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Cities of Sigmar (Hammerhal) Barmaid I love you.
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i'll let phie-san say it:
#the vids i've seen on tiktok picking at her immediately get a block...#bitter otaku sitting in their socks in their mom's basement feeling threatened/enraged by a hot successful black woman outnerding them-core#also this kind of criticism is so demoralising and damaging to people who are trying to learn another language#also. accents are NORMAL and not a bad thing#i don't think that the end goal of picking up a new language necessarily has to be sounding native#and i know sometimes the way japanese people react like SUGOIII? *W* when a foreigner says like one (1) word in japanese is joked about#but like... genuinely... i always love when someone clearly has made an effort and took the time to learn some of the language#anyway she can step on those haters <3#also like. itās just some lines in a song people need to relaxā¦#megan thee stallion#autoplay warning#japan#japanese#language#mamushi
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āYeah, so like Iām actually a trans man! Uh, I finally worked up the courage to tell you, so yeahā¦ā
āEwwwā¦ why would anyone choose to be a man? KAM! Like you have the choice to be a WOMAN and you CHOSE to be a man?????ā
āHuh? Youāve always said youāre a trans ally. Some of our other friends are trans. Why would you-ā
āAre you trying to say Iām transphobic? I acknowledged that youāre a man!ā
#transandrophobia#anti transmasculinity#transmisandry#trans men#malgendering#this exact exchange has not happened to meā¦ but itās a compilation of-#things happened to me + things happened to friends + videos Iāve seen from transandrophobes who think like this with a complete lack of-#self awareness#people have probably made posts before.#hell. I mightāve even made a post like this before#the transandrophobe in these situations is actually a cis woman approximately 90% of the time lmao#the cis women who claim to be ``not a r*df*māā while espousing their beliefs
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while i get where this comes from and itās true to an extent, i reeeaaaally donāt like how people try to explain ātrans men donāt [necessarily] have male privilegeā with things like āsome trans men donāt passā.
like sure thatās the most obvious example (someone who is seen as a woman wonāt have the privilege that comes with being seen a man) but youāre still acting like being a passing trans man is just a free opt-in to male privilege which isā¦ā¦ā¦kinda the issue.
#personal#ohh donāt be weird on my post please this is just on my mind#iāve seen it so many times just in the last few days#like yeah a passing trans man receives more benefits than anyone whoās seen as a woman#and iām sure most people making those arguments DO understand that itās not that simple#but very few people engaging in these kinds of discussions in good faith would argue that someone seen as a woman has male privilege#(note: VERY FEW people engaging in GOOD FAITH)#i see people be like āeveryone thinks all trans men passā and likeā¦ā¦.WHO is thinking that whoās also gonna listen to you here#maybe itās just my grew-up-in-a-conservative-religious-environment thing but your experience is not universal#i would also like you to consider whether āanyone that looks like a man has male privilegeā is consistent with your other views#1k#(oh god guys please)
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One of my biggest pet peeves is the justice league being labelled as " The Avengers of DC" and its like. No? The avengers are law enforcement. The Justice League are volunteers
#its like -- captain america is the staple of US military and Superman is a public servant#the one avenger member who has no bounds or legal obligation is tony and its bc hes rich. you could argue that he actually lost#autonomy when shield recruited him because like. protection isn't necessary tied to 'good.' the avengers protect the planet bc sure#its what they believe in and feel like its their duty and yada yada but ultimately they're self serving and most of their#help is accidental. i say most of bc we've seen they abstain from getting involved unless they have a common interest#with dc its like. you have these people in a position of privilege (having superpowers -- which gives them a spot of advantage to ppl who#dont have it) who do the right thing because they WANT TO. and they can stop at any time because nothing stops them.#they COULD say 'yeah you're on your own. we don't really care anymore. duces!' but they Dont.#because through its many flaws dc realizes that goodness isn't only a choice -- its a responsibility#theres probably better ways to say this but. alas#batman#superman#wonder woman#green arrow#aquaman#the justice league#tjl#justice league#dc#dc comics#text#text post
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Something that really sets Wille and Simon apart from other queer ships is that when we say their love language is physical touch, IT REALLY IS PHYSICAL TOUCH. And Iām not speaking of just sex. Over the course of the show, the amount of touching between them is astronomical. And thatās really something rarely seen in queer media. There may be moments here or there, but often times thereās a lack of physical contact unless itās for āthe plotā. Wille and Simon feel like a real couple in the way theyāre always physically reaching out for each other.
#wilmon#young royals#OH ALSO#wtfock#sobbe#cuz they def belong in this category too#constant touching between them#but you donāt get it with most queer ships and idk if itās just bc production is afraid of it being ātoo muchā or what#but itās annoying#and frustrating#just something Iāve been pondering on recently#tv has come a long way in terms of representation#but it still feels like thereās almost a FEAR of too much affection between queer pairings#itās seen more with mlm than wlw cuz I think theyāre like oh well women are more physically affectionate in general even with friends#but damn like#I mean Iām a woman and bisexual so obv I have a lot of queer friends#and a couple of my besties are gay men who have been married for years#fun thing they live right next door to my parents lol#and Iāve known one half (michael) since I was 16 and he was 14 lol my friend jen actually had a big crush on him#and I was like GIRL#BUT ANYWAY#he and rick have been married for many years and theyāre SO AFFECTIONATE in a casual way that you would be with a partner#just touches here and there on the shoulder or hand hold or kisses like???#obviously they arenāt the only gay couple I know but Iām around them so much so they are a good example#Lol this got weirdly personal but the point is that we donāt see that shit in queer media#at least not enough of it itās like producers/writers are afraid of ātoo muchā#so they give not enough#ANYWAYYYY rant over!!!
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CLARISSA
NEW BLORBO UNLOCKED
#SHES AN ADULT WOMAN TRAPPED IN THE BODY OF A LITTLE GIRL AND A LITTLE GIRL TRAPPED IN THE BODY OF AN ADULT WOMAN#AND SHES ALL ALONE AND SHES SEEN HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE DIE AND KNOWS THE SAME THING WILL HAPPEN TO HER BUT SLOWLY SLOWLY SLOWLY SLOWLY#AND SHE CANT DO A THING AND SHE'S SORT OF IN LOVE WITH THE ELDRITCH BEAST WHO KEEPS HER HERE AND IS TRAPPED HIMSELF#AND SHE JUST WANTS TO LEAVE BUT SHE DOESNT KNOW WHO SHE WILL BE WHEN SHE FINALLY ESCAPES#AND SUDDENLY SHES RIPPED AWAY FROM THE ONLY WORLD SHE'S KNOWN FOR LIFETIMES AND HER BODY IS WRONG AND NOTHING IS AS IT SHOULD BE#AND THIS LITTLE BOY SHE'S WATCHED GROW UP HAS TORN HER FROM HER LIFE LIKE SHE ALWAYS WANTED BUT NOW SHE DOESNT KNOW WHO SHE IS OR WAS#OR HOW TO GO ON FROM HEREEEEEEEE AUGHHHH#sfth#shoot from the hip#sfthposting#sfth clarissa#strange noises from the hole in the wall#toasty talks#blorboposting
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"girls support girls-" okay but are you normal about queer women? are you normal about BIWOC? are you normal about disabled women? are you normal about autistic women? are you normal about fat women? alternative women? unattractive women? are you normal about women who choose not to shave their legs and armpits and faces? are you normal about butches and tomboys and masculine women? are you normal about trans women? are you normal about trans men? are you normal about nonbinary folk and people who lie outside the gender binary or renounce gender all together? are you normal about women who absolutely despise and detest the latest trends? are you normal about weird women who unsettle you with their interests? are you normal about women who don't wear makeup, who will never wear makeup, who openly dislike makeup and the makeup industry?
#ive seen a LOT of (usually white cis het) women and girls on instagram say shit like girls support girls and then turn around and shit on#women who dont follow trends#i really hate it when a woman posts about how they dislike [insert trendy thing here] and all of a sudden shes a pick me who doesnt like#other girls#ESPECIALLY when it comes to things like makeip#*makeup#its really pissing me off#this and the rise of the 'im just a girl' 'girl math' 'girl dinner' 'girlhood is-'#SHUT UP!!!!#WOMEN HAVE MANY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES!!!#if i have to see one more 'normalize femininity' post again im going to LOSE IT#alas i need instagram because i contact people from my school on there#me posts#edit: something else ive seen is just how prevalent white feminism has become#white feminism and blatent radfem rhetoric has just started being spread EVERYWHERE#like holy shit we are regressing
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If yu ziyuan had been a character in a different story set when she was younger I'd be on here making posts about her like "she would NOT fucking have kids" because genuinely the worst thing you could do to that woman was make her a mother. Except in the story she's in she is a mother. And that's what's wrong with her.
#mdzs#yu ziyuan#deeply cruel. never seen a woman who should NOT have had kids this badly.#like the jiang parents marriage specifically has a lot of problems and divorce being a good option in universe would have solved many thing#but yzy should not have had kids with ANYONE.#very thankful for the existence of the jiang siblings but unfortunately in a better world they would not have been born#sorry kiddos unfortunately you're stuck in a thought experiment about the non-identity problem
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can't believe a show based on a videogame (usually games adaptations are notoriously bad, which isn't the case here tho) gave me the beauty and the beast/twisted mirrors/enemies to traveling companions/ruthless antihero+optmistic but still badass heroine who takes none of his shit/age gap but make it sexy dynamic of my dreams. as much as i love maximus and i think he deserves the best writing ever because 1. he's a clever deconstruction of the aspiring Knight bro who's actually a bit of a loser and, as much as lucy, sees the world in black&white at first and then doesn't get what he thought he wanted but what he needs (or at least i hope he'll eventually get it), and 2. he's a cutie and i want an epic love story for him too, it's very funny how they tried to give us a puppy kind of romance and the tumblr girlies still fixated on the "toxic ~she bites his finger off and he cuts hers off and sews it on his hand in what we'll pretend it's a symbolic marriage rings exchange or whatever~ asshole who used to be a nice guy/good girlā¢ with a lot of spunk and hidden anger but unshakeable morals" kind of relationship.
#mind you idt the writers will ever have the guts to go for this pair or anything and i'm perfectly okay with the maximus/lucy romance#but still. they tried to give us the wholesome love story between two cuties with a killer side#and the fandom went ~mmmh we kinda want for that girl and the noseless radioactive ghoul to fuck nasty actually#shhdhdhf i'm sorry but this was so predictable to me. conosco i miei polli#also. i don't fully understand those who see it as a father/daughter thing? just because it worked on tlos#doesn't mean we need the same kind of dynamic here#1. despite him being an actual father (or at least. he was 200+ years ago) i've never seen a less paternal character than the ghoul lmao#2. lucy is an adult woman. young but in her mid twenties i guess? cooper had (and maybe still has) a daughter but the kid was like. 6 or 7?#lucy doesn't need a daddy she's a grown up. stop infantilizing women all the freaking time#let them be fully equals!! let them be bickering road trip companions/a killer squad/tentative allies who eventually form a real bond#i SWEAR if the writers go full parent/child bs with them in s2 because they're more popular#(at least on ao3. i don't expect the same level of insanity from the general audience)#than the canon ship i'll riot. idt they will but still#..... maybe they should go for a hot max/lucy/coop polycule instead. that would be interesting lmao#vaultghoul#fallout#val rambles in the tags#val speaks#txt
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ijbol idk man releasing screenshots of very polarizing things said in a private discord server between friends in a public "callout" post is #the most #tumblrific thing ive ever seen LOL.
#opinion š± in tags
#our life#gb patch#gb patch games#our life beginnings & always#i also think it should be acknowledged that the white queer 'experience' and the black queer 'experience' are totally different#bc there are multiple occasions where GBLady has recieved an ask where shes accused of Something bc of a super specific issue#this whole situation is just the biggest case of GetOverYourself ive ever seen icl#i think rose is entitled to their opinion as a black trans person + a person who previously identified as a trans man#i think its easy to attack rose as an inflammatory person who 'purposely incites discourse' bc they dont use that super-pacifying#everyone is welcome on my blog tone that if not used is immediately interpreted by white people as hostility and rudeness#i don't agree with a lot of their takes that ive seen on their blog that were allegedly posted BEFORE they became a sensitivity reader#but irdgaf#bc its their personal blog and theyre entitled to their opinion and i don't believe u get to feel insulted or slighted#or deem them as unprofessional and inflammatory just bc they didnt speak to u on their personal blog as Nicely as u wanted them to#i just think this all leads back to a growing sense of entitlement in the gb patch fan community#esp among the our life fans#just bc this is a deeply customizable game doesn't mean that the dev can customize Every Single Thing to ur liking#it also doesn't mean that ignorance on the devs part or the staffs part in most capacities is purposefully discriminatory in nature#like no offence but wdym 'ur hands are shaking and u need to get offline' bc of all of This... please grow up and go outside#also This is controversial but a lot of yall use the fact that GBLady is a white cis woman who happens to b writing stories#with a very diverse and nuanced cast to railroad ur ideals on how the characters should b written#and if they don't meet Your personal experience as a member of that marginalized community then They are automatically written incorrectly#again just a very entitled community IJBOL#idgaf if u disagree come and kill me over it š¤·š¾āāļø#but also im very curious abt what people think !! š#i also dk how to phrase this but the white gb patch community also Reeks of this strange entitlement and i hate to say it but . . .#Sensitivity ??#they have this weird almost parasocial relationship with GBLady + this fantastical relationship with the characters themselves#LOL idk if anybody gets what i mean
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Mini rant below and in the tags, the only time Iāll talk about this and my personal take on it.
The way people talk about hypothetical male Anya on Twitter and the idea of how Mouthwashing would play out if the genders were swapped makes me remember how people still donāt take sexual assault and rape with male victims with the same gravity, especially when the perpetrator is female.
#not even gonna tag this cause I donāt want to start discourse in the tags but you can absolutely still explore the concepts of patriarchy#toxic masculinity misogyny and rape culture if the genders where swapped#like those concepts donāt disappear just because Anya is a boy now cause you have to think of all the ways it applies to male victims and#I just donāt understand why people keep getting angry when people facilitate different discussion the game opens you up to#like yes I get the frustration with not seeing the conversations you want but start them go find them why complain on other posts when#people are bringing attention to similar issues and the ways they are overlooked dismissed or blame the victim#I for one think we should have more basic clarifying conversations of SA rape cultures and how toxic masculinity and sexism create scenarios#like the Tulpar and enable men like Jimmy but I also can understand and enjoy the topic being expanded upon to include other cases on a#flipped scale like yes how male centered the fandom is is annoying considering the topic but seeing comments saying that SA isnāt as harmful#to men cause they canāt get pregnant is a whole can of worms you really need to unpack cause holy shit#like in this scenario if Jimmy is pregnant and canāt get rid of the baby Anya is the father yes Jimmy is pregnant but thatās because in this#swap she assaulted a man lied to either say it was consensual he forced himself on her or like canon panicked and semi admitted to forcing#him either way he is afraid to do anything because men do get blamed for defending themselves against women in these situations not to#mention the shaming that occurs because he is a man and should step up for the kids sake and likely be told he should be proud a girl wanted#him that much like yes you have to explain it more but bodily autonomy in this scenario is just as nuanced and I canāt believe I have to#defend something being male centered in a game where the rape of a woman is the catalyst just because people are saying SA for men#is not as damaging or degrading or harmful to autonomy as it is to a woman like how can you want conversations on rape culture and shut down#people bringing up other nuances in the conversation#like people are gonna jump around with it I know but if you only want to talk about one thing stay in that sphere like I just donāt get#going to another space especially one that isnāt even being weird or toxic and starting shit cause you donāt like it like the amount of#unnecessary and mean comments on normal art of think pieces Iāve seen on Twitter is crazy like itās stupid callout shit for the sake of just#not liking something like Iām seeing so much screen shotting and vague posting like just at the bitch and fight about it like itās still a#relatively small fandom ur just asking for in fighting on like the few things we shouldnāt have to worry about#as a victim my self and who has been in other situations and being afab I just canāt understand the vitriol toward this sort of discussion#mouthwashing#actually I will tag this cause you can explore the themes in mouthwashing still stop being freaks and just block bitches ong
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One day Iāll go through med school and then Iāll go through residency and then Iāll go through a fellowship and then Iāll be the most crybaby neurosurgeon you could think of. Bursting into tears if I so much as graze ur hypothalamus with my forceps
#Yesterday I shadowed a neurologist for the first time and basically we got done seeing a patient whoās also a heart surgeon#And I turned to the doctor and was like Ok what do we do#The thing is this patient has dementia and we donāt really have a cure for that yet so the study heās enrolling in is largely observational#Still I expected her to follow up on him in much more frequent increments#Instead this woman goes āweāll see him in 6-9 months butā¦ not even sure if heāll be here by then soooā#Basically implying he might be dead in a year#AND I WAS LIKE. Blown away by how blase she was#And ever since then a fiendish sort of melancholy followed me everywhere I went .#Bc I havenāt stopped thinking about the heart surgeon#I donāt get how she can stop thinking about him#I donāt understand people who can stop thinking about something like that#I know neurologists like her have seen patients come and go many a time but I was disturbed#So I made a pact w myself never to lose my humanity. Half of why Iām so into medicine is bc of its humane aspects#And in 10 years Iāll look back at this and hopefully still be just as annoyingly sensitive as I am today#I think Iām just overall disillusioned w how little humanity some people seem to have but that doesnāt mean I have to be that way too#p
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i saw someone say people are only just now headcanoning silco as trans bc his younger version looked āeffeminateā and i need to say not me bitch! iāve been here since season 1! i saw his nasty ass self roll up on screen and lovingly bestowed him the honorary transgender badge because itās the kindest thing i can do to a character i like. i do not play about old man pussy never have never will. shimmer? hrt. the eye drop scenes? making jinx give him his tshot. heās got designer top surgery scars from dr corin āsingedā reveck.
ive seen similar said about people headcanoning viktor as trans and i say the very same thing ive been on this train since it departed the station finding out about his āglorious evolutionā only strengthened that for me that is not the catchphrase of a cis man
this is my truth. i know it deep in my bones.
#his younger version was validating for one reason and thatās that im trans and i have longer hair#and that made me happy#silco arcane#viktor arcane#āwhy not vander or jayce?ā bc i donāt fuck with vander like that sorry vander#as for jayce. donāt play with me on that iāve seen the most gorgeous trans jayce art and i see it every time i close my eyes#singed is also trans he diy-ed every part of his transition#and if i say i also hc jinx as transmasc?#everything about them is the same they just use they/he now#and maybe get top surgery but they got other things going on rn itās not a priority#iāll joke about silco being mistaken for a woman but like.#i think him and viktor are very handsome displays of masculinity#idk WHO said otherwise about viktor#just because heās skinny and has longer hair doesnāt make him effeminate hey guys
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Noticing that TV and film will often have a character either have had an abortion in the past that isn't showcased on screen (and just used as part of the character's ~fucked up and twisted backstory~) OR contemplate getting an abortion in the present day but not to through with it. Just once I want to see someone delete that fetus within the events of the plot and not be like. Extremely majorly punished for it and/or be in the wrong
#ramblings of a lunatic#was watching a tv show w the fam recently and it's the 2nd series of a show that was clearly written with only 1 in mind#so in the 2nd season a character gets pregnant (bc ofc) and contemplates getting an abortion#only to do the whole 'omg she thinks she's lost the baby and realizes she wanted to keep it all along!'#which like. fine and valid and happens to ppl irl I'm sure#but like. this season doesn't establish if she wanted kids prior or if she has a stable job (she was struggling career wise-#-last season and the timeskip this season doesn't go into it)#AND has this fucking bizarre scene w/ her boyfriend (whos mostly been irrelevant and occasionally annoying up til now)#where he says it's 'our pregnancy' that she was going to terminate and when she (rightfully) bites back-#-saying 'you mean MY pregnancy?!' he just. storms off and deflects#which would be one thing but we have to wrap up the main plot so she just apologizes to him (for other plot stuff)#and we're never given any indication that his opinion has changed and they're just happily parenting at the end of the season#which just. left a bad taste in my mouth#like I KNOW i know not every bad thing said on screen needs a big blinking arrow that points out that it's Bad and Wrong#but idk how I'm supposed to feel in a series that has painted itself as explicitly feminist up til this point#presents the outcome of a woman dating and bearing a child for a man w seemingly zero respect for her bodily autonomy as happily ever after#w no follow up#like the whole series is centered on a group of sisters and this pregnancy story happened to the youngest one#who's always seen as needing to 'grow up' in season 1. so assuming this is meant to be building off that arc it's so WEIRD still#bc yes being a parent is an opportunity for many ppl to mature emotionally but that's not really something the character-#-reflects on all season. it's more abt her burying her past relationship w a season 1 guy (who was infinitely more interesting than new guy)#-than anything to do with that#AND EVEN IF IT WAS the notion of pregnancy as a punishment/reckoning meant to make her grow up or take responsibility-#-which is secretly a blessing in disguise i. god the show fell apart so hard here for me#and my mom and sister were just cooing over the baby at the end and i didn't speak up bc i didn't want to be a bitch#and in all fairness I'm probably being a tad uncharitable in this post but like. don't piss me OFF man#anyway. normalise abortion storylines that aren't backstory fodder and aren't fakeouts for baby plots. please
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Me watching the LGBT community who almost never rarely gives black women and girls, asexuals, or aromantics genuine respect, pretend weāre all friends and have always treated us right the minute itās June 1st and want to use black women(mainly darkskinned) and girls as their little poster girl:
#asexual#aromantic#Itās always coming from the non black people(including other racial minorities) too#and the stuff coming out of the lgbt community towards black women and girls has gotten real nasty#i have seen numerous people(although theyāre mainly black) say that black people are inherently queer because weāre unnatural and strange#in the eyes of white supremacy and white people#like are you ok in the head??? why do you want to say that black people are inherently strange and we defy every social standard#as of our existence is a social statement#I personally think the worst thing Iāve personally heard(from yet another black person)#was that black women and girls would get seen as men or trans women because our hair is nappy#what does our natural hair have to do with getting seen as men or trans women??#and the white lgbt people just applauded them and hearted their tweet#it annoys me how for some weird reason political and social movements will mainly use black women especially darker black women as rep#and Itās almost always by a non black person#like why donāt you use a girl or woman from your own race in your political and social justice artwork#oh wait thatās right#because in general the lgbt community views black women and girls as magical negras who will be their ride or die sista soulja#who will mule and fight for them no matter how badly they outright insult us or sneakily talk badly about us#pride month is basically another black history month when it comes to how everyone reacts to it#every reaction to it is superficial and theyāre only celebrating us because they feel like they had to or wanted social points#had it been any other month they wouldāve been focusing on the group that they belong to
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