#the bisexual spectrum

[randommothxd]

Pride artt

[Cw/tw: small references to s3x and eye strain]

MLM is a giraffe and the WLW is a whiptail lizard

Giraffes are the most gay animal,according to studies.and,whiptail lizards are a female only species /srs/pos

Song they're listening to:

[bisexualsafespace]

We don’t owe you simplicity.

Good.

[the-rainbow-suit-dude]

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A FUN/FUNNY POLL

POLL IS OPEN TO ANYONE IN THE QUEER COMMUNITY

[random-colorpicked-pride-flags]

Pride Flags Colorpicked from Nebulas

[justdavina]

SEXY HOT Cross-Dresser! Her outfit is PURRR fect! I just love leopard skin dresses!

[lelet-draws]

Being biromantic is feeling disconnected to both of your communities, because so much asexual content revolves around aromanticism and so much bi content revolves around sex.

[snitforsnat]

part 1 - snail themed pride banners! FREE to use! ko-fi download part 2

[bloomshroomz]

So, we're ten days into pride month. Things are a bit confusing for me right now. I’m trying to figure out what I want, or what I need.

I know that I’m aromantic, but…

I want companionship. I want commitment.

I want to kiss someone. I want to make out with someone.

I want to cuddle and watch a movie with someone.

I want to spoil someone. I want to be spoiled.

I want to love someone. I want to be loved.

I want emotional intimacy. I want physical intimacy.

I want these things with multiple people.

I don’t see any of that as inherently romantic… Maybe it would be easier if I did? Something about that feels wrong, somehow. Why do I have to slap a romantic label on it by default, when I know that none of these things need to be confined to romance?

People aren’t usually committed to you unless you’re their partner. I’d like to have a few partners. Do I want that to be romantic, though? I mean, I know that I don’t want it to be romantic, because I don't want anything to be romantic. But, am I opposed to it?

I don’t know. I can’t tell.

Most people would call these feelings romantic. Why does it feel so much more complicated to me? Why do I have this weird disconnect?

Sometimes I feel like it would be easier if I just tossed out the aromantic part of who I am. Just being bisexual would make things so simple. But I don't think I can just flip a switch like that. Can I?

Do other people feel this way?

Is it just me?

Edit - 6/20/2024

A lot of people have been giving me the same advice over and over, and while I appreciate the sentiment, I've probably heard it before. Like, a lot of "you should look into QPRs/cupioromanticism/bellusromanticism/etc." when I've already known about those things for years.

Please read this post before giving advice or input, especially if it involves labels or attraction/relationship types. I know a lot about labels and attraction/relationship types; my struggle isn't coming from a lack of vocabulary. Thank you.

[radlymona]

Okay but no it doesn’t:

We know exactly what these colours stand for because the creator has said so less than 30 fucking years ago!!!

[randommothxd]

Omnisexual and pansexual :D

I literally have no idea how to draw holding hands ;_;

Characters: sped up (pan) onme(omni)

Their name is Sped Up,because,i was listening to sped up music while drawing them!!!

[psychcollegeau]

Gus: Guys is it gay to have fantasies about other dudes?

Shawn: Nah, I do that all the time

Gus: That doesn't help my case

Lassie: It's pretty straight. As long as it's not full on sex. Some over the clothes action is fine though.

Jules: I fully relate to all of this, but have you guys considered this. Women.

Shawn: *collapses dramatically* WOMEN

Gus: Yeah we're totally straight, right?

Lassie: Right. Definitely.

[super-ace]

On this last day of Pride Month I just wanna say that I’m so glad you’re here and I’m so glad you’re queer 🌈

[just--a--random--human--being]

[morsobaby]

Remember to support severely mentally ill people this pride month btw!! If someone's identity is caused by delusions that's not your fucking place to come tell them they're wrong. If someone's identity is caused by trauma that's none of your fucking business. If someone identifies with one label due to comfort or shared experiences even though some other label would "fit better" don't fucking comment. And leave those fucking plural and autistic Xenogender people, whose genders revolve around their headspace, alone!

We need to be aware and willing to accept that mental illness does often affect one's queerness and is often in a complex relationship with it. You do not!! Get a free pass to invalidate someone's identity based on their mental or physical health.

[garlicbreadish]

every single day i wonder whether i'm aroace or bisexual or just an aroace who is biplatonic. sigh, hard times we live in😓✊

[that-girl-glader]

Spot the difference games getting harder and harder....