#female separatism

[misandrist-meme-machine]

[michellezagenda]

Join my discord :))) i’m still working on channels and stuff like that but it’ll be even better w likeminded women there to help.

This discord is for lesbians/febfems only! (considering 4B straights rn) (blackpilled, radical feminists, no label etc allowed!)

(18+ only)

https://discord.gg/jA8ZBd4P https://discord.gg/jA8ZBd4P

[blasphemouspat]

just people marching 😍 i wonder what they're marching for!

PEOPLE’S MARCH???? ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?? THIS IS WHY THE LEFT STAYS LOSING BYE

[aalexan]

seeing women come out as nonbinary and then start just dressing a certain way. and I just want to tell them that you can not shave and have short hair and not wear makeup and wear androgynous clothes and still be a woman. and the fact that people are trying to sell you the idea that you can’t look that way and still be a woman is misogynistic

[reincarnatedvaleriesolanas]

I fucking ADORE it when women PEAAAAAKKKKK and speak their truth. The fact that i saw this on tiktak restored my faith in humanity

[funny---mose88]

Everytime a woman speaks on how these things are damaging to females as a class you always get people whining and crying about their individual choices. "Who hurt you?" or "you re just bitter" are phrases that crop up in almost every conversation where girls share their pain. The purpose isn t to empathize or connect—it s to undermine, to shift the focus away from the legitimacy of her experience. But why does this pattern continue to play out, even among those who claim to care about equality and understanding? Gendered insults also shed light on this deeper cultural issue. It didn't dawn on me until I got older that this wasn't 'normal'. That not everyone's mother was like that. I rarely felt pressure to conform to patriarchal gender stereotypes because I didn't grow up with one as a role model. In fact the only times I started to feel as though I should conform to ‘femininity' was when I started integrating more into wider society and less in the comfort of my home. (Social media, friendships etc) Everytime a woman speaks on how these things are damaging to females as a class you always get people whining and crying about their individual choices. Gendered insults also shed light on this deeper cultural issue. It didn't dawn on me until I got older that this wasn't 'normal'. That not everyone's mother was like that. I rarely felt pressure to conform to patriarchal gender stereotypes because I didn't grow up with one as a role model. In fact the only times I started to feel as though I should conform to ‘femininity' was when I started integrating more into wider society and less in the comfort of my home. (Social media, friendships etc) Edit: taking this away because the mras found it and can't handle mens not being the center of attention for one fucking minute Shadow Clone…That's it. I didnt come to rainbow road to slaps this derpy Piccolo, but here we are.

[korns299]

Sex work debates within feminism often revolve around the tension between protecting workers and dismantling the industry. Radical feminists argue that while sex workers should be protected, the ultimate goal should be to eliminate the conditions that force women into these roles. They advocate for systemic change that addresses poverty, abuse, and exploitation, rather than merely regulating an industry that profits from women's vulnerabilities. But suddenly, when it's a 19 year old girl, she's so mature for her age, she just gets him, she knows what she's doing. Men 's dismissal of women 's safety concerns reflects a broader societal issue of control and dominance. When women take steps to protect themselves, men may mock or undermine their efforts, revealing a desire to keep women feeling unsafe. This behavior is rooted in a need to maintain power over women, making it difficult for them to assert their autonomy and independence. Radical feminists argue that sex work should not be normalized or celebrated but dismantled. While protecting workers is essential, they believe that the real solution lies in addressing the systemic issues that force women into the industry. By targeting the demand for sex work and providing women with alternatives, feminists hope to create a society where women are not exploited for their bodies. Why? Why are you for sex work? Why do you think that sex work should exist? Why do you think that there should be laws in place that protect not only the sex workers but also the pimps and sex buyers? I didnt PINGAS for this squogulous banana, it found me in The hotdog stand.I didnt PINGAS for this squogulous banana, it found me in The hotdog stand.I didnt PINGAS for this squogulous banana, it found me in The hotdog stand.! Ive had enough of Eggman always trying to peang in under my bed. The funny part of The Miscarriage shack is where the Firestar likes to slomp. Go to my house.

[misandresther]

Being strangled for just 15 seconds can lead to an increased risk of strokes, seizures, loss of bodily functions, and potential death days after the incident.

Normalizing strangulation as a kink is harmful. It's putting men's pleasure above women's safety.

[erebusvincent]

[signedseal]

I am a full supporter of female separatism as a personal practice, but as a global permanent solution for misogyny it falls short. As personal practice, well it just makes sense; and permanent separatist tactics of empowerment like focusing your finances to female business, keeping personal finances, and prioritizing female bonds and friendships are absolutely things the average woman can and should commit to. To get it out of the way, its relationships where this tends to fall short. The victim blaming towards heterosexual, and especially bisexual women who have the "option" to reject men sexually (and not be tainted) is already reeking with misogyny and it becomes clear that those with this mindset do not give a single fuck about women, they just hate men and women, 87% of which are heterosexual and even more who have close relationships with males, are at best collateral.

Not only does it add anther layer of division, it reeks of the same "make sure he rapes the other girl" mentality that comes frequently with conversations on topics of safety, rape prevention, conservatism, modesty, etc. Putting the responsibility on women and unsurprisingly, not men. These are steps YOU can take to avoid XYZ. You were supposed to follow them. Anything that happens to you if you didn't (or did, just not well enough) is all your fault. And please don't ask about the women who don't have the option to do this, they aren't part of the conversation.

4B movements are necessary to drive a point home that women do NOT need men. We don't. And those who feel compelled to participate are doing themselves and feminism a great service. However, even if a woman has the agency to participate in a male-free lifestyle, is it not also important that she does NOT have to in order to ensure her safety? A hetero relationship should not be a liability in the first place. The sad reality though is, it is. And thats what leads to femsep/4B in the first place. It shouldn't be necessary, we all agree on that, but it is.

That being said, I believe that feminism owes it to the woman, not the other way around. Women who remain in hetero partnerships, choose to have children, get married should not be treated like necessary sacrifices, numbers that get left behind, and especially not cock-worshipping traitors. For what? Wanting a relationship? To be sexually active? The biggest problem within femsep spaces is this type of victim blaming, which I have seen more than my fair share of, and if I'm saying the quiet part out loud, it begins to sound more like a Lysistrata-esque "you are supposed to swear off men in order to punish them" rather than it being about you, your needs, or your safety, the way it should be. That kind of alienation drives feminists away from feminist spaces, and into the very welcoming arms of watered down choice-feminism and misogynists. When in reality, what women in het-partnerships need is support.

In summary, stay separatist, there's nothing wrong with it. I am not here to criticize separatism as a whole, just this particular attitude that is VERY prevalent in spaces. Do it for your safety, the betterment of female business, and your sanity, god knows its exhausting listening to men all day. You can, after all, only directly control your life. Just don't delude yourself into thinking all other women who cannot or will not follow suit are the enemy or traitors by any extent of the word.

Separatist rhetoric often circles back to misogyny and victim-blaming. In online discourse, female separatists often refer to heterosexual women as whores, “cock worshippers” “cocksuckers” “dick panderers” “cum dumpsters” “contaminated by semen” and refer to pregnant women and mothers as women who have been “nutted in”. Some separatists are “blackpillers” and believe that all men are inherently evil, murderous, pedophilic, sexually depraved, etc. and they blame heterosexual women for continuing to interact with them. There is a pervasive attitude of “well, that’s what you get” in online separatist discourse, because male sexual depravity is seen as inevitable, meaning it’s the woman’s responsibility to avoid abuse by avoiding men altogether. Indeed, the sexual shaming used by some separatists echoes the same hatred, contempt, and smug sense of superiority that conservative religious women use to denigrate sexually active women, i.e. “whores” who bring misfortune on themselves by being promiscuous.

[cheeeeep]

I genuinely believe that even at the best of times a heterosexual relationship will always leave the woman dissatisfied.

Men will always lack an emotional intelligence that I believe is crucial for a woman to feel fully satisfied in her heterosexual relationship.

Even the ones who are "happy" will always make excuses and accept a certain amount of bullshit.

I am not talking about abusive relationships I am speaking on a general settling and dissatisfaction even with a "good man".

[apperiti]

going to center my human experience around female experience. befriend and build deep relationships with women. enjoy women’s art and writings. listen to female artists, speakers, and role models. read books about women, watch movies about women, and donate to charities for women. work with women, study with women, plan trips and outings with female friends and colleagues. support female creators and buy artworks of women. i am going to enjoy my life so much by caring for and being cared by women.

[womenaremypriority]

Remember that men will try multiple manipulative techniques to turn you against 4B.

“You’ll be miserable when you’re old just like all single women!” Don’t care. Blocked.

“I’m a virgin, how does it affect me? I haven’t even been hugged.” Don’t care. Blocked.

“We’re all just glad you’re no longer sleeping around.” Don’t care. Blocked.

“Are you that angry you can’t kill babies that you’re no longer having sex?” Don’t care. Blocked.

“We’ll have sex with you anyway, you don’t have a choice.” Don’t care. Blocked.

“I didn’t vote for Trump! I’m a good guy!” Don’t care. Blocked.

4B is against male interests. Don’t be intimated by male whining in any form.

[aalexan]

I hate to break it to you friends but the excessive hate campaign of white women is, at it’s core, misogynistic.

[6-beez]

One facet of female solidarity that needs more discussion is anti consumerism and anti consumption. Our current western mindset is one of obtaining as much as possible, both as a show of wealth and for personal comfort. However, much of what we buy (for example, fast fashion) is produced in a non-transparent supply chain that frequently relies on female and Global South labor to make goods cheap and easily affordable, and thus more tempting for the consumer. These low wages that are paid to workers result in economic desperation and trap women in poorly paid, often abusive positions. Additionally, women and children are the most at risk from the negative effects of climate change, which is exacerbated by industrialization and over production.

By consuming less we reduce support for these predatory supply chains and their deleterious effects on the environment. Ideally if we buy goods, they are from female owned businesses whenever possible. Personally I also avoid spending money on items that enforce the beauty standard (this includes makeup, uncomfortable or impractical clothes or shoes, and cosmetic procedures). Essentially, what ways could you support female solidarity through consumption habits?