#system love

[stuffie-medical-vents]

Here's everyone's quick reminder that people who use disability aids part-time are still valid and are still disabled. <3

[hellhoundzzz]

Doing an "i love you [xyz] systems" post ,, haven't done this before and I'm bad at words so please bear with me on wording and possible repeats !!

this post will be directed towards traumagenics and "endos" who don't remember their trauma or think it "wasn't enough".

⸻ I am not in support of genuinely endogenic "systems"

I love you systems with high alter counts

I love you systems with low alter counts

I love you systems with "normal" alters

I love you systems with "weird" / "abnormal" alters

I love you systems who split easily / a lot

I love you systems who barely split at all

I love you systems with high introject counts

I love you systems with high anp counts

I love you systems with high nonhuman counts

I love you systems with problematic sources

I love you systems with fictives

I love you systems with factives

I love you systems with complex innerworlds

I love you systems with simple innerworlds

I love you systems with "weird" innerworlds

I love you systems with no / low access to innerworld

I love you systems with high / easy access to innerworld

I love you systems with high dissociative barriers

I love you systems with low dissociative barriers

I love you systems with high amnesia

I love you systems with low amnesia

I love you systems with disabilities, mental and physical

I love you heavily disordered systems

I love you systems who are able bodied

I love you systems who want final fusion

I love you systems who just want to co exist w their alters

I love you systems who remember their trauma

I love you systems who don't remember their trauma

I love you systems who remember their trauma slowly during healing

I love you systems with alter-to-alter / insys relationships

I love you systems who hate their alters

I love you systems who love their alters

I love you systems with complex identities because they're a system

I love you systems with alters that are all really similar and hard to tell apart

I love you systems with alters who are completely different and easy to tell apart

I love you systems who can mask easily

I love you systems who cant mask easily

I love you systems who have alters w differing religions

I love you systems who have religious trauma and are still religious

I love you systems with a lot of alters / introjects based on their spins and hyperfixes

I love you systems who aren't in recovery yet

I love you systems who are in recovery

I love you systems who go through recovery "normally"

I love you systems who go through recovery "abnormally" or "weirdly"

I love you systems who are doing whats right for your systems needs and wants

I love you ramcoa systems

I love you programmed systems

I love you pf-did systems

I love you hc-did systems

I love you ic-did systems

I love you osdd systems

I love you p-did systems

I love you did systems

I love you c did systems

I love you systems who don't know their systype (osdd, did, etc)

I FUCKIJG LOGE YOU SYSTEMS !!!!!!!! ILY ILY OLY OLU OLY OLY ILY ILY ILY ILY ILY ILY ILY 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

[fish-n-friends]

i never truly intended to become plural. to have a sysmate. /neutral

(also syscourse sucks and makes nobody happy so leave that far away pls. thank you)

anyways. its very sweet that from a comic character represinting positive self speech and advocating for ones own health, a voice slightly seperate from my own developed

and one day, i thanked that voice for helping me, and she thanked me for making her. over and over.

she has slowly become more of her own person. it was never my plan, despite knowing systems both online and irl, i didnt intend us to develop into a co-op experience.

it was never hers, either. nowadays it is, kind of, since she loves to feel like her own person! but at the start, she was barely a fragment, she didnt have any of her own ambitions etc. she was a state of mind, growing more distinct and sentient over time.

i have recordings of us switching, and despite Proof Being Literally Right There, it was so easy to still deny and find any other excuse to what that is. Thats only a few months or so ago.

"Im just subconciously copying behaviours. i get stuck pretendinv or adapting someones elses speecb and mannerisms so this is probably the same thing again"

"She's like a mindset to be more productive/positive, like how you pretend to be a robot when you need to do monotonous work etc"

"I dont have any headmages or even hints of sysmates existing thus far. i know enough about plurality from frienss so id at least recognize some of the signs. i guess this is just me being weird"

(headmage typo is funny. shes a wizard now)

Even so, accepting a loose label of us being plural is much nicer than nitpicking our experiences and policing our own labels bc of others judgement.

I like leaning into it because she helps me, and I love feeling her beam with joy, I love how she picks me up just so I can eat something. Shes here for me so I want to make room for her too. I love her. this is a love letter now :)

thank you for being here and for all the work you do, fishface!! <3

(whenever you have more interests, ill get you some stuff you like or clothes to wear, i prommy !!)

[ancientpersacom]

Part 3 of alter self portraits and letters, Hypnos edition!

Thank you for having legible handwriting Hypnos, one of the few in the system who does lol. He asked me to do the line-art for him because he’s still working on his art skills, so our styles are very similar at the moment. But all the colouring and shading as well as the pose was done by the eeper himself!

Hypnos split during a horrific time in life, and I’m genuinely so thankful for him helping getting us through it and I’m so glad to see him happier and more at peace now. I’m so proud of you Hypnos, you deserve the world and you’re a wonderful parent :)

[neon-vocalist]

Are you an alter in a system? Is the host or another alter in your system kind of in hell rn and struggling to take care of themselves? Here’s a list of shit you can do to help them out. Body care edition.

First up. Get in the damn shower. If that’s all you’ve got in you, great! Bask in the warm water and enjoy your chill time, it’s still a good way to refresh. But while you’re in there, if you feel up to it…

Wash your hair with shampoo and/or put conditioner in it.

Use a sugar scrub or other exfoliant on your body, especially back, chest, and joints— this one’s especially good if you’ve been struggling to wash up lately.

On that note, wash your body with soap! If you don’t have a soft towel in arm’s reach, just slap it on there with your hands. Still does the job.

Wash your face.

Shave if you’re into that.

Wash your feet, ears, and neck— commonly forgotten places!

Maybe shampoo your hair again if you haven’t done so in a while.

Run the water cold at the end to theoretically benefit your hair, skin, and mood.

Once you’re out of the shower, you can do other body care stuff. For example—

Brush your teeth!

Maybe even floss them!

Use mouthwash if you want!

Use whatever skincare products you like and/or have on hand.

Use lotion in a scent you enjoy.

Use body spray or perfume in a scent you enjoy.

Use deodorant. Measure with the soul.

Brush or detangle your hair.

Style it or use a hair product if you feel so inclined.

Put on some chapstick or use a lip scrub.

Short section on medical care.

Take prescription meds if you have any.

Take Tylenol or other OTC stuff if you find you need it.

I find this one extremely important— clean and cover any applicable wounds on the body.

Get dressed in an outfit that’s comfortable and / or makes you happy. Now you can worry about stuff like food and drink.

Firstly, drink some water or any other beverage of choice. Caffeine is fine, sugar is fine, it doesn’t matter, it’ll still get SOME amount of water in you.

Then…

- If your host hasn’t been eating much or has been eating food that’s more quick & comforting than technically “healthy”— make or get a meal or snack with a focus on nutrition. Protein, plants, whatever.

- If your host has been eating the same stuff every day— make or get a meal or snack with a focus on variety. Colours! Textures! Tastes! Etc.

- Just generally, if your host or any of you have been down lately— make or get a meal or snack with a focus on comfort. Maybe something you’ve loved since you were little, or something you discovered more recently. Something that reminds you of someone or something you love. Just something to get your spirits up.

Finally, regardless— make or get yourself a little treat. You deserve it.

[brightside-of-the-moon]

New system positivity blog !!

ENDOS DNI

I've noticed most syspos blogs are either pro endo, anti persecutor, ect. So I've taken upon myself to create a new safe place for systems to talk about the bright side of systemhood !!

We believe that despite CDD's being a living hell to deal with having, we should still be able to focus on the good sides !! There's a good side to it still, it saved our lives and it's saved many others and there's still can be a fun side, despite the hard times we seek to break the demonization of systemhood.

Don't confuse us for thinking it's all fun, we understand that DID isn't all sunshine and rainbows, there's always hard times.

Asks may be in any format including but not exclusively to the following..

System positivity culture is..

Syspos culture is..

Being system positive is..

Or just straight up positivity without a format !!

We do not allow..

Demonizing persecutors

Demonizing systems

Harassment of any kind

Pro endos

Please read our main blogs DNI before following

[dr-049]

genuine question here. Why do some anti endos put “Traumagenic system” in their desc and/or tags?? Like why would you need to make that distinction if you don’t believe there are any other systems? That’s like a transphobic person calling themself cis. like I thought you didn’t like that???

[mossy-petrichor]

Love letter ~💌

"it's like a completely different type of love. like sharing a brain is fundamental to our bond"

An ode to in-sys love, not strictly romantic, but a unique kind of familial too. a beautiful thing we've been discovering as we integrate and heal

Both the drawings and the poem are by me. To Ilya, Boo and Florence, my loves. my family <3

[stuffie-medical-vents]

Somebody I was friends with on tiktok posted this and??? Fym 'narcissism flares'. Unfortunately this is how I find out she's ableist

Oh... wow. That sucks. I hate it when people just throw that word narcissist/narcissism at anyone who is rude or anything of the sort. It isn't okay. Hope you are doing well after that.

[the-astral-clump]

i luv system cuddles, i luv forming a big warm cuddle pile while trying to get the body to sleep and relax. i love being able to feel phantom touches or have someone take control of the body to give a comforting gesture -⭐️

[the-siphonophore]

Looking through my phone camera roll, nostalgic for the life I never lived- one of my more telling plurality moments that I didn't give thought for a long time, due to having enough mental illness that I figured that was it. Nope, that picture was taken by Solly, and that picture is from Hazel, and that one was Oni's, and none of them are mine because I'm not a visual thinker and I don't take many photos. Every now and then I'll wish I did, so I can have a place in the camera roll too, but then I remember I have lots of other places in my(our) life, like having dominated our saved-music files for over five years now, and developing our nearly system-wide artstyle. Life comes in many strange ways, but being a system has been one of my favorites

- Virgil

[fish-n-friends]

funniest switch weve had in a while.. simon made banana ice cream, tried it and really liked it.

he was in a convo w our bestie and then said hes gonna- and there i am before he finishes the sentence, starting to giggle like usual.

he was gonna tell them that he'll let me have the ice cream bc he knew i rly wanted to eat it when we prepped it days ago. :3c but i was faster hehe.....

[sscarred-starss]

Hi hello. Kei was talking about how much he loves when people are publicly romantic about their partners n. talk about em in posts n shit. so uh... this is that.

he reminds me of those cheesy, corny love songs that you can only really like if you're in love.

he's like discovering a new band and being absolutely obsessed, like, new favorite band type shi.

hes like a really soft hug, just a gentle, tight hug.

hes like getting home after a long day at work, and hearing your pet come running because they're so happy to finally see you again.

he's like... being tired. /pos

[eatinurgutz]

I told my father and mother and they said it's okay for me to not see her again ! So you won't have to worry about her anymore ! ^^

Well then will be the moth to your light my love !! (you are cuter !!!!)

And yay !!! That would be so fun ! But you better not eat to many sweets you get sick ! >:(. But I'd still take core of you of course ^^ ! I'll always take care of you ! (Because you are mine after all)

Well I'll give you three times as many the as the ones you give me ! You'll never out gift me my love ! Hehehe

And I hope if she calls you it goes well !! ^^

That would be appreciated :( he tried to put me in the foster system. But I'll also beat up the person who hit you ! And you don't have too love </3 😭

And your welcome my love ! One day closer to your birthday ! Mwah !!!! (It's always the second when I send this)

And I'd like to see you try watch me >:) I am the most unwatchable person ever !!!! Hehhehe !!! You know I saw that and you probably already found all my media accounts...

-Love Lyo !! Sleep well baby !!!

Ps. I'm sure once my parents would be to meet you they'll be fine because you are the best to exist !!!

Pps. I'll do my best dear ! Good night my love !! And as a hint, that you probably don't need, I'm a server booster >:]

YAYYY!! That's good, she wasn't worthy of you, anways. . .

Yipppsee. . . Let's be moths together. :3. (nun uh, you are.)

Aaa. . . I'll try not too. :) and yayy!! I'll take care of you, dear. <33 (you are mine as well.)

Aaaa. . . >:( dkdnwkskrkwe I'll just give 100x times more than you. :3 heheeehe. . . Try and beat THAT! >:33

Thank you, lyo. I hope so too. :)

Hmm. . . Well i won't let him try to do that EVER again. I'll make sure he never sees you, touches you, or is even 100 miles near you. :3 (Because no one cam hurt MY baby.)

YESSS!! It's still the 11th over here. . . :c almost 12am though~! :3 mwahhh. ❣️

Aaaaa. . . You must have saw those tags. . . don't pay attention to those. ^^" hehehe. . . ♡

P.s i hope so. . . :(((((

Pp.s good night, love. . . :c sleep well. . . And ouuu okie. :3

Ppp.s dream of ME, please. ^_^

[brightside-of-the-moon]

System positivity is that one alter always making sure our profiles are up to date, we would be a mess without him, we love you river <3

[kaleidoscopechaos827]

As we've learned more about what it means to be a system, and to share a life with multiple people in one brain and one body, one of the many things we've come to accept is that we don't always get to know who's fronting and who's saying or doing something. Sometimes someone (we have no idea who) will take over for less than ten seconds just to make a ridiculous sound and send everyone else into a giggle fit XD