#toxic girls

[glitter-lace-and-mace]

I cant get along with women who are proud of not wearing makeup. They actually hate women who do wear makeup. It says more abt urself if u hate on women who mind there damn biz. Like. U hate women who make themselves presentable bcus it helps you cope with not being presentable with or without makeup? What even is the psychology behind those makeup haters? I just dont get those girls, they always have the most toxic antifeminist personality, more often than not they actually crave male validation more than makeup wearers. I always hear them say shit like “oh men prefer btches who dont wear makeup” and they literallly have the ugliest fattest man. Like ok if men prefer bitches who wear makeup then y u only pulling low quality males? If u truly loved urself without makeup then y u gotta shit talk girls who are hotter than u? U hate urself and go

Like maybe im just in the ghetto or smthing i dunno.

[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

Gossiping, spreading rumours, telling lies, attacking someones status, destroying their relationships…

The whispers in the playground, the cold shoulder at the party, the secret WhatsApp groups; if such a thing as ‘toxic femininity’ were to exist, then surely it would be this?

Much is said and done about the way boys and men hurt each other, and how their dominance of the physical realm allows them to punch, hit and fight one another as a means of aggression.

But is all aggression physical?

And might women (just as men exploit their physical superiority) harness their mastery of language, their skills of communication and relationship building, to wreak havoc in their own specific way?

“Relational aggression”, is the ability to harm others through deliberate manipulation of their social standing and relationships – and yes, it’s mostly women and girls who do it.

But like always, society remains reluctant to say anything about the malevolent side of the femme – even to the detriment of girls, who are the primary victim of this kind of bullying.

Worse, girls bullying other girls is hyper charged through social media, causing untold harm, and likely drives the recent rise in suicides in adolescent females – yet our social justice warriors are too gutless to talk about it.

The simple fact of life is this – women and girls are no better, or worse, than men and boys.

No less capable of greatness. No less capable of harm.

That is what ‘women’s autonomy’ truly is.

We all exercise our unique powers in specific ways, some of which draw the spotlight and ire of society, and some don’t.

So what is to be said about the destructive power of words?

Will anyone talk about the uniquely devastating ways that girls bully each other, or how women can destroy the life of a man without even lifting a finger?

Who will talk of relational aggression?

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APA: https://tinyurl.com/3rjdz6mv

Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression

Misogynistic Tweets: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/may/26/half-of-misogynistic-tweets-sent-by-women-study-finds

Women as innovators of language: https://tinyurl.com/2st3vxz8

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It's like people think we forgot that the film "Mean Girls" exists. The entire school was on the brink of imploding, requiring dragging all the girls out to conduct a giant group therapy session.

[rhiasposts]

⚠️ WARNING ⚠️

[the-expose-on-girls]

You know what's cringe?

Girls who are under 5' 6" and constantly talking big on their social media, threatening to beat up their invisible "haters".

Violence ain't cute, sis, and trash talking like a WWE fighter when all you're capable of is yanking on some poor girl's hair is really, really pathetic. And yelling insults into the void on the internet is the social media version of talking to the voices in your head. You look like a fool. Now, I know the Bible says it's futile to argue with fools, as they lack the self awareness to learn that they're wrong, but here is an attempt to teach them, anyway.

Substatus (n)

"A substatus is like a subtweet, but on facebook. It is where you post about somebody specific without actually tagging them in it."

(-Urban Dictionary)

Here are some quotes from a local hussy who films threatening substatus tiktoks in her car while wearing her fast food uniform:

"I don't have many regrets, but I should've punched that mf in the face and dragged her friend by her stringy dead hair." "Don't make me get VIOLENT" "I don't think, I just sit here and look pretty. You're a loser." "Pretty bitches love me, ugly hoes hate me." "You'll never find another bitch like me" "Posting because she's watching." "You might be bigger than me, but you ain't bulletproof." "You do it good, I do it better." "When they get aggressive, but your your father's daughter." "My roman empire is I should've swung right then and there honestly."

GROW UP!

Most of the time, having "haters" is a sign that your behavior is toxic and people are justified to have issue with it. This is clearly one of those cases, judging by how aggressive and confrontational you are toward everyone on social media.

Being hated by other girls is NOT cool and NOT something to brag about. It is a result and cause of needless conflict. Grow up and realize that other girls should be your closest allies in life. Embrace sisterhood. And no, your one bestie who you don't see as a threat to steal your bf does not count.

[valtsv]

will never understand the misogynistic inclination to pigeonhole every female character into the "exasperated sensible mom friend" role as if there's anything better than a woman so devoid of maternal instincts that she makes wire mother look soft. woman who rolls over and walks out onto the balcony to smoke a post-coital cigarette alone and leaves without a note or any kind of acknowledgement after sleeping with you because she can't stand the vulnerability of sleeping next to someone, or waking up beside them the following morning. woman whose idea of relaxing is abusing substances alone in a dark corner somewhere, and snarling and snapping at anyone who approaches her, regardless of intent. woman so emotionally unavailable she fails or refuses to notice that her lame ass partner is trying to push the divorce papers until they've taken the kids and left a heartfelt but scathing note pinned to the fridge. woman with more vices than genuine friends. woman whose expression stays blank and arms remain limply at her sides when you wrap her up in yours for a hug. woman without a gentle touch in her body, with nothing but rough edges and sharp angles.

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

Toxic yuri

Art by @/AmiThompsonh

[cyberiapinksosa333]

“wtf is wrong with you”

you mean like today or like in general?

[chloesimaginationthings]

Vanny finally meets FNAF tape girl in person...

[nova-rpv]

reviving for pride w the trans bisexaul ever

dont forget your daily clicks!!

[colorful-horses]

ghosts

[yujateaandpi]

Holographic glitter fairy kitten sweater! Ford and Mabel needed way more screen time on the show. I like to think that Dipper is someone Ford can pass a legacy to, but Mabel is someone who taught Ford how to find joy. After a lifetime of using his talents to fuel his ambitions or survival, it would be so heartwarming to see him invent just to make his girly little niece smile.

[drenched-in-sunlight]

My theory on why Messmer is not allowed to live in Leyndell + Malenia who keeps trying to rope her siblings into her extreme gardening habit … 🌺☠️

[hamoodmood]

Give me back my love

[nya-ppai]

monster hunter wilds yuri (arachnophobia slime x fem!hunter)

[lotus-pear]

lore accurate teen soukoku. the worsties ever

[ditzdoll]

the age gap being older than you are <33 <3