#queer help

[undi-snowkitteh]

Hey,

I need help once again. :]

My application for social benefits has been delayed once again.

Ofc they found out some documents are still missing after already asking for "everything" that was missing...

I need:

300€ for rent, internet, my part of the shared expenses for the flat

at least 150€ for groceries

50€ for public transportation expenses

50€ for hormone stuff → syringes, needles and alcohol swabs (it's almost time to stab myself again) and hygiene products

so at least 550€ total to survive the next month hopefully

and after next month this shitshow should be finally over :')

[bluud-sugar]

posting this here too because im in a dire situation, the first image is currently outdated and I only have 2 cents now

any support is absolutely vital, just a few dollars in my ko-fi means everything. ill be updating my comm post as well for anyone interested. i will do anything for some help.

[shadefish]

hey, Im injured and cant work AND I am trying to move out!

for context: I am an autistic, disabled, Closeted trans woman who is trying to move into a safer home.

so yeah currently dealing with an arm injury that is making it near impossible to draw for extended periods of time.

I have a doctors appointment at the end of the month but I am currently saving to move out by the start of december and am finding it hard to assemble the funds as I am regularly made to monetarily support my parents.

If you like what I do and want to support me in getting out of a frankly shit living situation, please consider supporting me on Kofi or on Patreon in this tough time.

my Patrons gain access to an exclusive discord where I post works in progress and finished art early! as well as higher tiers gaining access to discounts and rewards!

[yaoib0y]

!! URGENT !!

PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND MOVE OUT OF CALIFORNIA AND TO FLORIDA WITH HIS MOTHER

we live in an area of california that is EXTREMELY difficult to support yourself in even if ur an upper middle class two income household. PLEASE help my friend parker with his move to florida. his abusive father has given him 30 days to move out with no support or funds becides a small amount from a summer job. he was also forced by his father to pull out of his college application. he has nowhere else to go but to try and live near his mother in florida!!

HE HAS 30 DAYS

https://gofund.me/b00de230

im only able to donate a little, as im a teenager and so are most of his friends. we cant do anything but beg other people to help him and share :(

[oro-junestar]

Helpful explanation of he/him lesbians!!

So I've seen alot of people confused about the existence of he/him or they/them lesbians and how that's possible, so I'd like to clear that up!

Simply put, pronouns do not equal gender (and neither does sex, obviously). He/him lesbian does not mean male lesbian. If you are a woman, cis or trans, you do not necessarily have to use she/her pronouns. Your pronouns are whatever you want them to be, and so is your gender, and they do not at all dictate eachother.

Examples of he/him lesbians:

-Many butch lesbians use he/him pronouns because it matches their masculine-leaning presentation. Some could also be fluid or polygender into masculine genders.

-Some trans men/enbies who are very early into their transition may also still feel comfortable calling themselves lesbians (such as myself! Even though I'm transmasc and would not like to be called a woman, I would still rather be called a lesbian than a straight man. Maybe later into my transition, that might change.)

-Some enbies are also fluid or polygender into feminine genders and could at times be considered lesbians, no matter their pronouns

I hope that this explanation has been helpful! Together as the LGBTQ+ community and allies, let's all keep learning to understand eachother and help make the world a safer, happier place!

[theenchantedforestsystem]

Help a Disabled Queer System out

We have lost our food stamps, our health is still declining and the hotter it gets the worst we get (POTS and asthma).

We need gas, food, summer clothes, shampoo and conditioner, and more that our head hurts too much(heat) to remember at the moment (Think it had something to do with helping us buy materials for starting a crochet and jewelry making business but idk)

Our house is still making us worse (Full of mold, mildew and there's asbestos in the ceiling. None that we can actually reach or clean because of how poorly taken care of the house was and our landlord having lied about taking care of it before we moved in.) So we need to find a new place and get a down payment.

15/1200

Our Carrd Paypal Ko-Fi

[wolftheghost]

hey i've been following for a while and i couldnt help but notice you took the aro/ace label out of your pinned post,, i've been questioning if im ace for a while and i was wondering how you figured it out? any advice would be appreciated ;-;

if it's too personal to talk about on here then dw tho! dont feel pressure to respond /gen :3

Of course i can help :3

The way i figured out i was aro-ace was just kind of examining past experiences, and looking at the way i experience attractions.

Most of the time they boiled down to

They're so cool i want to be like them

I really like this person & i want to be good friends

Oh wow, transition goals!

I found that a lot of the time I mistook platonic attractions and aesthetic attractions for romantic ones (e.g i wanna be good friends, or they look really pretty) because i misinterpreted the feeling itself. My aesthetic attractions are usually towards men, which makes sense as a transmasc individual, and my platonic attractions are towards people i already get along with.

Basically, my advice is to examine your past and present experiences, think about how you feel attractions & most importantly, dont be afraid of getting it wrong sometimes. It doesnt matter if you use the label when it doesnt quite fit, or if its the closest to what you feel, because at the end of the day a label is just a word to define how you feel. Being on the internet can often pressure us into defining everything in the simplest terms, but thats just not possible sometimes.

Good luck! :3

[wasteofart]

Ok but can you be ace/aro if you're yearing for things like romance and closeness and a relationship and all that? Serious question here.

I've been questioning myself for ages and while I never experienced any attraction to a real person I still long for what I see in movies or read in books to the point where I have a physical tightness in my chest.

Is my brain just not producing the right chemicals for me to fall in love? Is my trauma holding me back from forming any meaningful bond? Have my past experiences lead me to feel repulsed by the idea? Am I experiencing attraction but never realized it? Or am I simply ace/aro and my internalized gender/relationship thinking makes me want what is considered normal?

Please, if anyone has answers hit me up because I've been overthinking for years now

[dazzlinglybitter]

Super nervous to post this on here but here goes nothing. I am trying to move out of the south. For those who don't know, Texas and many other southern states are becoming increasingly risky for queer people to live in. I have never felt accepted or safe here, and it is getting worse. I unfortunately had to use a chunk of my savings for an emergency that popped up, and that has put me behind schedule in my savings for the move. I don't like asking but had to try. I continue to save and find other ways to bring income in, but moving is very expensive. I appreciate anything! A reblog, a donation, a like, a comment. Literally anything to share this! Thank y'all so much!

[lowdowndandy]

Hey you wanna help that Tumblr user no one remembers? That one who got sighted naked in a cemetery? Or the one who posted about crunchy non GMO free-range funerals? Fell off an aircraft carrier? Used to host movie nights? Trashfirefa- *metal clang sound and I fall to the ground*

It was a long shot anyway.

But if you do want to help four queers move out of Texas here's your chance! 🩷🩷🩷

We're raising funds to afford a move to the new england area as it's much safer for a bunch of visibly queer people.

Me and my wife are disabled and we've been using our house to help our queer friends and found family become independent from their shitty family situations but we can no longer live in Texas as we're both trans.

Everything is appreciated! Even if you're just reblogging with a goofy meme- you got my heart babe

[elliott-the-creature]

Hey queers of tumblr, is there a term for when you struggle to tell the difference between types of attraction (like platonic, aesthetic, and romantic specifically)? I know I experience romantic attraction to others, but a lot of the time I struggle to tell whether what I’m feeling is romantic attraction or platonic attraction or even aesthetic attraction. Quoiromatic was a term that popped up when I was researching, but that doesn’t seem to quite fit. Any help pls!! Very much appreciated /nf

[eris2301]

What the hell are you supposed to do when someone you’ve talked to for hours every day over the course of a few months is suddenly no longer in your life? I keep going to text her and then remember that I can’t anymore and that’s been the most painful thing about this. I can understand why she thought it was best that we go out separate ways but I wish I could make her understand that it’s not the relationship I miss it’s her. I can get over my feelings for her but I will always miss her, the person I was once so close to. I wish we had just stayed friends so that I didn’t loose her completely.

[skylitcreations]

We need rent soon!

Please consider helping a disabled queer guy out to avoid eviction? We just need to manage rent for a few more months before we move into a better situation, and this month is already late. Could you guys spread this to help get more eyes on it?

I can only work so quickly on commissions without risking my drawing hand too much and taking on more wouldn't be the best of ideas but if you don't feel like donating but do feel up to getting a commission, I'll still take them if you're prepared for a very long wait. I can't keep taking on ones with deadlines, sadly.

You can find my info and links here:

[theenchantedforestsystem]

Help Disabled Queer System get some funds 2.0

So we have gotten some underwear, tooth paste, sunscreen and a few things to eat but now more bs has struck. Thank you to whoever donated to the last post sadly we just need regular financial assistance until we can set up our commissions properly.

So have 0.80 cents in our bank account rn

And we still need clothes and food however recently our sewer backed up and ruined all our towels so now we need some more of those as well.

Basically we still need Clothes, Food, Towels, Soap (For body and face) as well as save up for our guest next month so we can afford to eat and afford gas. And a new cane, ours is pretty beat up near the bottom and we're not sure how to fix it tbh.

So feel free to donate or commission we'll do about anything at this point we just, need a lot more help than I was expecting

Since june is coming up we'll happily do pride things just, shoot us a message of what you want and we'll give you a price/gen

0/$250

Our Carrd Paypal Ko-Fi

And you can Contact us either Here or on Discord at Enchanted Forest#9637 or at @lirusstories (art blog) @lirulua (main hosts blog)

Note: Pictures are not me but @glitchyartist with things i made for them

Just, need help reblogging feel free to ignore

@glitchyartist @randowaffle @oh-itskitkat @immabethehero @spudmcloughlin @malaboos-bodacious-blog @asterismace @sw1tchb04rd

[skittlescore]

// death, illness

As I have posted before, somebody I know is dying. They are homeless, have nobody irl to support them, and they have 3 months left to live.

I have my anime art commissions open. I will draw anything I am comfortable with for any price within reason.

Here’s a few examples of my art:

Through what I have raised so far my friend has been able to reach shelter and now has a roof over their head. The rest of the money received will go towards their treatment

It may be foolish of me, but i want to try and save their life. At the very least extend their time left here.

I take payments through anything whether it be paypal, cashapp, venmo….I can make it work.

I apologize for the heavy post and topic. Message me with any inquiries if you wish!!! Even a reblog helps. Thank you all so so much. Bless <3