not parting this time, just grinding his cock inside - way more intimate than he usually allows. biting his palm, wrestling your mouth from under his palm in defiance like the brat you are so you can pant and whine another breathless "i love you - i love -" he fucks you harder until the words fade out into moans. acting like his balls aren't twitching to unload inside you the moment you said those words, like its just to shut you up, the desperate slam of his hips, and not like the confession means anything.

#poppy speaks #patrick wants so desperately to be loved but balks when its given. my beloved.#especially older patrick #like shut up u love this dick thats all i can give you #and not like he doesn't make you laugh like his arms aren't comforting when they're around you #like arguing with him doesn't set your soul on fire like trying to impress him with your tennis playing is all for show #like he doesn't buy you milkshakes and fries even though you have more money than he does bc he likes being the one to pay #like he isn't beautiful and strong and funny and kind when it matters most to those he cares about #hes just a walking dick to you. some old man dick to sort out your daddy issues #it cant mean anything more #patrick zweig smut #this is dolly and patricks dynamic in my mind

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dilfmobius · 2 months ago

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"Existence is chaos. Nothing makes any sense so we try to make some sense of it. And I'm just lucky the chaos I emerged into gave me all of this. My own glorious purpose." LOKI 1x02 - The Variant

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chipper-smol · 4 months ago

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So...... Loop and Odile huh?

v THE OTHER RESPONSE I DOODLED v

yeagh

#isat #in stars and time #loopdile #isat spoilers #spoilers #myart #fanart #siffrin #loop #Look #Loop considers Siffrin to be worthy of redemption #but they may not hold themselves to the same level of forgiveness #where softness and comfort are what Siffrin needs from his party #Loop would struggle #because if they're with the party they're in a different role than they were before the loops #they cant have what they used to have and that would chafe at them with every little comfort and hug #this leads up to Odile not being as emotionally robust as Isa and Mira but she IS logical and doesnt take any shit #Loop and Odile getting together is a NEW dynamic to Loop #they wouldn't feel like an interloper #plus they canonically find Odile someone to emulate so they heavily respect her as a baseline #idk i just think Loop would get more catharsis from someone who would give them what they wanted in terms of self flagellation #but also someone who wouldn't let them escape afterwards and would force them to acknowledge the source of their pain #changing is destruction n I think Loop needs to get broken a few times before healing #like if Siffin and Loop were broken bones #the party caught Siffrin and were able to set him straight before he healed wrong #Loop healed in a super fucked up way and its causing pain for everyone #sFNFnGFGN IDK ITS LIKE #NOT A ROMANTIC SHIP #ITS SOMETHING COMPLICATED #but i also want Loop to whimper yknow

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yardsards · 3 months ago

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some people on here make Hating All Social Rules such an obnoxiously large part of their personality that you could say "it is polite to avoid farting in a crowded elevator if you can help it" and they'd call you an oppressive puritan who hates the incontinent

#eliot posts #like sometimes social rules ARE pointless (or DO have a point but ultimately do more harm than good or are just unnecessarily inefficient)#but sometimes they're a useful way to consider the comfort of those around you #of course there are extenuating circumstances where following them is impossible or would put more burden on you than is fair or practical #in such cases it's good to make exceptions #and to automatically give rule breakers the benefit of the doubt instead of assuming they're being rude on purpose #anyway i once saw someone getting PISSED OFF bc a post said it's rude to watch videos without headphones on public transit #or this other time someone said public sex is always okay-#-and that it doesn't matter if ''public'' means a bathroom/back alley or if it neans the middle of the park in broad daylight #but it's not just about those two instances it's about an attitude i see on here in general #AND I AM SAYING THIS AS A QUEER AUTISTIC

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silusvesuius · 3 months ago

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