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https://x.com/treborrhurbarb/status/1819855330232480252?s=46&t=kvJFP3BjKnMEl5NO2bJUMA
#racism#race riots#idk what to trigger tag with but it breaks my heart#our families our neighbors#I’m not English obviously but…. immigrant families just like mine so it hurts
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If praying has ever worked for any of you, can you please pray that Jeremy comes back home. He ran away a few days ago and I'm heartbroken
#this whole situation is making me think of Boris too and i'm devastated#the first thing we did was ask our detestable neighbor if she saw Jeremy just to make sure she didn't do to him the same she did to Boris#Jeremy gets scared very easily and he's very shy; he hides when someone who isn't the immediate family comes to visit#and he has the weakest bladder imaginable. he pees himself when the vet -the only stranger he's forced to see- touches him#when we rescued him he was extremely malnourished. idk what they did to him before we adopted him but he's always been very nervous#I'm so worried
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Something about how Fire & Ice give up on going after Pearl directly, and instead both arrow in on dissing Marina-
Something about, Pearl having no shame at all, outright telling Frye right off that Off the Hook is here to “take control” and then literally talking over Frye’s turn. Frye’s snarking on how Pearl isn’t the boss here and no one’s cheering for her, ignored. How she goes after both Frye and Shiver asking where Frye’s big friend is to help her pass this test, moving right on to saying they’re both just goons making a mess anyway, little fish who should stay in they're bowl, but
that seems to give Frye the idea of hitting back with the “who’s backing you? Imaginary friends?” line… like Marina doesn’t even count as a music partner- or a friend?
Pearl literally yaps about Marina being divine, one of a kind, voice so fine, big mind- raps the lines off her cuff and the heart that's proudly pinned there
And Frye and Shiver go TARGET DETECTED. They lock onto Marina.
Shiver doesn’t bother trying to needle Marina about Pearl, the way their partners were each doing- if Pearl has no shame then at least she DOES still have a weakness, a soft spot, a thing she openly cares about- something they can try riling her up over
(problem: Pearl actually has all the confidence in Marina as a musician, partner, and performer. She's WATCHED Marina be all those things for YEARS now)
In the end Frye and Shiver just rile up the gay feels. Because Marina’s been living with a rapper who LOVES hyping her up even when they’re not on stage- Pearl who said she’d cut a fish for Marina. And if you don’t come to Inkopolis with a lot of self confidence, well then getting some from your girlfriend is fine too
But it’s cute that Pearl’s still so obvious about being Marina's no. 1 fan that Fire & Ice thought they could use it against her XD
#splatoon 3#pearl houzuki#marina ida#pearlina#.#suffer no fools#suffer from the og gays instead#forever i love that Off the Hook just don't have drama with each other#LOTS of things they don't agree on#plenty of teasing#some not fun fights over their music#(when it comes to our art we have to be true to ourselves! NO compromises!) <- marina that's so sweet u guys only fight when you#AGREE it's IMPORTANT and that you both SHOULD#but otherwise?#they just are best buddies#......bedfellows even....#.....canon sharers of the same bed....#like their careers are a thing they do bc they like doing it with each other#(ahaha whoops the phrasing there uhh)#they like spending TIME together#OUTSIDE of music and band stuff#i love that for them#they're not family or childhood neighbors#they just picked each other up one day like 'oh hey cool this is what i've been missing'#:)#i love them
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Okay no I need to ask. Jews who throw their lot in with blatant bigots and antisemitic racists-
Do you think it will save you?
Do you think that when they scream for "Zio" blood, they do not mean you? Do you think that when they cheer the rape and kidnapping and murder of Israelis, they do not mean you? Do you think when they come into the inboxes and DMs of random Jews to tell them that they "deserve it" and that the world would be better without Jews in it, they do not mean you? Do you think that when they assault and beat and stab and kill Jews in the name of their so-called "activism", they do not mean you?
They DO mean you. You are not exempt. You will not escape this. No matter how much you throw your own tribe under the bus. No matter how much you swear you are not like those other Jews, the Bad Jews, the Zionists, the Yids, the kikes. No matter how much you get up on stage and disavow your Jewishness to them, no matter how much you wail that you're on their side.
No matter how much you betray your own people. No matter how much of your sibling's blood you have on your hands.
When the time comes. When the people you have been working so hard to please file into that meeting room to discuss their triumph, to sing praises of Jewish blood in the streets.
You will find a hand on your shoulder and a voice saying "Now, hold on a minute, Jew."
#antisemitism#i/p#self hating Jews fuck off#they do mean you#it will not save you#and to be frank? neither will I anymore#because the few who do this have made it clear that they do not care about us#they do not care about their own people#nor do they actually care about our Palestinian neighbors#they care about pleasing people who's activism is rooted in figuring out how they are allowed to hate us#they care about pleasing people who's activism begins and ends at dead Jews#none of this will save you#and when the people you have hurt your own family for decide they are done with you#they will gleefully treat you the same as they have treated the rest of us
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Neighbor (that my parents have known for 40+ years): There's a stray kitten in my yard, do you want it? If not, can I borrow a cat carrier to take it to the shelter?
My mom: "We already have 3 adult cats. (...) I texted my [craft group] friends to see if anyone wants the kitten."
Also my mom, one hour later: "I'm in your front yard trying to catch the kitten & put it in our cat carrier."
Mom: *catches kitten and takes it to Walmart to buy kitten supplies*
Mom: *brings the kitten to show me* "I've been calling him Corky, after my dad. You can't hog all three cats, I want one that likes ME best."
Mom: *spends the next hour trying to get the kitten to cuddle her and nap on her lap/chest*
Mom: "He looks like Louise!" (Our cat who lived to be 20 years old and was super bonded to both my parents.)
Me, to my dad: If we don't find another home for that kitten in the next few days, he's gonna stay here.
My grandma (86 yo, has dementia, doesn't talk much anymore), upon seeing/holding kitten: *visibly perks up* *starts talking to the kitten*
My dad: *cuddles the kitten for several hours while the baby naps on his chest*
Me, to my dad: *watching Dad cuddle tiny kitten* I don't think he's going anywhere. I think we have a 4th cat.
My dad: You're probably right.
@everything-but-the-not-natural @0dde11eth @help-help-i-need-an-adult @thequeeninyellowlace
#our 3 other cats DO NOT like baby Corky yet#but he's only been here one afternoon#also I'm pretty sure our neighbor texted mom and me on purpose#because SHE KNOWS our family's history of impulsively adopting cute baby animals who need a home#that baby is going NOWHERE#except to our vet for a checkup and baby shots
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my family is camping rn and they found an abandoned(?) cat and like. well if they take it home it doesnt do me much good at the moment as im living two hours away. but if .🥺 but if they take it home. 🥺but. 🥺🥺
#the real issue is our shithead dogs. theyve never had much cat interaction......#once when in i was either in middle or early high school there was a cat that stopped by the house a lot that i sat with and tried to coerc#inside. didnt work! it ended up living with different neighbors iirc. but. nevertheless..🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺#i cant post photos bc they all have my stupid family in them#but its a little black kitty w white on its underside and the little tips of its paws🥺 w big long whiskers that look like bushy eyebrows🥺#FALLS TO MY HANDS AND KNEES AND IF THEY DONT TAKE IT HOME THEN WHY AM I NOT THERE RIGHT NOW AUUUGHHHHHHHH
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neighbor’s duck dog who is now an old man keeps getting into our yard to try and harrass the ducks (he’s too elderly to be an actual threat anymore so like it’s fine) BUT it is just very funny because we will usually hear his owners yelling for him over and over and over before we realize he’s here
meanwhile as soon as i walk out and call him over to take him back home he comes lumbering over immediately even with overwhelming duck temptation
#to clarify they aren’t mean to him or anything they just#are very bad with animal training lmao#and our neighbor is extremely overwhelmed bcus her family like#gets animals and then uses her as 24/7 petsitting service#and just. drops them off when they don’t want them at their house#so i think he just doesn’t get as much one on one attention there
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We are still trying to finalize a contract on this house (a 100yo house has a lot of problems, my friends!) and there are TOO MANY LAWYERS involved. Adam is a lawyer, and he asked his uncle for a recommendation to represent us, so we have that lawyer (Steve) plus Adam's uncle has not excused himself so we also have him involved (Kenny). This is too many cooks! (too many cooks!)
We had a zoom with our inspector yesterday and he said be careful, a lawyer can protect you right out of a deal and YEAH. Kenny you need to stop asking questions! Adam put what we wanted for credits with the advice of the inspector (who I love and is my friend Marti's husband, he is GREAT, if you are buying a house in the chicago area I cannot recommend him more highly), Kenny does not need to keep offering his thoughts!!
Ugh I just want to start decorating!!
#In Illinois you have to have a lawyer to buy a house and it's a lot of rigamarole#but I guess ok bc our realtor is in gd paris at the olympics right now#this is a real family affair#lawyer is adam's uncle's friend agent is my mil's next door neighbor inspector is my friend's husband
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i know no family is "normal" but omg i'm looking over the ruins of this post-holiday family get together like what a mess lol
#yes we are that crazy air bnb family that wakes the neighbors up at midnight from drunken fighting its fine <3 just go back to sleep evryone#we are losing our deposit thats for sure <3#not me tho i'm not fighting i'm just there smoking pot
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When I went off to college I gave my dad my passwords so he could have access to the databases that my university had access to that he didn't have through the university he worked at. And before I had even started classes, the IT department called me to ask if my account has been hacked because he had downloaded so many early 19th century newspaper articles about his hyperfixation they thought there had been some kind of massive data breach.
#everyone in my family is like this#plus we're so famously talkative about our special interests that our reputation followed us over from the old country#and when my grandma married into the family her father STILL REMEMBERED the extra annoying neighbors from the old shtetl#pretty much inevitable that I would start a podcast really
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so, the post-rebels languor has turned to post-rebels derangement. earlier today she was showing me these cute rebel insignia flags she found online, and she’s like “we could get one of these and write KALLUZEB SUPPORTERS at the top and bottom” and i’m like. that’s funny. and then you can put it up on the wall in your room or something. but then she cuts me off with “and THEN, we put it OUTSIDE.”
no the hell we do not!!!!!!!
#sw#rebels#she about had an aneurysm yesterday because our mom was like “so sweet that you’re hanging out with her more :) what did you guys make??”#and she was NOT about to pull the Kalluzeb Collage™️ out at family dinner#but now she wants the neighbors to know about gay star wars???? unhinged#kalluzeb#the great rebels liveblog#<- i probably need a new tag but whatever
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it was SO FUN to be outside the club with my neighbor waiting for the Uber under a pernicious SNOWFALL trying to know what the FUCK a damn toyota camry looked like... Literally
Uber: *approaching* are you [my legal name]?
Us: "... are you toyota camry 2022?"
#you would think “but the plaque number!” babygirl. it was snowing. it was dark. i have astigmatism. i couldn't see SHIT.#he was. such a pleasant guy btw. my neighbor was a lil wasted but i can't drink so i was in charge of our well-being#technically i CAN drink. but didn't seem like a smart idea to both be hammered in the middle of the warning due to snowfall#im older than her and im the eldest sister in a latino family so that means im a mother not a sister. those instincts don't die#she's the nicest girl she so interested in my culture. she's the one who told me about latino nights😭#teaching her salsa and reggaeton was... truly an experience... she was really like “you guys really move your ass a lot” 😭😭😭#woke up. and still is snowing. a lot. just saw someone walking like... jumping more than walking tbh. woah.
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#horrible awful no good very bad day#apparently last night the apartment below ours caught fire and we were out of town#and we didnt find out til several hours later from our neighbor who had to track me down on facebook- we didnt hear a thing#from the apartment in any official capacity until like? 10 hours after the fire?#anyway we rushed home supremely early from a friend trip that was like#meant to be very good and fun#anyway so we rush home because no one can tell us if our cats are okay#and they were but our whole apartment is supremely smoky and all of our possessions are extremely smoky#and we cant stay there or let the cats stay there because of the smoke and soot and particles it just doesnt feel safe#so now im in my partners familys house which is like#fine but its full of people and i dont feel fully comfortable and i cant fully relax and and and and and etc etc etc etc#and tomorrow i have to wake up early and go over there and find out what if anything the complex plans to do about it and how long its gonna#be until we can come back safely. or more likely get more noncommittal answers and be unsure#and i dont know how long i can stay here and be normal#AND to top it all off i paid like 60$ to go to an aquarium i didnt even get to go to . but yknow. all of my friends got to !#and like im happy for them but no one was excited as i was and now i get to ruminate on how everyone got to do the fun thing i love#while i was stuck doing 17 loads of laundry and bathing the soot out of my cats fur in someone elses house#certainly it could be worse and im glad my cats are fine and im glad its just smoke damage and not yknow. Burn damage#but im having a sad little pity party anyway because i was supposed to have an amazing beautiful day ending in a relaxing evening#in my own home#and now i have to cope with all of this instead. all i want to do is cry#and also like. im scared we will have to move#but im also scared we wont... because like#i think it was a gas issue. and knowing that that happened in my building? and also knowing how much landlords love to halfass#repairs and everything else#i just dont know how safe i will feel there#even if they tell me its fine#anyway sorry for the tag vent post again my old ways will never die#ghost posts
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anyway back to feeling sad about my dead uncle.. feel like me & my family were able to be distracted all weekend bc i was visiting, but now that i'm home i'm like what the fuck.. my uncle is dead and i haven't processed it at all
#i think i was just . processing how much we didnt get along and how poorly he treated my mom over the last few years#and now that i've like.. thought through all that so i'm like fuck.. this is really sad and this sucks#and i just can't get over how awful it is that my mom's half siblings are so distanced from the rest of our family#bc of their own behavior - but bc of that.. it took 2 days and a text from a neighbor for anyone to find my uncle#and if there is a funeral.. it's probably gonna be just as frustrating as my grandpa's and step grandma's#bc my mom's brothers fucking hated each other and literally my late uncle called out his brother in BOTH euologies lmao#and he was right about everything he said#and i just know my other uncle is probably idk gonna try to milk this for sympathy points or whatever#that sounds fucked up but i swear this uncle is like . a sociopath idk#my late uncle was a dick but he did genuinely care about ppl and his brother.. does not.. he just fakes it and u can tell ya know?#idk anyway#im just thinking a lot still#b.txt
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welcome to cj/crispy's bi-yearly ptsd rant about fireworks, you are all safe and valid here and i am mentally giving out juice boxes and animal crackers
#last year wasnt too bad i barely remember nye tbh but OH BOY are the neighbors making up for it this year#they arent like super big or anything but they are LOUD and we're just rural enough that nobody gives a shit#like i cannot tell you how much i love the idea of fireworks and their history#but id also like to not have 12 consecutive minor panic attacks because the neighbors have some money to burn#it's worse around the 4th of july ’cause that also has the caveat of ''what tf are you even celebrating fuck you''#and im much more chill when it's like families celebrating with their kids because i remember how much fun mine had#but there are no kids around us#they're all adults and i want so badly to just be like ''yeah you do you man im glad youre having a good time'' but also like#they have to sell specialised jackets and blankets and medication for pets for nye and 4th of july#we dont have too many veterans in our part of town but i will never forget that pic of the vet hiding in the subway with his hands over#his ears#i dunno man i know not every activity can be accommodating to absolutely everyone#but i also think avoiding loud triggering (for a bunch of different reasons) noises is like#doable#there are quiet fireworks#thankfully my cat couldn't give two shits about loud noises but /I/ give two shits about loud noises#shut up cj#to delete
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I need to find a different plug wtfff texting my girl is too scary
#its like a girl i was neighbors with as a child she was friends w my sister and i was friends with her sister and our families still see#each other regularly#shes never bought for me before i always get from friends or friends parents or siblings and its such short notice ugh help#im gonna shit myself u dont understand
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