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randompolykin · 2 days ago

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sexuality:

child who doesnt know labels exist thinks "i hope i fall in love with a girl"

is an idiot who doesnt relize its gay until a freaking mobile game tells them!!!

descovers the term lesbian

questions being bi or omni etc,

looks for gender neutral labels when realised its nonbinary

neptunic!!!

or am i omni??? or noma?

nah

neptunic

(also some other time later this happened again idk where exactly in the timeline tho but it happened agian)

oh hey i might be aceflux- im aegosexual!!!!-cupio?-nah ageo no cupio, no aego-wait im just ace, no im-okay i was right the first time im aceflux.

realised i might be frayromantic-no im not-yes i am-how can i know? maybe i havent met the right person yet yah im fray-but WAT IF IM WRONG?!?! nah bro ur type is litearlly girls you dont know lmao.

but what about all those times we imagined falling in love and dating? -those were either cardboard shells with pretty faces and laughs, or imaging being in a qpr actually,

so we cant...fall...in love? -nope but we can form strong platonic bonds and be in queerplatonic relationships!

GETS HIT WITH THE APLATONIC WRECKINGBALL

...what happened. i thought i figured it out?

um...now what?

okay so alterous attraction. yeah alterous attraction. that solves that.

"gay Freddy Fazbear *appears in my head setting off the domino affect of being fictional gay men somehow?"

where this is right now: to simplify things i say i'm neptunic aceflux and frayromatic, which is true, but im also some sort of multisexuality that can like all genders, completly aroace, a gay man, a lesbian who doesnt care to think to hard about other labels, polyamorous, cupio, gray, and someother stuff probably too. why? well because their are people living in my head who are also me but also not (just me) so basically i'm mulitble sexualities inside of multible sexualities. oh, i also forgot to mention im objectum.

aka my "sexuality" is a mess.

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?

#sexuality stuff #uhh how to tag.....#idk how to tag this #pin

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dutybcrne · 1 year ago

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Even with his orientation, you can bet Kaveh would be down to hook up with and even marry Faruzan if she were down to as well

#hc; kaveh #//Queerplatonic! Attraction! Is! A! Thing!!!#//That aside; he is strongly attracted to her in an aesthetic and intellectual sense; with a more emotional one post-Championship #//In the same sense; if she were to want to hook up with him noncommittally; he would be ecstatic!#//He’d love to make her feel good and spend time with her!#//Obviously first making it clear about himself and his orientation so she’s aware and such #//But if she’s chill; he’s chill #//She’s really one of—if not outright currently THE—only gals he’d be willing to do this with; BC of his high regard of her #//He really likes and respects her lots #//Would even be down for a qpr with her if she wanted to #//And an open one so she is free to pursue who she wants as she sees fit; too #//He’d be so honored and happy #//Anywho; take this #//My 4am ramblings #//Or property-value lowering gunshots ig #//We’ll see how this goes lmao #//Idk if I phrased this how I wanted t or right enough; and I’m too tired to worry abt that rn #//That’s later me’s worry

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jacuzziwaters · 2 months ago

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I WANT REAL THINGS

SOFT MOMENTS

FALLING ASLEEP ON VIDEO CALLS

SUNFLOWERS AND SMOOTH JAZZ

WAKING UP TO BREAKFAST IN THE MORNING

SOMEBODY TO HOLD ME

SOMEBODY TO HOLD

LAUNDRY

TAXES

COMFORT

WARMTH

SO MUCH LONGING AND YET

AND YET

#(A poemish thing by me)#queer poetry #ace poetry #queer platonic relationship #alterous attraction #alterous yearning #alterous #yearning #queerplatonic yearning #black asexual #black and ace #black asexuality #im so lonely #jay's attempts at communicating

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braidedhades · 6 months ago

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just found out that non-aromantics actually have feelings towards the people they decide to have a crush on. Apparently it’s not like, “hmmm should I consider this person for dating? what are the pros and cons here?” Or like, “I want to be really close friends with that person” But it’s like an actual emotional response or something? An emotion that is different from the “I wanna be really close friends” emotion??

also I just figured out that I’m aromantic

#I’m also ace but I already knew that #Shout out to Jaiden Animations #Never would have figured this stuff out this quickly otherwise #asexual #aromantic #aroace #My first “crush” was Carmen San Diego #I was 18yrs old and that “crush” lasted 2 days #Turns out she wasn’t as pretty when she wasn’t wearing her signature outfit #I didn’t actually have a crush on her I just really liked her outfit #I think I just decided that “ya know I should’ve had a crush on someone by now kinda weird that it hasn’t happened yet”#And then I just picked the first pretty girl I saw #She’s animated so I guess that made it less weird than having a crush on a random stranger #But like there were no actual romantic emotions there #Didn’t know that there were supposed to be any but oh well #The whole “I wanna be really close friends with that person” thing really threw me off for a while #Cuz I thought that was what romantic attraction was #But apparently it’s not???#Too confusing we should just get rid of romance #Honestly my idea of the “ideal romantic/queerplatonic relationship” should have tipped me off sooner that I was aro #It was “a close friend who lives in the same house as me but we have separate bedrooms and sometimes we cuddle on the couch but not…#… always and we don’t hold hands or kiss or anything but we just act like really good but close friends because that’s what I think a…#… romantic relationship is two people who are really close friends”#might delete later I dunno just kinda rambling and I’m really tired

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qpr-culture-is · 1 year ago

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romance repulsed (and indifferent) aro qpr culture is happily knowing you can have a close partnership without it being in anyway romantic

#qpr culture is #or maybe this is just me???#im a little more on the repulsed side of things but qprs provide a way for me to have a close relationship without the romance #so yk #qpr #queer platonic relationship #queerplatonic #queer platonic partner #queer platonic attraction #queer platonic love #qpr positivity

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artistic-argonian · 4 months ago

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Found out today (if you're not in the UK like me, because I can never finish these things before midnight for some reason) is QPR day, and as someone who experiences (probably) queerplatonic attraction and thinks queerplatonic relationships are a beautiful thing, I felt like drawing something for the occasion.

#Happy QPR Day!#queerplatonic #qpr #qpr positivity #queerplatonic attraction #Apparently this thing double posted for some reason so if you liked this post and it's gone it's because I deleted the double.

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bloomshroomz · 9 months ago

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Imagine:

an aro-centric friend-finding/qpr/dating/hookup/etc. app called "Cupid's Aro"

#I wish this was a real thing #just having a way to find other aro people who are looking for other aro people #want a queerplatonic relationship? cupid's aro #want more aro friends? cupid's aro #want to start or join a commune full of aros? cupid's aro #want to date without worrying too much about how your partner would feel about you being aro? cupid's aro #want to just have fun [wink wink nudge nudge] without worrying too much about it getting romantic? cupid's aro #want a dating app/adjacent app where you can highlight tertiary attractions? cupid's aro #want a dating app/adjacent app that caters to aromantic identities and experiences? cupid's aro #like. someone make this a thing #I just don't know how to make it real #aromanticism #aro-spec #arospec #aromantic spectrum #aromantic #aro #aromanticity

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gillipop-plus · 8 months ago

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the #aro tag is full of stuff about nonromantic love and the #platonic relationship tag is full of stuff about qprs

debated posting this on @platonic-culture-is but that's meant to be a chill space for alloplatonic/grayplatonics and bringing up why i made it seems like a bad idea :/

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carmendeiact2whenplz · 1 year ago

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Genuine question

For arospec people that have felt both romantic and alterous attraction at some point in their lives, or anyone who otherwise has personal experience with both of these things- What’s the difference?

Like I understand that they’re two different things but most of the answers are usually “you want to hang out in an emotionally intimate way but not kiss or be lovey dovey” or something but i’m bellusromantic so like that makes it way harder since i want to those those things

Also- if a qpr can be self-defined by its participants (you can have a qpr that is extremely similar to a romantic relationship but still call it a qpr), can the same thing go for alterous attraction? (feeling attraction very similar to romantic attraction but not calling it that due to romance repulsion and/or romantic attraction not fitting it that well)

#aromantic #aromantism #bellusromantic #alterous attraction #queerplatonic relationships #romance #romantic attraction #someone help plz #i keep switching between thinking i know the answer and having no idea what the answer is #I want to do things in an extremely romantic way but with an extremely aromantic context #aro struggles #o hey that’s a tag

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alterouslyinlove · 1 year ago

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when you find yourself staring at his beautiful face and listening him talk about things you have absolutely no idea about… yes boy tell me everything. i love you.

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angorwhosebabyisthis · 2 years ago

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five is gay and arospec thank you for coming to my ted talk

#lorien legacies #LL tag #LL number five #More to Follow in reblogs + tags because i do legitimately feel like there was Intent behind this coding #surprise the intent is fcking shitty lmao #but also it just. as much as boy is there some shit to unpack there #it absolutely kills me how strongly he feels for and about people in ways that are very queerplatonic #he isn't ~emotionless and cold and uncaring about connecting to anyone~#he wants to connect with people SO MUCH and they Mean Things to him #there's this uncomfortable trend i see in a lot of well-meaning aro rep where 'cares about their friends instead of romantic relationships'#becomes this weird kind of like.... public access/ownership thing where /everyone/ they might be friendly with gets equal priority #the aro person's life and heart and dedication and commitment just kind of get spread out equally to everyone #and no one particularly means anything to them more than anyone else because they're All Friends!#give me raw messy queerplatonic attraction and commitment and betrayal and love #let them choose their people like a thunderbolt; let them be confused and conflicted; let them hate and love in equal measure #'we were more than friends; we were partners' i just. /god/#five would honestly be great aro rep imo if he wasn't in fcking LL lmao #anyway five is just. deeply queer and i am being so very normal about it #add it to the list of reasons baby moogle glommed onto him so hard

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fairywithgremlintendencies · 2 years ago

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Ppl who get angry (so much that apparently some even threaten) at mspecs, especially mspec lesbians because they seem to be so commonly hated for no good reason, really need to sit and think for a second. There are so many valid reasons why people choose to use multiple labels in this way. Their happiness does not affect you, grow up.

#like if im queerplatonically/romantically lesbian/queer and also extremely asexual #you bet theres ppl out there who are romantically attracted to one gender identity and sexually attracted to another. for example.#and thats JUST the split attraction model #theres other valid reasons too.#stop being an ass bc u think a valid label is problematic bye #caps in tags #leaf says things

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i-dont-know-nor-care-go-away · 1 year ago

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Apparently my standards aren't that high I just can't find anyone attractive unless I'm emotionally attached to them like. I can see their faces are like. Objectively nice but my brain only goes heeheee hooohoo and gives the dopamine if I am emotionally attached. That explains why I usually only think actors are hot in costume.....

#im like. demi romactic but replace romance with a mix of aesthetic and queerplatonic attraction #woo figuring things outttt

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qpr-culture-is · 1 year ago

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Autistic qpr is wanting to shower your best friend in affection and cuddle with them in a queer way while not being queer for them.

(Hope I did this right)

September,19,2023 3:25.

seems perfect fine to me /gen

(also I apologies for being so behind on the asks and submissions)

#qpr culture is #queer platonic love #queer platonic attraction #qpr positivity #queer platonic partner #queerplatonic #queer platonic relationship #qpr #autism #autistic things #autistic #queer

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angeltism · 1 year ago

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pov delilah's skills of knowing when she likes somebun romantically vs knowing when xe likes somebun queerplatonically (both are incredibly bad but the all-seeing one's ability to know for queerplatonic attraction is like. nonexistent, basically. at least for romantic it can tell, even if it takes a moment..)

#➳ the fool speaks #like there's 3 entire pawssible things that are happening rn one is that shar is actually.. having queerplatonic attraction n may want to #have a qpp... but also like 2/3 things that are Nawt That bc the ethereally beautiful's life simply cannawt be easy. hmph.#n like. maryne could nawt pawssibly be happier rn being taken romantically and whether or nawt this IS queerplatonic attraction or nawt #holds nwo weight to her.... it's the confusion that's annoying!!! it needs to know everything!!!!! especially when it affects xer DIRECTLY!!

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alterouslyinlove · 2 years ago

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hey guys what the fuhk? hey guys im actually dead now sorry no more posts? hey guys im literally kicking my feet and giggling? hey guys im madly in love? hey guys he THINKS IM COOL??? hey guys?

#im so sorry for anyone who follows me how do yall do it #(no more posts thing is a joke btw i will never stop for as long as i live)#u cant escape me that easily #mlm #alterous yearning #queerplatonic #alterous #alterous attraction #queerplatonic relationship #achillean #gay #alterous relationship #🌀#my demolition lover <3

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