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It’s wild how so many people are fundamentally incapable of recognizing queer characters unless they explicitly say the words, “I’m gay” on screen
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#like season 1 and 2? sure maybe you can overlook Will’s queercoding and believe it’s just a result of the bully’s homophobia#season 3 is a huge stretch but it’s hypothetically possible to believe will is just a late-bloomer or asexual#but how on earth do you watch season 4 and still genuinely have no idea will is gay?#and this is not a rare occurrence#it’s astonishing how many people you have to literally explain the van scene to cause Will’s sexuality never crossed their mind#you didn’t see him staring longingly at his best friend the entire season?#some people’s minds are so aggressively heteronormative that they assumed will had a crush on el#and even after noah has explained that will is gay 50 million times#people still are confused and think it came out of nowhere or they quickly forget#somewhere there’s a fan who doesn’t keep up with stranger things news and doesn’t really use social media#a fan who is the exact opposite of chronically online#who hasn’t heard about NOAH coming out let alone Will’s sexuality#who will walk into season 5 and be utterly flabbergasted when Will comes out as gay (let alone when Byler happens)#and they’ll say that Will being gay is a huge plot twist they never saw coming#and they’ll be 100% sincere#and that’s truly baffling to me#do people think shows just randomly include melodramatic rain fights where ‘it’s not my fault you don’t like girls’ is said for no reason?#do people think the show went out of its way to show wills rejecting the attractive girl in his class cause they were in a silly goofy mood?#I genuinely wanna know what goes on through people’s heads when they have no gaydar or media literacy#even today there are people who still think romantic stobin should happen and think that Robin isn’t really a lesbian#will byers#byler
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1moreoffkeyanthem · 11 months ago
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how or when do sp characters sleep
My DUDE these are pretty much overarching takes but since u just commented on an OrangeJuiceVerse post I’m ESPECIALLY thinkin ojv on these! So I’m doin the Star Seven
Stan falls asleep anywhere anytime. Always. One of those people that climb in bed and are lights out within two seconds. Lucky bastard. He’ll sleep in a car, on a floor, couch, wherever; if he’s tired he’s sleeping and it doesn’t matter where. He may stay up late sometimes with his online dnd group but when everyone logs off he’s Out the moment his head hits the pillow. And he is such a deep sleeper too. Just laid out like a log and needs to be aggressively shaken awake. He’s a realllly good pillow bc he doesn’t move tho.
Kyle is the exact opposite. I’m not gonna say he’s high maintenance, but he’s kinda particular with sleeping conditions. The fan has to be going, it has to be dark, he can’t sleep in socks, there’s gotta be a water bottle in reach, ya know. Also if we are talking OJV, he won’t complain if, like, he’s staying the night on someone’s foldout couch, but he has chronic pain bc he never got proper treatment for an injury in high school, so he has trouble getting comfortable when his knee is bothering him. And!!! In general his mind is so active and he has so much trouble getting it to quiet down enough to sleep, he’s tossing and turning forever, gets too warm, sleeps half out of the blanket, a mess. Wakes up at the drop of a hat, the wind blows too loud outside and he’s awake again. He feels guilty napping during the day, so that only happens when he’s not feeling well.
Kenny, 80% of the time, is like Stan, dead to the world when he’s asleep, but he’s too damn instinctual for his own good and if anyone or anything feels off to him during the day, he can’t fall asleep that night. He’s very much a guy who sleeps curled up on his side, and comfort doesn’t matter a whole lot to him. He has awful dreams frequently though, and sleep paralysis gets him a lot, which sucks when he’s sleeping heavily bc it’s really hard to wake up. Marj can usually sense times like that in the same way she senses his Curse, so she can wake him up to get him out of it.
Marjorine is a pretty normal sleeper, like 10-15 minutes of imagining her mental story (she ain’t alone in the pre sleep scenario I do that always) and she’s drifting off, she’s a cuddly sleeper for sure, which is awesome bc Kenny’s a GREAT little spoon, and if Kenny isn’t there she’s hugging a pillow.
Tweek dear god he is the worst sleeper on the planet. He goes to bed super early most of the time, only to wake up an hour later with no hope of falling asleep again. Like he’ll sleep from around 7-9, be awake until 5, sleep for another hour or so, and then it’s daytime so he can’t sleep bc he’s worried something bad will happen while he’s out. (Btw I am fully pulling Tweek sleep headcanons from myself I am an awful sleeper) He OCCASIONALLY naps, but only by accident. If he tries to take a nap during the day on purpose, he can’t, but when he doesn’t want to, that’s when he gets the best sleep. He has AWFUL dream like his nightmares are so vivid and terrifying and sometimes even prophetic. Even the dreams that aren’t scary are so clear that he’s left confused about if they were real. The scary visions and sleep paralysis are a lot of the reason he’s so paranoid and when it’s been a few days since he’s gotten sleep? The hallucinations dude holy shit.
Craig is kind of a night owl, and he really isn’t a morning person, but once he goes to bed, he’s asleep pretty fast. And he really isn’t picky about where he sleeps or what time it is, he just sleeps. He rarely has dreams that are jarring enough to remember, and while he usually hits the snooze button a few times, he can wake up relatively quickly. Not a napper at ALL this man thrives on routine and consistency. He hardly ever wakes up in the night once he’s out, even with Tweek thrashing around trying to get comfortable beside him lmfao
Cartman. I don’t have a whole lot to say on his sleep habits really, other than he’s out here in one of those eyemasks and a sleep noise playlist going lmaoooo he got the oil diffuser drifting lavender mist into the air and all that. He wakes up to an alarm programmed to play soft music with birds gently chirping bc he likes to feel like a Disney princess in the mornings. Lmfao he’s so unserious I love ojverse cartman
THANK YOU FOR ASKING THIS!!! I had fun thinkin abt it and projecting onto Tweek lol rip gotta love the gnomes
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madintersexmermaid · 1 month ago
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(trigger warning: Scientology, Emily Armstrong, Danny Masterson, discussions of ableism, cult abuse and Danny's acts of rape)
I'm disappointed in Linkin Park's decision to hire Emily Armstrong as their new lead singer when Emily's a known Scientologist and when Emily's friends with Danny Masterson, and Danny's also a Scientologist and rapist. And overall, Scientology's the sickest and most twisted, disgusting, abusive and vile cults in the United States of America, and Scientology's a cesspool of criminal sexual abuse and exploitation. Also, Scientology has some extremely ableist and hateful views of mental illness and mentally ill & neurodivergent folks. And Chester was a survivor of sexual assault and he was open about that trauma along with his mental health struggles and addictions to drugs and alcohol. And the band's hiring of Emily is a direct slap in the face to Chester's memory and legacy considering what Emily stands for is in exact opposition to what Chester stood for.
And Linkin Park fans attacking Chester's son Jamie for rightly protesting and disapproving of all this is disgusting too. Ya'll are not fans nor do ya'll truly care about honoring and respecting Chester's memory and legacy, respecting Chester's family as an extension of honoring Chester or respecting the sensitivity to Chester's struggles with mental health at all, cause now ya'll are being mad disrespectful to Chester's son Jamie who knew him personally better than any of ya'll weirdos. Regardless of whatever Jamie's issues are, consider these points:
- for starters, ever consider that Jamie's issues are also mental health based, stemming from possibly inheriting his father's mental health issues which in turn were further exacerbated by losing his father to suicide and are being exacerbated further by dealing with selfish, entitled, self absorbed and chronically online bullies like ya'll attacking him??
- that ya'll also don't get to in turn weaponize Jamie's mental health issues as a tactic to silence and invalidate him and how even that's disrespectfully ableist and an equally disrespectful slap in the face to Chester's memory, legacy and everything he stood for in regards to mental health awareness??
- also, how are ya'll gonna have the nerve to do this to Jamie but then coddle and defend Emily who's willingly still a part of Scientologist cult groups, willingly defended Danny and doesn't publicly call out and reprimand her sister for her vile comments victim blaming survivors of sexual abuse, etc.? And all this plus Emily building a reputation for being a douchebag in the industry is enough reason to know that Emily's a terrible person and not deserving of any success whatsoever.
Get it together, ya'll. The blind celebrity idol worship and hypocrisy needs to stop. Accountability and good morals should always matter more than entertainment and being entertained.
#IStandWithJamieBennington
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akajustmerry · 2 years ago
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putting aside tayloring swifters history of pettiness, white feminism and racism - i wanna say from the bottom of my heart that her lyrics and craft have never really evolved or grown from the level of "insecure teenager with some potential but still feels the need to overexplain their metaphors" and it's so.......sad??? like you can really tell this woman dropped out of high school and became famous and never matured beyond that point in any way. even her "best" music is full of this over-exposition that's so childish. ppl will write thinkpiece after thinkpiece about how she manages to stay popular with teens because she reinvents her image but the opposite is true. it's because you listen to this 30+-year-old woman's music and she's still writing the exact same way she did when she was a teenager and the coat of paint they put over it might change, but she's the same person, musically, now at 30+ as she was at 16 and I don't necessarily mean that as a compliment. and its fine I guess if you're into an artist whose whole MO is validating the idea that who you were as a teenager was the most valid and raw version of you and you're really the "main character" of your life, but personally, after 15 years of listening to swift sing on and on about secret crushes and meetings and enemies, it's tired. we get it taylor, you're a high school dropout who never grew past that. like i don't think it's a coincidence that hardcore ts fans are people who think being able to spot repetition is peak literary analysis. i don't think it's a coincidence that her fans are chronically immature people online. i don't think its a coincidence that so much of her behaviour feels like a high school popular girl and i don't think it's a coincidence that so much of her fanbase are still teenagers! because she presents herself, musically, as someone who refuses to grow up.
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bigskydreaming · 3 years ago
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Continuing on that observation because I forgot to add this part, as a gen z I'm glad you understand that we or young people don't invent new ways to be evil, but it's not completely true. You aren't seeing new forms of online abuse in every platform, I doubt second hand information is going into details as well. Also the fact that you are a white man, there are things being said and done to poc in various online communities that I don't expect you to be privy to. Harassing fans of color and poc media has become a lot more common and normalized which parts of the fandom at large will never see. I don't know if anon did all of the thinking before saying "gen z bad" but they're not completely wrong looking at the kind of mass bullying behavior literal kids are exhibiting. They are learning from or being encouraged by older people but that shouldn't take the focus away from them to blame only the older people.
And my ask regarding Barbara, you assumed I hadn't thought about if my disdain for the character could have come from ableism. I had tho, granted you couldn't have known that and it was surely a possibility, so I'm not saying I'm mad about it, I was at that time a little bit. But you could perhaps give your anons a little more credit sometimes. Sometimes people know what they're talking about, you don't need to explain other possibilities to them each time.
Once again, sorry if this came off as very rude I just needed to share that observation and among many other instances these two were really highlights and kept bothering me. My issue with Barbara goes in a different direction than anything to do with her appearance and I've personally faced online abuse from people younger than me in ways that technologically, even politically, wasn't possible or as easy a few years ago, so you can maybe see why...
Please keep in mind that whatever context you have for yourself or your ask when you come into my inbox on anon......I have none of that. You have an awareness of yourself relative to whatever you asked me. I literally only know an anon by the words they put into my inbox and nothing else.
Also please keep in mind that every anon I answer, I do so in the larger context of my own interactions with tumblr overall. I have a lot of precedent with things I say being taken out of context, misrepresented or even just me not conveying myself as well as I like.
So the combination of those two things is that a) I literally just don't KNOW what any anon does or doesn't know and b) If I'm going to answer an anon, I tend to want to answer as fully and clearly as possible.
I can understand it coming across as being talked down to, so I'll work on that, but I would ask people to remember the above and keep that in context too when weighing my responses.....am I actually being condescending in every case, or does it simply feel that way because I'm including stuff you already know in my response? And if its the latter, is THAT something I COULD know about you without knowing who you are or you as a person and not just a paragraph sent in anonymously?
I'd rather be safe than sorry, and so from my POV since there's no harm in somebody seeing someone cover information they already know as PART of their overall answer or response, like, there's no reason for me not to include whatever I think is relevant and just expect readers to decide for themselves what about my response, if anything, is helpful, and like....just ignore the rest, y'know?
Also, just for the record, I am ADHD and I save my medication for when I'm working or writing or have stuff I absolutely need to get done, which doesn't include my usual blogging. So I'm usually posting while not on my ADHD meds at all, hence the rambling tendencies and the length. Another aspect of ADHD that doesn't get talked about much ime is we tend to over-explain, part out of just excitement/interest in whatever it is that has our attention, and also in part because we're used to people not necessarily following the leaps our minds take when jumping around rather than proceeding in an orderly thought pattern.....so, part of why I break things down so incrementally is I literally just don't know where my way of looking at things diverges from the way neurotypical thinking views things, so I want to draw as detailed a map as possible in order to ensure the most people possible can follow my thought process, just in case.
(And again see, this is something you might already know, and hell, you could have ADHD yourself, I just literally have no way of knowing that so rather than just mention it and be like "oh and also I have ADHD and so that's something to keep in mind" I'd rather explain WHY I feel that's particularly relevant to your question, since I'm kinda like, why not answer as fully as I have the spoons for? People can stop reading at any time if I go on too long. Its fine).
As for the specific asks you're referencing - my response to the gen z anon was not meant to convey that the sort of things you're describing don't occur among gen z, so sorry for giving that impression. Its actually the opposite of my point, which was simply that I don't think its a generational thing, or that anything is gained by treating it as a generational thing. This kind of behavior exists in gen z, yes, but it also existed before gen z. Its not gen z SPECIFIC, or limited to just that generation. That's all.
And the other ask, the one you made about Barbara - to be honest, I don't have anyway of knowing for sure which one you meant, and there are a couple it could have been, but if its the one I THINK you're referencing, I believe you asked how to stop people from assuming you dislike Barbara for reasons rooted in ableism when its because of other things? If that's the one, then I mean, the thing is....I DID answer your question, in as much as anyone could. I addressed the perceptions other people might have of your stance there, but basically - there IS no way to ever ensure people take you at your word or any kind of guarantee you can present your POV in a way that won't be misrepresented or misunderstood. So ultimately, I just had no real useful advice for that?
And so I expanded into the only thing I think anyone CAN control, aka their own thoughts and words, and suggested that you just double check to be sure of your own possible biases that others might read into your words without you being aware you were putting them in there. That wasn't meant as an insult or to suggest you hadn't already examined yourself for possible ableism - it was simply saying it never hurts to check again, y'know? We don't always catch everything every time we do a self-review, and internal biases are inherently tricky to pick up on ourselves. And it just loops back into the fact that I really had no way to know what you had and hadn't already considered, you're essentially a blank cipher to me....and in my experience, a lot of people are a lot more ableist than they realize.
And this isn't an insult either! It applies to me and I'M physically disabled! I'm constantly to this day unpacking new realizations about how I still have more ableist views and opinions than even I realize, even after about five years of living with chronic pain, vertigo, nerve issues and associated problems stemming from only half a working mouth lol. I'm not trying to insult people by asking them to just do what I do every day and just like....make sure I'm not the problem when other people have a problem with me. Because sometimes, even after reflecting as fully and genuinely as I can, I think they're still wrong! I don't have to agree with their conclusions! But that doesn't mean that they're never right.
And for the record, I do think its still worth examining on your end, because I don't love that you said your issues with Barbara have nothing to do with her appearance, when we're talking about ableism specifically. It very well could be just a poor word choice on your part and not a reflection of your actual views, but it could also be a suggestion that you tend to think of physical disability as something that's limited to there being a visual sign of, and there's a lot of invisible symptoms and changes to the ways a disabled person interacts with society and society with them that don't alter a disabled person's appearance in anyway...and many of these things are the exact stuff a lot of unacknowledged ableism revolves around.
So I'd like to give you and other anons more credit and the benefit of the doubt and assume you know what you're talking about and don't need things broken down as much as I tend to break them down to - but keep in mind I don't OWE you that, and its a lot to ask someone to take you on faith when you've already made the conscious choice to present yourself to them anonymously, and deliberately limit how much a person even CAN know about you before answering, when you have an equal opportunity to present yourself by name, allowing someone the full context afforded by your blog, that they can use to familiarize themselves with you and what you likely do or don't know before answering. I don't think its entirely reasonable to anonymize YOURSELF and then expect people to still give you the benefit of the doubt.
Especially when not giving you the benefit of the doubt only really results in me over-explaining something you don't think you need explained in certain ways or in as much depth. Its not hurting anyone, and you're not going to be the only one reading this response and maybe that over-explanation ISN'T something other people know and it could still be of use to someone else, y'know?
But lastly, please keep in mind that you came to me, and I just answered in the way that made the most sense to me. If that didn't work for you or wasn't what you're looking for, that's fine, but like. You knew way more about me going into this interaction than I could possibly know about you, and assuming good faith of you and your interest in my response and giving you as much of a response as I did in the first place, let alone now, IS giving you the benefit of the doubt in the sense that I'm assuming you can find some way in which these responses are of use to you.
And if not, like....just don't send me more asks? LOL. I kinda feel like you just didn't expect the answer you got, and that's sitting weirdly with you. Which I get, to be honest, but I don't particularly think that's a me problem, because that has nothing to do with anything I can control.
I can only give the answer that occurs to me when I read and think about an ask. I can't guarantee it'll ever be the answer the asker actually WANTS.
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lovemesomesurveys · 6 years ago
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Do you get nervous before “meeting the parents”? Yes! Especially meeting Ty’s family. He invited me over for dinner one time and I met his mom and couple of their close family friends. These were people closest to him, so the fact he wanted to introduce me to them in the first place meant a lot and I obviously wanted them to like me. What do you think of your friends? I don’t have any anymore cause I’m a mess. What do you prefer to drink in the morning? Coffee, of course. Have you ever done ecstacy? No. Do you like painkillers? I’m on them for chronic pain.
What is your secret weapon to lure in the opposite sex? Ha. Nothing. I’m alluring at all. Do you own a knife? We have butcher knives and butter knives. I don’t have a pocket knife or anything, though. Top 3 thoughts at this exact moment: My head hurts. I’m tired. I want Ramen. Name five drinks you regularly drink: Water Coffee That’s it. What time did you wake up today? 8AM at first, but then I fell asleep again until 930. Current hair? It’s a mess and badly needs to be dyed again. Current worry? Same things as always that I’m constantly worrying about. Current hate? My health. Favorite place to be? My bed or the beach. Least favorite place to be? Outdoors, except for the beach. Where would you like to go? Somewhere nice and relaxing. What do you think you’ll be in 10 yrs? Buddy, I gotta just take things day by day, hour by hour okay. Last thing you ate? A Lean Cuisine Margherita pizza, which was really small and thin and not a whole lot to it, so I had a slice of leftover Digiorno pizza I had from yesterday. Last time you had an alcoholic drink? Like 6 years ago. What songs do you sing in the shower? I have a whole shower playlist. Who is your loudest friend? What song do you want played at your funeral? Free Bird by Lynyrd Skynyrd. What were you doing 12AM last night? I was making Ramen. Do people get shocked by how old you are? Yeah, they’re surprised I’m almost 30. Do you have any features that people notice right away? As in a mole on your cheek, or a big nose, big teeth, etc? My hair gets complimented on a lot after its been recently dyed. What are you considered at your school or in general? As in a stereotype, and why? Do you have a iHome? Not anymore. I do have a bluetooth speaker, though. Don’t you just love pooping after holding it for a long time? Whats a compliment that gets annoying? Oh ya know I just get sooooo many compliments all the time, it’s just so exhausting. Whats the last compliment you received? I don’t remember. Whats the meanest insult you have received? I’m the only one who says mean things to myself (that I’m aware of). Do you like hanging out at your house, or your friends? I’m definitely a homebody. Unless you’re talking about where I like to hang out when with friends, in which case I’d say their house. Where is the last person you kissed at this moment? I have no idea. Will tomorrow be better then today? Today was okay. Have you ever fallen asleep with the last person you kissed? No. Do you have any empty alcohol bottles hidden? No. I’d have no reason to hide them anyway. Have you ever kissed someone whose name started with a: J, M, C, L, B, A? J. Do you think you’re wasting your time on the person you like? I don’t like anyone that way currently. Ever kissed a brown eyed and brown haired person? Yes. Are you a player? No. Is there something you want to tell someone? Ehhh. What are you excited for? Nothing at the moment. Is something bothering you? Of course. Do you like the town you are living in? No. Does your best friend approve of the last person you kissed? She didn’t have a problem with him. Do you have any friends with kids? On Facebook, yes. Who was the last person you talked to before you went to bed last night? My brother. Do you miss someone right now? Always. Do you hate when people smoke around you? Cigarettes, yes. Blech. Have you held hands with anyone in the past 24 hours? No. Think a lot before you fall asleep? Yes. What was the last thing you spent your money on? Food. Be honest, who is the easiest person in your life to talk to? These surveys? ha. Your last kiss, were you dating that person at the time? We had something complicated. Do you have a best friend of the opposite sex you tell everything to? No. Were you single last summer? Yes. What’s the weather like outside? It’s cool out. Is the last person you kissed older than you? No. Where did you first kiss the last person you kissed? It was outside a restaurant as we were leaving. Name three things you did or are going to do today: I’m going to listen to some ASMR videos, do some surveys, and do my Bible study. Are you currently frustrated with anyone or anything? Myself and my health. Let’s say you were ten years old again, what would be a typical day for you? I’d be playing outside or playing Barbies. Last place you went besides your house? The movie theater. Is there someone you’d really like to hang out with and just talk about stuff? I miss talking to Ty. We had great talks. What was the worst feeling you last felt? Bleh. How long have you been sober? I haven’t drank or smoked weed in like 6 years. I’m on a prescription narcotic; though, so I don’t know if that counts as being sober or not. Last sexual experience? How often do you talk on the phone? Very, very rarely. Do you have a significant other at the moment? No. If no, do you want one? Part of me does, but it’s best that I don’t. Do you “go out” a lot? Nope. Do you work a lot? No job. What are your plans this evening? I’ve been through this. What did you do last night? Same things I’ll be doing tonight, which I already described. When the phone rings who do you want it to be? No one. Do you still talk to your exes? No. It’s been a few years since I lasted talked to Joseph, and even longer since I last talked to my first ex. What is your current favorite song? I don’t have a current particular favorite at the moment. Current Best Friend? My mom. Whats the BEST part of your life right now? My family. Favorite store to shop at: I do a lot of my shopping online. Are you a good girlfriend/boyfriend? I don’t feel like I would be right now. Current cell phone ringer? One of the ones that comes on the phone to choose from. Your weakness? Coffee. What happened at 10:00 AM? I was doing my Bible study. Biggest annoyance in your life right now? My health. Have you ever taken someone back after they hurt you? Yes. Are you happy with your life at the moment? No. Who was the first person you talked to today? My dad. Will you be in bed within twenty minutes? I’m sitting on my bed now. When will be the next time you text someone? *shrug* How do you feel about your hair right now? I really hate it right now. Who do you currently have texts in your inbox from? My parents, younger brother, my Nana, and the home nurse. What color was the last pill you took? White. How many windows are open on your computer? Just 1 window is open currently. What are you doing after this? Perhaps another survey. *shrug* Where did you buy the shirt you are wearing? It was a Christmas present. Are you cold, warm or just right at the moment? I was really warm, but I just turned on my ceiling fan. Why did you last cry? Life. Are you happier single or in a relationship? I’m just not happy. Miss anything from your past? Yes, a lot of things.
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szopenhauer · 4 years ago
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Do you usually take blame or blame others? ugh...
Have you ever seen 50 First Dates? nope but I heard about this movie and I might see it someday
Have you ever read any of John Green’s books? one at least and I don’t like him
Are you a protective person? would say so
Does your license plate number contain the number 8? I don’t have a car
Were you ever a ghost on Halloween? no but I could
Are you a fan of penguins? they’re fine
Are you a good painter? nope
Have you ever written a poem and then read it aloud? yes...
Have you and your best friend ever liked the same person? for one day? XD
Do you have an older brother? hyhy
Are you a fan of art? some
Did you watch Teen Wolf on MTV? no but Sterek forever as friends, not lovers 
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When it was on, did you watch Cory In The House on Disney? I didn’t
Do you have any blackheads? obvi
Do you have a movie that you have to watch during the summer every year? meh
Agree or disagree: You like Adam Sandler movies. I dislike most of them
How would you describe your relationship with your hair over the years? oh my...
How do you practice truly living in the moment? pfft
Do you think most abusers know they’re being abusive? tbh? I do not
How do you feel about your SO daily/regularly checking up on a couple of his exes on social media? wtf
What perfume of yours does your SO love on you? I don’t use perfume
Have you made any (at least semi-) permanent alterations to your appearance? If so, how did you find the experience and do you regret it? nothing permanent
Women with disabilities/anxiety/depression/other mental health issues/chronic illnesses, how do you get it across to your SO/friends that sometimes you just can’t do something? it’s hard...
What was the turning point that led you to decide for or against having children? it was a long way, I learned about biology, sex, my orientation, environment, consequences, good and bad sides, my own abilities, costs etc.
Is having your “dream” wedding really that important to have? it’s not THAT important but I like to dream, there are some things that’d ruin big moment for me tho
What would your reaction be if your SO wanted the opposite type of wedding than you did? hell no, we don’t have to agree on everything but if exact opposite/what I hate then I don’t even want to date them :x
What kind if body type do you find attractive and unattractive (for your preferred sex)? was into short chubby girls with dark eyes and now am engaged to a tall gal with light eyes lmfao
How do you feel about strangers approaching you with compliments? hmm...
Would you be more offended if your [wo]man cheated on you with a guy or a girl? guy :(
Do you like your personality? which one, hahaha
Have you ever stolen someone’s boyfriend/girlfriend? it seems...
Tell me the date of your first kiss. 2011?
Tell me the date of your last kiss. days ago
Are your legs long or short? short
How many phobias do you have? shitload
Do you like beer? eww, gross
Do you feel tired for no reason? I have plenty of reasons
Ever taken an at home pregnancy test? what for?
Turn to your left…is there a lamp? on the street :P
Have you seen The Blind Side? yep
What’s the most beautiful thing you’ve seen in the last week? lots
How many people have you kissed over all in 2020? one
When was the last time you felt like throwing up? today
Have you ever ordered pizza online? via phone only
What color was the last candle you lit? znicze też się liczą?...
Have you ever read in the bathtub? no way, I’m gonna kill Nat for using our cell in the bathtub
What day of the week does the laundry usually get done? no specific day, when it’s necessary
Do you use the Facebook chat often? constantly
Where is your mom at? her room watching tv
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Did the last type of shoes you wore have laces? no
What genre is your favorite movie? sci-fi
Are you texting anybody right now? I am indeed
Do you like the picture on your license/I.D. card? it’s not the worst
Do you own a map of the world? not interested in owning one
Is the light on in the room you’re in? too early for that
Who did you last spoon with? M. Are you currently watching TV? it’s on, I can hear it but it’s in another room
Have you ever had surgery or stitches? neither yet
Does your family eat dinner together? at times
Have you met the last person you kissed’s parents? mhm
Who is the first person you see in the mornings? parent
When was the last time a member of the opposite sex hugged you? today, my father
Is the last person you kissed more than 2 years older than you? she’s 2 months younger
Do you think anyone has feelings for you? I know she does
If you got married to the last person you messaged, what would your initials be? if I changed surnames that is but I won’t
When is the next time you will kiss someone? tomorrow?
So, the last person you kissed just happens to arrive at your door at 3AM, do you let them in? omg what happened :o
Can you commit to one person and one person only? even in this poly fam we have I chose just one
Are you planning on going anywhere with someone, some time today? I came back 
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