#omega binghe

[lomlompurim]

Something born from a convo on twt

(Bingmei is still The Emperor and The HHP Palace Master but he spends more time with his family and house duties, and working hard into his dream of having a BIG family)

The tweet that inspired this, which I very much agree, omega Binghe supremacy

[happypeachsludgeflower]

Why does mxtx keep writing omega coded men and then announcing that they’re the top?? Not that I mind them being top?? But?? Binghe and Hua Cheng are so obviously bottom enthusiast, and Lan Wangji carnally desires being railed by Yilling Laozu, but these poor men are cursed to lives of top-hood.

[greeniegaes]

Thinking about Omega SQQ again sigh

Okay. So warning this is a male lactation AU so if you don’t like that don’t read, nothing explicit happens tho, just a guy and his pups

I imagine when he first goes into his body everything feels like he’s in haywire, constantly on edge and ready for a fight. Once he’s gotten the hang of things he uses his cultivation to try and simmer down his hormones.

Only to realize it was his cultivation preventing hormones that was making him feel like shit all the time.

So eventually he sighs and stops doing that. The first few days are bad, cramps and sickness and a general feeling of wanting to claw everyone’s eyes out. He gets through that though.

Then his breasts start to come in.

He knew PIDW has its weirder parts of omegaverse so he knew that this would happen. At first he starts binding his chest but that hurts SO SO SO much that he collapses on like the third day (he was also doing it improperly because it’s him, yk) and gets stuffed into Qian Cao

MQF: I was not aware shixiong was an omega

SQQ: I’ve only recently decided to stop holding myself back

MQF: it is recommended that you form a small pack of your disciples to help with your instincts and… that *waving at SQQs chest.*

SQQ: *screams internally.* Okay :)

At this point after like a week of just draining himself and going insane he finally gives up. LBH has already started living in the bamboo hut so he’s kinda the best option so he sits the boy down.

SQQ: Binghe, I hope you know this isn’t going to change anything but

LBH, thinking: oh my god no please don’t kick me out

SQQ: since this master has allowed his omega side back out he’s been struggling with his urges about thinking of his disciples like pups. If it’s not an offense to your character can I take some of it out on you

LBH, internally: YES YES YES PLEASE OH GOD YES I NEED IT

LBH, externally: If that would please shizun then sure :]

So they start a twice daily thing of in the morning and night LBH goes into SQQs room and his nest and gets feed. Apparently milk is hella good for the skin and shit because after a few weeks he starts to look flawless somehow.

And SQQ really wants to see his other kids- DISCIPLES flourish like that. He extends the offer to a close few and some look like they going to cry at the honor of their teacher wanting to take care of them.

LBH is still the main drinker and always wants to huff when he has to share, but he does it none the less. His Shizun gets really cute during feeding sessions, purring and chirping at them, fixing their hair and playing with it, scratching their scalp, the whole nine yards.

So LBH repays it by feeding SQQ more, which also makes him have more milk in turn. He huffs and complains at his body’s need to produce so much, his chest wayyy too heavy in the middle of the day to be comfortable, leaking and wasting everything.

He ignored that though, even if LBH and his other pups- disciples offer to help him.

Eventually after the Abyss his body is still making big amounts of milk because that’s what it was used to. Most of the time he just gets it out himself and pours it into the grass, often now also starting his other feedings.

Everything starts to get to him and he’s decided that staying on the mountain is no good. So he sneaks out, by himself, in search of something to heal his heart.

All the peak lords and disciples are going crazy, nobody can find him and nobody knows where he could’ve gone. Eventually while LQG is talking to a random villager out in a border town of their territory he sees SQQ again, arms filled with two pudgy babies and looking ever so pleased.

SQQ: Oh! Hi Shidi

SQQ internally: OH FUCK I FORGOT ABOUT THE SECT

LQG: where have you been???

SQQ: sorry sorry babies are hard work I didn’t want to travel alone with them

LQG, wanting to have an aneurysm but can’t: let me just help you home

On one hand the entire sect is so relieved that SQQ didn’t die of heartbreak over losing his favorite pup or get kidnapped. On the other hand SQQ??? Where’d you’d acquire those babies?? They aren’t yours, it’s only been 6 months!!

Anyways after SQQ is safely back in the sect he doesn’t see a point in leaving. I mean! Look! Look at his pups! So cute and round! One of them has little dimples!

The other peak lords carefully go to see what was going on, YQY opening the door to the bamboo house after being told to come in and all of them are just smacked with happy omega pheromones, SQQ gently cradling them both in his arms as he rocks in a chair.

At that point all of the peak lords decide that yk, maybe it doesn’t matter how the children were acquired. They were well feed and cared for and obviously SQQ was happy again.

(He got the children from a working in the WRP, she had wanted babies and all her sisters were supportive but then she realized she didn’t like being a parent but you also can’t morally just… dispose of a child. SQQ visited there once in his depression stoop and stayed for a few days after falling in love with the kiddos. Then he just went on an adventure with his babies and got distracted by the cool world building.)

[everytimewetouch-dot-mp3]

svsss disciple au where normal human sy transmigrates into the hit omegaverse stallion novel PIDW, as…an omega disciple in the same year as binghe.

like there’s nothing wrong with being an omega. obviously. that’s sexist or something, right? being an omega is totally fine and normal, it’s just— why couldn’t he be a beta? like he knew there was no chance of him being an alpha, not when he’s basically a self-insert side character in binghe’s story. but he could’ve been normal at least.

instead, he’s got to deal with this weird obsession with the way people smell, and he feels itchy when he doesn’t have enough pillows to sleep with, and he’s eventually gonna go into heat, and it’s all a bit much, okay?!

plus… he lost some jewels in the transmigration. important ones between his legs… and it’s not like he was hung in his first life or anything, but his dick was definitely bigger at this age in his first life. this thing is like, tiny. and now he’s got this stupid hole that leaks WAY MORE than pidw ever said it would. airplane made it sound like it only did that right before binghe and some omega got down to papapa, but he keeps finding his inner clothes uncomfortably damp when it’s time to bathe.

…and sometimes around binghe, it just gets worse. binghe smells better than anything in the world—like milk bread and the first light of morning and the relief of finally finding something you’ve been missing for ages. nobody else smells like that. like coming back home from the road after months, years away. usually, that scent is a warm comfort like nothing else, but sometimes it turns hot, and sy feels his face go hot, and his breath goes a little shallow, and then the leaking between his legs gets so much worse.

isn’t all this a touch too much suffering for one poor transmigrator? it really isn’t fair at all, and sy curses airplane’s name into the dirt every time it happens.

[lryghe]

Thinking about omegaverse SVSSS au’s and I saw one that had luo binghe as an omega. And the thought stuck with me because if PIDW had been an omegaverse novel, it would have been so interesting if Luo Binghe was an omega. That would explain a lot of the initial interest people like Shen Yuan would have had in the novel. An omega who overcomes the prejudice against his secondary sex and wins against alpha after domineering alpha, all to become a stallion protagonist who defies traditional conventions? Incredible work Airplane! 

Unfortunately, he fumbles (as expected), and Luo Binghe gets absolutely no development as an omega. He never goes into heat, or maybe when he goes down into the Abyss, he comes back out as an alpha anyway. Wasted potential, and Shen Yuan dies of food poisoning because he was so busy ranting about how his precious Luo Binghe never got bred (and when he wakes up as the scum alpha SQQ, he very desperately wants out).

[yoyowrites]

have we considered alpha!binghe that feels the need nest. he spent much of his formative years in turmoil. before shen yuan he was tormented, then a few years of respite, and bam he's sent into the abyss. so he's picked up a few things that makes him feels safe. one of which is being surrounded by his shizun's scent.

some would find it odd. binghe is a large domineering alpha. still, he bundles up some of shen yuan's clothes and curls around them as though he was a puppy.

he's not in any danger (he never really was but he didn't know that) but sometimes he still feels like there will be danger around the corner. not just for him, he can protect himself, but his shizun, his shen qingqui, he's fragile and can be taken away from him at any moment. the only thing that calms his nerves is his shizun.

[10thmusemoon]

saw your omega yqy post and i must know, if yqy and sj had another baby after shen yuan (after they officially get together and openly COMMUNICATE about their feelings) how would that go? how would sj feel about it knowing that yqy loves him? how would yqy feel knowing (or at least suspecting) that sj is actually looking forward to their second child?

CW: omegaverse, jiuqi, 97

Despite a breeding kink definitely being present I don’t think SJ would want another kid! But that’s not how omegaverse goes so of course there would be another!

There was so much trepidation with the first child, so naturally he’s anxious at the beginning. Jealousy and hunger are such an integral part of who Shen Jiu that he is that he puts himself in a box of how he should feel, how he expects himself to act like he did the first time around. It was such a resentful and miserable time for him that he’s not looking forward to it at all.

SJ is so used to planning for the worst that the good always blindsides him.

A stable relationship means that this time around he doesn’t have to restrain himself at all. SJ can scent yqy as he wishes and bury his face in the sect leader’s neck for hours, getting drunk off the smell of a happy pregnant omega knowing “I did this, qi-ge is this happy because of Me.”

He can enjoy the changes this causes in yqy this time around instead of thinking it’s a parasite changing him into something unfamiliar.

There was a very real fear in yqy that SJ wouldn’t want anything to do with them after Shen yuan was born that just isn’t an issue this time around. Yqy would have been overly independent the first time around, partly because of not wanting to bother SJ but mostly because that’s who he is. When he tries to pull the same shit this time around SJ gets to gleefully bully yqy into resting and being spoiled. For once yqy can’t ignore him to stay up and finish more paperwork because SJ will immediately weaponize the baby’s health against him.

(SJ becomes a menace on Qian Cao peak and MQF morns the time when he knew less about his shixiongs sex life and they used to avoid medical care)

The pregnancy sex is filthy, but more body worship than degradation happening for once. (We’re not talking about the lactation kink but it’s real.) SJ looks at YQY flushed and full, pressed against a nest of the softest most expensive materials available and thinks, “I won. This is mine, mine, mine.”

Pride and smug satisfaction define the second pregnancy.

This is the life Shen Jiu was owed, all the years of hell were for this. Everyone that ever looked down on him was wrong, they would all eventually die with their aspirations on their tongues while Shen Jiu lives as a powerful immortal with a spoiled Qi-ge on his arms.

(The barefoot and pregnant omega fantasy is strong this time around and if only yqy could just stop giving a shit about the sect for two seconds to make it a reality!!)

YQY is over the moon with all this, similar to Shen Jiu there’s less restraint going on and he allows himself the full range of emotions. On more than one occasion he finds himself tearing up with a silent joy that sends SJ into panicked spirals that typically end with a flustered “we could have had this earlier if you weren’t an idiot about things!!”

Not only that but also with jealousy, he isn’t just a thing that belongs to SJ (though he is!) this time around but also someone that has just as much a claim to his beautiful husband. There is a certain smugness to his status a a powerful pregnant omega with an ethereal husband when they have meetings with outsiders. Also he fully milks (lol) his rights as an omega to have his alpha come everywhere (lol x2) with him “for his safety.”

(If YQY wasn’t the sect leader they surely would have been thrown out for public indecency.)

If with Shen Yuan SJ had been a reluctant father with his first pet, then with baby 2 he is suddenly the obnoxious show dog owner that thinks he’s better than you.

The difference is that Shen Yuan was Qi-ge’s baby, and the goodness of him was because of that association, it was the saving grace from the poison he would inherit from SJ.

Baby two is his, they’re all his, because it’s what Shen Jiu deserves. They are his victory and his pride and he radiates condescension for his superior family that he built.

(YQY is so into this baby 3 might be a given)

[mylifeisfruk4ever]

“It's your fault,” Shen Qingqiu hissed as he felt yet another pang in his stomach.

He was hungry, angry, missed his husband, away on a mission in the demon realm, and was eight months pregnant. 

He was too far along in his pregnancy to be able to work with the students, and he was stuck in his bamboo house with the most useless being in the world.

That rat bastard Shang Qinghua looked offended, “My fault? Your husband is responsible! I am innocent, totally!”

He wanted to take him by the throat and slowly choke him. He growled, “Who thought it was a good idea to write a straight novel about an omegaverse world?!”

Shang Qinghua raised his hands, “In my defense, omegaverse was the trend at the time.”

“You took away any possibility of your protagonist having a male omega wife. If I had, maybe I would have understood that he didn't want to kill me!

The other Peak Lord frowned, “I tried, but apparently the public didn't like male omegas, so I gave him lots of omega sisters and some alphas.”

“What's the point of writing an omegaverse if you have to make it straight anyway?!” Shen Qingqiu shouted at him, wishing he had his fan handy.

“Brother, I had to think about the bills!” Shang Qinghua whimpered. “Have some understanding. “

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[asexual-angsty-writer]

Beta!Liu Qingge

Like, My brain just keeps replaying this idea:

Airplane added Omegaverse into his stallion novel because of an online friend he had, called 'Asexual-Menace' (Don't ask about the naming convention), who just kept brainrotting A/B/O.

But like, they had an extra focuse oj the socialization, how each dynamic would work, what are their differences and even fleshed out Betas as a subgender. Which, Airplane indulged in and eventually, asked to add their friends ideas into his stallion novel.

'Ace' would often beta read any of his begging drafts, encourage him and even help him with world building — which is why the Omegaverse became a part of PIDW

Though eventually, between Ace... no longer being around and Airplane needing to pay rent, a lot of things were left ambiguous, implied, personal information or small scenarios he wrote to get out of creative ruts at like 1 am.

What came as a consequence, is that all that background information becomes very tangible situations once he transmigrates as Shang Qinghua.

Luckily for him, SQH is a Beta, and thus, he doesn't need to deal with the A/O aspect.

Now he gets to deal with the Beta-aspects his friend had written, which are both good and horrible:

Pros: Great sense of smell, naturally boosted stamina, faint scents that don't stick easily/harder to track, No heats/ruts, rarely goes feral, levelheadedness is easier to maintain, pack-driven which means he can blend into crowds if need be.

Cons: Being the most responsible of subgenders, ferality is a dangerous thing for betas and usually leads to qi-diviations in Beta cultivators, need to run pack-mating cycles, needs to care for Alphas/Omegas/Pups equally, instinctual inclination to battle other betas to release stress

So, he's in a meh state, but overall — prefers to be a Beta.

Though, there was just one plot line he never thought he'd get to see through — but thanks to our resident Cucumber-bro, SY saved Liu Qingge's life and let's the plot line unfold.

You see, Liu Qingge became a peak lord without presenting — he's a late bloomer. His Qi-diviation was actually related to this fact, for obvious reasons; as not presenting makes it so bottlenecks are harder to break.

Though thanks to him being Alive, he eventually does present and as a Beta.

All of his readers assumed LQG is an Alpha and a lot of in-world characters did too — but that was never the case. LQG was meant to be a sort of mentorly-rival/Mid-Boss for LBG to learn/fight with. Him being a Beta was important to that.

Because Betas don't have strong scents, meaning not catching it in time or taking seconds too long to follow it, ends with it disappearing.

In Airplane's drafts, LBG would face off against a semi-recently presented LQG. A LQG who now has the natural boosts of being a Beta, alongside having had several major breakthroughs that were being held back due to him still being a 'pup' in that regard.

LBG would be arrogant, then be knocked down a peg by the War God himself — outlasting expectations and disappearing in tight spaces like corridors because his scent is so faint, LBG can't catch it for more than seconds — while LBG's scent is overwhelming, meaning LQG has the natural advantage. A play of nature/instincts + wisdown/strategy between the Alpha Demon lord and the Beta War God.

There's another layer to this, being a subversion of expectations — LQG had a presence; the way he stood, his tone and cadence, the way he carried himself in and out of battle. It makes sense, when you take stereotypes into consideration that he'd be an Alpha — but thats exactly why 'Ace' argued against it. Why they instead brought the idea of a Beta being the war god and how that would give a better showcase of how A/B/O and the subgenders can manifest the same instincts in different ways.

The readers, just like the characters in the drafts, are meant to be fooled by expectations then be blind sided.

Obviously, that was scrapped for the original novel but now, SQH gets to witness such a thing — though Obviously different to how he imagined it.

Since the Original SQH was the eldest beta amongst them, that means HE has to be the one to help LQG through those first stages of adapting to the changes in your body, to this new hypersensitivity, to the way your qi and meridians slowly change to adapt and the new instincts that come with being a Beta.

LQG has this earthy scent, like fresh soil, mixed in with some scent oil — something remenicent of the oil they use to clean/polish their swords.

Airplane would be so happy to see the plot line him and 'Ace' made come into fruition in some capacity.

Then it would spiral into something he didn't expect, because BingLiuShen + 'Compatible scents'

He was cursing at himself and the 'compatible scent' bs he had made for some of the wife-plots to work.

[tireddemi]

A Broken Heart Still Beats. - Prologue Part I (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1394567214-a-broken-heart-still-beats-prologue-part-i?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=TiredDemi&wp_originator=AhOEqP8YcWC3Es15JPF9%2FMqAU8RJX58WASBzCXSdtY99geOcZcH7BjE9Gs5H92ipjSZELBo2YYs8kdp5una81Vj%2FxBdGh33Jxszg518ExTlIjAyRs3i%2BVDB%2FmQFX2guo 

They say a broken heart is useless, but what if it is that broken heart that will be the most priceless? 

Born into the world of Proud Immortal Demon Way not once, but twice! Shen Yuan must figure out a way to make sure that the original fate of his first life in this fucked up world doesn't happen...again! 

All while having to avoid two people in particular! Liu Qingge and Luo Binghe! Determined to make sure that his brothers actually survive in this life and that he and his best friend: Shang Qinghua don't die for a third time, Shen Yuan is going to have to learn a few new things and reveal truths from two past lives! 

Also, why the hell does he have a system in this life too?! He wants a refund!

[truly-morgan]

[a|b|o, Alpha to omega]

BingQiu | Scum Villain Self-Saving System Omegaverse, switching dynamic, plant body 22-03-2021

[#bingqiu a/b/o]

What if, when he first transmigrated, sqq was an alpha? He quickly got used to it and found it to be rather useful. alpha has more power and it also help to deal with lbh who is also an alpha ("obviously, how could he be anything else?" sqq had thought) but what if when he destroyed himself to save lbh from a qi deviation and get rebirth into the sun/moon flower body, he realises that this body is not an alpha, but an omega? making him change his opinion pretty quickly on the whole dynamic that comes with omegaverse "Sorry airplane bro, I should have believed you when you said it sucks to be an omega" he thought nearly immediately.

Still, he has to deal with it, learning as best as he can despite still having the attitude of an alpha because of his previous body. he tries to stay away from trouble, but of course, his story cannot stray from lbh, so he ends up forced to go at Huan Hua Palace. It's a totally different story now than to deal with lbh who has changed so much, but also could easily overpower him if he's not careful enough around him.

Yet he realises soon that despite how scary the demon king is now, something about him is just so calming and makes him want to be around more. He could pick up his scent from rooms away or when there are many other alphas. These things scare him rather quickly he /cannot/ be attracted to his disciple who's still obsessed with his older body.

Not when lbh hates how similar he looks to his original body and not when he's here simply to be drained from his spiritual energy. Yet when he ends up in his dream, he decides to enjoy that moment where he can be closer to him. Although it is a bit different since this α!sqq body cannot pick up his scent like Ω!sqq can, but he enjoys it the most he can, because it is better than outside the dreams.

Then his first heat come and he realise nothing scarier could have ever happened when he was still in HHP. He's absolutely terrified to be found out by lbh who would probably think he was trying to lure him away from his shizun with his similar face and now his scent and heat. So he tries hiding in his room in the palace, which is a bit isolated from the main hall, having never noticed what other omegas here were doing when they were in heat. 

He was pretty sure they were just going away from HHP for a while or would shut themselves in the farthest room. 

But he doesn't have that luxury, so he just hides in the corner of his room, trying to repress his scent and heat so he won't be noticed. Of course, luck is not on his side and this is when lbh decides to come to his room to talk to him about the spiritual energy, only to find a trembling sqq in the corner of the room, backing himself up even more in the corner of the room, looking at him terrified.

He first looks angry at this reaction, but surprisingly tries to calm himself. when he sees him approach sqq tries to beg him not to come closer and apologising for the situation, telling him he will not let such a thing happen again in the future. He closes his eyes when he gets too close, waiting for whatever lbh was going to do, only to jump when he feels a heavy outer robe being dropped on him.

the smell is more stronger than he ever managed to catch and he hugs it closer to him, feeling comfort in it. He looks up to see a lbh breathing heavily, pupil blown wide before he just turns around and leaves the room, slamming it shut and yelling some orders he cannot hear well. All he knows is that no one came to bother him and he managed to relax a bit, wrapping himself in the robe left behind by lbh.

When he's finally out of his heat, he doesn't miss the weird looks he gets, not realising he still had lbh scent on him. He awkwardly tries to discreetly give him back his robe, of course not without washing it as best as he could until his own scent was not on it anymore (it still was, what do you expect, he was in heat, but lbh doesn't say anything).

The rest of the story follows canon, only that sqq has to be more careful than before, not wanting to be randomly mated to anyone. lbh becomes instead even more obsessed with protecting him now that he's not an alpha, not wanting for anyone to take his shizun away from him.

Of course, this all has a happy ending, where sqq ends up accepting lbh as a mate and still rules over Qing Jing Peak, only now he has a demon lord ready to tear apart anyone who tries anything on him (and disciple ready to do the same).

Original

[waitineedaname]

Love pregnant Binghe, wish there was more of it around and omega Binghe too. He would love SQQ fussing over him and giving him all the attention.

ngl opening my activity feed and seeing "love pregnant binghe" felt like getting the wind knocked out of me slkdjflksdjf

you're right thought, he would love getting spoiled by SQQ, and I think he would be so emotional knowing he's carrying Shizun's baby. however I do think about that one comic where SQQ imagines Binghe being pregnant and hormonal lmao he would potentially be an absolute terror dealing with pregnancy hormones

[everytimewetouch-dot-mp3]

svsss omegaverse secondary sexes because i have brain worms

this was actually kind of hard. on one hand, pidw is a stallion novel written mostly as fan-service, so of course there’s gonna be lots of papapa between the mega-ultra-super-alpha and all his pretty omega flowers. airplane would’ve written it to be the horny drivel that is, in some sense, the beloved heart of omegaverse.

on the other hand, eye personally think omegaverse can be so much more interesting than ‘alpha=masculine powerful manly man, omega=feminine weak submissive and breedable.’ gentle alphas, delicate alphas, powerful feminine regardless of gender. aggressive omegas, assertive omegas, direct and violent and capable omegas regardless of gender. that’s good fuckin soup, and i feel like that probably existed in airplane’s original drafts before he started pumping out the fanservice.

ANYWAYS, this is the list:

shen yuan: omega, much to his chagrin

luo binghe: alpha (obviously)

ning yingying: omega

ming fan: beta

shen qingqiu: alpha (half-bitched, but his condition is managed and no one but mqf knows)

yue qingyuan: alpha (but he’s got a whole thing going on on too)

mu qingfang: beta

qi qingqi: beta

liu qingge: beta (which is the shock of shocks to shen yuan when he finds out)

liu mingyan: alpha

shang qinghua: beta

mobei-jun: alpha

sha hualing: beta

tianlang-jun: alpha

zhuzhi-lang: omega

su xiyan: beta

old washerwoman: beta

old palace master: beta (but he hides it with fake pheromones, medicines, qi manipulation, and magical artifacts)

little palace mistress: omega

gongyi xiao: alpha

qiu jianluo: alpha

qiu haitang: omega

almost all of bingge’s harem: omegas

[marquisguyun]

I drew omega!Luo Binghe for @bingqiuminibang! I’ll share my partner’s fic in a reblog.

[utatsonjen]

Q: Бинхэ, коллекционировал ли ты вещи учителя? Использовал ли их или нет-нет, ни в коем случае?

Нарисовано для системного аска в вк.

[sekhmetpaws]

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: 人渣反派自救系统 - 墨香铜臭 | The Scum Villain's Self-Saving System - Mòxiāng Tóngxiù Rating: Mature Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Luò Bīnghé/Shěn Yuán | Shěn Qīngqiū Characters: Luò Bīnghé, Shěn Yuán | Shěn Qīngqiū Additional Tags: Alpha/Beta/Omega Dynamics, Character Study, Homophobia, But Shen Yuan is here what did you expect, Alpha Shěn Yuán | Shěn Qīngqiū, Omega Luò Bīnghé, Dream Sex, Dreamscapes, Manipulation, but as in bingqiu's whole dynamics, Luo Binghe changes his presentantion, Gray Lotus Luò Bīnghé, a lot of head pets Summary:

Luo Binghe doesn't want to be a hero, he just wants to a wife.