#trigger tagging

[catgirl-catboy]

Okay, just imagine triggers and squicks like allergies.

There should always be a peanut free table (a place where you can avoid content that squicks you.) but if you expect a large group of people to make everything peanut free people will get annoyed with you quite fast.

If you have an allergy, its on you to be proactive about it. (assuming you are above the age of 5, which you should be to be involved in fandom.) Its on you to check food products for your allergy, and to carry an epi pen (good coping mechanisms) around with you if needed.

If you're hosting a party with friends (making a small discord server or group project) it is reasonable to request nothing with your allergy is brought. It is not reasonable to show up to a cooking competition (larger fandom space) with an expectation that nothing with your allergy will be there. It is reasonable to expect disclosure about what a food is before you try it, but on you to avoid stuff that might harm you.

[myfandomrealitea]

Just love it when assholes think they get to act like the least conscientious people whilst calling everyone else immoral and evil

Yes you also should have to tag for triggers even if you are complaining about a ship you don't like!

There's a constant contradiction between antis and following their own rules. The one thing that can be said about the proshipper side is we are ultimately more respectful of maintaining the safety of online spaces in regards to tagging, being overt about triggers, shutting down malicious or harmful behavior in private spaces, ect.

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

Moresever-

A term for those who have a disability or mental illness and wish their symptoms were less manageable, more noticeable or “more severe” mainly as a coping mechanism, other reasons can include: 

Not having one’s disability/mental illness being taken seriously due to stereotyping

Wishing one’s disability was more noticeable so you can get the support you need

Wishing one’s mental illness would get worse so you can get the, or feel like you “deserve” the help you need

Feeling as if one’s disability/mental illness is “not valid” due to having less symptoms or having more uncommon symptoms

Having CPTSD but wishing you had PTSD

Being a lower support autistic but wish you had higher support needs for whatever reason (e.g ableism, feeling invalid etc.)

Having suicidal/self harm urges that you never act on but wishing they were worse so you can feel like you “deserve” help

Lessever-

A term for those who have a disability or mental illness and wish their symptoms were more manageable or “less severe”, for whatever reason, some people who are Lesssever can and may work towards this. For example:

Someone who has an amputated leg going from using a wheelchair to using a prosthetic 

Someone with an amputated arm obtaining a prosthetic 

Someone with a speech impediment going to speech therapy

Someone working to get medication to manage their (ADHD, BPD, Bipolar, C/PTSD etc.) symptoms

Going to therapy to recover from one’s trauma

And much more!

These are reclaimed trans*bled terms so naturally if you’re trans*abled DO NOT FUCKING TOUCH

[cloud-ya]

outcast of the village

[arrimorr]

The Knight is a bit weird under his armor. I would say that's it's not even an armor but a chitinous shell

[hotvampireadjacent]

https://x.com/treborrhurbarb/status/1819855330232480252?s=46&t=kvJFP3BjKnMEl5NO2bJUMA

[soranker]

laios985

[sangthael]

jimmy doesn’t practice knife safety

[dandelionbitch]

How am I supposed to format trigger tags?

I’ve seen people put “tw” or sometimes “cw” in front of whatever subject they’re trigger tagging, but is that what the people who filter out their triggers are doing? Won’t they have to filter out “x” “tw x” and “cw x” if they want to fully block out the subject? And therefore it doesn’t matter how they’re formatted? Or is there something I don’t know?

[catgirl-catboy]

Controversial take:

I think its batshit insane how the average tumblr/ao3 user is expected to be more accommodating of triggers than published authors/filmmakers.

This isn't saying that we should stop giving a shit about triggers. But why is it that a hobbyist writer expected to trigger tag most major themes in your fic, but movies can get away with "PG-13 for strong language."

The closest thing we have to an ao3 like tagging system for published works is doesthedogdie.com and even that is run by fans!

If I were in charge, I'd make it public knowledge what exactly will be in a book/movie/game before you purchase it.

But no, Hollywood would never recover financially for paying someone for the... 1 hour of work that would cost.

Meanwhile, there's this vibe that if you don't tag for certain things in fandom, you are a huge dick. and that its better to overtag than undertag.

The attitudes are night and day, make it make sense.

[crsinclair]

Guys. Seriously. Two times in only a few days. Please, please, please, tag your posts. Filters will not work without tags; it's actually a lot better to tag than posting something, possibly hurting someone, and someone coming to you and telling you that what you've posted hurt them because you didn't take a few moments to tag. And I'm not talking about reblogs - I'm talking about Original Posts. I ain't give two shits about reblog tags unless you're adding onto the OP's post with your reblog, in which case please tag. Other than that, feel free to just hit the little reblog button and be on your way. But really. Truly. Seriously. This is not about tagging for tagging's sake, this is literally about mental and physical health. Some people, like me, need others to tag so that those tags can get filtered and those posts can get blocked. I. Do. Not. Want. To. Go. Back. To. The. Hospital. After. I. Just. Left. It. Over. A. Tumblr. Post. I'm very tired now because I just had some sort of health episode over seeing an extremely triggering post that wasn't tagged at all - if you can reblog this, please do!

Gotta love it when people DON'T TAG THINGS.

Please tag triggers, content, and even SHIPS (for the Fandom side of tumblr). Otherwise people who use the filter function on this site ARE GOING TO BE SEEING POSTS THEY DON'T WANT TO SEE. LIKE I JUST DID.

Not a good start to a day for a person with a heart condition!

I know tagging seems like a waste of time sometimes but it HELPS others that have filters in place!

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

can you please tag anything to do with radqueers, including anti-radqueer stuff? seeing anything about them at all is really bad for our OCD and it makes it really hard to scroll for MOGAI terms. thank you

Oh of course I can do that ^w^ I can put the tag “tw radqueer” for you? You can also block my “trigger tagging” tag too if you like. Thank you for letting me know :3

[professionallyunstable]

kinda tired fighting for a life i don’t even want

[gongyussy]

if nothing else can save america this zero-year-old fairy baby otter with no gender can. chiitan's platform is love. and chaos.

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

No because like, my main “kink”, which isn’t sexually arousing, but still very much brings me excitement, is derived from my lack of humanity.

I’m a cat therian who likes (nonsexual) pet play, being treated like a pet feels more “normal and natural” for me than “kinky and deviant”.

Not being treated like a human and getting enjoyment out of that is just a byproduct of my autistic brain and nonhuman identity.

i have seen ppl assert that *all* fetishes are derived from trauma but i definitely didn't witness a terrible accident at the pooltoy factory or nothin i think sometimes brains are just weird

[rassebers]

Best trait for a classmate to have?