#the pansexual crisis

[natashasregrets]

granted i have never seen SIX or read a synopsis but as far as i can tell from listening to some of the songs there’s a sensible-ish one and a hot badass lesbian who sings a great dom anthem and one who got her head cut off for her controversial twitter posts and all of them are super hot and probably gay. and there’s something called the haus of holbein which probably involves a lot of psychedelics or whatever.

tell me i got at least some of this right anyway it’s kind of cool and i’ll watch it at some point and maybe also research the plot a little bit? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[dwobbitfromtheshire]

Steve has long hair, and he's finally able to pull his hair into a ponytail at the top of his head. It causes Eddie to freeze and study Steve’s features in alarm. His features are both feminine and masculine, so very equally so. It's something that Eddie definitely likes. Okay, so he likes both, or maybe he just likes it in Steve. He tilted his head to the side and thought about Steve as a woman. It didn't really matter, though, because regardless of what gender Steve is (and Eddie's starting to think Steve might be a gender all by himself), he loved Steve and his personality. At the same time, though, he's envious of Steve’s genders and the fact that he seems to have one to himself. There were times that Eddie felt a little feminine himself, but he never said that outloud. He kind of hated Steve, too, because he seemed so comfortable with that side of himself with absolutely no problem. Eddie was definitely a guy, though, right? Yes, yes, a guy! Sometimes, he just felt like a girl and sometimes nothing at all. And really, it's all Steve’s fucking fault. Suddenly, Eddie yelped and jumped out of his chair.

"Eddie, man, are you okay?" Steve asked.

"SO MANY CRISISES AND ALL AT ONCE!" Eddie screeched and headed towards the door.

"Eddie!"

He popped his head back in, breathing calmly.

"I'm going through something right now. I'll get back to you in 30 to 40 business days," he said and left again.

Steve stared at the door, his mouth open. The door opened again and Eddie popped his head back in.

"FUCK YOU AND YOUR SEXY PONYTAIL!" Eddie yelled and left.

"I told you, man," Argyle said. "You got to be careful with ponytails. They hold power."

He flipped his own ponytail over his shoulder, Jonathan's eyes never leaving his hair.

[robson-gurl]

hello and welcome to - animated characters i didn’t realise as a child were actually my gay awakening: a list. ☺️👍

[kbh792-9]

Today's gender #2

[unfortunategenderfluxmushroom]

Sometimes I think about the fact that I never truly had a girlhood or a boyhood because of how inexplicably other I've always been. And then I think about Simon Riley

[killershrike]

Hey guys, I'm really sorry to do this, but I recently suffered a house fire because I had a bad ptsd flashback/possibly seizure and so my roommate is (rightfully) kicking me out.

I'm currently scrambling trying to find a place to stay and figure my shit out yknow haha, my friend said I should just make a gofundme and let everything know and give the option to send some support. Absolutely nothing is required, of course. Anything would help absolutely, even just a reblog. I feel really stupid and scared I'm going to be homeless soon so idk yall I'm just falling apart and panicking yknow?

Here is my gofundme for more details. I'm sorry to ebeg like this, I'm just so fucking scared I'm going to be homeless soon.

[demigod-jack-hearth]

My gender isn't gendering

[tryingtowriteanditsnotworking]

Question: Am I asexual?

Answer:

Im 17 years old and just (6 months ago) got out of my first relationship. The first time I was kissed too (maybe I’m late to that game I don’t really care though). The first time I kissed someone I thought “how many seconds do I have to kiss someone before pulling away seems normal and not rude because this is off, I don’t know what to do”.

I conducted some research(VERY research oriented person), and now that I’ve thought about it I can’t think of a single person I’d actually want to have sex with. Like go down on me. I thought I was pansexual but now I’m worried I’m just a straight asexual person (17 F). Because someone I know is bi and she said she was really into tits but I’m not into tits is that because I’m straight or because I’m ace???

Everyone, since I was 12, has thought I was gay. I grow up in a very queer welcoming community so it’s not condemned like in many other communities but, for example: my sister once told me that she would be very sad (I was 14) if I turned out to be bi because she wanted me to be a lesbian. Most people ask me for my pronouns, because I’m a girl with short hair (can’t be tied up) and wear man’s clothes, and I run in circles where EVERYONE is gay.

Am I Demisexual and I just haven’t found someone yet? Because I think people are pretty and even hot, but I’ve never seen ANYONE and thought “oh I’d like them to go down on me”. And I’m worried that I’ve misled everyone for years and am basically going to have to come out as straight because I like girls, but I only want to cuddle with them and be domestic, same goes with guys and everyone really.

Help, if you can, with what you think, or what I could read/watch/listen to in order to figure it out. I just feel like everyone around me knows what they are, and I still don’t.

[sherpafrankiefreddiesteviegeorge]

I'm having a quarter life crisis unpacking comp het. I Know I'm asexual and nonbinary. But I don't even know what romantic attraction is?! Where is the line between romance and platonic love? I want to cuddle, to feel close to another being, to watch sunrises but not "because that's what you're supposed to do" but because sunrises are calm and peaceful & I want to share that moment with someone or several someone's, to sit in silence and be without any expectations ruining it. I hate dating it feels so limiting and disingenuous with high expectations. My friendships are more fulfilling because I've only ever experienced dating as putting on a performance. I can not watch a Nicholas Sparks film without rolling my eyes or feeling insanely uncomfortable. I want to live in a house overflowing with love. The only crushes I've had have been on people who understood me, like 2 people ever, a trans boy and femme presenting girl. What am i?! Am I aromantic? Am I pansexual or panromantic?

[sylv-e-on]

Having a species crisis (there is something here that's not fox or cat and it seems space related I? Think?) and a sexuality crisis (am I just pansexual? Am I pansexual greyromantic? Am I greysexual and greyromantic? Am I just fully aroace?) sure is. Fun-

[yourlocalbadgerscales]

Sexuality crisis

I don’t care what gender someone is. If they’re a nice person I love them. Like literally. Also looks, but if someone’s a good person idc if they’re ugly. LITERALLY.

As a young child I had a BIG difficulty with telling the difference between platonic and romantic love. Tbh… I’m older now and I still have this problem.

Since my awakening last summer I’ve always thought of myself as pan. But I realised… what if…

What if I’m not? Pan has felt so wrong lately. Yes, I’m young, but I’ve seen things I shouldn’t have seen on internet and yeah… stuff like that. So I already know I’m sex repulsed to cis men. Yeah yk probably what I mean. But… but… idk guys I’m so confused.

I’ve always thought of myself as a hopeless romantic. I love romance and fluff, I kind of want to be in a romantic relationship myself, but I think that I value friendship the most out of those two. And I love fluff, I’m okay with smut but fluff is better. Idk I’m having a crisis.

A few posts I’ve related to a lot lately here on tumblr have been about something called queerplatonic, I think? Or? Idk. Something slightly different than aromantic at least. I have no idea honestly.

Guys idk if I feel romantic attraction or not. I AM SO CONFUSED SO IF YOU KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT WHAT I AM DESCRIBING PLEASE TELL ME

Ask me stuff if I wasn’t clear enough in this post. I’m more than willing to answer.

I just want to figure shit out atp. What the fuck is going on?

Maybe the reason I can’t tell the difference between platonic and romantic love isn’t that I’m pan. Maybe I’m… someone who loves the thought on romance but doesn’t feel it. And what does that even mean?

God I’m gonna cry

[nikolai-alexi]

Some Homophobic/Transphobic Arsehole: *harassing Regulus after he’s outted* what are you? a boy or a girl?

Regulus: *unphased and petty* do you wanna do a questionnaire so you can find out or kiss and figure out how you feel afterwards?

[lil-gae-disaster]

Jonathan: "Having a preference in the gender of your partner is foolish. Both have their ups and downs, but women are not better of a partner than men and vice versa"

Meanwhile Frederick is going insane because he is "doomed to be a sodomite forever" (his words not mine) in the background with Hamilton tryna comfort him

@marsfingershurt @unicornsaures @hamalicious-soup @kwilooo

@papers-pamphlet @imobsessedwiththeatre

[cardboardboxfly]

FUCKKKK

I don’t know wether I’m pan or gay

😭😭😭 AAAAAAAGH

WhY is this *rapid arm gesture* so fuckin hard 😭😭😭

[our-pansexual-experience]

my pansexual experience was flip-flopping between straight, bi, and pan for the past five-and-a-half years until i landed on pan

the sexuality crisis™

[cvbullshit]

Sometimes...

I'm unsure if I'm Pansexual.

Yeah I do tend to like people more for their personalities, but it's weird.

I use to lean more towards masculine people but not anymore.

and like, when it comes to fictional characters, they can have a shitty personality and I find them hot.

But with humans, I don't like when they have a shitty personality, well, ig unless they fit the bill of what shitty personality i'm attracted to or something.

When it came to humans, I only ever dated guys until recently, where I asked out someone who's more feminine.

But when it comes to fictional characters, I like a whole different amount of genders.

Recently, I started debating on if it even matter to me when it came to personality, since I found some characters hot/cute without being completely attracted to their personality.

I....

I don't know.

If I'm not Pansexual than what am I?

I tried to figure that once before but was shut down by my bio mom, who claimed to be an ally but actively just told me that I'm Pansexual and there wasn't need to complicate things when I brought up different identities on the romance spectrum (i.e. Panromantic, Demiromantic, ect.)

Ik I ain't gonna take shit from her anymore considering she thought a Demiboy was just a "cool nickname-y thing friends do in this age" or smth like that.

But... I dunno.