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ngl i dont like complaining but i’m a bit upset about how quickly we jumped over from tory’s mom dying to… keenry relationship drama. im seriously peeved about how many people are boiling tory and robby’s characters down to being romantic partners, and i don’t think the writers understand how leaning so heavily on keenry weakens both the individual journeys robby and tory go on — robby with his father/role as miyagi do’s captain/brotherhood with miguel/running in 2nd place, and tory with her mother/role as ck’s captain/relationship with kreese/betrayal of her friends. they CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT be each other’s personal saviors; they HAVE TO SAVE THEMSELVES.
#cobra kai#ck negativity#to compare them to samiguel — both of whom seperate in a very mature manner after having gone thru a parental tragedy/sudden dojo drama#they need time apart to undergo their individual development. and on that note#the reason s5 samiguel works is because sam gives herself that room to work on her identity crisis. and miguel learns to accept#his unconventional family and his new life post-2018 all valley. not as a champion but as a boy#writers did that stupid fucking pair the spare shit and slapped robby and tory closer together after breaking them up in s5 😐#which is why i’ll always maintain that keenry only works in the context of a trauma bond a la their time at cobra kai!#sighh. ive got opinions about keenry tonight.#and if the entirety of s6p2 is keenry???…… hhrgrgrh. [frustrated noise]#(vitto look away i’m sorry for speaking ill of your faves and their bad writing)
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still haven't moved on from zane in this episode (aka I hit tag limit again and am unhappy about it)
#alek insanity#not gonna main tag this but prepare for a tiny rant#home is actually really good zane characterization and its super cool to me how it holds up to this day#s1 characterization is very specific to me because the behaviors displayed by the ninja there (mostly) isnt bc thats how they really are but#its due to societal pressure. cole originally being more 'stone faced tough guy' -> 'down to earth' -> 'really sensible easy to talk to guy'#is because hes always been a sensitive guy... but he felt he couldnt express that true version of himself. thats the whole thing behind his#true potential. jay going from s1 -> s6 -> now is less of societal pressure and more teenager figuring himself out but it still applies. ish#seeing how much the ninja have changed or grown from then to now is amazing because back then they all wore masks. they didnt know each#other all that well. but theyve gained that comfortability with each other and also have grown and matured as people#some seasons / eps characterization for certain people im not a fan of (lloyds random misogyny arc in s13) but i mean the overall trend here#and then there is zane. zane in home was pretty dead on to how he behaves now (at least... when it comes to his faults?) and i dont want to#say people skim over that but i am the sf proclaimed n1 s1e2 fan and overthink every scene. zane's early characterization is some of my fav#for him period. he also goes through a ton of traumatic stuff and a ton of bad writing bouts but why he acts so 'weird' or 'distant' has#always been a thread sewn in. he changed so much he stayed the same in a way... if that makes sense. -> ohhh the ninja get mail and he#doesnt? oh he has no family? he quite literally walks away from that situation. oh the ninja are yelling in his face and asking whats wrong#with him? he literally walks away from that situation. he says its to follow the falcon but seeing how he apologized to them by not only#baking a ton of pies (cough... the food fight is what led to him leaving at first) but he also found them a whole entire new house.#zane is unable to truly value what he does for others. insert him in s11 saying he 'tried' to fufill his goal of protecting others.#everything he has ever done still isnt good enough. then the ninja tried to apologize and he didnt really... let them.#that one post about characters putting on facades and that facade being how people really see them. even in fandom. thats zane to me#the guy who lies about being upset and avoids his problems ran away after being yelled at? and he said he wasnt really mad? that is a lie!!#him being a ~360 when it comes to his character development is neat to me because he never hid behind a mask in the same way the others did#cole wanting to seem tough vs being really soft? kai wanting approval so bad he starts being selfish? kai isnt selfish usually!#he is self centered but that is a whole different thing. just wanting to fit in and breaking free of that. zane's true potential came in the#form of 'i finally know why i am not normal' instead of 'i will be my true self'. zane never pretended to not be weird#(instert book) states he literally didnt know why people got mad at him. he just existed and it was 'wrong'. the mask he hid behind was#avoidance. he was pretty open about how he actually was (most of the time). when he was upset he would audibly sigh and walk away lol#but for him saying he wasnt upset / saddened by the ninja... it felt like a moment of selflessness. if that makes sense. he blamed himself#for the monestary burning down. so he didnt deserve the apologies (ish) in the virtues of spinjitzu zane is shown as the generous one iirc#he puts the needs of others over his own. he will bear whatever burden he needs if others are happy. at that same time he doesnt allow
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Spidey mutate!
Ah yes, the current brainrot au that's been keeping me up at night for the last month!
It's my first WIP for a Peter and Tony dynamic, and in the au the spider bite has a much more drastic mutation on Peter. And after mutating (and a fight with his uncle) he runs away from home. Mutant relations aren't good to say the least, and the new Accords would put him and his family at risk with the newly added registry.
he runs to upstate New York and decides to live isolated away from people, and resorts to stealing from lakeside cabins and campgrounds when he can to survive.
it's when he gets caught breaking into a cabin looking for some batteries, that he realizes he's been stealing from Iron Man the whole time.
Tony stared at the kid in front of him. He had dirt smudged on his face and caked onto the short fur on his face. He picked at the skin underneath his… claws. His skin was pale and dark bags hung beneath his eyes, and he bit his lip nervously as he glanced around the living room. Tony huffed and leaned back against the couch. The kid ducked his head away, turning his gaze to the floor, but Tony had a feeling he was still being watched by the two eyes against his cheekbone and temple. God, that was freaky. He cleared his throat. “Where are your parents?” “They’re dead.” The kid said bluntly. He was quick with it too, almost like he meant to throw Tony off. But he just hummed in response. “Bummer. What about a foster parent? Spider-guardian? Did you break out of a hatchery or something? Do I need to worry about 200 of your siblings hiding out in the forest too?” “What? No-” “Well where did you come from then?” “I… ran away.” “Uh huh, I figured that much, Shelob. To what, be the new Jersey Devil? What are you doing here?” Peter looked up, all of his eyes boring into Tony. If he were any other man, Tony would’ve shivered at the sight. But he’d rather go through a wormhole again than let a teenager stare him down. No matter how mutated they were. “Huh?” he responded. Tony sighed, now getting annoyed. “Where can I return you? And where are my Crocs?”
I have A LOT of thoughts for this au! Not much written for it yet, but i would LOVE to post something for it in the future!! I've also made art and memes for it too!
Needless to say it's been living in my brain.
#thanks for the ask Seek! I appreciate it!#and listen i got IDEAS#We got so much happening in this au#i want to include so much and with the way it's developing this would be a three part series EASY#my brain just never stops working#i wanna write a tony and peter dynamic but i wanna make it RIGHT#Broke: Peter needs a father figure Woke: Tony needed a son figure#THAT MAN IS NOT EMOTIONALLY MATURE ENOUGH TO BE A FATHER DURING HOCO AND IW IM SORRY???#THAT MAN WAS TERRIFIED OF BEING A FATHER AINT NO WAY HES HAVING HEART-TO-HEARTS CONVOS WITH A TEENAGER HE MET 6 MONTHS AGO#this bitch couldn't even tell Pepper and his best friends that he was DYING in Iron Man 2 and some of yall think (1/2)#that he'd go to pick Peter up from school in a Lambo and talk about feelings im sorry?? beg your pardon?? (2/2)#nah man i wanna do this and i wanna do it right lets GOOOOOO#we also gonna give Ned some APPRECIATION DAMMIT#And MJ out here is gonna be a bad bitch and go on a solo investigation to figure out what happened to her missing classmate#okay now im rambling#but the point is that i got IDEAS#spiderman#peter parker#tony stark#marvel
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Care to Join Us For Some Tea?
(Emmrich Volkarin & Sascha Ingellvar)
Rook is a very strange creature, always keeping to the shadows of the Lighthouse like a timid ghost. It isn't until Emmrich recalls a strange encounter, three decades past and in the depths of the Grand Necropolis, that he begins to understand what made Sascha Ingellvar into the man he is today.
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#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#original content#emmrich volkarin#da rook#sascha ingellvar#ao3#this was a fun (painful) one to write#I've mentioned it before but I work in a school and that involves working with all kinds of kids AND adults#And the process of “child has tendency to run- one adult talks to other adult- one tries to deal with the child- one documents behavior”#is one that I know pretty well at this point#by the time of datv Sascha is 36 years old and has Developed past where he was at 6 but he's still... the child they found in the tombs#He's always going to be strange and echoy and socially awkward and unsure who it's Safe to be around#he just really really really needs a place to Belong and I feel like he'll be able to find that in the Lighthouse amongst the Veilguard#sorry if I bring up anyone's worst memories of being in Special Ed and not treated well by the overworked staff in there#And I'm really happy with how I ended up writing Emmrich and his POV#According to QoAM I did really well#I feel like people know Emmrich very well as he is in-game so I wanted to explore him in his younger days before he's as Established#not just as a Mourn Watch but as someone who is more willing to stand up for what's right and- especially- someone who loves children#I think of all the people I knew in their teens who Hated kids who have softened more and more as they got older and more mature#I certainly don't think Emmrich ever hated children (he's always been Soft) but I feel like it's more of a “how patient am I?”#Like I look at Manfred and how he also Echoes and Mimics and I'm like. Yeah. That's like my little special ed kids.#Emmrich you would be PERFECT in the life skills room I wanna go run Coffee Cart with you that would be great#anyway happy birthday Sascha!! So sorry that your childhood was so fucking awful and you spent your sixth birthday like This#Tumblr not linking to ao3 makes me want to kill this site#Birthday Fic
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this feels too soon to say because its still not well over a month that i started uni but like...
im quite happy by how things are going now- it doesn't feel all too restrained unlike my past school years. and apart from that, i feel a lot more independent being able to travel miles away from my home which has been my biggest anxiety as i got older. just the fear of getting lost spooks me a whole lot! even if i'm travelling through a planned route, going all by myself is probably the bravest thing i did this year and i say this as an introvert who doesn't go out all too often
#ive always wanted to share this sudden core memory of mine when i was grade 12: i liked my english teacher a lot and she made us write an-#-essay about something that.. i want to overcome? i think? i forgot but i remember my passage very well#i basically summarized that i feel i haven't developed that well as an adult in terms of maturity and feel that im very left out in social-#-situations. as well as feeling like a serious adult. i basically said that i wish i was given more time to get myself together#then when i got my paper back: my teacher had checked it with a little message near it: and it said something like#“it's okay to experience this - time will wait for you and you still much time to learn and grow” something like that. not verbatim but#that's what i remembered so well. when i read that i felt so happy and understood#i am not that close to my teachers but seeing that this teacher cared to really read my passage and not just check for grammar mademe joyous#so remembering that - and now that im in uni - typing this all out as i wait for my bus that will take an hour worth of travel to go to#i feel really accomplished#irl banter#~ rambling#yeah :)#my point is. you're never too late to learn new things
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i dont get why people who watch kids are expected to watch them 24/7 by parents who barely watch them for 7 minutes.
i think babysitters should be allowed to sit in the other room while the kids entertain themselves. teachers should be able to sit in the corner doing paperwork while the kids do their thing.
as long as there is an adult present and at least partially attentive to whats happening i truly do not see what the difference is to the parents being there.
oh wait it's just that a lot of parents refuse to admit any fault in themselves and hold everyone else to extremely high standards so they have someone to blame their child's failings on :)
#it's always people who interact with kids 0% of the time who expect you to be right up the kids ass the entire time#no one wants that. literally no one wants that.#there doesnt always need to be a structured activity.#there doesnt always need to be intense adult-child conversation.#again. as long as theres an adult there i think it's more than okay#------------------------------------------------#i strongly prefer this hands off approach with my own students bc these kids NEED TO TALK TO EACHOTHER AND NOT JUST ADULTS#they only socialize with adults online. they only see adult youtubers. they only truly sit and do activities with adults.#there really arent any group activities anymore and when there are... it's so obvious these kids dont know how to act around other humans#especially peers#they truly do not know how to treat someone as an equal and constantly talk down to eachother like how adults talk to kids#theyre constantly trying to prove their maturity and to insult anyone who clings to childhood#they need to know how to use their imaginations on their own#how to work through problems on their own#i have kids asking the most basic of questions which is why i firmly believe stupid questions DO exist#they will ask 'where is the bright orange paper' as you are holding the bright orange paper right in front of their faces#because they refuse and dont know how to actually look around and think about things for themselves#because teachers are constantly pressured into walking through eveeeerrryyything. constantly holding their hand.#yu think im joking about the paper thing but i experience that question AN UNCOUNTABLE AMOUNT OF TIMES in just a single day#every single fucking day#it's to the point i DO NOT TELL THEM ANYMORE. i say 'actually look around. use context clues. think about what you're asking before you ask#and agin... it's all because people who watch kids are expected to hold their hands through every single thing#when you dont let a kid develop any skills on their own they do not develop skills. period.#since i've started doing this the amount of kids needing their hand held has actually diminished. lots of kids learned how to tie shoes#they learned to read a clock#they learned how to read and write#they learned to say thank you and please and be mindful of their area and the people around them#all because i MADE them do it. i didnt just give them the answer or coddle them.#it's still very bad but it isnt AS bad. obv theres only so much i can do when their other teachers; daycare workers; and babysitters#all treat them like inept idiots.
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i miss liking helluva boss
#makes me so so sad seeing viv run it into the ground with shitty writing#had so much potential. i loved it for so long..#honestly even stolitz couldve worked but. they went the route of suddenly having stolas be in love with blitz#and making blitz out to be in the wrong and stolas this never wrong sad owl boi and manipulating the fans into thinking it was always true#fucking hate it. fucking hATE IT.#if they had just. fucking. had them sllllowly develop feelings for each other over the course of the show#and SHOW HOW MESSY it is with their arrangement#maybe it couldve been something. but NOOOO.#i hated the full moon i hated apology tour i hated mastermind and the only part of sinsmas i liked was octavia#i love octavia. her song made me cry. shes so real man#idk if im even going to watch season 3#maybe i will pirate it#why did they make millie PREGNANT. hate it. gross. ick#i never understood the hatred for viv's work but now i do. maybe i just had to mature some#still seems a bit overblown and parasocial at times but like. yeah. a lot of the criticism is entirely correct#and it sucks bc i still love the show. its been with me for years and i love the worldbuilding and i love the art and i love the characters#but viv seems dead set on making me hate them all#sigh. i just dont know man#rambles
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parroting off of that post but it’s truly a fascinating phenomenon that wally is so thoroughly developed a character in his own runs and arguably miles more mature and possessive of the accountability to deal with certain emotional situations that the other members of the fab five continue to flail at and yet every time he’s in a titans book the greatest extent to his characterization is dumbass dickhead who doesn’t know how to do his job without someone (dick) telling him how to do it
#to be deleted#if anything this is why i sympathize with the fab five ig like they didn’t really get the benefit of writing that was intended#to help them mature. wally’s runs by loebs and waid /were/ written with his developing maturity in mind#and granted a lot of that has to do with wally’s role within the flash fam#whether that’s as a son / nephew / husband / uncle / father / etc#so his maturity was grounded in being the family man#which arguably not every titan also needs to be. some of them aren’t made for the settled domestic life#but it’s a shame they were afforded little opportunity to mature otherwise#except for roy i do think he was getting there for a while before things went haywire early 00s
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So yeah I actually think Otona Precure is retconning Coco and Natts ages
Their ages were always vague (at least to me!) and never outright confirmed. I always thought they were 16 and 17 respectively since I was a kid. Partly out of spite, partly because I was used to older-looking love interests??
Like the trends in the early 2000s to 90s, etc was the impossibly mature hot guy, the ikemen. Yknow, the model-like senpai who always gets mistaken as an an adult even though he's only a year older than the heroine. So IDK I always doubted Coco's age as a kid :/
And yeah I know one producer referred to them as "adult men", but to me that's just a producer and not the writing/animation team who presented the characters (this is where the spite kicks in...💀)
I thought Coco faked his age into being a teacher the same way Natts became a business owner somehow??? The teacher part is gross, but I know it was for Coco to in an all girls school and set up Nozomi's dream of being a teacher....
(LAME EXCUSE THO!!! He could have been a tutor, or joined a boys school across from the girls, or SUMTHN!!! Teacher x student always losing)
BUT BACK TO OTONA!!! I think Otona is taking advantage of their ambiguous age and is soft retconning that they were "adults". Like look at the Nozomi's flashback!! Coco looks ridiculously young in that picture, like he barely reaches Karen's height.
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Does this look like an adult man???
And Otona is presenting Coco and Natts differently for there to be a clear distinction between them in the Yes Precure 5 and their adult versions now (mature features, lowered voice acting, height change)
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So POINT BEING, I think we can consider them as teenagers aka children in the Yes Precure 5 and adults in Otona, because of the way the writers are presenting them now (thank GOD)
#and this isnt to excuse the creep vibes btw#but can we have HOPE (T⌓T)#honesty them being immature teens fits wayyy better for their development#because they come off as mature princes but turn out to be just as childish as the girls?#isnt that the whole point of them turning into cutesy animals??#natts being blunt about komachi's writing isnt peak maturity for me guys lmaooo#also if we could also stop treating the jp fandom as inherently creepy too...#who knows how many thought the same as i did as a kid#otona precure#yes precure 5#b.txt#coco#nuts
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I've become intentional
With every step I take.
Understanding how to reclaim
My life by calling demons by their name
& Being bold in the presence of my
Oppressor as we stand face to face.
I AM not bound to emotional swings,
I AM not induced by the song of sirens
I AM stronger than the limited words of affirmations
I HAVE battled with my mind long enough
To know I Am the master of this ship.
I HAVE crumpled and rebuilt,
I HAVE glorified my ruins and learned i can only live beyond the ashes if i die to my former state.
I KNOW some days the war feels lost
But as long as I'm breathing I can fight another day.
A wise man once told me
"its easy to remain a victim of internal pains.
Because healing is strict,
it exposes Self to self,
demanding a recognition of afflictions worn as a necklace.
Giving you the illusion you’ve tried
Everything instead remain consistent.
Because going through the emotions perpetually is familiar than making a difficult decision.
For what will meet you is unknown and foriegn
So why step in a realm requiring faith to carry you. When you already carry you.
Listen son focusing on excitment and immediate gratification is a fantasy painted in movies,
The process is tedious and grueling, conforming is Metamorphosis for nothing new
Holds on to the image that carried all its misfortune.
Be picky of what thoughts influences you,
You must remain aware of what speaks to the heart, cause from the heart flows all of lifes issues."
I've become intentional
With every step I take.
Understanding how to reclaim
My life by calling demons by their name
Depression, anxiety, confusion
You all think the same,
Offering me something I am not
When I AM what the heavens say i am.
Abundant
#poem#thoughts#creative writing#young poets#poets society#thinking#poetry#journey#poet#poetryportal#wisdom#growth#maturity#understanding#awareness#self development#mindfulness#free write#free wrting#free verse#prose poetry#christian poetry#christian poems
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Finished my first playthrough of Oxenfree: Lost Signals and gun pointed at me, I'd still choose the first as my favourite.
But still very much liked Lost Signals and you know what, it was a little bit refreshing to be a tired 30 something trying to fix shit instead of following a group of (beloved to me) teens with their teen drama.
#oxenfree blogging#i liked so much the drama and character stuff felt just that little more mature#i like riley and jacob so much as characters#night school is just so excellent at their writing#that slightly cool detachment you develop as you get older - that you have to#like don't get me wrong#halloween i'll be breaking out oxenfree again#to watch the kids run around and cause portal ghosts drama#but lost signals was a very good follow-up
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biggest changes over the years have been tina becoming a lot more confident and less anxious about performing or having attention on her, louise getting a lot more mature/empathetic towards other people and gene getting a lot less mean and aggressive for no reason
#some of this was them better understanding how to write the characters and their personalities in a way that made sense#and some of it was just character development (especially with tina)#although i get how people would be annoyed with louise learning the same lesson over and over i think it works bcuz she is kinda impulsive#and she is growing and maturing as a person#all of them are honestly have u SEEN how tina acts as a big sister in season 1 vs season 13 its like completely different#txt#bob's burgers
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hmmm i’ve got an emotional confrontation ficlet (as if i ever write anything else) brewing in my brain about steve and dustin and boundaries and how it’s offensive and a little hurtful that dustin refuses to drop the robin thing, like it doesn’t matter what steve says or wants, dustin always knows best, and he doesn’t think steve’s capable of love and affection without sex
#something about meaning well and wanting your loved ones to be happy so bad you try to fix them#and you just end up making them feel broken#i love dustin so much his maturity level is so uneven#i want more ppl to explore that#the dangers of being besties with a 14 yo prodigy#sometimes their lack of emotional development makes them assholes by accident#steve harrington & dustin henderson#platonic stobin#it’s a bad pain day in my hands and arms sadly so i’m worried the inspiration will fizzle before i’m physically capable of writing it#so i’m dropping it in my writing tag for later#my writing
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What do you mean by 'i will be set free'? Are you unstanning or something?
In a scenario like that? I’d be like
#like cmon guys 💀💀💀don’t yall have like… self awareness?#i know myself. I know I would 110% pissed off#it’s a basic human reaction. natural even lmao#im already rolling my eyes to the back of my head because I KNOW like a science fact#there I would be forced to read huge ass masterpost on how#that’s not my problem to deal with not my life career not my closet not my fight#and whatever apologists will write about#repriming their inner natural reactions for the sake of … love? passion? admiration? you name it#probably because they want to sound more mature or even smarter idk#but you see being mature and smart sometimes is seeing through the mess and develop your own opinion me thinks#casella di posta numero 32
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i love final fantasy.
#🌙.rambles#like. uh. mostly ffxiv rn i just can't think straight bcs i just love ffxiv too much fuck but#other ffs too 😭😭 i was looking through some of my notes again n. i'm. it. IT MADE ME SO HAPPY#like yk those twt stuff from sqex or wtvr. i love squall n rinoa sm n then tidus n yuna n then#THE REST OF THEM N#n. w ff7 uh. fuck the fanwars just enjoy what you like i hate how ppl put others down. those adults can't even be mature or open-minded#n it's so disappointing but uh that aside! personally. this is for me okay. i just have a certain fondness of ships w aerith#no i don't want to talk abt ships but i didn't want to say this following thing without some context 💀#nah okay here i don't have super strong feelings abt any of those ff7 ships but i do like the charas n the tropes#like. i like the ones w aerith more in general bcs yk she's just. gentle. i like her 🥺 but i relate to tifa quite a lot actually#OH. I DIDN'T MEAN TO RAMBLE ABT THAT WAIT#w tifa just made me rmb along w. smth in shb made me think of hehe. yk w the wol w the uh.. spoilers but smth Bad happens#i'm gna go off-topic again if i talk about emet-selch in those scenes. bro the love he has for azem n hyth n. amaurot n how he#all those. lonely thousand of years n. remembering.. 🥹 n then the honesty w the wol n he#he. hdkafjsdlkf his va's rlly did well w him n the writing made me love him so much his character's so dear to me#wait. i went off-topic again. oh w smth that happens to the wol. like w wol n the tifa can i just have a dream too of like. being saved#like no ultimately i'll save myself but c'monnnn just once 🥺#writing the word once just always reminds me of zack fair damn hdlfkajsdfk one of my favs too hehe#head in hands i'm still so proud of alphi's chara development. n then. yk w thancred n minfilia n ryne.#n that talk w minfilia n ryne. hit. too personal. i remember. oh my god#alr i've just been rambling as i always have but atp i don't know what i'm writing abt anymore help#🥹🫶🏼 just love ffxiv so much fr. like not just ffxiv but yk what i mean. uwahh what a relief to. feel like this again at least#still stressed i just wna get that essay asap tho 😭 but yk it's lovely at least i'm rlly happy i remember again.#ffxiv's always. helped guide me in a way to rmb myself. so. please. please just listen to ffxiv's ost fr.
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I went into the notes to see what people had to say about this, and honestly I think @starfieldcanvas hit the nail on the head in elaborating on why this happens, and how to contextualize those feelings:
Part of growing up is realizing that most people aren't trying to control you anymore, and that if you continue to act as if they are, then YOU are exercising control on them. Counter-control tactics used on your peers is just being controlling, and we all have to learn at some point to own up to our shit and handle disputes with equals like equals.
That's not to say you have to lay down and submit to every accusation levied against you, in fact doing so every time is just as bad as denying everything. If you're denying every accusation or submitting every time someone confronts you, you're subconsciously trying to shut down the conversation, and if you're doing that, your emotional maturity has been stunted.
If this describes you, seek help bettering yourself. It's not your fault you developed this behavior, if anything it says something about how we treat children that this is something we all have to grow out of, but it IS your responsibility to do something about it. Bring this up with your therapist, find a therapist if you don't have one, talk this out with a willing friend, read a book on breaking bad habits, join a community online or in person that teaches coping mechanisms and life skills, do something to address it, because it should not be the responsibility of your peers alone to make up for the immaturity you recognize but don't address.
you ever have situations that make you want to take people by the shoulders and go "you are not 15 any longer. this behavior is no longer quirky and cute. it is exhausting for you and everyone else to act like a teenager you haven't been in a decade or longer. knock it the fuck off"
#honestly while writing this it kinda dawned on me that it's kinda fucked up that so many people learn counter-control tactics growing up#that when we speak of immature behaviors people need to grow out of#it's usually that#exerting control over the conversation but changing the context or subject in your favor is a trauma response#it's what happens to mature adults in abusive and controlling relationships#so why the fuck is this normal for kids to develop?#and why did I never question that until now?
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