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[dammarchy211]

The song clip is from this video starting at about 3:50 :-]

I’ve been busy/summer burn out but my love to draw will never die so soooooooooo many doodles and sketches 5ever sorry

[willyhoos]

final totk verdict.

[intersex-support]

Something that has been helpful for me when having conversations about what counts as intersex is to really engage in enquiry about what the label means and how we're using it. To me, it's been more helpful to think through questions like:

What purpose does labeling a variation as intersex serve?

In what ways is societal understandings of "typical" changing?

Why was the label of intersex created and has our use of the label shifted?

What ways are we building intersex community? What do we want intersex community to look like?

How do our experiences of oppression impact our understanding of intersex as a term?

What sources are we drawing from when we develop definitions of intersex?

What is the history of the way intersex has been used?

What ways has intersex community been exclusionary in the past, and is that in line with our current values?

Definitions of intersex have always been tied up with what the medical world decides to classify as differences of sex development, but especially in the past twenty years as intersex community has grown more connected, we've started to have a lot more self-determination in our communities. But I think a lot of people still really have a misconception that intersex is a biological "third sex" that is strictly medically defined, and that there are clear cutoffs between intersex and endosex.

Instead, I'd like to bring in the concept of compulsory dyadism to introduce a framework where intersex is an intentional political label used as a way to build community for the people whose variation of sex characteristics are most impacted by the stigma and violence associated with compulsory dyadism.

Sex diversity is not just limited to intersex people. Even within the boundaries of dyadic/endosex bodies, people have variations like different amounts of body hair, penis size, hormone levels, breast size, as well as things like disabilities affecting any of those traits. For example, very few people actually have all the "ideal" traits that line up with this constructed idea of an endosex body that has the exact "correct" amount of estrogen, the right size chest, the ability to bear children, "normal" periods. Many endosex people might have a variation in one of those aspects at differing times during their life, such as during menopause, for example. And this framework can help us understand how diagnoses such as endometriosis are not intersex, but people might still notice overlaps in certain experiences.

But the reason that not everyone is considered intersex and the reason that having a separation between endosex and intersex is important is because of the stigma and violence associated with straying further and further from that dyadic norm, and intersex is a label used to describe people who are the most impacted by that stigma and violence. We have been socially labeled as "deviating" the most from the "normal" sex binary, and consequentially face intersexism both on a systematic and personal level. Our collection of sex variations becomes located entirely outside of the sex binary, and as a result, we often face curative violence, social stigma, and systematic exclusion from many parts of society.

This definition isn't a perfect definition. I think we need to have room to develop more nuance around the fact that many intersex people might not feel like their experience of being intersex has brought them any personal stigma or violence, as well as understanding that there isn't going to be a universal intersex experience. Even when discussing how intersex people are the most impacted by compulsory dyadism compared to endosex people, I think it's important to recognize that within the intersex community, our additional intersecting identities are absolutely going to influence our experiences with oppression and that it's vital to intentionally uplift the members of our intersex community who are most impacted by oppression. In the United States, the creation of the sex binary was an explicitly racist process, and racialized intersex people are subject to additional layers of stigma, violence and scrutiny. (Check out chapters 4-6 in the book Cripping Intersex by Dr. Celeste Orr for a really in depth discussion of how antiblackness and compulsory dyadism are forces behind why the Olympic sports sex testing has pretty much exclusively targeted Black women from the Global South, regardless of whether or not they are actually intersex. Also recommend reading The Biopolitics of Feeling: Race, Sex, and Science in the Nineteenth Century by Dr Kyla Schuller.) I also have talked with many intersex people who are tired of us always being represented through trauma narratives in the media, and who want us to be able to build a definition of intersex that isn't based around violence or tragedy. And I think that's really important that we also share our stories of intersex joy, and pride, and healing. I think that claiming intersex can be something really radical, and that's super valuable to me.

Overall I think that if we build our discussions around who is intersex on concepts to do with our social and political location, and take into consideration concepts like compulsory dyadism, sex diversity, and disability, we are going to be able to understand why any of it matters better than if our determinations of intersex identity are based solely in medicalized concepts of a third sex.

TL;DR: Although endosex people also have diversity when it comes to sex traits, intersex is still an important label that not everyone can claim. Compulsory dyadism is a force that affects all of us, but intersex people are the most impacted by compulsory dyadism and face intersexist stigma and violence for our intersex variations. As a result, intersex is an important label for us to claim so that we can build community and solidarity around our experiences. I think it is better understood as a sociopolitical label that describes the relationship between our biological bodies and the cultures we live in, rather than as a medicalized term that described a coherent "third sex."

other intersex people feel free to add on to this post-I'm only one person without all the answers, and would love to hear other perspectives!

[so-i-macedup-abit]

You know what, fuck it, sure (I wanna see what they do fyuygyhjgh)

technically more than a card trick, considering the pokeball and the flower, but haha

anyways since I offered you more than a card trick can I get the 100k :3

[finalset]

i'd love to hear more about your art! i really enjoy seeing it. feel free to take this as the prompt to talk about it :)

thank you!! hm I think I would start off by maybe elaborating more on the ambiguity I mentioned earlier, like most people I mostly use art as a method to work through or just feel my way through my present. and right now I’ve really been feeling what it’s like to settle in my own skin, physically and mentally! Getting to know myself better etc, it’s very new territory hence why in most of my recent art, though I’m very vulnerable in them, I don’t show all of or sometimes any of my face and why I’m alone / use negative space / or leave things just out of frame. There are still some blanks left to be filled in in my life especially in how I relate to others, what I want physically/romantically etc, so even things or people not drawn in are as much a part of it as what’s illustrated itself. & a lot of the perspectives are a bit voyeristic, usually showing how I want to be seen by my other or as a third person look in on myself.

[nick-close]

The dndads fandom special is being able to ignore things that happened to make the characters more likeable, imma be real. If the things u don’t like about older Taylor r past behaviours, block em out! Again I feel like everyone has done that with Scary comparing herself to Anne Frank in episode one. If I kept everything that happened in canon in my mind I would die lol.

[nevermore-ocs]

i was gonna try to come up with something clever and cool but i’m too much of a thirsty bitch to think rn so here’s an easy one

movie date what are we watching? 👀

Y'ALL ARE REALLY FIENDING FOR THIS NEW DESIGN OF SIMBAKO THIS MIGHT BE THE MOST WELL RECEIVED ONE YET XDDDD

[amourem]

just gotta suffer through two days of work then wuwa vacation….

[waffluous]

also guys masaya pledging to go to china this year...... shooting myself in the balls does this mean we get more fengfan chinese content

[chaosmultiverse]

Hey BTW I am probably deleting the ⭐ meme asks i owe, which were a ploting thing, I have a overwhelming number of drafts and want to cutdown where I can

[youngpeachenthusiast]

okay but like holy hell being chronicakly ill is so fucking isolating like. ive been stuck at home for a week. cant even lie down properly because of nausea. brain fog so much that i can barely do like anything at all. no friends or people or anything because exhaused and ill. it feels so lonely. also scary.

toomorrow im supposed to go back to school and a friend told me that we can hang out or he can come over or whatever and like. im crying. because of how much i needed to hear that.

also i struggle to remember that my friends still love me evem if i cant do stuff. idk where this is going. havent been able to breathe properly in days. so tired. cant sleep cause nausea. i. i dont know. i have so many things to do. going back to school is.difficult. i dont know. fucking hell. so isolatinv. being ill. people go oht amd do stuff and im just. at home..in bed. propped up so i dont throw up. i want to cry. i want a hug. i dont know. if you've read so far do know that i love you. you are cared for. thank you. i love you even if you havent read the post. just. love people in general. miss people. idk. tears.

[fantoccia]

Mm.

[guccigarantine]

I Will Finish my SecSam Gift Today

[excusemeaminute]

Hang on wait so jenna ortega claiming to rewrite scripts cause she thinks she knows better = hard to work with, annoying, know it all but henry cavill claiming to rewrite scripts cause he thinks he knows better = completely correct, he is god himself etcetc