#the housewife life

[femininedating]

The Housewife Life ♡

Being a housewife is the dream to many women (me included)

Most married, rich women do not work. Their husbands are the breadwinners.

They CHOOSE not to work. They are not oppressed. They are not ruled by abandonment or trust issues. They are not afraid. They are not being forced or abused. They are not miserable. They do not feel they are setting women back. They do not miss working. They CHOOSE to be housewives/sahm over having careers. They fully embrace & prefer gender roles. They don't feel 'held back'. They are living their BEST lives.

Feminist love to spread fear about being a housewife, stay at home mom or "depending on your own man to provide" .

Being a housewife ≠ abuse.

Contrary to popular belief, being a housewife does not automatically mean you're going to get abused or left broke with nothing. Actually women who have sole or breadwinning husbands are less abused and least likely to get divorced. (look up the actual stats & facts) And don’t let me get started on who leaves divorces “financially struggling”. It’s the women who work full time not just financially illiterate housewives(this is because it’s a financial literacy issue not an income issue)

Being a housewife ≠ broke.

A housewife can still build wealth without working for income! (Financial literacy is a must)

Some women actually want to be housewives and full time mothers. Given the chance, a lot of women would love this lifestyle but unfortunately they have fear forced down their throats. A lot of women are secretly yearning to stay at home...

Being a housewife is not an oppressive role. It is not a step down or a step back. It is a wonderful, fulfilling lifestyle women should feel free to choose just like pursuing a career.

[lomlompurim]

Something born from a convo on twt

(Bingmei is still The Emperor and The HHP Palace Master but he spends more time with his family and house duties, and working hard into his dream of having a BIG family)

The tweet that inspired this, which I very much agree, omega Binghe supremacy

[malkhola]

[sunderwight]

SV fic where Luo Bingge discovers that Shen Jiu had a long-lost half-brother or something, and subsequently decides that he's going to infiltrate the minor sect which this "Shen Yuan" belongs to in order to get close to him and then indulge in revenge fantasy 2.0 when it inevitably turns out that Shen Yuan is like Shen Jiu (i.e. a horrible abusive scum teacher).

So Bingge uses some magical object or technique or other, makes himself look like a scrawny 12-14 year old, then puts himself in Shen Yuan's path in hopes of convincing the man to take him on as a disciple. The idea being that after Shen Yuan abuses him, Bingge will be justified in reenacting his Shen Qingqiu Revenge Arc again and maybe finally feeling some closure about the whole thing.

Yes, this is a very deranged plan. No, no one is going to tell the emperor of the three realms that. Bingge also wants it to be clear that this has nothing whatsoever to do with his recent escapade in an alternate universe, except that he was inspired to find Shen Jiu's relative as a consequence of that. But he's absolutely sure that this guy is going to turn out just as rotten as his brother, given the opportunity. That is definitely the only reason he is doing this!

Flash forward about four years. Bingge's retainers are begging on their knees for him to actually come back and do some administrative work. The harem is running itself at this point and they're all very terrified of the situation with Liu Mingyan and Sha Hualing (i.e. ruling with lesbian iron fists) and whatever the heck Ning Yingying is up to (no one is certain but it's something). The outer provinces are rebelling. Mobei Jun's somehow found another weird human surnamed Shang to cavort with, except this one is basically running admin for the entire northern kingdom now and no one's even sure if they're fucking or if it's some kind of mind control situation or what.

Bingge is annoyed. He doesn't have a good explanation for why a bunch of demon lords would be showing up on the doorstep of Tiny Cultivation Sect to beg him for anything. They're going to spoil his cover! And they're interrupting his schedule! It's already four o'clock and he hasn't started on Shizun's dinner yet! Shoo! Get lost!

Anyway, eventually some of his demon followers get desperate and dramatically kidnap him. Shen Yuan is horrified and grieved when it seems that his precious disciple, so like white lotus Luo Binghe from the novel, has been captured by demons. He tries to track the assailants down, but they've covered their tracks too well. In the end, there's only one path left to him to pursue: taking this matter to the protagonist!

Yes, the protagonist! Because the thing is, Shen Yuan noticed the similarities between his disciple and the book character he so admired. Not only that, but he did manage to glimpse Bingge one time from afar. It wasn't anywhere near to a real interaction, but it was enough for him to notice the strong resemblance between the protagonist and the mistreated little lamb who showed up at his doorstep. A resemblance for which there can only be one explanation:

Shen Yuan's disciple is one of Binghe's kids!

Yes, he had it figured out since fairly early on. Not only was there a resemblance, and not only were their dispositions quite similar, but also the boy showed a lot of signs of some demonic heritage. Shen Yuan was just working up to broaching the subject, partly because he had been trying to avoid any direct or even indirect interactions with the emperor, and partly because he... became somewhat reluctant to part ways with his student. Sue him! He got attached! And anyway, he knew how missing child plots usually went. There was probably someone in the harem who was out for his disciple's blood, and it wouldn't be safe to send him back into that mess until he was strong enough to look after himself.

But as is inevitable, the plot seems to have reclaimed Shen Yuan's student all on its own.

He just... needs to make sure that it isn't a tragic outcome. It seems it falls on him to make the emperor aware of his son's survival, and subsequent peril, and help launch a rescue!

Which also means approaching Luo Binghe in person, which he knows is very risky indeed, due to his connection to the infamous Shen Qingqiu! He'd been avoiding the protagonist at all costs for that exact reason.

But if it's his only hope of rescuing his disciple, he will simply have to take the risk, and hope that enough time has passed that Luo Binghe doesn't read too much into a shared surname and a passing resemblance. Or that restoring the emperor's long-lost son to him will be worth seem lenience for the crime of being connected to Shen Qingqiu. Maybe if he's lucky, he will even be allowed to continue visiting his disciple! (Ha, yeah right! More likely, Luo Binghe's going to take his head for hiding his own kid from him for so long!)

Anyway, cue Luo Bingge running around swapping between his Emperor and Disciple forms, dramatically trying to orchestrate a situation where he can fake the emperor's death and go back to the sect with Shizun as his disciple, or something, only for it all to blow up in his face because Shen Yuan keeps flinging himself between Bingge and potentially fatal threats that could plausibly kill him???

[konigsblog]

what do you mean i can't live on a farm with farmer!könig and bake him his favourite, delectable sweet strawberry tarts and apple pies?!

[chawliekin]

and if I said that dennis’ insistence on being the breadwinner/provider despite literally being a pampered princess who dgaf about traditional roles of masculinity in every other regard (aside from ego) is because his mom only stayed with/chose frank for his wealth and dennis is highly aware that he’s difficult to love and unable to show his emotions openly so he has to be contributing something to the relationship materially in order to feel like he’s worth staying for… and mac grew up with parents who were extremely ambivalent to him and eachother so he has to overcompensate by proving his worth at every given moment and seeking praise/validation from people (and religious icons) who will never demonstrate the same amount of dedication to him but he has no idea how else to desperately keep himself close to those he loves other than by eroding himself into something they’ll approve of… dear god they’re both exactly what the other needs — someone who can’t and won’t leave them even if they try — and they don’t even see it…

[novaswrldd]

home sweet h o m e

[feminineenergylife]

All of the above 🤍

[thegoodwitchtg]

@ceceflowers and I doing a lovely little caption collab! Here's what The Good Witch has to say😊🪄

[rabbits-of-negative-euphoria]

please sir can i have a housewife character whose problems are unrelated to housewifery

[shomatoriashi]

08/05/24; 07:24pm

husband!sung jinwoo x wife!fem.reader

{ oneshot }

dedicated @starzgaze because they were so real in highlighting jinwoo’s housewife potential.

the scent of freshly brewed morning coffee coupled along with the lingering smells of freshly cooked breakfast was what ultimately rouses you from your slumber.

a soft moan escapes from your parted lips, yet for some odd reason, you could barely move. the bed just felt oh so comfortable, and maybe, just maybe, your husband would be merciful enough to let you sleep in for an extra 30 minutes or so.

while you were caught within the in-between state of sleep and awakening, you were dimly aware of footsteps padding its way toward your bedroom. along with the sounds of impending footsteps came the babbles of a baby boy, giggling as he gurgled happily while in his father’s embrace.

almost too soon, you were ripped away from your pleasant dreams, feeling jinwoo harshly take the comforter away from your form as you shivered briefly against the bed.

“wake up… it’s time to get ready and head to work.” jinwoo’s rich voice echoes inside of your ear, making you weakly glare at him. yet the annoyance you once felt for your obnoxious husband disappears when you saw suho smiling so brightly while in jinwoo’s embrace.

letting out your own giggle, you sit up from bed and made grabby hands toward suho, earning yet another rich chuckle from jinwoo as he lays the baby boy within your arms. “i’ll go ahead and finish up making breakfast, so you better get ready. suho already promised to report back to me if you’re not up and out of bed in the next five minutes.”

“BAH!” suho’s laughter was infectious as you cuddled closer to him, holding him tighter within your embrace when you finally manage to get out of bed and head towards the bathroom with the babbling baby in your arms. flipping on all the lights, you keep suho against your hip with one hand, washing your face and brushing your teeth with the other. as you continued on with your morning routine, suho was immensely fascinated with his reflection, often reaching out toward the glass to press his tiny palms against it.

once you finished your routine for the day, you head back toward your bedroom and settle suho in the middle of your bed. suho begins chewing at the back of his hands, watching you as you chose your outfit for the day before putting it on. it takes you a total of 15 minutes to get ready, with jinwoo already calling out to you, “jagiya! it’s time for breakfast!”

you roll your eyes at your husband’s demanding tone, giving suho a gentle coo before picking him up again. “come on, suho, your papa is getting grumpy.”

“i am not grumpy! i’m just trying to remain on schedule.” petulance was heard within jinwoo’s tone, yet you knew that he was just playing along when you could hear the smile within his voice. your footsteps seemed to bounce with each and every movement, serving as evidence to your happy mood as you entered the kitchen.

jinwoo had just finished setting up the table, making a spread that appeared to be straight from a breakfast buffet. settled before you were copious amounts of plates filled with eggs, bacon, breakfast sausages, along with some toast with waffles, and a plate filled with cut up fruit as well. your mouth waters at the sight, with you setting suho within his high chair as you take a seat next to him.

jinwoo sits across from you, giving suho his own plate of breakfast when he cuts up the strawberries and waffles into bite sized pieces for your son to enjoy. your heart swells with love upon seeing such a domestic sight in front of you, with you already digging in to the delicious breakfast jinwoo has prepared.

between bites of your meal, you couldn’t help but take a moment to admire your husband. with his deep voice gently coaxing at suho to eat his food, you couldn’t help but thank fate for giving this man to you. admiring jinwoo’s features now, you take note of how his hair had grown slightly longer, the soft ebony locks gently falling across his forehead. despite some visible changes seen, his grey eyes remained the same, still soft and filled with love each time he looks at you.

as if feeling your gaze, jinwoo tilts his head to meet your eyes, giving you a smug expression upon noticing the dreamy look that paints your features. letting out a cough, you stuff your mouth with another hearty bite of your waffle, earning another chuckle from jinwoo. before you could swallow, jinwoo turns his attention away from suho to lean across the table and give your lips a gentle kiss, an action that made you grin like a madwoman in response, unable to stop the giddiness that courses through you.

once you had your fill of breakfast, you look at the time and jump from your seat, “damn, i have to go! bye bye suho, mommy will see you soon!” you place a quick kiss against suho’s dark hair and take quick strides out of the dining room.

before you could even leave the kitchen, jinwoo reappears directly in front of you with your suitcase and packed lunch in hand, with a smirk remaining ever so present on his face. you roll your eyes at jinwoo, taking both items away from him before giving him his usual morning kiss before you left for work.

as you slide on your shoes, you made a mental checklist of everything you had to accomplish at work today, ready to head out when jinwoo reappears with suho settled in his arms. his grey eyes were filled with love for you, with suho eagerly waving and saying ‘bai bai!’ to you. feeling your heart swell with love for your husband and son, you blow them both a kiss before heading out, ready to take on the day while knowing that the two boys that held the entirety of your heart would be at home waiting for you ♡

end notes: i am so ready to bask in this domestic fluff with my husband (⺣◡⺣)♡ he works so well as a house-husband,,,, i need this in my life!

all stories are written by rei; please do not repost, plagiarize, or translate my works!!

[simple-and-cozy-life]

[sissyren]

[moodyvoid]

If you’re confused as to whether I love or hate Hawks, let me be clear, I am also confused.

[viridwns]

I'm not proud to admit that Muzan sitting in that fancy ahh chair observing Nakime and leaning on his hand did smth to me. I wanna roundhouse kick his ass so bad(affectionately)

[kaatiljawani]

PrecKarwachauth shoot