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i’m confused because is that not literally how she’s written in the show- her storylines do revolve her love life 99% of the time
like as shitty as that is, it is canon & surely you can’t blame fans for how crap the shows writing is and how characters are depicted?
#i feel like the character they’re talking about is not one i’ve seen#i would get it if they said fanon but they’re talking about canon nancy here#fandom wank#like#is that not literally her in canon#blame the duffers blame the writers#not saying it’s good#but that’s how her story’s written#such a cop out to blame fans rather than the people who made her that way#pull the duffers and writers on it why do they get away with shitty storytelling why does it always get blamed on fans#also like#playing it a little too fast and loose with ‘complex’ i fear#oh wait my bad#they ‘empowered’ her#by [checks hand] giving her guns and [checks other hand] .. yeah i got nothing#idk why can no one ever hold the people in charge responsible for their own show#not to be controversial on this fine evening but#yeah#the duffers get off way too easy
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Seeing a black woman winning makes me feel so empowered....
#aesthetic#beauty#inspiration#self care#self love#affirmations#manifesation#beautiful women#black women#black beauty#black luxury#luxury#luxurious#successmindset#successful#claim it#becoming her#beautiful#health and wellness#women empowerment#women empowering woman
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There's this way of doing female-ness in Christianity that I call "pastel flower journal Christianity." I've got nothing against pastel flower journals per se, but for some reason people believe it's the end all and be all of female spirituality, and I think it's a real disservice towards young Christian women.
One of these days I'd like to start a prayer-and-reading group or something for young women, but there would be no floral themes or over-focus on how "God thinks you're beautiful even if the world doesn't" (a true statement, but it's wayyyyy too often the focus in women's spiritual reading). Instead we would be reading:
Seneca's Letters from a Stoic
Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning
Sheed's A Map of Life
Portions of Pieper's book on leisure
Kreeft's Three Philosophies of Life
Guardini's The Lord (or something similar)
Therese's Story of a Soul
and some select portions of the Nicomachean Ethics.
(Also they're all getting the porn talk. I don't know why we give the porn talk to young men but not young women. There's this idea that women don't use porn and they only need the talk about "guarding their heart." Bullshit. There's porn on the YA shelves of Barnes and Nobles and before that there were bodice rippers. Young women need the porn talk too.)
Every young woman needs to be getting a basic grounding in virtue ethics, logic, natural law, scholastic philosophy and Biblical hermeneutics if they're going to get by in today's spiritual landscape. Enough faffery and emotionalism in young women's spiritual education! Give them real food to chew on, not pasty sentimentalism!
#Christian femininity#Christian women#Christian#Christianity#Catholicism#Catholic women#Catholic femininity#Catholic feminism#Catholic#I'm sure there should be something by Stein on this list but I haven't read her stuff yet#Anyway if I could shove one book into the hands of every young woman on this site#it would be either Letters from a Stoic or Man's Search for Meaning.#I think a lot of women on this site could benefit from those two books alone.#Much of the way we treat women's sense of spirituality and ethics is trusting them to just blindly feel their way to the right answer#While we give young men clear-cut instructions and reasoning.#It's bullshit. And it's actively harmful. I would never say feelings are useless#but without a well-formed intellect and conscience they're just not going to carry you as far as you need to go on their own.#I had the value of a good moral and philosophical education because of where I went to school—same as the boys in my class.#And it's spared me so much grief. People put the tools in my hands to make smart decisions and empowered me to seek the good.#All young women deserve the same.
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Lilia said, “I loved being a witch” with the same conviction and passion as if to say: I loved being alive. I loved who I am and who I was and who I will be, despite all the time I spent trying to deny it and force away my visions and powers. I loved being a part of something, a community, our small dysfunctional coven. I have loved this messy, scary, wonderful thing called existence and the heartbreak and power that comes with it - I have loved it all along.
#Lilia chooses to be loudly proud of what made her terrified before#she is empowered and it’s the most conviction and confidence she shows in the entire show#I will miss you Lilia though this is just the beginning#after all time isn’t linear#is she fictional? yes. but what she represents to so many people forced to hide in shame makes her a real reflection#agatha harkness#agatha all along#hahndavision#agatha all along spoilers#agathaallalong#patti lupone#lilia calderu#marvel#mcu#episode 7
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The problem with the narrative that the gods don't allow mortal freedom is that we have not, in any part of CR, seen any evidence of this until campaign 3.
Vox Machina had to seek out the gods they dealt with to defeat Vecna.
Mighty Nein had an amazing representation of a faithful character with Caduceus.
The god stuff in EXU was with relics and places as conduits.
And while Calamity showed us the betrayers waiting to destroy mortals, they are literally the evil gods whose role it is to hate mortals
The fact that this narrative is being told to us over and over again, by Ludanis, the unseelie, Ashton, The archheart. But we're never shown it.
So, in the end, this concept feels abstract, and like lipservice to say that this story is nuanced. We're never given a reason to believe these claims are true
#cr discourse#critical role#there's a reason show don't tell is important#the matron has a better plan than the archeart though#cause at least she's empowering mortals instead of having them just follow her plan
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Rhaenys + her slight smirk Steve Toussaint: What she does [...] there's always a slight smile playing on [Rhaenys's] face in scenes that I always find interesting. Like a sense of being amused at the situation. If you go back and look at Season One, it's quite a consistent thing.
#each of these looks can be studied#like bfr it's usually a confidence thing in herself or pity on the scene partner... or both#like she is not just “amused” at it but just knows more or the other person is behaving in a way she'd predict and she understands#or she just feels totally secure or empowered in the scene like they can't touch her#there are degrees to the smirk - there is a legit scale#any way i love her and her smirk#we should let women be superior when they have cause#my gifs#house of the dragon#rhaenys targaryen#eve best#hotdedit
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it's bleak how most of the things people think will assuage and temper men are the things that embolden them. "prostitutes exist so men don't rape us" the human trafficking industry that is prostitution is an ever-growing industry that produces propaganda that enables men in society to rape MORE not less. by objectifying women and children, it puts all our heads on the chopping block. "he just needs to settle down and get married" most femicide, rape and domestic violence are committed by husbands/boyfriends. "if men just had daughters/sisters they'd see women as human" as a daughter and sister, i can confirm that we're extra caretakers of said men, and that our kindness is taken as proof that "good women" are subservient and domestic helpers.
if you want to de-radicalize men, you have to actually just stop tolerating misogyny in any form no matter what woman it's done against. stop trying to dialogue with men and start socioeconomically punishing them. people want to act like "separatism doesn't solve anything" when governments and companies only started paying attention when they saw birth and marriage rates drop. it is not women's job to save men from themselves and some feminists still don't get that. pandering to men always results in LESS rights for us. we have to become radically INTOLERANT.
#radblr#6b4t#female separatism#also#women taking themselves “out of the equation” doesn't necessarily result in more women being brutalized unless another woman agrees to#partner with a man#usually men turn their aggression on themselves or each other#or they find a new woman to feel pity for them and then offload on her#separatism is very effective#by removing ourselves from relationships that benefit men socioeconomically#we disempower men#and simultaneously empower women#i'm gonna make a post going into details
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crying at how lera responded to the overwhelming love and support from one piece fans to her after being officially introduced as miss all sunday 🥺🥹 OUR NICO ROBIN IS IN GOOD HANDS Y'ALL
#lera was overwhelmed in the best way possible that she's done her research to fully understand her character as miss all sunday 🥹#it's amazing to see how much she came to love and understand her character in the most genuine way 🥹#it's also nice to know how robin's character is gonna be played by a wonderful and empowered woman as she was written to be#lera abova#one piece#opla#one piece live action#opla s2
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Just imagine how many times this has happened--how many sleepless nights had she had thinking that "he might call me to his bed any minute now" and being unable to do anything about it. She couldn’t outrightly tell him “no” because he was the king, and she needed to have heirs because this is what Viserys married her for. Can you imagine the anxiety?! knowing that you’d be r!ped any minute now, and having NO ONE to talk to about it (bc I’m sure Otto didn’t care). But this is not just anxiety; this is abuse, this is feeling powerless, this is disgust, this is emotional turmoil, this is on a whole other level and this was Alicent’s everyday reality.
my poor girl </3
#god my heart aches so bad for her#I really want to see Alicent empowered in s2#alicent#house of the dragon#hotd#the green queen#hotd thoughts#pro alicent hightower#hotd meta#lady alicent#asoiaf#anti viserys i targaryen#alicent thoughts#a song of ice and fire#tw abuse#alicent hightower#alicenthightower#otto hightower#greenqueenhightower#greenqueenrants
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#Doodles#Adventure Time#Fionna and Cake#Simon Petrikov#Fionna Campbell#Cake#Not only the adult in the situation but also her dad! Wow! Lol#When is this set? Don't worry about it lol#I mean when wouldn't it apply honestly haha#Constantly out of his/their depth: The Series#Meanwhile Fionna is just having a fun time :) I just want her and Cake to be happy <3#Drawing Fionna smiling is so nice she's so cute ♪#And admittedly drawing Simon stressed is also very fun lol poor thing#He just has so much fluff to pull on! Stress-scrunches his hands into his hair hehe#To be fair he's doing his best - he's rather competent for being a mild-mannered human!#He does about as well as could be expected and even above and beyond in places#Him calling out the Vampire King out of sheer dadly indignation? Beautiful#And he's still growing and learning :D Good for him#For now tho he gets to come to terms with that fact haha >:3c#How fun it is to be the one in control of your own destiny! How empowering and not at all stressful to be at the whims of the universe!#Ehh he's got a cosmic entity looking out for him he'll be fine#As long as he plays to her tune ♪
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After watching the Screen Rant interview, I want Season 3 of Prodigy without Admiral Janeway or Chakotay appearing at all. Holo Janeway is more than enough. Kate is clearly against J/C for whatever reason, and she even went after Brett for wanting Gwyn/Dal. I'd rather enjoy Season 3 with the Protostar kids only and not get frustrated with the J/C stuff. Please, I'm begging. Brett, my beloved.
Media and art are escapism. We live in super messed up times, and I just want two imaginary, make-believe characters to kiss so my mind can escape into something positive and feel the love that the world is so clearly missing. People find comfort in art and can feel a bit of love through imaginary characters in this messed up world. The rest of Prodigy is about hope; J/C is about (romantic) love, and it's a positive path to take, especially in times where men are being taught to hate women by idiots like Tate. And here you have a character, a man (Chakotay), who gives zero fucks about power dynamics and gender roles. We want them together as a middle finger to the gender roles imposed by social norms. Janeway hates to cook and do house chores, Chakotay does not. Janeway likes to be in command, Chakotay is fine being her support. They are breaking the tiresome stereotypes, and dunking on the shippers for wanting them to be together is just playing into the 'a strong woman can only be strong if she is forever alone' trope. It's an outdated mindset.
That is why Kate. For every girl and woman who was told repeatedly she'll be alone and that no man would want her because she didn't fit the gender role. Because she wanted to be in power and be loved at the same time. For daring to want both. Women can have both. Women are allowed to have both. Being in a romantic relationship is not weak, and it's freaking weird to be saying that having two characters be in a romantic relationship who clearly love each other beyond words would do them a disservice. What does that teach the kids? That you have to choose? That having a powerful bond and a romantic relationship is mutually exclusive? It's weird, and I'm tired of pretending that it's not.
#star trek prodigy#janeway x chakotay#j/c#the pinging and tension was already done in the X-Files with Mulder and Scully#It isn't novel or empowering#It's a worn out trope used as a plot device to try and keep the audience engaged#if you don't know how to write characters in a relationship and make it interesting then you need to rethink how you approach writing#also acknowledging that the shippers saved S2 and then laugh at them for wanting the relationship to be canon is a dick move#sorry Kate but I have my empowering female character who I don't need to be in a romantic relationship and it most definitely isn't Janeway#cause Janeway was never written as an asexual loner by her default state#and trying to make her as such now is forcing something onto a character that feels unnatural and done purely as a request by the actor#rather than the natural progression of the character#Boxes are nice but they were never meant to contain a human heart Kate
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if i see one more Team "feminist" Black stan call Helaena the r slur I'm going to prison
the day Helaena antis realise that there is nothing feminist about making fun of a woman for her disability is the day I can rest peacefully
#helaena did literally nothing to anger rhaenyra except be at her husbands coronation#and she didnt even get crowned on screen because obvs rhae rhae is the only woman who can be empowered#'jumplaena!' shut the fuck up#just because she's a Green doesn't make her a bad person unlike your perfect Rhaenyra#helaena targaryen#pro helaena targaryen#anti daemon targaryen#anti team black#anti team black stans#pro team green#hotd#house of the dragon#queen helaena#queen helaena targaryen#aegon ii targaryen#anyways bye#*blows this whole place up*
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Daniel in "Resurrection"
#one of my fave episodes even without any bias toward the director or the writer!!!#stargate#sg-1#stargateedit#daniel jackson#michael shanks#s7#ep19#***edits#one of THEE daniel episodes#just daniel at his best#his interactions with anna are everything that i have always loved about daniel#being so kind and gentle with her but also persistent in a way that's empowering#how she just has to mention that he's acting like keffler and he immediately stops and researches those interactions#in order to understand her trauma AND to make sure he doesn't act like that#and then of course how he goes off when he realizes she's doomed#also it makes me want to eat the drywall how he's with her when she dies#i mean if you could pick a way to go gently passing away in daniel jackson's arms is pretty damn good tbh
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it's been pointed out on here before that a lot of terf arguments are actually rooted in sexist idealology that feminists fought and died to unnormalise decades ago and that's its own kettle of fish but one thing i also find very frustrating about this so called 'radical' feminism is that it's so... defeatist? like the moment you categorically label an entire section of society as Bad and Inherently Evil then there's also the implication that nothing can be done about it, and it completely takes all accountability away. saying all men are evil is just another way of saying boys will be boys. he raped her because he's a man. he hit her because he's a man. he didn't listen because he's a man - it's almost offensively oversimplified. there's no point trying to fix this issue in society because men are just Like That, okay! so now what? it's not like they're going anywhere, so you just accept that 50% of the population are evil and will forever treat you terribly and there's nothing to be done about it bc they're biologically predisposed to it? like is that fr the argument here? you're soooo radical for that
#this is coming from someone who used to very genuinely be a misandrist#ironically it was only when i started actually analysing my own feminism that i got MORE confrontational with men#and started respecting my boundaries a lot better BECAUSE i started holding them accountable again#like when men treat me like shit nowadays i dont just write it off as 'what did you expect? he's a man' i get MAD about it#because i EXPECT BETTER FROM THEM even if it's just tiny shit women have to deal with daily#i hold them to just as high a standard as im held to and i make them take accountability when they dont meet that#and whether you realise it or not even on a subconscious level the MOMENT you black-and-white blanket statement all men as bad#you stop holding them accountable.#like it is literally just boys will be boys. do terfs seriously not realise they're sending feminism BACKWARDS#like if a girl came to me with her trauma and people - other girls no less - tried to comfort her with 'yeah all men are evil'#id be fucking furious. like no he did that because he was a piece of shit that had it normalised to him that women arent to be respected#dont you dare let him off the hook with something as simple and uncritical as 'he's a man'#i promise you men like that will MUCH prefer a blanket statement such as 'all men are as bad as each other'#than actually being point blank told they're an abuser or a rapist. because being lumped together is comfortable and even empowering#wheras isolating their behaviour with words that are Bad and Ugly (LIKE 'rapist') is not comfortable at all and has heavy connotations#idk i dont think radical feminism is always bad on its own it can be v liberating. just terfs and misandrists that i have a problem with#dropping this post in a piranha tank and closing tumblr knowing im gonna have some thirty year old karen yelling at me within 5 mins#i probably wont respond to any terf comments bc they literally mentally exhaust me with their stupidity#but that also depends on my mood and ability to keep my mouth shut LMFAO we shall see
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two veronica lines I'm still mad about them cutting from the off broadway version are "I didn't kill heather, I know that but I still feel bad. but not as bad as I should and that makes me feel even worse" and "dear diary the irony of this is that I didn't get a chance to write my own suicide note".
why did they try to clean up my little gremlin girl? why wouldn't they just let her be a morally grey little gremlin who doesn't feel overly bad about the murder she accidentally committed.
#veronica sawyer#heathers the musical#no bc I just feel like veronica comes off as significantly more morally grey in the off bway version#the west end version focuses too much on making her Empowering TM but also they try to clean her up a bit#see the removal of these lines and the references to her doing drugs in big fun#it doesn't work bc the plot is driven by her being a little bit of an asshole#but god forbid female characters be flawed ig#anyway I still love the west end heathers and some actresses do play veronica a little darker which I like
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when miguel o'hara screams 'you're a mistake! if you hadnt been bit, your peter parker would still be alive" he might as well be screaming at himself "i'm a mistake! if i hadn't stolen my way into that little girls life, she and her universe would still exist" and that's projecting your trauma onto a teenager and abusing the future generation because you want to control and protect the current status quo 101
will always be fuck miguel o'hara o'clock.
#atsv#miguel o'hara#miles morales#he literally puts the blame directly onto miles. as if miles snuck his way into another universe to purposefully steal its spiderman spider#and get bit by it#as if miles accidental empowering was as purposeful as his selfish crazed stalker actions of literally stealing a dead mans place#“boohoo miguel so sad he lost his daughter” IT WAS NEVER THE CREEPS DAUGHTER TO BEGIN WITH#that little girl had every right to grieve her dead father and grow from the grief but MIGUEL STOLE THAT FROM HER#and because of it THE VERY UNIVERSE said things are so OUT OF WACK NOW EVERYONE HAS TO BE DESIMATED FROM EXISTENCE#he has no fucking right being in a position of authority and omg as long as someone is around babying the fck out of this p.o.s i will be h#to hate on him until the ends of my fucking days
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