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I am making an endo-free system space blog masterlist; inspired by @plague-hybrid and the one I helped them create.

I will be sending asks to multiple community blogs requesting permission to put them on this list. If you own a community blog or would like me to ask a specific community blog if they're okay with being added, please let me know in the notes!

The blogs can be endo-neutral or anti-endo, it doesn't really matter so long as their community is for traumagenic systems only.

I will reblog this with the full list when it's done! If anyone wants to help, shoot me a DM.

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Still thinking about the guy who called someone I knew "sick" for having alters that hated each other in their source dating. Buddy.. alters aren't their source and either way they just. Dont like each other? Why is that problematic?

HELP WHAT

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can you please start tagging syscourse we really dislike seeing it on our feed when just scrolling disorder tags

/nbr

Oh! I wasn't aware we didn't tag it in the past, but yea sure. If anyone has anything they specifically want to see tagged, please pop it in the notes.

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sort of my tale, but my partner (who’s also a system) joined a fandom discord server and got banned for having anti endo in their side blog’s bio even though it was a fandom discord server?? can we please separate fandom stuff and system stuff 😭😭😭

(i also later joined that server and system stuff was rarely talked ab:,])

OOF. rip </3

[also if you want a more discord-focused blog check out @tales-from-syscord! shameless self promo.. /lh]

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was talking about how spoken over people with OSDD are (especially people who aren't 1B) and someone told me they should be allowed to spam OSDD spaces and tags with off topic things and that we don't need a community because we were in the same community (they had DID) and i should be "in the loop" to what they were saying.

basically "if ur in a community with a group of people you NEED to be concerned with what concerns them. so they can only exist and be visible while you just watch them talk don't try and have your own spaces"

Sorry WHAT?? Do people hear themselves? That's.. really shitty, I'm so sorry OP.

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If you're interested in tales from sysblr, take a look at our sister blog, tales from syscord! Mod applications are now open, so feel free to apply!

Mod Applications

We are getting a lot of submissions to our blog, so we have decided to open mod applications.

Note that some questions do ask your personal beliefs on certain issues - this is to ensure our blog is kept a safe space. You are more than welcome to elaborate on any and all answers in the feedback/other section of the form.

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Tales from sysblr? Oh boy, do I ever.

I got in a vicious fight with someone over communication issues and they said I was tone policing when asking for tone tags. (bitch I was just confused)

A few of my posts have been popular in endo spaces, so it's whiplash every time I see the notifications.

I've rarely actually had an altercation with an endo, but I have a feeling that a friend's girlfriend made me block them because I am anti-endo and they're toxic as fuck.

Syscourse blogs are the ones circulating the most drama. If you've ever thought "what the fuck" in terms of sysblr drama, it's syscourse blogs getting into spats. Most of us just eat popcorn and watch for the tea. So if you ever want to be free, never use the tag ever again. All the drama is relatively contained around the same 15-20 people.

I don't have too many tales. Bad memory and all.

Help what the fuck is tone policing

I can only imagine the whiplash.. we tag most our posts anti endo for that reason lmao.

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For context, I'm a Chūya introject. (Bungou Stray Dogs) The other day, I was talking to my boyfriend in our partner system, (He's a Dazai introject, big whoop!) And I got fake claimed by someone on Discord (Who is a singlet, and pro endo!! I had no idea), and mentioned my boyfriend. They started saying I wasn't real for dating someone from the same source (especially being a popular ship) Like, what?? Is it really THAT BAD?, And I wasn't "in character." Lmao I can't with these pro endos

Dude what.. some people I swear /neg

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just got s*phie*nw*nderland cited as a ‘reputable source.’

‘nough said.

*o i o

Oh that is a big yikes. I remember when we were new to sysblr we used to follow her.. that quickly changed.

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some random followed our acc and we followed back (we don't look at accs thay follow us, we presume that you read our shit) then they messaged us like "you have endos dni >:(!" like why didjt you read that BEFORE FUCKING FOLLWOING?

HELP LMAO WHAT

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So I was very new to systems like a month or two ago, and when I wanted to explore it I started to act like I was multiple people at the same time. And it helped me understand that it really did make sense for me to be more than just one personality

But my dad saw this and completely fake claimed EVERYTHING, and since I love my dad I just forced myself to believe him, but I swear ever since I found a simple We/us pronoun I felt comfortable about it, from every and any little simple system post and seeing other’s talk in different ways, I swear it felt just me, yk?

And worst of all, I can’t even get my own accurate diagnosis, despite me having so much of the symptoms, my dad and mom refuse to even acknowledge if I have autism, or any other disorder/disability like depression and anxiety, ptsd/c-ptsd and so on..

But after a month of punishment because I made “mistakes” I kept my distance from anything and everything thats system/DID related, which TORE at me mentally, and one day I just gave up

I said to myself why should I listen to what people think of what I do?? I’m sick of it, especially when it’s STARTING TO HELP ME! I get it if anyone hate people who self diagnose as DID and such, but I’ll never allow myself to be this shattered ever. again.

I found one of my old system friends b4 dad took away my internet and such, and I told it that I was questioning again and I wanted sources and such, in which it did give me everything I needed

And I told myself to read, and I pushed myself to understand, even if I’ll forget it all, I knew that this made sense, and if it did, it was right

It’s been around a week and I met two new sysmates, Odie and Lyric, and we all finally feel comfortable and happy together, yes we had rocky starts but in the end we told ourselves that this is how we work, how we cope and how we survive the life that’s being thrown at us

Oof I think this turned into a vent.. my bad, but I hope you understand what I meant, hopefully

I'm glad you're finding yourself anon. Good luck with everything, and I'm sorry you had to go through all that.

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not the endos telling us that "not all DID systems are traumagenic"........

it's a trauma disorder

wtf is wrong with these people

Endos are.. something alright.

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Oh man, I saw two ask games on my dashboard where one asks if you have violent alters (what are you a, a fucking cop?) and another had one asking what can cause a split for the particular person answering (wtf why???) Both OPs being anti endo actually makes this worse because it’s like they WANT people to reveal their vulnerabilities to random strangers

Wh- that feels. Hm. To the OPs of those posts: why?? Genuinely, why??

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Have you seen the drama recently on sysblr on the anti endo tags because OH BOY- it went from us supposingly “doxxing” someone to this 30+ year old guilt tripping us which by the way I did NOT take kindly to!

Shoutout to my blog but it was a wild MESS- to think it was because this fucker was pissed that a minor in syscourse got something wrong because they didn’t know

Sit back, buckle in, grab some popcorn, and check out the stuff and all that from the affected blogs in the anti endo tag! You’re in for one WILD ride!

- @howdyshartneritsursk

Oh no what happened.. we've not seen much drama at all recently

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hey guys, what the fuck /vpos

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Hello and welcome to ask sysblr!

Anyone may post questions to our ask box, and we will post the ask with relevant tags - the system community at large can reply to your ask and give answers to your questions.

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something positive!!! im a very very paranoid and anxious person and because of that i havent been able to use social media for many years, but ive been able to find a little safe community here on tumblr :) nothing big, just a couple mutuals, but i havent been able to openly be a system like... ever. so its really nice being able to know other systems and interact with them, even if its just a little.

Awe I'm really glad to hear anon :)