#transgender help

[bellahancockts1122]

Say hi for a vid in ur dm right now

[thickamandlastenberg]

Support Che's Gender-Affirming Journey

Hello, my name is Che (they/he)!! I am a trans/queer, black, artist and writer. For my upcoming birthday, I am planning on having a long-awaited gender-affirming surgery. As this is my 26th birthday, it also means I will soon no longer be on my family's insurance plan, which is covering this upcoming procedure. I have worked multiple part-time jobs since graduating and have continuously applied and interviewed for full-time positions, but I have yet to find something permanent. This means until I find another source of income that provides benefits, then all my healthcare services like medication, doctor visits, therapy, etc will need to be paid out of pocket and become extremely expensive for someone making below a living wage. I am asking for assistance raising funds to help cover the remaining costs, supplies, etc. (I recently had nose surgery and used my remaining saved sick time off, so I am also including the costs to cover the 1-2 weeks I'll be taking off work to recover.) Even making a portion of this goal would be greatly appreciated as in the event I do not make my goal then I will have to pay a fee to reschedule. In the event I have to reschedule all the donations will be saved for the rescheduled date, but if my surgery is moved to another date then I risk my next insurance potentially not providing the same amount of coverage. Also, unfortunately, we do not know what transgender health care will look like going into this next presidency and I worry about having the same access or rights if this were to be postponed. Thank you so much for the support and generosity of anyone who donates and please share to spread the word if you can't!

[cb-writes-stuff]

Making my own post because reasons.

Asking for a friend. (And for myself.) How do you feel more like a girl? Like, what can you do? Is there anything?

[im-archangel-fucking-gabriel]

Uhhh ok genuine question, how does one look perfessional in a field when they are a 5’1” punk trans guy (on testosterone)? I want to look professional but everything is so gendered and anything that looks nice ends up looking weird on me because of weird body proportions! I am expected to dress business casual for every class, which would be fine if I knew how to dress that way for my body AND for my gender.

[theboysfromaustin]

I'm gonna need some help.

I'm a trans man who was just in a wreck that totaled my vehicle and broke my glasses. I'm going to have to pay off insurance and probably get new glasses unless I can find an old pair. I did not go to the ER and I am in a lot of pain.

I also need a replacement vehicle. I plan on buying used to save money.

Anything helps!

[pyr0man1c]

Is it normal to start hating your new name as a trans person?

I’ve been known as Alex to all my friends for about 3 years now but I’m starting to hate it for some reason.

I don’t wanna suddenly change it to Scott (the name I really like) it just feels wrong to and I feel like it would be too difficult on other people.

I’m probably overthinking it but it’s really stressing me out and I really want some sort of reassurance or another trans person too explain it.

[loonylupin2]

URGENT!!!!

Anyone know any ways to get diy hrt testosterone without crypto?

Like Apple Pay/Cash App etc?

[z0mbieeg1rl]

guys what if im trans?(TW!)

i had this period in time where i was trans but it really was the worst time of my life. it was all of 2023 and late 2022. those years my mental health peaked(badly) and i was hospitalized for my first suicide attempt. around november 2023 i de transitioned because ngl idk. i guess i just stopped feeling it. i started dressing more feminine, like form fitting clothes and skirts. i went by the name max and strictly he/him, which i had transitioned my appearance fully with hair, style and a full, hella thick mustache. ig i just started feeling all those feelings again and have been like hey i wish i was a boy or hey i miss that it felt so good. idk this might sound stupid but im confusing myself again.

also my parents are VERYYYY transphobic but they're democrats. they like to say they arent homophobic bc my moms sis is bi n shi but they hate trans ppl😭 idk guys im scared bc ive come so far and im scared that my mental health will go back to like it was when i was going by he/him which i had 4 attempts in 3 months during that time:/ someone help

this was me when i went by he/him

[can1s-lupus-lupus]

lowkey wanna start a name and pronoun hoard since i dont share my real name online and i like to experiment a bit with it but idk where to start cus I'm picky about what feels good, like I've had vos and rook locked in since i started this account, which i quite like both of them, although they feel slightly impersonal but i chose thistle for using on @tippy-tappy-paws which i do really like, and I'm thinking about using oscar on here (I'd have to retag everything but i think i could work it out pretty easily)

anyway does anyone have any tips for starting a name/pronoun hoard or finding names and pronouns that suit?

[addamsjuice]

hello tumblr would you be so kind as to suggest me trans friendly places to live i am currently in the united states but not opposed to moving out of country..

[ineffableive]

what are some excuses for buying trans tape? i’m trying to buy 2 rolls but i know my parents will be like why tf did you buy that so i need excuses please thank you

[halfblackwolfdemon]

For those that need this!!

natural voice change

Lower

Boom Your Voice

How to deepen your voice naturally

How to talk with a deeper voice 

How to deepen your voice (pre-t) Voice masculinization

Vocal androgyny in speech and singing

This Phone App Helps Transgender Users Change The Pitch And Tone Of Their Voices (buzzfeed article) 

Higher

Voice Feminization

Pitch, range, resonance, depth

How to develop a female voice

Feminine voice techniques         

[willgrahamscock]

[benjaminallhope-fulltimemind]

just a handy little info chart on the spectrums of sexuality.

/Edit: I forgot to give credit this is a screenshot from a video made by a content creator called Lily Orchard you should check her channel out it's amazing

[theameba1436]

Alright, I guess this is something.

Well since the country is going to shit and back. I'm going to open up my ko-fi for tips or something to try and save money for me and my partner's survival. You don't have to give money but sharing dose help.

[enfinizatics]

dear americans,

as a polish queer woman and human rights activist, i know exactly how you're feeling right now and what to expect from these elections. i lived through the 2015-2023 regime of pis, a right-wing populist party that divided families in the same way trump did. i’ve experienced the rise of fascism in poland, the influence of far-right parties like konfederacja, and their “santa’s little helpers”—ordo iuris, an ultra-conservative catholic organization (banned in many countries, mind you) that helped enforce a near-total abortion ban and runs anti-queer campaigns in public spaces. i supported the black protests in 2016 as a middle schooler when they first tried to ban abortion. as an adult, i actively participated in the 2020 women’s strike, running from police tear gas daily after they finally passed the ban. i supported friends who faced charges.

i’ve lived through intense homophobia in poland as a queer teen and adult. i survived the first pride march in my hometown, where far-right extremists threw stones and glass at us. i endured the anti-queer propaganda spread by the ruling party in state-owned media. i survived the “rainbow night,” poland’s own stonewall moment in summer 2020, when police arrested around 50 queer activists following the arrest of margo, a nonbinary activist. i survived the "lgbt-free zones," the targeted violence, the slurs from strangers on the street, and the protests i held against queerphobia. it was hard as fuck, but i survived.

but just because i survived, it doesn’t mean others did. many women died because of the abortion ban—marta, justyna, izabela, dorota, joanna, maria, and many others who didn’t survive pis’s draconian anti-abortion laws. milo, kacper, michał, zuzia (she was 12), wiktor, and other queer and trans kids and young adults took their own lives because of the relentless queerphobia.

despite all of this, our experience in poland can serve as a guide now. here are some tips for staying safe and how we, polish queers and women, organized under the regime:

safety first, always. if you know someone who’s had an abortion, no you don’t. if you know someone is trans, no you don’t. if you know people who help with safe abortions, no you don’t—at least not until you know it’s 100% safe to share. if you are queer or have had an abortion, only share this with people you trust fully. most importantly, not everyone has to be an activist just because they’re part of a minority. if it feels unsafe to share that you're queer, trans, etc., then don’t. it doesn’t make you any less queer.

use secure, encrypted messaging like signal for conversations on potentially risky topics, such as queerness, abortion, organizing counter-actions, protests—anything that might be used against you.

stay anonymous online. if you want to research or report something without surveillance, do not use regular internet. get a vpn (mullvad is affordable and reliable), download the tor browser (for both onion and standard links), and if you plan to whistleblow, consider using a riseup email account.

organize and build networks. community is everything now. support each other, foster independence, because your government won’t have your back. set up collectives, grassroots movements. create lists of trusted professionals—lawyers, doctors, etc.—who can offer support.

to lawyers and doctors: please consider pro-bono work. this is what got us through poland’s hardest times. your work will be needed now more than ever.

for protests or risky actions: always write a pro-bono lawyer’s number on your arm with a permanent marker.

get to know the anarchist black cross federation and other resources on safety culture: "Starting an anarchist black cross group: A guide"; Still We Rise - A resource pack for transgender and non-gender conforming people in prison; Safe OUTside the system by the Audre Lorde Project;

for safe abortion info or involvement: get familiar with womenhelpwomen.

stay radical, stay strong, stay informed: The Anarchist Library

if i forgot to (or didn't) include something, don't hesitate to reblog this post with other resources.