#lgbtq help

[l3m0nteeth]

How do I tell my irl friends I’m rly uncomfortable with them making sexual jokes especially if they include me/ are directed at me in some way?

[lost-and-cursed]

Sign the petition for trans people of Russia

Petition for easier admission of trans people from abroad into Germany (Ends December 18)

If you have a few minutes, please sign the petition or at least share it (via repost or reblog).

It needs 50 000 signs (and has only 7k) and has less than two weeks to go.

Instructions how to sign it and credits under the cut

Infographic: courtesy of Pomyla ruki (Washed hands)

Translation: courtesy of @lost-and-cursed and @anayaretta

[calciferous-kelpie]

URGENT: WE DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME

My friend @chronicarus, aka Devi, is in desperate need of our help! For unfair reasons explained on gofundme, Devi's insurance is no longer covering the expenses of his top surgery, and his surgery date is fast approaching!

A different insurance plan has come up as an option, but this will still cost Devi $5,500 out of pocket!

Devi only has until Oct 13th to purchase this insurance plan in order to keep his surgery date on Nov 17th. PLEASE help him by either donating or reblogging this post! He might not get another chance for quite some time, and he's already suffered so much! 💔

$335 / $5,500

[oro-junestar]

Helpful explanation of he/him lesbians!!

So I've seen alot of people confused about the existence of he/him or they/them lesbians and how that's possible, so I'd like to clear that up!

Simply put, pronouns do not equal gender (and neither does sex, obviously). He/him lesbian does not mean male lesbian. If you are a woman, cis or trans, you do not necessarily have to use she/her pronouns. Your pronouns are whatever you want them to be, and so is your gender, and they do not at all dictate eachother.

Examples of he/him lesbians:

-Many butch lesbians use he/him pronouns because it matches their masculine-leaning presentation. Some could also be fluid or polygender into masculine genders.

-Some trans men/enbies who are very early into their transition may also still feel comfortable calling themselves lesbians (such as myself! Even though I'm transmasc and would not like to be called a woman, I would still rather be called a lesbian than a straight man. Maybe later into my transition, that might change.)

-Some enbies are also fluid or polygender into feminine genders and could at times be considered lesbians, no matter their pronouns

I hope that this explanation has been helpful! Together as the LGBTQ+ community and allies, let's all keep learning to understand eachother and help make the world a safer, happier place!

[nyuuko]

hi!! could i request either a fallen angel id pack, liminal space id pack, or a creature id pack? whichever you prefer!

super sorry if i'm doing this wrong, this is my first time requesting anything on tumblr 😭

I love a choice! ...

Here's a Creature/Cryptid ID Pack!

NAMES

Adalbern, Admetus, Armel, Bernard/Berard, Essence, Fiadh, Gerben, Odd, Olindo/Olinda, Orson, Phocas, Selvaggia, Storm, Stormy, Sverre, Themistocles, Vilde, Wilbur, Wilder

PRONOUNS

it/crypt/creep/creature/that thing/this thing/this/that/thing/cryptid/cryptic/dark/fear/beast/claw/gaze/hunt/seek/dae/xyr/vae/dirt/rot/gore/hate/dead/death

TITLES

the wild one, the cryptic creature, the mythic beast, the hidden cryptid, [prn] of forest horrors, the creature of [the forest/the wild/etc.], [prn] unknown, [prn] who is unknown, an affront to science, [prn] from beneath, [prn] of the darkness

IDs

cryptidgender, crypthauntic, genderjamagix, gendercryptian, prycryptidic, crypticcoric, acryptigender, crypilexic, anomalyic, foretidian, deepkenean

[im-just-a-random-trashcan]

just noticing a rise in using transsexual instead of transgender on tumblr in the last few months or smth at least from what posts I'm getting and I'm. Confused? I was under the impression transsexual was an outdated term for various reasons- does anyone have answers fhekdhs like I don't understand- why not just use transgender, isn't the language more inclusive?? is this just a minority or just a Tumblr thing or what cuz I just- I'm so frikkin confused 😭

If it's a nsfw thing I might cry tbh

[tyrannosylasrex]

when do you know who you are?

how much thinking is long enough to say Yeah, THIS is me.

(dumb yap about myself and my vague identity below the cut)

because I've only started thinking about my gender at the start of this year, and now, 7 months later, I want to say I'm 99% sure I'm masc non-binary, and I'd love to come out to my close friends and family now, but I'm afraid it might be a rash decision.

how do you know you're non-binary? i feel like if you're trans toward a whole-ass gender the answer is much clearer? whereas if you're neither it's like... "well i'm just me lol idk". or am i drastically oversimplifying this

basically, i know i'm not a woman. i also know i'm not a man. i don't identify with either of those, never have. i'm just me. although I do lean heavily toward masculinity, i don't feel like a man. just.. guy adjacent lol.

tl;dr: who the fuck am i and how does one know for sure lmao

[shadefish]

Patreon boosting

Hey, real talk. I am trying to save up to move out and having money regularly siphoned off by my parents for various expenses. it would mean alot to me if yall could check out my Patreon, even just a dollar or two goes along way.

https://www.patreon.com/shadefish

you get access to

 -An exclusive discord I share with @crippledgiraff Where I post wips, concepts, finished art early, and other stuff that the rest of the internet does not see 

-exclusive comm discounts and higher tiers get free art every month

-pretty regular communication about what i am working on, what stuff I am cooking, and what stuff I am planning to do

 -eventually when i get it set up, art streams, request streams, stuff like that.

other ways to support me are through kofi or buying my lancer art pack on itch

for some explanation: I am a disabled autistic trans woman trying to get out of a toxic home and move in with people who will be infinitely more accommodating to me and my needs. I am planning on trying to move next year around January or a bit later. as it stands my dad takes anywhere from 250 to 500 dollars from me a month with various 50 - 200 dollar charges in between for things like groceries for them. I have a limited budget and can only work on so many commissions to try and stay in the green. If i can get my patreon to at least 450 a month, that would cover my rent and utilities at my new place every month so that commission money would now be savings. 

ty for reading, ty for sharing or re blogging. it means alot.

[finleydamadlad]

Hi,

I’m applying for student visa in the UK and was shocked by the international healthsurge cost, nearly £2000.. so if anyone want to help me my PayPal is PayPal.me/FinnDaMadLad

Thank you beforehand, any amount helps❤️

[kwonzoshi]

*sigh*

Hello, friends...

It seems that life is going to continue kicking my ass for the foreseeable future.

I am needing help making rent, it is due this upcoming Wednesday.

Here is the situation:

While my job had allegedly opened up full hours, we are currently at whats called Low Work Volume. This means that there are more agents working than the amount of calls that are being received. Due to this, they cut hours for several agents, me included.

On top of this, for the last week I've had to pick up my kid from school myself, which has made me lose some of the little hours I had. This has been resolved as her bus has finally been assigned and I no longer have to do that starting Tuesday. That doesn't make up for the hours/money lost though....

I will be attempting to instacart/doordash to make as much as I can by Wednesday, however I do not have anyone that can watch my daughter so that limits how long I can be out. I've already checked to see if I qualify for emergency assistance and I do not qualify as my situation isn't deemed 'dire' enough. Wish I was kidding but that is literally what the lady told me...

Rent isn't the only thing due but it is the most important at this time.

I can do Tarot/Oracle readings and I have a lot of San and Hoshi PCs that I've been trying to sell on top of everything I've sold already...

Any help is appreciated:

Cashapp: zothelordd

Venmo: kwonzoshi

I also have paypal, but due to my full name being on it, I won't post it.

[nezzpezz]

how to tell if ur a lesbian or not chat please I'm going thru a crisis

[calciferous-kelpie]

In an effort to keep momentum going on Devi's GoFundMe, I am now drawing gift art for donators!

From this point onward, anyone who donates $40 or more and shows me proof of their donation will receive a free drawing from me as a thank you!

What you will receive from me is a flat-colored drawing of any character of your choosing with a simple background!

Here are some examples of what that may look like:

(Backgrounds will be more like the first three examples or even slightly more detailed)

All you have to do to receive a drawing from me of your OC or favorite character is to donate $40 or more to the fundraiser linked in this post and then dm me a screenshot of your donation receipt! ✨

Please help! Devi needs this money by November 17th! 🙏

[aheartfrcats]

Maybe y‘all can help me

I can instantly tell when I find someone cute or goodlooking. That’s the crush for me I „can’t get over“. „He’s so cute“/„he looks so good“ but it’s kinda all there is?

I recently found out my love language is physical touch and I do get the urge to hug people really often. When we build a connection. Where it doesn’t feel weird and I really want it. Kisses are similiar. But even when I want to talk to someone, want to hug them, want to know more, compliment them, hold their hand, kiss them or want to help them - I don’t desire going on dates. That’s really not my cup of tea. And I don’t want a relationship.

For me its kinda like „I like you but I don’t want anything from you.“

Feeling important and liked back is enough but the traditional dating stuff is nothing I fantasise about. And I never really feel the urge or desire for sexual activity I mean this has lots to do with me and my insecurities but I also just don’t desire it. I like cuddling and maybe making out but I never desired more. In reality at least.

I do like romance very much from books and movies and have melancholic romantic fantasies like one partner moving away and me waiting here for them. Writing letters full of paining.

But guess I never really felt it.

I wanted to tho.

I read that aromantic people don’t care about romance and don’t „need“ it. It’s not that I „need“ it either it’s that I want to feel it too.

I like the idea and imagination of it.

And isn’t life more interesting and sweeter with it?

Right now I think I got a crush on someone I give him attention and compliment him and want to hug him and stuff but I don’t want a relationship with them. So I’m asking … is there a label for this?

Or it’s normal and I’m just overthinking stuff.

[alsastaircase]

I made a commonly mistaken attraction thing because this was a common thing I wanted to see while I was questioning my A-spec identities :D lemme know if any of them could be improved or changed entirely

The color is what it is and the red is what it might be mistaken for

Image Description:

Image is a dark background with colorful flowers on the sides. In the middle there is words saying the following

Title commonly mistaken attractions

Sexual "I want to fuck you" red text "you look nice"

Romantic "I want to date you" red text "I want to hang out with you"

Platonic "I want to be friends with you" red text "I want your attention"

Aesthetic "I like how you look" red text "I want to be you

Sensual "I want to hear/see/feel you" red text "I want to fuck you"

Intellectual "I like how you think" red text "I want to be as smart as you"

[im-just-a-random-trashcan]

nblm/mlm flags

like- are there flags specifically for nblm and mlm??? like no other specific label that fits under those, just nblm and mlm themselves. I needd so baaaaaaad fjgh,djsjilckhejfd PLEASE

[shhhimnothereiswear]

im questioning my genderrrr...

i kinda fit the criteria for genderfluid (i'll just wake up one day and feel girl. or boy.) to the point where i've asked friends to use different names for me when i ask. the problem is, i kinda hate the term (I'M NOT ATTACKING ANY GENDERFLUID PPL, IT JUST DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT FOR ME). i'm abrosexual, and when i feel more fem i'm attracted to women more. but i use the term wlw for that, not lesbian bc i dont really like it... any help for ya boy?