#queer help

[king-casino]

GENUINE FINANCIAL EMERGENCY, PLEASE READ

Hi! I never really make posts like this, so please forgive me if this is a lil all over the place.

My family's bank account is in the red, and we're in a genuine crisis. Both me and my two siblings are heavily neurodivergent, mentally ill, high school drop outs with no GED (we've done two, but we don't have the money to pay for the last two), and barely anything to put on our resume. We're GREATLY struggling to find work.

We're all over 18, but we were blessed to have a mother that understands us and our struggles. Unfortunately, my mom is physically disabled and can't have a normal job. She already works about 12 hours or more almost every day, and we're still struggling. We don't have medical insurance, which means we have to pay for ALL our medication out of pocket. My mom has an entire bucket full of meds she needs, which she hasn't even been refilling for a while now, since she cares more about me and my siblings getting the meds we need.

My siblings take antidepressants and sleep meds, but i also have a bucket full of meds i need, since I'm physically disabled. It's another reason why I'm struggling so hard to find work. I can't just get an easy starter job, since almost all of them require physical labor or standing on my feet all day. I have chronic pain and fatigue, and muscle atrophy.

Currently, we are FIGHTING to pay rent and bills, and that's even with a food stamp card. I NEED to go to the doctor's soon so that i can keep being prescribed my mood stabilizers, but we don't have enough money for that. And without my mood stabilizers, there is a real, genuine risk of me committing suicide.

And i am so sorry for begging, but i genuinely don't know what else to do. I'm applying for jobs everyday, but I'm having no luck.

Which brings me to my main point.... If you have money to spare, PLEASE consider commissioning me. Here's my website , please just take a look. Or at the very least, please reblog this, share it with people you know, anything.

TL;DR Financial crisis, unable to find work due to mental illness and physical disability. Need to go to doctor to get a refill on my mood stabilizers, don't have enough money, might hurt myself without them. Fighting to pay rent and bills. Family needs help. Please consider commissioning me. Please reblog and share anywhere you can.

Once again:

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Cashapp: $kingcasino15

Please for the love of god help. I genuinely don't know what else to do.

[bluud-sugar]

posting this here too because im in a dire situation, the first image is currently outdated and I only have 2 cents now

any support is absolutely vital, just a few dollars in my ko-fi means everything. ill be updating my comm post as well for anyone interested. i will do anything for some help.

[thumblrdotcom]

Help a trans woman get out of debt!

I'm remaking the post because with the end of the month, my situation is still the same, maybe worse. I still owe around 100USD in present and future fees to the bank (around 1/3 of the minimum wage in brazil).

As the only provider to my house, this means that the money me and my roommate/best friend have to live through next month will be cut for that much, and I get paid monthly, so there's no other opportunities to get more money.

So that's why I'm once again asking for help. I don't very much like just asking for money, so if you would like to help, consider buying one of my games @ danolibel.itch.io or if you don't want to buy a game you can check my ko-fi, and please reblog and share it. Please please help me get out of debt

[shadefish]

hey, Im injured and cant work AND I am trying to move out!

for context: I am an autistic, disabled, Closeted trans woman who is trying to move into a safer home.

so yeah currently dealing with an arm injury that is making it near impossible to draw for extended periods of time.

I have a doctors appointment at the end of the month but I am currently saving to move out by the start of december and am finding it hard to assemble the funds as I am regularly made to monetarily support my parents.

If you like what I do and want to support me in getting out of a frankly shit living situation, please consider supporting me on Kofi or on Patreon in this tough time.

my Patrons gain access to an exclusive discord where I post works in progress and finished art early! as well as higher tiers gaining access to discounts and rewards!

[yaoib0y]

!! URGENT !!

PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND MOVE OUT OF CALIFORNIA AND TO FLORIDA WITH HIS MOTHER

we live in an area of california that is EXTREMELY difficult to support yourself in even if ur an upper middle class two income household. PLEASE help my friend parker with his move to florida. his abusive father has given him 30 days to move out with no support or funds becides a small amount from a summer job. he was also forced by his father to pull out of his college application. he has nowhere else to go but to try and live near his mother in florida!!

HE HAS 30 DAYS

https://gofund.me/b00de230

im only able to donate a little, as im a teenager and so are most of his friends. we cant do anything but beg other people to help him and share :(

[theenchantedforestsystem]

Help a Disabled Queer System out

We have lost our food stamps, our health is still declining and the hotter it gets the worst we get (POTS and asthma).

We need gas, food, summer clothes, shampoo and conditioner, and more that our head hurts too much(heat) to remember at the moment (Think it had something to do with helping us buy materials for starting a crochet and jewelry making business but idk)

Our house is still making us worse (Full of mold, mildew and there's asbestos in the ceiling. None that we can actually reach or clean because of how poorly taken care of the house was and our landlord having lied about taking care of it before we moved in.) So we need to find a new place and get a down payment.

15/1200

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[cat-rescuer-kakebezi]

Hello

We urge our leaders and those in charge to help us secure our rights as LGBTIQ 🏳‍🌈 individuals in the camps where we are sent in Africa. We are losing our lives, and we deserve to live just like any other human being. Share to inform all our leaders.

https://gofund.me/4b7d0709

[transhelpanonymous]

(This is a direct copy of our intro over on Tiktok, we will be making one specifically for Tumblr soon!)

This is a project aimed towards helping American queer folks during the next 4 years, but anyone can use any info provided! -Delta

[strnrdvr]

Hello, your local AO fan August's here!

Really need money for a top surgery rn, so im opening commissions :)

Also, you can donate me via bmc

[crippleremus]

URGENT HELP NEEDED!

I have until December 31st 2024 to pay my remaining rent balance or my (also disabled) fiancé, cat, and I will be evicted.

please, if you’re feeling any kind of holiday spirit or kindness, consider adding to this fund. every single dollar counts.

once i get this remaining balance out of the way, i’m on track to pay my rent in full every month with help from a raise at my job as well as student aid, I just have to get over this last hurdle.

help a cripple out?

(ignore the deadname pls)

[beethiin]

I'm falling in love with her.

(she doesn't want me)

[wasteofart]

Ok but can you be ace/aro if you're yearing for things like romance and closeness and a relationship and all that? Serious question here.

I've been questioning myself for ages and while I never experienced any attraction to a real person I still long for what I see in movies or read in books to the point where I have a physical tightness in my chest.

Is my brain just not producing the right chemicals for me to fall in love? Is my trauma holding me back from forming any meaningful bond? Have my past experiences lead me to feel repulsed by the idea? Am I experiencing attraction but never realized it? Or am I simply ace/aro and my internalized gender/relationship thinking makes me want what is considered normal?

Please, if anyone has answers hit me up because I've been overthinking for years now

[lowdowndandy]

Hey you wanna help that Tumblr user no one remembers? That one who got sighted naked in a cemetery? Or the one who posted about crunchy non GMO free-range funerals? Fell off an aircraft carrier? Used to host movie nights? Trashfirefa- *metal clang sound and I fall to the ground*

It was a long shot anyway.

But if you do want to help four queers move out of Texas here's your chance! 🩷🩷🩷

We're raising funds to afford a move to the new england area as it's much safer for a bunch of visibly queer people.

Me and my wife are disabled and we've been using our house to help our queer friends and found family become independent from their shitty family situations but we can no longer live in Texas as we're both trans.

Everything is appreciated! Even if you're just reblogging with a goofy meme- you got my heart babe

[kai-the-creature]

Hey queers of tumblr, is there a term for when you struggle to tell the difference between types of attraction (like platonic, aesthetic, and romantic specifically)? I know I experience romantic attraction to others, but a lot of the time I struggle to tell whether what I’m feeling is romantic attraction or platonic attraction or even aesthetic attraction. Quoiromatic was a term that popped up when I was researching, but that doesn’t seem to quite fit. Any help pls!! Very much appreciated /nf

[oro-junestar]

Helpful explanation of he/him lesbians!!

So I've seen alot of people confused about the existence of he/him or they/them lesbians and how that's possible, so I'd like to clear that up!

Simply put, pronouns do not equal gender (and neither does sex, obviously). He/him lesbian does not mean male lesbian. If you are a woman, cis or trans, you do not necessarily have to use she/her pronouns. Your pronouns are whatever you want them to be, and so is your gender, and they do not at all dictate eachother.

Examples of he/him lesbians:

-Many butch lesbians use he/him pronouns because it matches their masculine-leaning presentation. Some could also be fluid or polygender into masculine genders.

-Some trans men/enbies who are very early into their transition may also still feel comfortable calling themselves lesbians (such as myself! Even though I'm transmasc and would not like to be called a woman, I would still rather be called a lesbian than a straight man. Maybe later into my transition, that might change.)

-Some enbies are also fluid or polygender into feminine genders and could at times be considered lesbians, no matter their pronouns

I hope that this explanation has been helpful! Together as the LGBTQ+ community and allies, let's all keep learning to understand eachother and help make the world a safer, happier place!