hadesoftheladies

[hadesoftheladies]

other women disagreeing with radfem women: agentive queens <3

radfem women disagreeing with other women: misogynistic, patriarchal perverts

when men get mad i KNOW i'm in the right

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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natural: straight women being attracted to men and wanting to have sex with them, partner with them, raise a child with them

not natural: women romanticizing abuse, partnering with (or even romantically entertaining) men who they are not attracted to, the institution of marriage, undergoing or "enduring" pleasureless and painful sex, fearing a male loved one, caretaking of men that are not offspring, centering men, worshipping male deities, regarding men as the arbiters and origins of life, being afraid of your own species as the most social animal species in existence, performing femininity to attract a male mate, keeping men that are unsafe, unclean, inefficient, co-habiting with men because they're men, etc

most of the rituals surrounding heterosexuality are extremely unnatural and are mischaracterized as being as innate as the orientation itself

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most of the rituals surrounding heterosexuality are extremely unnatural and are mischaracterized as being as innate as the orientation itself

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That there is a consistent, global, pan-cultural and universal social conditioning that is the sole and only reason why women desire the things that they desire.

bro really thinks that patriarchy isn't a consistent, global, pan-cultural and universal conditioning that constructs women's sense of self.

You don't believe women should have the freedom to make choices

they have to keep putting words in my mouth because they can't actually engage with anything i say, lmao. choice feminism is such an obstacle to women's liberation. bro probably believes in ethical prostitution, too.

Because I've read it, and did not default to 'oh wow this must be true because it validates everything I want to believe' I can in fact point out that no element of it has ever actually been PROVEN. It conflates some elements (social and fashion trends, cultural norms, and basic animal behaviors) into a vast and all-powerful conspiracy theory whereupon it becomes your duty!

Wait . . . oh I get it! You're all MRA's! OMG that explains so much! you're all anti women's liberation that's why you all have shit for brains! lmao, you all actually hate women and are probably a group of perverts circulating the same pedophile/porn material. you're just autogynephiles circulating radblr. that explains it! the "feminism is a conspiracy theory" was a dead give-away. y'all thought stringing together a bunch of political buzzwords would do anything.

cope more, moids. go piss on a street or whatever you unwashed-ass having buffoons do.

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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What a great idea! Let’s just individualize centuries old systems of oppression!

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My mom is waxing poetic about cheese tonight

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what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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feminism is a "crock of shit" + calling women "whores"

y'all are projectinggggg. who gave these males phones lmao? showerless behaviour

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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no fuck this. you can't give me my happy family with vander, vi, jinx, isha and EVEN cait, just to take them away from me.

isha literally healed jinx, brought back powder, showed her love and now jayce of all people ripped my family apart. vi literally had to hold her back, I NEED THERAPY.

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ppl will be like "respect the voices of marginalized ppl" and make weird calarts cartoons of naked ppl in every diversity group you can think of and then be like "I only watch breadtube" and suggest 8 different white guys for you to watch. okay.

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What is that supposed to say?

That het marriage and femininity are patriarchal institutions.

What information is that supposed to convey?

That het marriage and femininity are patriarchal institutions.

What reaction or realization do you expect people to have from this sentence?

That het marriage and femininity are patriarchal institutions.

From your last paragraph, one can infer that you think the patriarchy is akin to nazism, so you hopefully think it's bad.

I've explicitly stated that it's bad.

You see what I mean? You don't say ANYTHING.

I think you mean that I don't say anything you like, lmao.

You point fingers at the thing you want people to hate, and blame people who don't agree with you.

I do want people to hate the violent systemic oppression of women, yes. And lol, I haven't blamed anyone. There you go misrepresenting and mischaracterizing what i've explained explicitly. Instead of doing research on any of the terms I've used, you've just called me a bad person and bad women's advocate and made straw men. You don't even understand the feminist concepts I'm talking about and you're trying to explain why they're wrong?

You say you don't think heterosexuality is bad, but hetero marriage is part of the patriarchy? Which is akin to nazism?

Yes? In the same way that water isn't soup, but soup has water. Hetero marriage is an institution of the patriarchy. That's a fact. Please look up what an institution means in a sociological/political sense. There is nothing wrong about being attracted to the opposite sex, but het marriage is a sociopolitical institution that furthers and perpetuates the systemic oppression of women.

I really wish you a good life, but you are thoroughly frustrating to talk to and have shown yourself to be staunchly anti-intellectual and prone to bad-faith arguments. If you have any genuine questions about my actual stance instead of this misogynistic bully you've made me out to be, I welcome them in a PM. I have no interest to "show you up" on a public space. We can continue this privately and I always appreciate engaging with curious people.

However, if all you have are more of these deliberate mischaracterizations of me, I won't be responding here on out. You can paint me however you wish to your side of the internet.

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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i hope he's terrified, alone and in extreme pain when he dies

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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do most of these "declining birthrate bad" morons realize that they're mourning the decline in teenage/child pregnancies?

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lmao my life is not unique at all

some of you think your meek, patriarchal mothers never had any strong feminist attitudes in their youth and you do so to your own detriment. radicalized women have always existed. they were just neutralized by the patriarchal institution of marriage. that has consistently been one of the biggest threats to women's liberation and is the primary catalyst for women's widespread suffering in the first place.

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it does, actually! it's always the dumbest male supremacists that can't read or hold an intelligent argument, lmao. thanks for keeping the stereotype alive!

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

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Because yes, you DO think women are too dumb to not fall for the EEEEEEVIL social conditioning put on them.

You see the thing about socialization is that it literally constructs your sense of self and happens to everyone regardless of intelligence level. Not a single human being in the world has been immune to it. It is literally part of the process of self-formation from as early as we're born.

Femininity (like masculinity, both of which are called gender) is also literally and foremost a patriarchal institution. I never said heterosexuality is bad. You're once again not reading (or comprehending) my response because you prefer arguing with a straw man version of me that just hates women. Het marriage and femininity are established patriarchal institutions. Literally look up the history of marriage and all its traditions (i.e. dowry, honeymooning, romance, etc and see how horrific it was for most of history) lmao. Or just call me a dumb radfem with internalized misogyny, that would be easier, I'm sure.

And I'm having a lovely day, thank you :). Just had the most delicious spiced grilled potatoes.

which most of ths planet disagrees with because they are actually by and large good things.

appeal to the majority doesn't make something right (i.e. nazism, slavery, capitalism, patriarchy). also, majority of the world is patriarchal . . . so duh.

what women hear when I criticize femininity: this woman is so stupid and should be treated like the baby she is by not allowing her to make decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you

what women hear when I criticize dating/marrying men: these dumb hoes are too dick-addicted to make proper decisions

what I actually mean: the desire for male validation is beneath you