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dogman and petey are the most curious case of enemies to lovers to me because how are you gonna go from essentially house pet and evil villian to mutilated/frankensteined canine cop and villian to eventual co-parents who both cooperate and help provide for the villian’s mini-me/child after fighting together to keep said child safe from evil villian’s previous antics. please dav pilkey why must you thrust this peculiar cat/dog dichotomy onto us. i never knew i needed it until twitter shabanged me with a shit ton of detey fanart before i was like: okay. maybe it’s time i give this series a shot after nine years.
(the series is peak also GO WATCH THE DOGMAN MOVIE PEOPLE)
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also that end scene where the whole family’s howling outside of dogman’s home is just…I can’t…maybe having a child does bring dysfunctional couples together…(not) (but they are the exception)
#detey#petey the cat#lil petey#dog man petey#dog man#they’re literally portrayed as divorced parents throughout the latter half of the film#like what
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you didnt ask but for marion there's an older brother named jason barnbridge who... let's just say it was mr corcoran who walked her down the aisle at the wedding.
#had bunny lived and met the guy he would have understood murder and sin <3#“but father” thank you they dont have that :)#they really do not :)#no comment on their paternity allowed#their adoptive father doesnt count he's not real#men who are good are scarce in the marion \story because there truly are no good men#*pulls out knife* ask me about marion's family situation#do it#ill answer#(ill kill myself by answering)#frankly? FGHJKL the thing is i do think had both she and good old edmund lived they'd both not have contact with anyone#they are dysfunctional and whole together#they both have shitty homes. they have their own home now so who cares amirite.#but try telling branden corcoran to leave Mommy lmao not a chance he's CLINGING#bunny would have.#anywho jason barnbridge is the kind of guy who'd say bunny died because they had premarital sex GHJKL that's the sort we speak of#whod absolutely say she deserved it for not having faith in god
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anyone else have multiple traumatic memories associated specifically with holidays/family vacations? because that is a topic I never see discussed in all the So You Had A Shitty Childhood, Now What? self-help books i've been reading. but for me, it was a significant thing. and the more i think about it the more it seems like this would be an (unfortunately) common experience. would be grateful to hear if this matches other peoples' experiences...
#not a shitpost#serious post#ask to tag#tw trauma#cptsd#c-ptsd#and if so we should TALK about it#because it means there are a whole group of survivors out there whose mental health regularly worsens during holidays#like i know i am most certainly not the only person who feels an undefined Dread hanging over christmas/my birthday/july 4 etc#bc too many shitty things happened during those times and now my brain is hypervigilant bc traditionally these are the Danger Times#and this seems like it would be particularly common for survivors of abusive/dysfunctional households (aka most people with c-ptsd)#because holidays/vacations typically mean 1) the whole family is together/being forced to interact#2) and undergoing external stressors e.g. travel/relatives aka 'outsiders' visiting/routines & coping mechanisms being interrupted etc#3) there is social pressure for this to be a Fun Family Bonding Experience which only highlights the cracks in the foundation#and exposes the common Everything Is Fine/We Are A Happy Family lie#4) the cognitive dissonance of feeling tired/anxious/stressed/afraid during a time when you are 'supposed' to be Making Good Memories#and then everyone is angry/tired/anxious/triggered and things boil over and something or someone goes Very Wrong#weird that i'm posting this in october when halloween is...sort of the ONLY holiday i have only good and happy feelings towards#i got lucky there#also i have positive feelings towards Labor Day but that's for socialist reasons
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WODtober 14 > Lines Drawn In Blood ⥄ RVBtober 14 > Crossover
"He and I are closer than friends. We are enemies linked together. The same sin binds us."
So. Here's some possible bg/lore mixing - idk if normal, 'non-secret service/intelligence agency' humans in this universe know vampires exist but disregarding that -
I think a lot of the vampires, esp the ones in space, are pretty high generation or thin-bloods (i.e. they're weak). Originally Locus + Felix were on the v edge of being thin-bloods (like gen 13) but... they're not anymore. The wonders of diablerie - not that they really advertise it. Views on that haven't really changed. They're also autarki aka freelance/mercenaries, but I dunno when they were Embraced; could've been before, during or after the War. Doesn't rly matter that much, they can all work imo but at least for Locus post-War works best
Locus could have either the Blood Addiction bane or the Noxious Blood bane since I think both could work for him, and Felix would have the classic Ravnos Bane of needing to move around.
I'll post more thoughts abt why I chose those clans for them + more abt sharky etc a bit later bc I don't want this to be too long lol <3
#red vs blue#rvb#wodtober#rvbtober#vtm#locus#felix#sharkface#mine#lolix#*23#cw blood#you knew this was coming you've always known. multitrack drifting#you can't see it but imagine that i'm doing the 'you know i had to do it to em' pose.#anyway this might not make any sense to rvb folks but. if they're the same clan i imagine they'd be lasombra.#also if theyre the same clan they killed their sire together (and maybe they also diablerized mason later. just a thought)#if theyre different locus would be banu haqim and felix would be ravnos. i was debating some other clans for felix but c'mon. tempting fate#your honor you KNOW they're in a fucking blood wedding!! helloooo dysfunctional obsessive addiction!!! also theyre autarki obviously.#outside of them bgc would all be kine/humans or at most thin-bloods. the freelancers could be hunters if i had to class them#originally i was thinking of vamp pfl but i dont think unsc would rly approve + the whole ai thing would be even more of a mess w/ kindred#sharkface kinda has to be a mariner gangrel. their symbol is literally a shark. + insurrectionists were an anarch movement#whats the crossover between vtm and rvb fans? like a handful of ppl? well whatever i think u can enjoy vampire lolix w/o vtm knowledge#esp since i dumped some info on there + some of it is 'modified' from wod and rvb/halo lol#might post a more in-depth thing later. i know i always quote this from locus but. ['im doing this for Me' speech here]
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'codependent teammates' this 'codependent teammates' that. i don't think that word means what you think it means.
#TWO PEOPLE SPENDING A LOT OF TIME TOGETHER DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUAL CODEPENDENCE. THAT'S A WHOLE SEPARATE THING.#a codependent relationship is inherently dysfunctional and (usually) unbalanced#it's needing your partner to the point you feel like you can't function without them#you rely on them for mental / physical / emotional support to an extreme or unhealthy degree#which YES can be very fun to explore in an rpf sense and YES there definitely are pairings that skew towards codependent‚ but like.#codependency is its own unique relationship dynamic with its own unique set of criteria. not every hockey marriage is a codependent one.#(for examples of codependent hockey marriages see: connor/leon‚ jamie/trevor)#i log onto tumblr. i watch people misuse psych terms for fun and profit. i take -20 points of psychic damage.#m speaks
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they could never EVER neverrrrrr ever ever do this even ryan condal would never cede such an “iconic” setpiece & “memorable” dialogue and even if he wanted to HBO simply would not allow it but in my minds eye ideal hotd adaptation of the battle of the gods eye completely discards EVERYTHING supposedly recounted/editorialized in fire and blood no anime dialogue no ultra choreographed fight scene no cinematic beautiful shots of the dragons dancing no leaping from dragon to dragon its actually like incredibly fast and loud and incomprehensible to the audience just beasts colliding and ripping each other apart dirt and blood and horrific and disgusting and ultimately super SUPER pathetic ❤️ daemon and aemond dont get to make any epic last stands theres no glorious blaze out, no chilling last words, no grand narrative, in the end it really is just two men thudding to the bottom of a lake and getting eaten by fish. make the craziest climax in the world an anticlimax. ultimate antimoment
#of course. this can only be in my dreams#hotd#my greatest idea is daemon doesnt even get his sword in the eye grand leap moment#cause like. Well physically that would be completely insane#they both get thrown together when their dragons collide and theyre both already dead from blunt force trauma#and the sword just kind of accidentally impales aemond lol#i just hate to see a character like daemon get somehow validated by the narrative as super cool and awesome and sexy etc#like for what? hes just a maaannn it’s just what you do. hes a human man at the end of it#cant ascend to godhood good buddy. better luck in ur next life. u sucked at this one#L + you have erectile dysfunction you cannot be legolas jumping on floating dragon scales. lame!#even if he did sink that sword in… its so pointless JDGDKSH. U ARE BOTH GOING TO DIE ANYWAY….#i love crazy awesome action setpieces i love good cool action directing i dont think it necessarily would even be bad#but i think it does cede some of its own point. i guess thats the whole ‘you cant make an anti war film’ thing again#daemons whole fucking deal is just so boring to me unless it’s undermined and subverted. i love when hes a whiny pathetic mess.#and NOT a slay dom daddy. aemond i cant even discuss he does not do anything for me.
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MCFLY JULY ‘24 — playing hooky.
MARCH 8, 1983
“Hi Doc, sorry I’m late.”
The fourteen-year-old greets @doctorbrown as usual, sliding the key under the mat and leaving his skateboard by the door. Einstein immediately bounds over, tail wagging, and Marty scratches him behind the ears.
“What’s on the list for today?” the boy continues, completely oblivious to or deliberately ignoring the fact that it’s Tuesday at 12:03 PM and he should most definitely be in Mr. Johnston’s fourth period geometry class right now. “More welding, maybe some circuitry? Dreamin’ up some new schematics?”
As if sensing his best friend’s discontentment and knowing he’s been found out, he groans, flopping onto Einstein to give the canine an impromptu hug. The sheepdog, pleased at the attention, thumps his tail more vigorously and licks the teenager’s face.
“C’mon, Doc,” Marty wheedles. “Linda’s skipping today too! It’s not like I got any tests or anything. Anyway, I learn more from you. You know that.”
What he’s pretty sure the scientist also knows is that, other than Doc himself, nobody actually gives a shit if he’s at school or not. Not his parents, especially not after last night. They probably don’t even realize, and sure as hell don’t care, that he’s gone.
#drabble tbt.#mcflyjuly#mcfly july ‘24.#doctorbrown#i bet this happens pretty much every other week in tp…#dysfunctional families with an addict parent are really really hard#you’re not really thinking about anything other than putting one foot in front of the other and making it through another day#i talk a lot about how tp doc pretty much raised tp marty (along with tp marty raising himself) and i meant it#(this is also not the last you’ll hear of that this month)#i do think when he and jen start going out that’s more motivation for him to come to school to see her#but before then??? good luck#esp with this boy’s untreated adhd and how he’d rather be doing literally anything else other than school#an institution that makes him feel so so stupid as it is#we’ve been back together for five minutes and you’re already talkin’ about the end of the universe. i’ve missed that. [doc & marty.]#you're my best friend in the whole space time continuum [doc brown.]#queue. this is heavy.
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people of tumblr, aita for getting mad at my younger brother for spending an hour and a half in the bathroom???
listen. he only started doing this in the last year. every single fucking time he enters that bathroom, he takes at least an hour and a half. sometimes more. he's not even DOING anything in there. he sits down on the toilet and watches videos on his phone. i cannot even keep count of the amount of times i've wanted to go to bed, only for him to beat me to the bathroom, and for it to result in me not getting to get in there and get ready and go to bed until 2am, even when i have a busy day the next day. this morning i wanted to get up and start my day at 10:30, and didn't actually end up being able to get in there until 1:15.
and yet, when i so much as utter a single complaint about this, simply by irritatingly saying "he's been in there for over an hour! i want to take a shower!", i get yelled at by my parents for "bitching", and get told that i should "apologize to your brother".
#this is technically a vent but im just SUPER pissed about this today#i had fucking PLANS. i had a delicately put together plan on how i was going to get homework done today.#im autistic. i have executive dysfunction. it takes a lot for me to get started on stuff.#its now 2pm and i haven't even had lunch yet#my whole entire fucking day has been thrown off because he decided to spend OVER AN HOUR AND A HALF on the toilet#i feel like i have a right to be pissed but the rest of my family is treating this like i have no right to be pissed#and i feel like im going insane
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okay we're still in grace. i don't think God is present in that household right now, i think it's the Other Guy. and massive amounts of fish. drugs and alcohol and fish.
"i think spending that [cooking] time on the people that we love is how we show them that we love them" and there's the theme -- not of this episode, not of any particular character, but of The Bear in general. cooking means something different to every character here, but it's all love in the end. cooking is closeness, it's community, it's time and effort. it's love.
"may God bless us and keep us safe in the new year, and please give michael the strength not to throw that fork. amen." AMEN
that was a lovely speech. there are like three minutes left. what horrible thing is about to happen, b/c this family dinner is Not ending on a good note. wrong pacing for that.
the fact that everyone has to sit and just basically worship donna in order for her not to have an effing tantrum is just. ugh. no one growing up in this house had any emotional support.
"are you okay?" NOOOOO
carmy's face. oh land.
a+ to michelle for sticking up for nat. she seems to be the healthiest of the berzattos, and has a great marriage. i wish her every happiness.
carmy patting natalie on the arm afterwards is a nice, small, subtle gesture. absolutely love it
LEE SHUT UP
oh. there it goes. final straw. final fork?
THE CAR??? DONNA THE CAR???
and of course she's not gonna open the door. all the attention is finally on her.
and carmy staring at the fork in the cannoli, that looming anxiety attack finally beginning. anxiety attacks look (and feel) so different from panic attacks, and The Bear takes a lot of care to show that. carmy's anxiety attacks, like a lot of people's, make him very still, very white, and you can barely see him breathing -- incredibly acted by his actor, and devastating to watch
nice Virgin Mary shot there of Nat at the end. this is her feast, after all
(the feast of the seven fishes commemorates the Vigilia di Natale -- "natale" being the root that "Natalie" is derived from)
#the bear#liveblogging#2x06#that was a whole episode i am Exhausted#like i'm gonna keep going but oh my Land#richie really did try his best this episode apart from being effing gross with michael#carmy was right to call it a dysfunctional hellhole#the individual pieces are or can be good in large part#but put them all together? yikes#worst part was still donna calling carmy michael. what the eff.
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I just know they’re gonna make macdennis canon and it’s going to rly piss me off when they do lol. It doesn’t make sense with every piece of character and world building they’ve done but as the years go on they’ve started to lean into what the fans want rather than their original vision so I won’t be in the least bit surprised it’ll just be disappointing
Had this in the tags but I want it apart of the post actually
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wait slime and Mariana literally gamed the court case. That was the best possible outcome they could've gotten and it wasnt even one of the original options
#like. they got juanaflippa back even though neither of them got sacrificed. they won#love/burning hatred wins!#for an incredibly dysfunctional family they sure do get shit done#qsmp#el Mariana#charlie slimecicle#they cant have a civil conversation but they can game the whole justice system without even trying. just w the sheer force of their bs#never on the same page except when it's time to break out of jail together#cant agree on how to raise a kid except that it should water clutch and have a gun#incredible#it really is tntduo for the Joker
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Having to explain to my 57 year old mother that, no, it is not funny to send me photos of a clearly exhausted woman at the airport at 3am who had an accent she thinks makes her stupid. Like. Just tell me what she said that was funny. I don't need a series of photos of this woman exhaustedly explaining to your coworkers what she needs.
#we've been in the south for 20+ years and she still corrects people on pronunciations and thinks southern accent = stupidity#watched her have an entire meltdown over my brother saying 'y'all' a few weeks ago#fully threatened to slap the kid if he didn't stop the 'hillbilly nonsense'#like dude. you're the one who had kids in tennessee. you cannot get mad if they say y'all.#or someone will say something like nashvul. murvul. cookevul. knoxvul. and she has to 'teach them' to speak 'properly'#who is it hurting if someone says shebvul instead of Shelbyville?#does everyone else know what's being said? cool. then ignore it and move on.#go back to the midwest where you can act superior to everyone else with your 'neutral american accent'#people speak differently everywhere. ps i know you're fighting that southern illinois plainsbilly accent. i hear it sometimes.#bitch wholly forced herself to sound less like she's from southern IL because she thinks they sound unintelligent too#it's wild#accents#southern accent#classism#probably#since she thinks cool rich people don't have accents#racism#also 100%. because she'll make fun of black people for saying finna over white people for saying y'all any day.#and i get it. she's only this way because she's a miserable person.#but at some point she has to admit SHE is the problem and like... work on that?#she's just so miserable and makes it anyone else's problem. it's exhausting.#she apparently ruined my grandma's funeral by throwing a random hissy fit and calling everyone fuckers and cunts#i was not there bc the whole family went to hawaii for it????? and that was simply wildly unaffordable.#but yeah. she explained it and it all boiled down to 'no one cared about my input so i caused a huge scene that almost got me disowned'#wild shit. horribly dysfunctional woman. it's surprising I'm half as together as i am having been raised by her.
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i just found out that my dad originally planned to live with my brother and send me off with my mother and now i fucking hate him. also i might try to be less of a people-pleaser starting now because i'm always trying to appeal to everyone (except for my brother somehow)
#random thoughts#hate is a strong word. but i don't want to talk to him for a long time.#actually. i really do. i want to understand. why he'd pick my brother over me.#or not pick both of us together. we're like. a package deal!! you don't split the children you senseless fuck!!#my family is so dysfunctional it's almost funny. at least my parents aren't together anymore (':#planned to write a whole venty post but i feel better after being silly with my brother on our walk with the dog. so.#i cried about it!!
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It all sounds so familiar.
Where have I seen this behavior before.
Ah, yes. Hot take:
FreePalestiners hate Israel, the same way an unemployed invel hates a successful woman.
This is it. That's the whole charade, that's why the sympathize so hard. Victimhood is sexy to them. Especially by a party that they view is inferior by a twofold.
#it took me a moment to put my finger on it.#because there's something here even BEYOND antisemitism wrapped up together in a whole new wrapper#it's thr performance dysfunction of their morals#they are frustrated to the extent of living in an alternate relaity where they are the centerpiece and even Geography bends to their will#it's a complete delusion
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#its genuinely funny to me but over the past couple months i keep finding actual terms for things ive been experiencing my whole life#and then i google those things and every single one is an adhd symptomsjdksksk#some of them i already knew of but i didnt realize it described my exact thing#executive dysfunction rejection sensitive dysphoria excessive daydreaming intrustive thoughts time blindness#i got the whole damn bingo board#which is weird cause honestly like yeah ive been experiencing these things regularly all my life but i never thought anything of it#cause my quality of life or academic performance has never felt impacted#but just seeing them all together is making me 👀#but i also feel fine i dont necessarily want to get diagnosed or anything rn#but it is wild to me still cause i feel like adhd was the one thing i never considered even possible that id haveskdksk
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I just can’t stop thinking about your sukuna fic, it’s so good you had me in tears 🥹 I was just wondering, did y/n really fell in love with sukuna in their first life? I’m so sad that she had to suffer so much in all lifetimes and the cause of these pains is sukuna’s pining.
Thank you so much for this fic! Icb you’ve already written three new fics in a span of one month. You’re a genius 🫡
im so so happy to hear that!! 🥹 i havent written in a while so hearing that u had that response WAA gives me the butterflies djjjdhjd thank u, beloved anon!! 🫂
to answer ur question: yes. she did love him in that life (unfortunately :")) in my mind, having sukuna (someone highly intelligent & tactical) to play shogi with gave her an equal, & thus a sense of companionship (w/c must've been a blessing to someone who's all alone in that village). having to beat him was a source of fulfillment too (stimulating her hinted at competitive nature). i was inspired by komugi & meruem from hunterxhunter (one of my top 10 ships of all time), but without the transformative power of love lmao. in their story, the love made it worse :"))
#sophy speaks#also now that u say it...im realizing i just did write three whole fics in a month ????? wtf??? little ms executive dysfunction???#writing THREE (3) whole fics?? it's more likely than u think!! lmao#i think out of all the fics i've written this is the one where i've received the most “i cried/almost cried” comments? which is#not to be a sadist lmao i swear#which is rlly? nice??? let's all cry together 🫂#ALSOOOO did anybody peep that flower motif that sukuna associates with ms reader :^)))) because in the first life she loved flowers :^)))))#i like it when these evil yanderes yearn and pine even to the detriment of ms y/n what can i say i love pain :^))))
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