#queer help

[bluud-sugar]

posting this here too because im in a dire situation, the first image is currently outdated and I only have 2 cents now

any support is absolutely vital, just a few dollars in my ko-fi means everything. ill be updating my comm post as well for anyone interested. i will do anything for some help.

[shadefish]

hey, Im injured and cant work AND I am trying to move out!

for context: I am an autistic, disabled, Closeted trans woman who is trying to move into a safer home.

so yeah currently dealing with an arm injury that is making it near impossible to draw for extended periods of time.

I have a doctors appointment at the end of the month but I am currently saving to move out by the start of december and am finding it hard to assemble the funds as I am regularly made to monetarily support my parents.

If you like what I do and want to support me in getting out of a frankly shit living situation, please consider supporting me on Kofi or on Patreon in this tough time.

my Patrons gain access to an exclusive discord where I post works in progress and finished art early! as well as higher tiers gaining access to discounts and rewards!

[yaoib0y]

!! URGENT !!

PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND MOVE OUT OF CALIFORNIA AND TO FLORIDA WITH HIS MOTHER

we live in an area of california that is EXTREMELY difficult to support yourself in even if ur an upper middle class two income household. PLEASE help my friend parker with his move to florida. his abusive father has given him 30 days to move out with no support or funds becides a small amount from a summer job. he was also forced by his father to pull out of his college application. he has nowhere else to go but to try and live near his mother in florida!!

HE HAS 30 DAYS

https://gofund.me/b00de230

im only able to donate a little, as im a teenager and so are most of his friends. we cant do anything but beg other people to help him and share :(

[oro-junestar]

🫵YOU!!!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💖

You look like you need some kind, positive affirmations!! Come here🤗🫂

Apologies for the massive wall of text ahead, I hope that this is worth the read and you find comfort in these affirmations👉👈💞

❤️You are welcome here. You have entire communities all around the world full of people who are in the same boat as you, who support you, and who are always fighting for your human rights. We're all here for you and we love you. 🧡Always reach out for help and support when you need it. Don't let anxiety get in the way; your mind often tells you scary things that aren't true. The truth is, you are deserving of happiness and whatever it takes to achieve that happiness. 💛Don't be ashamed of the things that bring you joy. The world is your playground, you decide what matters to you! Be vibrant, be silly, wear your proudest smile! 💚It's okay to take breaks. Keep your mind and body healthy, and be at peace. Go outside often too; it's surprising how therapeutic it is to sit or walk in nature for a while! 💙Online trolls don't matter. They are lesser than you and are jealous of your joy. Don't reward them with your attention, you have better things to do with your time. TERFs and fascists can seethe all they want; you are stronger than them and you will outlive their rotten ideology! 💜There is no such thing as "not queer enough". Don't let what others think get in the way of you being your best self, you are welcome here! And if you're an ally, whether you're here for the whole community or just that one special queer person in your life, I sincerely thank you for your support, you are welcome too!

🩵Don't ever lose hope. As long as we all give our best effort, things will get better, no matter how long it takes. Times are scary right now, but we must keep fighting for a future that's not scary. 🩷You are not obligated to tell anyone the full details of your gender, why you're trans, or your entire transition plan. Often, it's difficult to put these things into words, and that's okay, you don't owe anyone these explanations. You don't have to tell anyone your deadname or any details about your body either; those are private! 🤍Be trans your own way! Whether you medically transition or not, whether you conform to traditional standards of your gender or not, you're doing it right as long as you're happy! 🩷Live to be a beacon of hope for those around you who need it. Seeing you shine with joy, others will know that they are safe and welcome too. Someone might find comfort in you the same way you might find comfort in this post. Your presence matters! 🩵If you are still waiting to come out of the closet or move out of a hostile situation, I hope that things go well for you once you do. No matter what happens, stay strong, keep holding onto hope, and remember that you have control over your own life. Don't give up!

💛Your gender is as real as the warmth in your heart and the smile on your face. 🤍You know yourself better than anyone else. You decide who you are; no one else does. They don't have to understand you completely in order to support you. 💜'Silly' genders and labels are valid too! Labels ultimately aren't all that important; people define labels, not the other way around! Whether you want alot of labels or very few, express yourself in ways that bring you joy, don't be afraid to have fun with it! 🖤You are wonderful the way you are and you will continue to grow and improve, as long as you keep doing your very best!

Thank you for reading!! I love you and I hope that this has helped you! I hope you have a wonderful day! Take care of yourself💖

[theenchantedforestsystem]

Help a Disabled Queer System out

We have lost our food stamps, our health is still declining and the hotter it gets the worst we get (POTS and asthma).

We need gas, food, summer clothes, shampoo and conditioner, and more that our head hurts too much(heat) to remember at the moment (Think it had something to do with helping us buy materials for starting a crochet and jewelry making business but idk)

Our house is still making us worse (Full of mold, mildew and there's asbestos in the ceiling. None that we can actually reach or clean because of how poorly taken care of the house was and our landlord having lied about taking care of it before we moved in.) So we need to find a new place and get a down payment.

15/1200

Our Carrd Paypal Ko-Fi

[gotheevee]

So today is my third year anniversary of me coming out and the start of my transition 🥰🖤

It's been three years since, one of the hardest and best choices of my life. I originally thought I was nonbinary but shortly realized after making that decision, that I was a woman, always have been and just didn't know till then.

I have been struggling a lot with bills, I'm in Desperate need or tires, I almost got in a bad accident the other night because my tires are so bald and it started snowing 😓, I'm just not making enough. I'm in the process of looking for a second job ( not something I want to do 😔) just to scrape by. I'm not even able to buy some necessities some times. I don't have family or anyone to ask for help.

It's really frustrating this time of year, I'm not able to buy any of my loved ones gifts (one of my love languages) or get myself anything I want 😔 every year this time is just so harmful to my mental health, right after this month is my birthday and every year I just hate not being able to do anything or but myself anything nice 😓

If anyone can help that would be amazing 🖤 anything is appreciated really, and if you can help that way, I could always use a reblog of the post. Please and thank you to anyone that takes the time to just read the post 🖤🥺 I appreciate you

Cashapp- $thatgothstoner

Or Dm for PayPal

[crippleremus]

URGENT HELP NEEDED!

I have until December 31st 2024 to pay my remaining rent balance or my (also disabled) fiancé, cat, and I will be evicted.

please, if you’re feeling any kind of holiday spirit or kindness, consider adding to this fund. every single dollar counts.

once i get this remaining balance out of the way, i’m on track to pay my rent in full every month with help from a raise at my job as well as student aid, I just have to get over this last hurdle.

help a cripple out?

(ignore the deadname pls)

[wasteofart]

Ok but can you be ace/aro if you're yearing for things like romance and closeness and a relationship and all that? Serious question here.

I've been questioning myself for ages and while I never experienced any attraction to a real person I still long for what I see in movies or read in books to the point where I have a physical tightness in my chest.

Is my brain just not producing the right chemicals for me to fall in love? Is my trauma holding me back from forming any meaningful bond? Have my past experiences lead me to feel repulsed by the idea? Am I experiencing attraction but never realized it? Or am I simply ace/aro and my internalized gender/relationship thinking makes me want what is considered normal?

Please, if anyone has answers hit me up because I've been overthinking for years now

[lowdowndandy]

Hey you wanna help that Tumblr user no one remembers? That one who got sighted naked in a cemetery? Or the one who posted about crunchy non GMO free-range funerals? Fell off an aircraft carrier? Used to host movie nights? Trashfirefa- *metal clang sound and I fall to the ground*

It was a long shot anyway.

But if you do want to help four queers move out of Texas here's your chance! 🩷🩷🩷

We're raising funds to afford a move to the new england area as it's much safer for a bunch of visibly queer people.

Me and my wife are disabled and we've been using our house to help our queer friends and found family become independent from their shitty family situations but we can no longer live in Texas as we're both trans.

Everything is appreciated! Even if you're just reblogging with a goofy meme- you got my heart babe

[elliott-the-creature]

Hey queers of tumblr, is there a term for when you struggle to tell the difference between types of attraction (like platonic, aesthetic, and romantic specifically)? I know I experience romantic attraction to others, but a lot of the time I struggle to tell whether what I’m feeling is romantic attraction or platonic attraction or even aesthetic attraction. Quoiromatic was a term that popped up when I was researching, but that doesn’t seem to quite fit. Any help pls!! Very much appreciated /nf

[eris2301]

What the hell are you supposed to do when someone you’ve talked to for hours every day over the course of a few months is suddenly no longer in your life? I keep going to text her and then remember that I can’t anymore and that’s been the most painful thing about this. I can understand why she thought it was best that we go out separate ways but I wish I could make her understand that it’s not the relationship I miss it’s her. I can get over my feelings for her but I will always miss her, the person I was once so close to. I wish we had just stayed friends so that I didn’t loose her completely.

[oro-junestar]

Helpful explanation of he/him lesbians!!

So I've seen alot of people confused about the existence of he/him or they/them lesbians and how that's possible, so I'd like to clear that up!

Simply put, pronouns do not equal gender (and neither does sex, obviously). He/him lesbian does not mean male lesbian. If you are a woman, cis or trans, you do not necessarily have to use she/her pronouns. Your pronouns are whatever you want them to be, and so is your gender, and they do not at all dictate eachother.

Examples of he/him lesbians:

-Many butch lesbians use he/him pronouns because it matches their masculine-leaning presentation. Some could also be fluid or polygender into masculine genders.

-Some trans men/enbies who are very early into their transition may also still feel comfortable calling themselves lesbians (such as myself! Even though I'm transmasc and would not like to be called a woman, I would still rather be called a lesbian than a straight man. Maybe later into my transition, that might change.)

-Some enbies are also fluid or polygender into feminine genders and could at times be considered lesbians, no matter their pronouns

I hope that this explanation has been helpful! Together as the LGBTQ+ community and allies, let's all keep learning to understand eachother and help make the world a safer, happier place!

[theenchantedforestsystem]

Help Disabled Queer System get some funds 2.0

So we have gotten some underwear, tooth paste, sunscreen and a few things to eat but now more bs has struck. Thank you to whoever donated to the last post sadly we just need regular financial assistance until we can set up our commissions properly.

So have 0.80 cents in our bank account rn

And we still need clothes and food however recently our sewer backed up and ruined all our towels so now we need some more of those as well.

Basically we still need Clothes, Food, Towels, Soap (For body and face) as well as save up for our guest next month so we can afford to eat and afford gas. And a new cane, ours is pretty beat up near the bottom and we're not sure how to fix it tbh.

So feel free to donate or commission we'll do about anything at this point we just, need a lot more help than I was expecting

Since june is coming up we'll happily do pride things just, shoot us a message of what you want and we'll give you a price/gen

0/$250

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And you can Contact us either Here or on Discord at Enchanted Forest#9637 or at @lirusstories (art blog) @lirulua (main hosts blog)

Note: Pictures are not me but @glitchyartist with things i made for them

Just, need help reblogging feel free to ignore

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[skylitcreations]

We need rent soon!

Please consider helping a disabled queer guy out to avoid eviction? We just need to manage rent for a few more months before we move into a better situation, and this month is already late. Could you guys spread this to help get more eyes on it?

I can only work so quickly on commissions without risking my drawing hand too much and taking on more wouldn't be the best of ideas but if you don't feel like donating but do feel up to getting a commission, I'll still take them if you're prepared for a very long wait. I can't keep taking on ones with deadlines, sadly.

You can find my info and links here: