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no, first you say well done and then you yell at me.
#yes!#congratulations!#i put a shit ton of effort into this!#i worked really hard!#because this is my favourite event of the year!#exactly!#and#i put loads of work in#because! because i love it!#yes maybe other people arent doing as much#yes maybe thats because it doesnt mean as much to them#thats okay!#i dont mind!#i worked because i wanted it more than quite a lot of other things#so before you start yelling#you can say#well done
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Respectfully, some people on here need to learn the difference between bad writing and personal preference
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whoopsie-daisie hit reblog too fast
#supporting mental health conditions is not the same as enabling them but god forbid anyone on tumblr have fucking nuance. or care#Please brush your teeth and take a shower and clean your bedroom#if you cant do these things all at once or have trouble doing them#thats okay!#but You have to do them#Ok#You have to do them. And you have to recognize that not being able to them are harmful behaviors#hygiene isnt just about like... its not just superficial? you know?#and youre going to get really sick if you dont! okay!#same with cleaning your room! it can be super dangerous to your health if you never clean up#AND living in clutter is not good for the mental all the time! trust me ive been there#if you have trouble cleaning your room *takes your hand* its okay. so do i#if you have trouble keeping up with your hygiene *takes your hand* its okay. so do i!#but we shouldnt continue to enable these behaviors#and anyone who does and claims to be doing so in interest of supporting 'mental health' is#just a fucking liar#who needs help themselves#imho as someone whos in recovery :/#Please andastand sometimes you gotta do things that are hard that u dont like because they are good for you and your physical health#as well as your mental health too
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RAGE. AUGHHH. AUUUGHHH UAHGHGHGHGHG UUGHGHAHGAHGGHHHHHH.
YANDERE DEV DOESNT EVEN KNOW WHAT SENPAI MEANS. HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO HOLD CHOPSTICKS THE RIGHT WAY. WHAT THE FUCK. WHY.
#yandere simulator#yandere simulator neg#sorry but seeing this stuff makes me SO FUCKING MAD.#its fine if you mispronounce japanese words#its fine if you take your own spin on certain japanese things#thats okay!#but THIS SHIT#MAKIGN A GAME. THAT TAKES PLACE IN JAPAN. WHILE NOT KNOWING WHAT THE WORD SENPAI MEANS#AND HAVING YOUR CHARACTERS CROSS THEIR GODDAMN CHOPSTICKS. IN JAPAN#WHAT THE HELL
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(academics who are officially on holiday break raise your glasses)
#i am so tired#i dont think how much i can repeat that#i am a new level of tire#and i am very much looking forward to just going to work like a normal person#i dont have a day off but#thats okay!#im just going to work!#this is premature#as i am still in zoom class as we speak#but.
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TW/CW:scopophobia
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"I..." He paused. "I'm aware now." It whispered. "I just didn't really expect it to be this way!" He continued.
Kuhuhuhuhoo! Isn't L's new hairstyle cute‽ Yeah it's short but it's so cute and curly wurly!! I'm sure Julie would love to help style L's hair, especially for events and occasions! Maybe You would like to join in too?
#welcome home#welcome home oc#I'm here#Hello#Ive seen the others#I like some. they're funny#except for that one#he's so scary when he's sick#but I think it's cute when he's frowny!#Red really suits him!#:)#I also thought poppy being brave was cute!#Sally's cute as a moon#they also wore black too#but they were a bit mean#thats okay!#i still love them!#I kinda miss how things used to be though.#digital aritst#Persona#I#am#aware
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//merry christmas to all those that celebrate today! also happy hanukkah, happy kwanzaa and all the love to every other holiday that happens this time of year that I have not listed. if this is a hard time of year for you (as I'm sure it is for many of us) then I'm sending hugs & kisses to all of you, if you so consent. hang in there lovelies, you got this//
#they say its the happiest time of year and I just dont think thats realistic#I hope everyone tries to have as great a holiday as they can#spend time with family#self care#eat yummy food#do whatever you can to smile today folks#and if you cant?#thats okay!#theres always tomorrow or the day after#laughing my anxiety off {ooc}
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MY FAVORITE GHOST OF CHRISTMAS' PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE!!!!
#i make yet anothet post just for me 👍#1k#2k#3k#4k#5k#10k#okay thats enough everyone stop rbing this now Please#20k
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I have a new artwork to post but I am sooo nervous 😭😭😭
#and for WHAT#itll get no notes cause its not louis 😔😔#but still!#thats okay!#archer shoots the shit
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life of regret
#fiddleford mcgucket#fiddleford#gravity falls#my art#no way . i had all of these tags written out on mobile ab stanford and fiddleford post fallout and it CRASHEDDDD#THEYRE GONEEEWW (slipping thru my fingers like sand)#whag freaking ever . i was just talking about how i always forget theres a pocket of time between their split and fords disappearance#and how crazy it is that i had no idea fidds used the gun on ford until last month#it just unlocked smt in my brain thats all.👐 and then i said i was smashing my head w a rock. maybe even 20❤️#tbh i was neutral on fidds back then but i rly rly like him now T_T .. power of other fidd enjoyers lifting me up#i had a lot of fun coloring this one but i didnt know what exactly i wanted to do w it . i had fidds and the gun all finished#but i was like uhhh.. >added the wrapped light#and then i added a whole bunch of scribbled soc of the blind eye symbols but it was waay too crowded/busy#i wish i couldve found a way to keep them😧 u know when HAHAHAHAH u know those ugly like#math prints of just random equations . thats what it started looking like n i had 2 tap out#editing 2 say i posted this and i had that panic NOOO WAIT ITS JOT FINISHED but I Will be Okay.<say it w me#if i spend too much time on it ill just overwork it and then never share so -__-
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Happy pride, have a half formed idea i had at 2 am
#the lack of direction in this comic might be obvious. but thats okay#unlabeled stan headcanon is gonna be making reappearances this pride (if i escape art block)#and im gonna be really gay abt ford which is cool#gravity falls#gravity falls comic#stan pines#dipper pines#mabel pines#happy pride everyone#yes the last panel is a sailor moon reference
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going absolutely insane because this is one of my favorite quotes from the book
#dracula#dracula daily#re: dracula#jonathan harker#rosary#crucifix#dracula fanart#digital art#illustration#artists on tumblr#csp#clip studio paint#I WANTED TO DRAW THIS LAST YEAR BUT COULDN'T FIGURE OUT HOW I WANTED IT TO LOOK#i love how this came out#art#and i know the rosary is LARGE but i think thats okay lol#it's modeled after the rosary i have!
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"wdym you're a man, you were born a girl and youll always be one" = general transphobia directed at a trans guy
"why would you want to be a man, all men are horrible" "clearly you only want to be a man so you arent oppressed anymore" "gender traitor" = transandrophobia
#the fag speaks#transandrophobia#trans#important#apparently im posting about this now you can block the tag if you dont wanna see it for wtv reason#alsooo disclaimer this is just how i perceive it#if you would classify this stuff differently thats okay!
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what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?
i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?
a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?
in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.
girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.
there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.
for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.
something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.
is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.
most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."
a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.
#warm up#writeblr#this one has bothered me for a bit#any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime#hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying#as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing#like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts#why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge#''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it#ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace#if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!!#men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible#ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing#the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....
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in spite of everything, I had fun <3
#my art#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#jjk fanart#jjk spoilers#jjk manga spoilers#jjk leaks#yuji itadori#fushiguro megumi#nobara kugisaki#itafushikugi#jjk 271#well we made it :'>#im kind of ignoring a lot of the tag rn ghsdff ik people are upset#if u follow me u know th full extent of my thoughts on the wrapping up of the series but tl;dr the caption says it all#this series meant a lot to me and im working on a bigger tribute to fully express that love and gratitude#but take a redraw 2 tide u over for now#im just so happy. its bittersweet but those r my kids n theyre tgt and theyre okay#i think the return to normalcy is good fr them. i say let them rest n b together n process everything in time#/i'm/ satisfied with what i got out of jjk as a whole and that's all that matters to me#however ik that not everyone shares tht sentiment n thats valid!#regardless of how u feel abt the finale i hope that u at least take time to remember things abt the series that brought u joy#thats all i can say#oh yeah anyway i lightened up megumi's expression his face is so funny in that panel i can't believe he really said -_- until the very end#still tho i think megu deserves a content lil smile
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Tommy basically said "the DSMP was good because it was, and still is, loved" and that basically sums up my feelings on the matter too.
#sure you can talk about the controversies about former members#and how the types of people involved in the writing shaped the narrative in ways that are increasingly troubling to look at#but it was also a project that was and still is loved by many of the (to our knowledge) better people involved#and it inspired so many artists and writers and musicians#people made friends through it#it helped people get through the worst parts of lockdown#my opinion of the dsmp for a while now has been pretty bitter. even when i wanted to remember it fondly it was tainted#and i dont think the worst aspects of the story or the ccs should be ignored#but its also so nice to have the opinion of 'yeah. it was good'#despite everything else there was something worthwhile in the dsmp#dsmp#tommyinnit#okay thats enough dsmp posting in 2024 lmao
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