#queen treatment

[pr1ncessk1tty]

[secretandpurplememories]

Yeh orange peel jese bare minimum ke liye mare ja rahe hai bhai mera wala toh aanar cheel kar khilata hai mujhe ab isse jada Queen treatment kya hi ho skta hai 😌🤌🏻

[siyasantlani111]

Letting go in order to receive something better ~

Hi guys welcome back to my account, so today's let's talk about letting go in order to receive something better. Today I'm going to share a story of mine which made me realise that, why things weren't working out with me and a guy.

So I used to like this guy for like 3 years, but I never confessed about my feelings to him because I used to think I'm ugly and he'd reject me. However after gaining my confidence back last summer I chose to confess my feelings , however I still knew he'd reject me, but I still wanted to confess because my feelings for him were now getting really overwhelming, and I used to think about him all day and night, I used to think of him as “knight in shining armour” however turns out that I'm the“ knight in the shining armour. ” Because my feelings where all over the place and were being overflowed I called him one day told him I like you, yes guys I just did it and I have never ever ever confessed my feelings to my crushes, I just hide it. But also I'm a very straightforward person. So I just directly told him to let my feelings out even though I knew he was going to reject me. And guess what I got rejected. And I didn't take it personally or anything. I just wanted to let my feelings out.

However I still liked him after confessing my feelings for almost a year and then this girl who was friends with him also liked him and she would always text him first, flirt with him and would also put efforts into their friendship, when I saw that I felt pretty jealous and I thought that maybe I can also be friends with this guy, I used to think atleast we would have something or some memories. However I started taking action towards it, but whenever I'd go talk to him I'd end up blushing or end up smiling or getting extremely nervous and it became really unhealthy at a point that now before being myself I'd judge myself from his point of view, I'd think would he like if I did this. I would post myself online just for his attention and started seeking his validation, and that's when I realised I'm not secure within me anymore and work more on my self worth. And I'd also think a lot before just being my authentic self in front of him. And because of that I couldn't ever be my authentic self. I used to think what if he finds me irritating? Or what if he hates me? And trust me guys if you can't be your authentic self with someone they then were never ever meant for you, because you need to feel transperant and comfortable around your partner. Now about the girl, I found out many things about her: she went on friendship dates with him whilst she had feelings for him, she confessed her feelings to him and got rejected and still continued the flirting. And I used to get jealous and I used to think that I'm the one who's lacking communication skills, or I don't put enough efforts into this guy to atleast be friends with him. Can you guys imagine I used to blame myself? That to for not being desparate enough🤡. However I realised something.

So here's the thing the girl was pretty close friend of this guy and even after being rejected she desparately flirted with him, which he allowed. Now guys if you don't like your friend in an attractive manner and they confessed and if they constantly just continue flirting, would you like the desparate energy? You'd if you let people feed your ego. However the guy allowed it. And that's when I realised that he's feeding his ego this way, and if he was truly a nice friend right then he wouldn't have allowed flirting continuously after rejecting her.

And that's when I also realised that the reason I'd always get nervous is because maybe god didn't want me to be even a friend with him, because “God wants me to have a man and not a princess. ”

A man who gives instead of receiving and that's when I was like ohhh okay maybe God has better plans for me. And at that moment when I so badly wanted to be friends with him and couldn't, I would always blame myself and think that I'm lacking somewhere I would also sometimes wonder I try hard but still it wasn't working out, and guys trust me it drained my energy out. Completely and that's when I realised no I don't want this from a man.

And honestly a man who wants a girl to feed hie ego, was never a man at all. Also he's not secure enough within himself if he wants someone to constantly praise him. Because I realised maybe the reason things never worked out between us, could be because I never wanted to feed his ego. I used to think of him as a green flag, because everyone said so but when I realised this I was like ok ok we need to be careful. Because insecure, and narcissistic guys are dangerous. Not only this much I also thought about something I was scared to bring into consideration, that was : what if I end up not having a partner ?and after learning my lesson I realised that I'd much rather not have a partner than have a boy in the form of princess.

He was never a man however, I always thought he was, my bad. And then I was like let's just let him go and start loving ourselves, and oh my god I'm so happy right now and proud of myself for making this decision. I literally also came to a point where I was literally like thinking again that what if a man doesn't gives me queen treatment what will I do then? I thought of this again.And I was like well then I'll take care of myself.

And trust me guys if I can think this then you all can too, because I have always been this lovesick cat who wanted a man to love her which is not wrong, however that love is only something that is adding up value in to my life and it shouldn't be in the spotlight. Because everytime we expect someone to love us the way we want to be loved, then its literally like depending on someone to love us however we already have so much love within us.

“The unconditional love you are searching for is already within you”

Because do we ever realise that we don't need to depend on someone else to love us, since we were always born as a whole, we were always a complete person since the day we were born, whatever we desire is already within. YOU ARE LITERALLY THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE GUYS THE BIG BIG BIG UNIVERSE.

And this is what I mean when I say when you radiate from self love it literally feels like this. It's so peaceful, it's so silent and it's your beautiful and mesmerizing energy that radiates. And the second you realise that you don't have to be liked, or cry over people, or you are more more and more than enough. That's when you start radiating this beautiful energy.

So guys please don't fall for dumb guys like that. I made a mistake and learnt from it, and also to write it down over here to make you guys realise not to forget your worth or lower your standards for a Princess.

Thankyou so much for reading my blog, I love you guys so so so much. Byeeee❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[ishayashelton]

Just want to be loved tenderly

[classysavagequeen]

That's how it is.

[mommymoonchild]

💔💙🖤

[gent1emansbl0g]

This is 100% how I treat someone when they’re all mine 💛

where?

[pr1ncessk1tty]

🍒

[scared-tobeloved]

[foreverrryourssss]

Forever Yours

[hrzwrm]

alice <3

[bbygirl-aemond]

rhaenyra telling alicent that "history will remember you as a villain; a cold queen grasping for power and then defeated" while we know full well what history did to rhaenyra's memory gave me emotional damage

[yourmoonie]

GET THEM OBSESSED WITH YOU

My energy is magnetic

I am irresistible irreplaceable and unforgettable. My energy and personality are addicting. It's a privilege to experience my presence.

I am on the highest pedestal. They worship the ground I walk on because I am a Goddess. I always get treated like a royalty because I am a QUEEN.

I have the body, the appearance, the brains, and everything. I am ME, and that's my superpower.

I am so seductive. They can never get enough of me. They are always craving my love and validation. I am their source of inspiration and motivation.

I shine brighter than the world's shinest gemstones. My presence lights up any room I enter to.

I am worthy of all the success, love, and abundance that this universe has to offer.

I believe in myself because I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to. My positive energy radiates outwards, inspiring others and becoming a magnet for endless blessings into my life.

I AM UNSTOPPABLE AND THE WORLD IS UNDER MY FEET.

[pr1ncessk1tty]

[kandr98]

I love it here🌸

Reason #2 why I love men. When you come across a man who was raised really well. They just get it. They open your door, they cover the tab, they send you a car/driver, they send flowers, they are self-aware, they make sure your taken care of, they make you feel safe, etc.

[delubabydoll]

need this for my bedroom door ໒꒱ ‧₊˚