#unbothered energy

[agirlwithglam]

@agirlwithglam's 5 rules to being unbothered ✨

(made this a while ago lol, thought i'd share it here!)

[honeytonedhottie]

how to ignore the 3D and be unbothered⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍭

i feel like lately we've been putting too much power in the 3D as if we dont control it. like we look towards the 3D for validation instead of the 4D and thats so not hot. this is a short and straight-to-the-point post because manifesting is short and sweet ✨ lets talk about how to be an unbothered queen when manifesting.

i dont care what the 3D says i know i have it…💬🎀

this is the affirmation thats been on LOOP for me when i see something that doesnt align with the assumption that im trying to feed myself, and i'll say that then affirm.

remember, affirming kills doubt and nips wavering in the bud, just make sure to check yourself and simply say I DONT CARE. I KNOW I HAVE IT. when u do this u shut down opposing thoughts and ur persisting.

[succulentsiren]

Not taking anything personally is the key to remaining unbothered and confident.

When somebody is disrespectful towards you, it’s about their insecurities, not you.

Learn to let their comments roll off of you, like oil in water. Don’t absorb their toxicity. Treat these toxic situations like a test to your inner strength and character. Stay solid, assertive and unfazed. Let them know that no one can break your character.

[pr1ncessk1tty]

[violent138]

Hal, smugly: "If you were even capable of making one, singular joke, I'd combust on the spot."

Bruce, looking up from his paperwork with malicious intent:

Clark, tired: "I admire how much you guys care about something that's going to leave you both so deeply disappointed."

[kyoyasbirkenstocks]

Y'all remember that post manga special where Haruhi dreamed Kyoya was drugging Huni with growth suppression meds?

[ky-landfill]

"Dunno know why you're so worried, Bruce. Power cuts happen all the time down in the Narrows."

[burirammin]

Shout out to these two dudes in full vale and marc race suit living their best lives at Thailand 2019 race.

[severinstarblaze]

Season 2 when Season 2 when Season 2 when-

I've caught a bad case of fallout fever and I'm going to metaphorically cough all over your collective faces so it's your problem too <3

[agirlwithglam]

STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU!!!!

NO ONE. and i mean *NOBODY* will EVER have a "right" or valid opinion of you! have they been through all the exact experiences and learnt the lessons you've been through? no!!

what they think and say about you IS NOT A REFLECTION OF YOU. everything they say about you is based on THEIR OWN past experiences and how they've been raised! its NOT PERSONAL. its NOT always about you.

for example: if someone wears a high crop top or a mini skirt/ shorts, some cultures might frown or be disgusted by that. but thats only because of the way they've been raised is to show no skin. its not about the person wearing the clothes.

so you need to get over yourself. go out into public wearing those clothes, be proud of yourself. you've been through so much and so have those other people. if they say something bad, don't take it personally. its about their life. not yours.

ITS NEVER PERSONAL.

so as long as it's not hurting anyone, go and live your fu<3ing life!

[unexpectedbrickattack]

babpy.

[trainingdummyrabbit]

living. thriving. in its lane. moisturized.

[honeytonedhottie]

hot girl summer reminders⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍹

GET OFF UR PHONE ;

don’t waste away ur summer scrolling on ur phone and staring at a screen 24/7. go outside and get some fresh air, don’t waste too much time digitally and live ur life. literally put the phone down 💀. put a time limit on ur phone if u need to but its good to practice discipline and self control so that ur making the most of ur summer time.

GET SOME FRESH AIR AND SUNLIGHT ;

make sure to go for walks and get fresh air. let the sunlight touch ur skin and spend some time outside if u can cuz it’s so good for you. make sure to ground urself in nature and not overstimulate yourself with dopamine. and remember, make sure to wear ur spf to protect ur skin from the sun so u can stay healthy and beautiful.

STAY HYDRATED ;

speaking of healthy and beautiful... this summer is a HOT one so if ur not drinking enough water ur gonna be so super dehydrated so please drink water. put some ice in ur water and refresh urself. you can even put fruits or mint in ur water to give it some flavor.

PROTECT UR PEACE ;

block. don’t hesitate to block anything or anyone that you feel threatens ur peace and make sure that ur protecting ur peace. taking adequate breaks from social media and time away from ur screens and just pampering urself inside and out.

[succulentsiren]

Love to see women remain unbothered and detached to the opinions of bitter people aiming to shame them.

It’s really about having the mindset of “Your opinions of me are none of my business and I’ll continue to flourish whether you approve or not.”

This unshakable confidence is what i love to see women live by.

[snow-angel-777]

The Art Of Detachment For The Hyper-Empathetic

- do you feel like everything is triggering you, you ruminate on conversations, you get overly attached to others and or the things they say?

- do you feel/ get told “you care too much” or “too passionate” and prone to feeling irritated or upset by things

- do you feel you couldn’t do most of “unbothered” and “detachment” posts?

If this is you, you might be an overly empathetic person. This can be both a blessing and a curse. Today I will tell you how to fix this and master the art of unbothered and detached to protect your peace.

You need to use your empathy to explain someone’s behavior in a way to dismiss what they are doing, which avoids you from getting into in a victim mindset.

Example : Someone says something mean to you.

How an overly sympathetic person would react naturally : “This person was so mean to me, they said this and that. I can’t believe that how could they do that? Did I do something wrong?” and go tell others and let it stick with them all day, rent free.

How a naturally unbothered person would react: They wouldn’t care and honestly most likely laugh it off.

How you, as an hyper-empathetic person NEEDS to react: “That’s a very odd way to react to things as an adult, being mean at this age is concerning. They must have underlying issues to behave this way, unfortunately I am unqualified to treat this behavior, hopefully they can get the help they need from a specialist”

This is how you become detached and don’t become a victim while also remaining kind and keeping up your morals!

[genevawrenn]

I'm watching back Phil getting pranked and just...this mans [corvid?].

The lightning quick attack with his sword before it could explode, slaying it within seconds of being thrown into the situation.

The fact he then gets the loot and is like "oooo I got something cool out of it"

Fixes his inventory.

Complains about being now stuck underground instead of the trap someone[s] set.

Proceeds to dig upwards.

Finds a cave, goes exploring entirely unbothered and singing Radioactive by Imagine Dragons after he starts glowing green.

He's got that main character energy.