I WANT REAL THINGS
SOFT MOMENTS
FALLING ASLEEP ON VIDEO CALLS
SUNFLOWERS AND SMOOTH JAZZ
WAKING UP TO BREAKFAST IN THE MORNING
SOMEBODY TO HOLD ME
SOMEBODY TO HOLD
LAUNDRY
TAXES
COMFORT
WARMTH
SO MUCH LONGING AND YET
AND YET
AND YET
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romance repulsed (and indifferent) aro qpr culture is happily knowing you can have a close partnership without it being in anyway romantic
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Found out today (if you're not in the UK like me, because I can never finish these things before midnight for some reason) is QPR day, and as someone who experiences (probably) queerplatonic attraction and thinks queerplatonic relationships are a beautiful thing, I felt like drawing something for the occasion.
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the #aro tag is full of stuff about nonromantic love and the #platonic relationship tag is full of stuff about qprs
debated posting this on @platonic-culture-is but that's meant to be a chill space for alloplatonic/grayplatonics and bringing up why i made it seems like a bad idea :/
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Genuine question
For arospec people that have felt both romantic and alterous attraction at some point in their lives, or anyone who otherwise has personal experience with both of these things- What’s the difference?
Like I understand that they’re two different things but most of the answers are usually “you want to hang out in an emotionally intimate way but not kiss or be lovey dovey” or something but i’m bellusromantic so like that makes it way harder since i want to those those things
Also- if a qpr can be self-defined by its participants (you can have a qpr that is extremely similar to a romantic relationship but still call it a qpr), can the same thing go for alterous attraction? (feeling attraction very similar to romantic attraction but not calling it that due to romance repulsion and/or romantic attraction not fitting it that well)
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hi thank you for all the aradia love this blog
do you have a favorite headcanon about her, even a very small/niche one?
day 284
well i assume u mean aside from the one in the blog title lol
a fun one is this dumb imaginary report card i imagine sometimes
obviously i interpret her as autistic, but i also think shes asexual, sssomewhere on the aro spectrum? and agender! which is all fun because her name also starts with a. call that a straight-A student
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when you find yourself staring at his beautiful face and listening him talk about things you have absolutely no idea about… yes boy tell me everything. i love you.
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Ppl who get angry (so much that apparently some even threaten) at mspecs, especially mspec lesbians because they seem to be so commonly hated for no good reason, really need to sit and think for a second. There are so many valid reasons why people choose to use multiple labels in this way. Their happiness does not affect you, grow up.
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Autistic qpr is wanting to shower your best friend in affection and cuddle with them in a queer way while not being queer for them.
(Hope I did this right)
September,19,2023 3:25.
seems perfect fine to me /gen
(also I apologies for being so behind on the asks and submissions)
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Apparently my standards aren't that high I just can't find anyone attractive unless I'm emotionally attached to them like. I can see their faces are like. Objectively nice but my brain only goes heeheee hooohoo and gives the dopamine if I am emotionally attached. That explains why I usually only think actors are hot in costume.....
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pov delilah's skills of knowing when she likes somebun romantically vs knowing when xe likes somebun queerplatonically (both are incredibly bad but the all-seeing one's ability to know for queerplatonic attraction is like. nonexistent, basically. at least for romantic it can tell, even if it takes a moment..)
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