#ugh its everything to me

[ralvezfanatic]

I'll never get over this clip of them ugh

u tryna tell me these two aren't gay ??? did u even look at them ??

[twin-fantasies]

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[teaboot]

Sometimes at work it's not my place to tell people the things I want to say, and I find I often go home at the end of the rougher days to stand blankly in my shower and tell myself over and over what I wish I could pass on.

This accomplishes very little, and mostly just gives me a tension headache, but through it all I think I've narrowed myself down to a few solid things I'd like to tell people the most.

You can't change people. Not permanently, not for anythig. You can support them, encourage them, love them, give them tools and opportunities and resources, but you can't make them change. They can change themselves if they want to, but they have to want to, and they have to want it for themselves, because they're the only one that's certain to be with them forever.

For better or worse, you make your own choices, and blaming bad choices on others doesn't only work to absolve you of responsibility- it also robs you of control. Because if you say you only did something because I did something, then you arent only shifting blame- you're admitting that you cannot control yourself, that you cannot truly make choices for yourself, that other people can control you- and as long as you truly beleive that, you'll keep facing the same problems over and over. You'll keep letting others dictate your choices, because you'll beleive that they can, and you'll never be free.

White knights on horseback are from fairytales. Nobody can help you if ou're not willing to help yourself. To try, to put the dirty work in, to belive you're worth that effort- Act as though nobody is coming to save you. From a struggle, from pain, from bad relationships, from yourself. And when you do save yourself, because you will, because failure here isn't an option if you want to survive, you'll never find another dragon that can keep you prisoner.

Don't say anything to anyone that you wouldn't want them remembering forever.

Doing the right thing in bad circumstances is hard. It's the hardest thing. But if you make the choice to do that hard thing anyways, despite your fear, you'll go on the rest of your like knowing that you're the sort of person who did something.

The present only seems the hardest because the past I over and the future hasn't happened.

There's so much joy ahead of you, the kind you can't possibly understand until you see it yourself.

The responsibility of consequences is often disguised as the power of permission. "I won't do this if you help me", "I'll work on my anger if you do this for me", "I promised you I'd quit, but can I have just one?". The unspoken question is, "Can it be your fault if this goes badly?"

You cant make someone love you the way you need to be loved. Someone can love you very much and still be bad for you, even if you love them very much in return. Two people can love each other very, very much, and try their very best, and still be wrong for each other.

Sometimes being near to someone changes you, even in good ways, and the people you become don't fit together as well as the people you were.

Caring takes work. Even if it's real. Especially if it's real. And the most important gestures aren't the grand, poetic, songs-and-flowers-and-tears moments; they're getting out of bed even though you don't want to. Paying attention to things you don't enjoy. Scrubbing pans, or opening a window, saying "thank-you", or helping carry groceries into the house. The small things fill the big things- without the small, boring, mediocre things, big things feel hollow.

Thrre is honour and dignity in humble work.

If you are a cruel and spiteful person, then you will find every place you visit to be full of the same cruel, spiteful people. This is not because the world is as cruel as you, but because everywhere you are, you will be disliked. This is the curse that comes with being persistently cruel and spiteful.

If you are a kind and ppsitive person, you will repeatedly encounter kind and positive people, because as they grow familiar with you, they will be happier to have you near. This is the reward of being a kind and positive person.

When splitting paths with loved ones, briefly or forever, aim for your last words to always be "I love you".

[bl4ckb1rd13]

so I'm in my first ever Granada Holmes watch-through and I've just finished The Musgrave Ritual and. what do you mean this episode was SUCH a delight?? Holmes with his emotional support blanket? Watson and his "splendid air!" and Holmes coughing out his damn lungs right after that? Watson quietly getting into Holmes' room when he's not looking to take a sneak peak at the trunk and then noticing the damn syringe? Holmes "we must behave ourselves, Watson" then being high the whole evening and laughing to everything everyone says? Watson's reproachful look at Holmes because he knows he's high? Watson excitedly showing Holmes the bird he shot and Holmes' "well done, Watson!" Holmes running around when figuring out the directions of the ritual like a dog after a scent? Watson understanding Holmes' methods as if it's the most natural thing in the world, explaining them to Musgrave? and on top of that the beautiful scenery, location, the mood, the mystery - and the utter husband behavior of those two idiots? like? what do you mean?

[om340700]

ha ha ha ha ha ha I need them to add hairstyles in the new game NYOW!!! (please) i cant take this anymore!!1!1!1! (thank you)

[rainyramblesscramble]

day 4 of drawing one of the cod characters until I’m comfortable with trying to find my style

Hehe. Boyfriends

[date-everything-confession-booth]

Okay but seriously, the way some people talk about Teddy drives me crazy. The game very explicitly says he is the players age. His confession has him saying stuff like “when we were kids” and “when we were growing up” You really can’t get more clear than that. Yet people treat him like some sort of creep, or outright call him a groomer in one TikTok I saw. I swear next time I see someone start up with that BS I’m gonna start biting people.

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[smrtnik07]

🙁☹️

[tategaminu]

I'm outraged at pretty much everything about the HTTDY live action trailer. Gonna start saying that I despise that they went with a chameleon instead of a gecko for the terrible terror.

[plasticsandwich]

quick ivy for morale...... gnn

[thrumbolt]

Sometimes I forget why exactly I disliked ACOMAF as much as I did and then I see a random quote and am instantly reminded.

This is exactly the type of gaslighting that this book does that annoyed me so. fucking. badly.

'All he'd wanted to do wasn't free me, but fuck me' - ah yes, because it totally wasn't her who went for his pants first.

'He hadn't tried to kill her, hadn't crawled for me'

Excuse me? He crawled as he was bleeding out from a chest wound, still tied up. Not to mention he DID kill Amarantha in the end. (Also he couldn't kill her before, because that's how magic bonds work - none of the high lords could lift a finger against her. There was literally nothing he was able to do).

Also it makes no SENSE for Feyre to be resentful of Tamlin not rescuing her all of a sudden? Tamlin saved her already by returning her to the human realm. SHE returned to fight and die for him. She KNEW she'd most likely die but she was there to rescue HIM. It's not like she got kidnapped by Amarantha and he just watched, no she came to die for him. It's kind of weird to blame him for not getting her out when she came in to get HIM out.

So yeah, ACOMAF is awful in this regard and I just don't get it. It would have been quite easy and possible to make Feyre realize that Tamlin isn't right for her without literally making shit up about him that conflicts with book one.

[ganondoodle]

i wish i could say i have been working on projects but the truth is i have just been playing stardew valley again every second of free time i have bc it seems to be the only thing that keeps my mind from destroying itself atm

[dad-fucky]

Thinking about meeting with my tutor after their class to talk about my performance, my direction in life and my aspirations and goals. Only taking it half seriously as i take everything, their genuine concern and guidance met with avoidance more than dismissal, but still frustrating for them. They tell me im a smart man, with a potential they would hate to see me waste because of apathy. I listen to placate them more than anything else. When they say that it would benefit me to plan for my future, to find my passion and dedicate myself to it, i scoff lightly, breaking eye contact and smiling a little as i brush off their earnest pleading with a teasing "yeah, whatever dad." When i look back after a beat, their face has changed. The stillness and silence in the room suddenly tight with tension as i realise they didn't brush that one off. They look me up and down with a casual sort of surveyance as i break eye contact again, swallowing thickly as i try and fail to keep my breathing steady. "Look at me." Their voice is smooth and even. My obedience is instant. They speak more concisely now, more deliberate. As they continue I'm hanging on their every word, as if under a spell, nodding gently in answer to any questions, otherwise still and rapt. We sit in silence for a few moments. "Sometimes," they begin, slow and calm, "a person will need more guidance than a classroom allows." My heart is beating so hard against my chest im sure they can hear it. "If you would let me, i want to give that to you." Im dizzy. I feel myself nodding quickly. "Speak up." Its a gentle correction, but i feel like i'm on fire. "Yes."

"Yes, Daddy." They correct.

"Y-yes. Yes, Daddy." We sit in the silence again, me firmly in their grip, waiting on their command.

[loadedchekhovsgun]

cwilbur posting idk idk idk people always say i should post on tumblr so here ?!?? you don't get context for these Lol idfk what im doing here i am half asleep

[lesbianralzarek]

the notion that if you legally obtain a drug for medical reasons you cant get addicted to it has done irreparable harm. we dont, like, remove the addictive part when we hand people their prescription vyvanse, thats not possible. people with adhd get addicted to stimulants that were made to treat adhd all. the. time. adhd doesnt make you immune. the hottest "street version" of adderall is just... adderall. dealers do just stock straight up adderall, and lots of the people obtaining it illegally do have adhd

im not saying dont take what you need, amphetamines changed my fucking life, but i am saying you need to be careful and watch for signs of addiction. it can happen to you too, and sharing myths about how good adhd-havers have magic wards against addiction, unlike those filthy druggies who obviously never have adhd, has a substantial negative impact that i have seen firsthand. you cannot convince me that "be careful with adhd stimulants" is an ableist sentence. use what you need, but dont ignore signs of addiction. we are not immune

[bueckershaven]

all of her dreams are coming true. i am so proud of her🥹