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[pigeonneaux]

Commission for @breizhbaguette !! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PATIENCE💍💓💘💘💖💘💖💘💖💖💘💥🔥🎉🫂🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇🙇💘💓💘💘💞💓💘💘💘💘🫶‼️

BONUS UNDER THE CUT :

[accirax]

a collection of DCAS memes so far

[pissfartboy]

pissfartboy posts about Adam listening to Tool for the 500th time

[smuby]

If murderers why cute

[dustyskies747]

Made an inktober prompt list since I (and many other people) didn’t seem too fond of the official list! This is the one I’ll be using myself and if you want feel free to use it as well!!!

(Note: I’m going on vacation for a week in October so I might be behind on the list 😅

[squidd-ink]

Starting this side blog off right with pt.1 of my need to turn little cats into persona characters…..

[kaiwala]

Y’all fw highlighter tool dirkjake yaoi…

[memetrash-coyote]

Finally finished a personal project I started at the beginning of the year! It was a fun challenge. I don't normally do tooling, but I'm very pleased with it. The piece feels very Zora, and that's the point.

[the-healing-mindset]

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Everything turns around for you now. Worry not about that which you feel won't work out for you.

[thesensories]

@redefinednaturesantafe on instagram

[nieuwe-secession]

Neues Spielzeug Toys for older boys LOL

[ashotasfireandasdeepastheocean1]

Full 🌕 in ♎️

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[cosplaytipsandtricks]

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[notjaycakes]

New cast iron Dutch ovens from my hubby 😍💕

[silencerfoxtail]

Im so mad at myself for dropping nail art as a hobby bc everyone was roasting and bullying me like imagine how good I couldve become by now if I just told my friends and family to fuck off and kept practicing anyway 😭

[vizthedatum]

Evolving and learning while being poly

I saw this comic by Nina Mutik this morning:

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And yeah... I've been on both sides of this poly situation, and I *do not* like it.

When I started to seriously practice polyamory, I didn't intend to do it to "escape" parts of my relationship with my partner at the time (even though that relationship was toxic and abusive). I genuinely loved my other partner and wanted a relationship with them. However, I will admit that I eventually started dating and hooking up with other people to seek the "love" and respect I wasn't getting from either of those relationships. That was a low move on my part - it wasn't respectful to me, and it only enabled poor relationship behavior within my partnerships. It was bad polyamory, in my opinion.

I've also been the "other lover" where I didn't realize I was a pawn in some weird emotional game... with people who were identifying as poly! I felt really hurt and confused. (and yes, I know there are various forms of polyamory, and I'm not going to get into that now)

I want to (and am attempting to) do better now.

I truly believe in people, relationships, and, more importantly, in my worth (I deserve respect). I'd rather not be involved with someone who's using me like this or use someone like this (whether or not it's intentional).