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love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.
love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.
love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.
love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.
maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.
recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.
#writeblr#warm up#ps edited so it is more clear where “half” of men is coming from:#15% literally don't even touch water#an ADDITIONAL 35% ''wash'' by just running their hands under water WITHOUT SOAP#15+35 =50%#like that is not washing ur hands. go back and use soap#btw the numbers for women are 4% never washing and 15% ''just water''#which is still gross but like. sooo much better yikes#ps i know we're all gay on this site but watching ppl ''correct'' my math on this has been wild#i have a learning disability im genuinely bad at math so i check EVERY time someone corrects me#but no they're just confidently wrong.....#182 hours is a week babes. 182/24 (number of hours in a day) is ~7.6#that's where i got that number from. also from rent we know there's 168 hours in a week.#ALSO btw if u read this and ur response is ''men are also struggling rn tho'' like babe you missed the point of it tho#this doesn't even make fun of men it's legit just pointing out that bigotry against women isn't founded#in anything men actually CARE about . like they don't actually CARE about ''being clean'' when they make fun of armpit hair#or they would be WASHING THEIR HANDS.#men pretend to be rollin' in cash and Apex Predators and instead they are trained to be lazy and unwilling to act in emergencies#i have never and will never make fun of men for asking for more support on important topics like DV and mental health.#this is so clearly not about men; it's about how common just being plainly misogynistic has become.#like they don't try to hide it anymore.
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#natural hair care#naturalhair#natural hair#natural hairstyles#wash day#hair trim#black women#books#natural hair products#type 4#hair type
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Two Women Washing Their Hair
Suzuki Harunobu
woodblock print, ca. 1767-1768
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The Wash and Go hairstyles are so simple, yet so beautiful and empowering!
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#history#black liberation#wash and go#hairstyles#natural hair movement#african american history#1960s#2000s#united states#black girl magic#womens history#black hairstyles#coquette#soft girl#women supporting women#american history#black hair#women empowerment#black beauty#soft black girls#civil rights movement#african american women#black femininity#sisterhood#hairstyle history#afro#african american culture#black coquette#nickys facts
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A Black Girl’s natural hair wash day (who happens to be a polyglot), with English subtitles — bc she speaks Korean?? 🤯🥲 Had to share.
#black tumblr#black twitter#natural hair#textured hair#black hair#type 4 hair#natural hair motivation#natural hair movment#black women#black girls#Korean#polyglot#black polyglots#language#subtitles#south korea#black girl magic#natural hair care#natural hair community#wash day#YouTube#natural hair youtubers
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self love is when i cut up fruit for myself like my grandmother used to.
#i remember watching her slice apples and peaches#handling the fruit with a tender strength#never bruising the flesh like i would with my eager hands#she was stronger than me but her hands were gentle in ways that i couldnt fathom#the same gentle hands that washed my hair in the kitchen sink#held fruit with the same level of care that she held my head with#everytime i would try and slice the fruit myself i was overzealous#the juice spilling between my fingers because i didnt understand that my excitement could be violent#something about the kindness in her hands as she held the fruit felt religious#i went to church almost everyday and stared up at the crucifix#but something about the sound of birds coming through the open windows#as she poured all of her love into a bowl of apple slices for me#felt infinitely holier than anything that could happen in a church#she told me that one day i would be strong enough to do it myself#i didnt understand what she meant until i was older#you cant be gentle if you arent strong enough to be violent#poetry#writing#writers on tumblr#prose#thoughts#religion#religious trauma#writing poetry#fandom#poetry fragments#poetry forms#poetry for women#women#religious guilt
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FOR ALL MY NATURAL HAIR BABES!
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My Babies 🤗
#that-scorpio#black queen#blackgirlmagic#nc#women with glasses#brownskinned#black women#black tumblr#natural hair#i love my locs#messy locs#locs#women with locs#girls with locs#loc journey#washed locs#fresh locs
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#natural hair care#wash day#hair washing#hair tips#natural hair#naturalhair#natural hairstyles#black women#natural hair products#camile rose
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#natural hair#melanin#black women are beautiful#natural hairstyle#type 4 natural hair#black tumblr#black girl magic#wash and go
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when boys take an everything shower we spend 5 minutes washing and 40 minutes fighting the shower demons
#bishop.txt#dawg i do not miss the societal pressure of the everything shower#i never want to shave my legs again#i would rather die than shave my pussy again#the way women are expected to literally spend years of their lives making themselves look 'prettier' is so fucked up#i genuinely hope the everything shower does a horrible death#its not just washing your body and your hair its doing a billion things#i see ppl on instagram saying they do entire face masks and stuff in there while shaving every inch of their bodies its so scary
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Happy Black History Month!💜
Here is a collection of facts on the origins and history behind different black hair styles!💜
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#history#black hairstyles#bantu knots#baby hair#black women#wash and go#womens history#black beauty#african culture#black history month#natural hair#black excellence#black coquette#women empowerment#black girl magic#african history#black femininity#hair braiding#black history#nickys facts
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#black girl luxury#black femininity#high maintenance#black women in luxury#femininity#level up#black women in leisure#feminine#leveling up#natural hair#curly hair#good hair#coily hair#African hair#wash day
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Starting a Routine
If you haven't already, you should get started on formatting a routine for your wash days and keeping track of what days you wash your hair. Knowing when you'll have your wash days and what you'll get done when they eventually come around can be more helpful than you may think.
One important thing to note is that your curly hair routine doesn't necessarily require a three-pronged binder, complete with color-coded sticky notes and alphabetically arranged tabs. Something as simple as modifying your digital calendar or opening up a new note on your notes app can help you arrange everything related to your curly hair regimen.
As I stated before, the frequency of your wash days depends on a wide array of factors. Chances are, you already have a general idea of how often you wash your hair. The only thing that remains for you to do is to set your schedule in stone by taking note of when you'll wash your hair. This can make it easier to work around days that you anticipate will be busier than others and allow you to make time for curly hair needs.
Another important thing to do is to start a routine. Searching up "curly hair routine for [your curl type] hair" on YouTube will give you a surplus of videos that give insight into what other people with your curl type are doing to take care of their curls on wash day. You should look through a diverse spread of videos to get a general idea of some common things people with your curl type are doing. For example, are they all using a hair diffuser on their hair? Are they scrunching their curls with a mousse? What type of brush are they using to de-tangle their hair? Once you have a grasp on what you want to incorporate into your own regimen, you can start drafting your curly hair routine. When researching, you should make a mental note of where your information is coming from. Videos with more views are not necessarily more reliable or objectively beneficial. Plus, videos that are posted or sponsored by a particular brand, especially one that specializes in selling hair products, may be biased toward showcasing specific items.
#self care#haircare#curly hair#curlygirl#black tumblr#black is beautiful#black girl magic#black women#black beauty#girls with curls#long hair#short hair#natural curls#2a hair#2b hair#2c hair#3a hair#3b hair#3c hair#4a hair#4b hair#4c hair#hair care tips#tips#health tips#wash day#shampoo and conditioner#shampoo#beauty products#health products
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my niece once got upset w my dad bc he wouldn't buy her some overpriced drunk elephant skincare product. she was freaked out about getting wrinkles. at age eight. i wish her mom had never bought her that damn smartphone
#idk if my brother is dad of the year or anything but he didn't want her to have the smartphone so points for that#her mom bought it so she could track my niece whenever she's with her dad (my brother) and text her constantly#and considering she's so petty that she made my niece leave an easter gathering with a terminal family member early it's like#i'm sure she has her side of it and my brother was probably a dick somehow but girl you're punishing an eight year old about it#and i really don't think shit like ''ice age is for boys (so i won't watch it)'' came from my brother#i'm sure i'm biased bc it's my brother but genuinely i think she bought my niece that phone to spite him#and now she's just glued to it bc that's what smartphones are designed to do !!!!#you would really fuck up your own kid's attention span and self esteem just to get back at your ex???#and this isn't even the worst parenting move on her part but luckily that guy died and can't be around my niece anymore ever <3#but i just worry about her. since i moved away i don't really get to see her.#and not to be narcissistic but i feel like it's good for her to see women w short hair no makeup comfy clothes etc.#i wanna be a good example for her#i told her she should just worry about washing with soap wearing sunscreen and drinking lots of water#i just can't relate at all. at her age all my friends were boys and i was into dinosaurs and pokemon and werewolves#a lot of girls... didn't really like me 😔 i remember being upset bc one girl called me a tomboy#anyway if u read all this. secret radioactive kiss just for u. mwah 💚
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