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malt-o-meat · 5 months

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i don’t care if taylor swift is in the closet or not, or a mental health baddie like us or not, i don’t like her because she dates racists, pollutes more in a week than my neighborhood in 10 years, and held a concert in hundred degree weather, and killed a fan doing it. she’s not more special than any of the artists who are openly queer or openly struggle with mental health, she’s just a lady who writes pretty ok lyrics.

#taylor swift #complaining about taylor swift #i could say more about other artists who do more legitimate harm but i am tired of defending myself about how i feel. she’s not some demon #she’s just a lady who’s good doesn’t outweigh the bad #i’d still hate her if she was gay or ill #she ain’t special #swifties dni #you can just ignore this #i’m just one more person on the internet with a negative opinion #you can cope #i am fans of people you’ve never even heard of and it doesn’t make me better

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erebus0dora · 1 month

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am i doing it again? yes, i am!

look, there's an ongoing fic by @divineatrophy that made me feel feelings, and it deserves all the love; i can kinda give it some of mine in art form, right..?

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lesbicosmos · 21 days

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current mood:

me @ whoever at netflix made that decision:

#as you can tell i am COPING #i say shaking with tears streaming down my facr #dead boy detectives #save dead boy detectives

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coughwheezecough · 1 month

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Remember when Klaus was queer. Remember when Luthor was an astronaut. Remember when all Lila wanted was family. Remember when Five made jokes. Remember when Klaus was a veteran. Remember when Five said damn the world, where's my family.

#the umbrella academy #okay ill stop now #but many feelings i have #my coping method is yoda yes #tua season four #netflix the umbrella academy #tua season 4 #astronauts are overqualified scientists with more cardio reps than you can dream #was the marigold eating luthors brain??#holy likes and reblogs batman!#im a lurker who loves attention so much thanks

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rika-mortis · 1 month

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Headcanon: Deep down they both want to be their fairy godparent/godkid again after losing them, but don't believe they deserve each other and feel like they aren't worthy to be their companion anymore

They both need counseling and therapy as a whole package

#fairly oddparents #fairly oddparents a new wish #peri #peri fairywinkle cosma #dev dimmadome #fop a new wish #peri fairly oddparents #a new wish #periwinkle #the fairly oddparents #dev #my art #fanart #I like how both Peri and Dev is the type who prefers not directly express their feelings because they want to be seen as cool/independent #and be loved by the people that they care of #in other words #a tsundere//hit #jokes aside I like to think another reason why Dev cried during that scene is because-#he realized he's doing the same thing that his dad has done to him but on Peri #and yet Peri still cares for him despite his treatment towards him #like how Dev still loves his dad despite being a terrible father #and just..want to do everything right by him to earn his dad affection #man #Also ngl I have a hunch that Dev might still remember since Hazel's ''no rule'' wish was pretty vague #so maybe he counts in that wish?#plus he was wearing sunglasses before the memory wipe which maybe that won't affect him as well?#you can see I'm coping rn #I do hope this is only temporary and we will see them being back together in season 2 tho #giving them both some time to reflect and growth #because Peri clearly needs more experience in his job and Dev needs his character development for season 2

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justplaggin · 4 months

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them.

#(from the bsd vol 25 omake)#WE WELL AND TRULY WON #see this is how coping pays off. i told you #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bsd spoilers #bsd manga #bsd omake #bram #aya #(there's more but i'm hoping the translation acc posts it here too so i can safely rb 👀)

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juniemunie · 4 months

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[Abandoned by the Lightners, his heart became cracked with hatred.]

Hitting a lil' too close to home?

#junie art post #ink sans #error sans #utmv #errorink #implied. but yea not the focus #this has been turning around in my mind for quite some time. im glad to finish it lmao idk if my ramblings make sense even.#so like listen. do you ever think about how similar the function of the utmv is to the dark worlds in deltarune.#in a meta narrative to fandom sense? idk the word #we are making exaggerated expanded worlds of the ordinary tools and entertainment of the real world and make it into something more #isnt that very very interesting?#and we explore every sort of possibility in that creation. both good and bad #and when all is said and done. every possibility found and the entertainment and secrets has all run out #we put it away. abandon and leave it behind #what is left? what happens to the world and characters we have created? can it sustain without us?#what of the ones left in the dark?#idk if yall saw me a few months ago but i reblogged comyet's old post of ink begging us not to leave him alone and to keep creating #yea that never left me #and seeing exactly THAT SCENARIO in deltarune made my brain iTCH #imagine an ink in King's position.... wait isnt that just underverse #mmmmmmm. darkner ink.....#also error is here too. not just for errorink or that i can't separate these two to save my life #but error is also one of the few people to be able to GET IT?? he can hear the creators too. ink cant #but hes pretty much programmed himself to avoid having a mental break down to this via reboot memory loss.#and ink has his own internal coping mechanism (hooray for short term memory loss)#these two idiots will do anything but confront truths lmfao #ahhh my favorite idiots. never change #mmmmm #deltarune

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vocallywritten · 3 months

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This is a small moment that got lost in the sauce but can we PLEASE talk about this???

Because he was literally suffering from writer's block until Penelope told him she loved him and then he was off to the races.

#Writer!Colin I love you 😭#her love literally unleashed him wtf how can I cope with knowing that #bridgerton #polin #colin bridgerton #penelope featherington #bridgerton season 3 #luke newton #nicola coughlan #bridgerton season three #bridgerton spoilers

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maajul444 · 11 months

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#im coping #but ill be drawing angst later anyways beware😭#idk if u can see it but it was meant to be like them greeting in public vs private #but you can read it how u like #call of duty #john soap mactavish #simon ghost riley #ghostsoap #soapghost #mwii #cod mwii

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thenightsystem · 7 months

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Most people only get 4 stress responses: Fight, Flight, Fawn, and Freeze.

people with DID unlock the secret fifth one: Forget

-host

#did jokes #did memes #osdd jokes #system jokes #can you tell im coping?#did osdd #osdd system #osdd #did system #osddid #system stuff #dissociative system #system things #sysblr #osdd alter #tw amnesia

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crismakesstuff · 6 months

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cast out of paradise

#please see my vision here #PLEASE #sorry for injecting my catholic trauma into the silly superhero show guys I can’t help it #the fallen angel #invincible #invincible show #invincible fanart #omni man #omniman #nolan grayson #mark grayson #debbie grayson #crismakesstuff #the original painting ‘the fallen angel’ is just SO HIM #the grief the despair and anger about his own choices #ITS NOLAN!#ok but if you guys let me ramble if I had to assign biblical roles to the graysons #i can see nolan as god himself (or lucifer but more so god tbh) debbie is mother mary and mark is jesus #the whole ‘lamb of god’ motif just fits mark wayyyy too well #also I saw someone make art of debbie and mark as ‘la pietà’ and I’ve been a changed person since #AGAIN SORRY FOR THROWING CATHOLIC IMAGERY AT THE SUPERHERO SHOW #this is how my brain wants to cope w it ig ;-;#catholic imagery

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lotus-pear · 1 year

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yeah sure therapy is nice but teen soukoku is faster and a lot cheaper

#LITERALLY STILL IN SHAMBLES OVER 109 THIS IS HOW IM COPING #thinking abt how much harder teen skk hits bc that's when chuuya started using corruption and they had to learn to trust each other #like with their lives.#not ''hey dazai i'm lending you five bucks so you can get me a coke from the vending machine i trust you'll give me the change''#although i'm sure that's happened and dazai runs off with the change despite being explicitly told not to bc he's an ass #anyway despite not having mutual understanding or even sympathy for the other person they entrusted their lives to each other #also the fact that chuuya isn't likely human but so desperately wants to be and dazai is the tether to his humanity #likewise how dazai was so traumatized to the point where he couldn't feel human #but meeting chuuya made him think living was worth a shot #the parallels are paralleling #bungou stray dogs #bungo stray dogs #nakahara chuuya #chuuya nakahara #soukoku #skk #lotus draws

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sanchezsimp · 1 month

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#Erm. Sorry I use it to cope?? Sorry I can RELATE?? Sorry I find Ford inspiring??#billford #gravity falls #boni blabbers #my art #bill cipher #ford pines #If you have a problem... Then you can fuck the fuck off!!

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 5 months

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I want it back / I drag its dead weight forward.

#Better drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #digital art #This was a style experimentation doodle that took on a life of its own.#In a way it is a great example of 'beautiful failure'. The original goal was to try a pure black and white contrast piece.#Which I very much failed at doing. Not quite ready for that! However what this turned into is something I like a lot!#Different but in a way that really pushed me as an artist. A little less simple; a little more proportional.#I was also recently thinking about LWJ's grieving that we only catch glimpses of.#LWJ grieved his first love for 13 years. His love that was never reciprocated.#He chose to dedicate his heart to that mourning and most painfully of all - he did so knowing there was no end to that grief.#Wei Wuxian comes back to life in MDZS but that is an exception. Not the expectation.#He was dead. Not missing. Not 'maybe in hiding'. He was dead and his spirit unreachable.#Jiang Cheng went forwards with denial but LWJ takes that grief on. He copes by continuing to carry the weight with him.#Let me be clear. Neither are healthy approaches. It is a way to cope but it does not mean that is healing or healthy.#Grief is loved transformed but it is also about endurance and letting go. Grief can change you. You can also change your grief.#It isn't a good or evil thing to experience. It is just an experience.

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damian-lil-babybat · 1 month

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"My Anatolia" & "My Alexander"

If DC remained truthful to their own canon, and let Talia lied about the miscarriage/abortion instead (like before the retcon, which the author admitted to have misremembered details for iirc), then my OTP since "Batman: The Animated Series", would have not crushed and burn like the city of Alexandria, rendered to ashes and dust that it could never be fully revived in canon.

Based on this panel from Boy Wonder (2024) by Juni Ba.

Headcanon: This is the rose of taif, you cannot convince me otherwise 😭

#Let me (brutalia shipper) be #I am still mourning after years of neglect and abandonment issues #like can you imagine how much culture would be injected to Bruce's pasty ass bicuit ass if he really married Talia???????#Talia al ghul #Damian wayne #Damian al ghul wayne #Dc comics #Fanart #I have been rooting for Bruce and Talia since she appeared in BTAS so dont judge us lowly shippers if dc editorials let this ship crash #permanently that it seemed like it could never be revived from the ashes of the fans' tears #still delulu that my OTP would be trululu #I will never stop drawing them gdi!#This is how i cope okay?????!!!#Mama talia #If she lied about the abortion it would still be f*cked up and unforgiveable but wouldn't be an assassination to her established character #Batman #Robin

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detentiontrack · 2 months

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A lot of people think my autism is “getting better” but I think a lot of it has to do with being an adult and being able to make my own decisions. I used to have frequent meltdowns and shutdowns and on the outside seemed more “obviously” autistic. But I’m 19 now, so I have a lot more say in my life. I only buy one brand of socks. I only own 2 types of shoes. All of my clothes are the exact same. I only eat what *I* want to eat and think feels safe. I can drive and can choose when to leave for appointments and obligations. If I were still a child and forced to wear socks with seams in the toes or clothes that fit me wrong or foods that trigger my sensory issues or have my routine thrown off by other people, I would have A LOT more issues. But since I’m an adult, I have control over most aspects of my life. I’m not “less autistic” now, I just have more free will and know myself well enough to avoid triggers.

#autism is a neurodevelopmental condition #you’re born with it #it can’t ‘get better’#BUT!!!!!!#and this is a huge but #you CAN learn ways to deal with it better!!!!#you can learn how to cope #and how to work with autism instead of fighting it #let me tell you. if someone forced me to eat peas right now….. I would scream and cry and throw up from a sensory issues meltdown #but I’m an adult so I just. don’t buy or use peas.#and my mom knows me well enough that if she makes a dinner with peas #she just pulls a portion out for me before adding the peas #actually autistic #actually autism #autism #autistic #neurodivergent

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