#truly girl so confusing!

[senatortedcruz]

Trying to be friends with someone that clearly does not want to be my friend really makes me feel like an incel chud lmaoo billions must die

[thefishdeath]

Never feel more masc then the times I try to look fem

[goffick]

“it’s just self defense until you’re building a weapon” lorde and charli pls

[the-blossica-fan]

Body swap!

The Uluru Games crew, Spathodea with Ezra and Desert Flannel with Ulu.

Spathodea in Ezra's body: Huh? I'm... I'm a boy now? No, nononono, NO, NOOOOOOO

That quite reminded me of that scene in 1.5 where Spathodea learned Ezra is a boy. I could imagine her vividly In a corner, horrified.

Now she is a boy, or, well, Ezra, and she's back on that corner. Holding her knees to her chest, muttering "no, nono this is a lie, I'm NOT a boy." While Ezra is there by her side, in her body, failing to comfort her.

"Don't worry, Miss Spathodea, this is just a body swap accident, it'll wear out in 24 hours and you'll be back into your body."

"24 HOURS BEING A BOY?!"

"Uh, it's not that bad!"

"...You're a boy."

Meanwhile, Desert Flannel stares straight at Ulu, both in opposite bodies, standing there not knowing how to use the other's body.

"Ugh, I'm so glad I was born an arcanist! This body is so hot, and it's not even a body! Now I know why you're always so tired all the time, grandma."

"Watch your wording, young girl. You young people are always speaking ill of one another, my body is perfectly comfortable, I was born in it after all!"

"Yeah, I can't take you seriously when you look like me."

[finniestoncrane]

said to my counsellor that i wasnt built for friendship because everyone always eventually just. stops speaking to me and she went “ok why do you think that is?” and then when i finished my dumb sad list she went “ok so maybe you aren’t good at friendship” and i. have never regretted spending £50 more in my life lol

[roomba-mangga]

story time my mom tried to egg me into ID-ing as a lesbian solely because it would be easier than wrapping her head around aro/ace relationships (mind you she was perfectly fine with aspecs until she learned we can also partner with the same sex. but also with the opposite! but not in the sense of traditional marriage or recognizable bastardizations thereof, in either case! kids are so complicated these days), and being a hater is by and large the simpler option! toss that into the asexual 🤝 bisexual coming out experiences pit why don't you

[marsixm]

i also think the fact that i had such a stunted and isolated upbringing and now that im an adult all my friends are on atypical life paths (and honestly even my friends as a kid were like this too) means i find things that are usually very common life stages really interesting. like knowing someone who has a house and a wife and 2 kids (with that wife) and a job with a salary feels like meeting fucking paul bunyun to me. or hearing the kids i work with talk about graduating high school and going to college and being on a real path with that stuff is neat? or even sometimes knowing cis/het people who are like going thru that coming of age stuff that i never really experienced the way you see it in the movies bc of transness/queerness/neurodivergence. its like woah they said the name of the thing in the thing. do u know what i mean???

[sea-buns]

One of the people on chilled's team is one of the top mc event players (places an average of 1st in a very similar event) and a lot of people are ranking the team higher bc of him (he is also new to this event though so people are not placing the team as high as they would otherwise)

Right and I get that. And granted idk how good Oli and Kara typically do, or how much one players point count can affect the entire team's placement.

But I mean. This is Chilledchaos we're talking about. Team TIES consists of people who play minecraft for a living.

I don't know if you've heard, but Chilled said yes to participating in this event despite not even knowing what type of competition it is. He has absolutely no clue what happens in MCC. I watched this man ask chat what the second C stood for. I watched him look at his calendar live on stream and put his hands on his head in distress as he goes "It's in eight days?!"

So yeah y'know I wonder if it can really make enough of a difference that they breach last place. Red can do okay point wise but it means nothing if the other teams do even slightly better cuz all 4 of them know how to play the game.

Like I said, we are in for a fun time not a winning time lmao

[jorvikzelda]

today i had this Vivid memory flash through my mind of kissing my ex boyfriend (this was like 2018) and i felt so viscerally fucking revolted and I gotta say. it is truly impressive that I didn’t realise I’m a lesbian sooner than fucking half a year ago

[wakeupthemembersofbylernation]

It’s wild how so many people are fundamentally incapable of recognizing queer characters unless they explicitly say the words, “I’m gay” on screen

[cuteniaarts]

What a shame… you always had such beautiful hair

[mousey-toy]

had someone ask me the other day if i consider myself on the asexual spectrum. dude i dont consider myself anything like. even the broadest labels idk if i feel comfortable with

[heavenlydreamangelflyhigh]

wholeheartedly recommending my year of rest and relaxation by ottessa moshfegh to my 43 year old father over zoom on a sunday night

[urielopot]

Hsy and yjh bickering is so amusing I love themmm <3 they're never on the same wavelength it's hilarious

[katyobsesses]

Im scrolling through Pinterest and my feed is full of Penelope fanart and for a split second when I see it my brain goes me? and that really makes me feel so happy. Because I'm seeing a character that is well loved and said to be beautiful both in the show and outside of it and I see myself in her, like some of these drawings could literally be of me. The way her nose tips up at the end, the way her lips stay open just so, the way her cheeks are full and her face round and even the colour of her hair (which isn't my natural, but is the colour I usually dye it). Add a fringe and some glasses (and modern clothing) and it's me.

And like??? I've never seen myself in a character so much my brain thinks fanart of them is me. And even on screen, Nicola looks so much like me and members of my family. If I saw her at a family reunion I'd assume she was a distant cousin, likely the Irish blood in both of us. It's insane, truly.

And it feels so nice, because I have always been bullied for my looks have forever felt selfconscious about my nose and my cheeks and my body

This explains why people kept comparing me (wearing yellow none-the-less) to Nicola at my cousins very bridgerton-esque wedding a couple of years back 😅

[ozymoron]

dude its always "be yourself" till youre trans and now suddenly oh i get to nitpick every little thing about you oh that gesture was very feminine made you look like a girl oh youre wearing a shirt thats cream coloured? seems a little feminine to me oh you paint your nails? so youre a girl after all like ???? youre giving me mixed messages here am i meant to be myself or am i meant to conform to your idea of what a man is in order to be accepted as one by you