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thoughts on "tradwives" as a 19th-century social historian
It's great until it's not.
It's great until he develops an addiction and starts spending all the money on it.
It's great until you realize he's abusive and hid it long enough to get you totally in his power (happened to my great-great-aunt Irene).
It's great until he gets injured and can't work anymore.
It's great until he dies and your options are "learn a marketable skill fast" or "marry the first eligible man you can find."
It's great until he wants child #7 and your body just can't take another pregnancy, but you can't leave or risk desertion because he's your meal ticket.
It's great until he tries to make you run a brothel as a get-rich-quick scheme and deserts you when you refuse, leaving your sisters to desperately fundraise so your house doesn't get foreclosed on (happened to my great-great-aunt Mamie).
It's great until you want to leave but you can't. It's great until you want to do something else with your life but you can't. It's great. Until. It's. Not.
I won't lie to you and say nobody was ever happy that way. Plenty of women have been, and part of feminism is acknowledging that women have the right to choose that sort of life if they want to.
But flinging yourself into it wholeheartedly with no sort of safety net whatsoever, especially in a period where it's EXTREMELY easy for him to leave you- as it should be; no-fault divorce saves lives -is naive at best and dangerous at worst.
Have your own means of support. Keep your own bank account; we fought hard enough to be allowed them. Gods willing, you never need that safety net, but too many women have suffered because they needed it and it wasn't there.
#history#women's history#pregnancy mention#my mother (born 1953) drilled this into me from an early age: have a safety net. have a skill and keep it up to date. have your own money#NEVER join bank accounts. keep a hold on your assets.#well and good to be a stay-at-home wife and mother- I know other lesbians who want that even!#but if your partner is your sole financial support...you're courting danger IMO
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10 Common Mistakes Made by Intermediate Developers and How to Avoid Them
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#ahsanmahmood#aoneahsan#Asking for help#Best practices#Code commenting#Code maintenance#Code refactoring#Developer skills#Learning from mistakes#Performance#Programming mistakes#Scalability#Security#Software development#Staying up-to-date#testing#Version control#zaions
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Top 25 Job Interview Questions for Software developer
Here are the Top 25 Job Interview Questions for Software developer Can you tell us about your experience with [specific programming language or technology]? How do you approach problem-solving when coding? Can you walk us through the development process for a project you recently worked on? Can you explain a technical concept to someone non-technical? Have you ever collaborated with a team on a…
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#automated testing#code quality#code reviews#continuous integration and deployment#database design#deadlines#debugging#debugging in production environment#development process#fixing bugs#incorporating feedback#integrating technology#performance optimization#problem-solving#programming language#responsive vs adaptive design#security measures#staying up-to-date#task prioritization#teamwork#technical concept#technical decision#version control
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it's been exactly a year since the last chapter of Operation Walburga's Arbitrary No Kissing Ever Rule and I still miss it. This scene is probably one of my favourite things I've ever written and I've wanted to draw it for forever, so now seemed like an appropriate time
#jegulus#jegulus fanart#marauders fanart#regulus black#james potter#james x regulus#marauders#regulus black fanart#james potter fanart#starchaser#sunseeker#regulus x james#marauders era#jegulus fanfiction#fic: operation wanker#hp#mine#my art#ngl this drawing specifically made me realise why i prefer writing over drawing#i think too much in concepts to be able to capture a scene in a way that i want#you cant draw the same thing from several perspectives at once if you dont wanna go for cubism#(tho honestly cubism fanart sounds like a concept i could get behind mmmmm)#anyway i stayed up far too fucking long to finish this in time for today (and by too long i mean until 8am too long)#because originally i had planned to start posting ritardando as my anniversary celebration. yk more fake dating and all that...#but alas i scrapped the whole thing so drawing happened instead#not 100% satisified with how this turned out cause i dont know how perspectives work. or people. or backgrounds outside. you get the idea#i really very much like the second one tho i think its very pretty
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hehe ghost-turbo haunting felix au
turbo is connected to the last piece of his code in the whole arcade - a trophy he gifted to felix in mid 80s as a symbol of him genuinely caring about their relationships on par with being the best racer. felix also gave him one of his medals and both kept their gifts next to other rewards, but when roadblasters and turbotime were unplugged, the medal was gone with everything else
now, after burning in cola-lava turbo is basically dead, but scraps of his code still were intertwined with the trophy (after all, it was his first winner's cup, but felix never knew about it), giving turbo an opportunity to exist as a shadow incapable of interacting with anything and anyone besides felix, who kept the trophy even after the roadblasters incident
also I went crazy in tags, feel free to check them out
#turbo#turbotastic#fix it felix jr#80s boyfriends#hammertastic#headcanon about them exchanging their trophies isn't mine but i loved it A LOT#and “darling” is turbo making fun of how felix was calling him in 80s#this hc about “doll” and “darling” pet names also is not mine but i adore it#turbo here is a complete freak who just stays around felix most of the time even when felix has moments with calhoun#and felix is an ass who keeps secrets from everyone bc he doesn't want his dirt to come out#he's ashamed of his previous relationship with turbo and doesn't want anyone to know any details#and calhoun to just know about it#this just gets worse and worse#they also didn't actually break up and were still technically dating when turbo went gamejumping#and he's mad af at felix because he's the reason ppl in the acrade made a boogeyman out of turbo and he couldn't come back#like imagine your bf says to you what you are better than others think of you#and then behind your (presumably dead) back tells everyone that you're just an egocentric maniac#i believe turbo has other reasons why he gamejumped (besides jealousy which took place but wasn't the most important reason)#and felix is an unreliable narrator#so yeah turbo HATES his ass#(but still would-) no im not making it suggestive#anyway i hc that turbo had put A LOT of emotions in this relationship even tho he's bad at this#he tried his best with felix but they were just making each other worse#and turbo while feeling betrayed never really moved on (yes even after 25 years he's PATHETIC)#and felix is just full of regret about everything but he won't admit his mistakes in his relationship with turbo#bc “well he turned out to be a bad person so that automatically makes me in the right about everything”#but felix had made a lot of bad decisions while dating turbo and was just classically ignorant about a ton of things#sorry about this random ass essay in tags i'm done for now#wreck it ralph#wir
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please help i just had a dream where svsss was a dating sim. so, of course i tried pursuing shen qingqiu, but it ultimately backfired because suddenly he realized that he was in a dating visual novel?? and since i put myself as a guy, he just refused to show up to special in game events to avoid me interacting with him???
and obviously i was like "wtf why isn't he here?" when he didn't show up. then at some point i explored the area, and the screen suddenly zoomed in to show sqq talking to sqh (supposedly telling him all about the little situation). next thing i know, both of them are slowly turning their head to stare at the screen in pure and utter terror
also in some part of the dream, i think i did some liu qingge events or something and as his affection levels rose, he would continuously jump scare me by popping up out of nowhere and go, "its not like i like you or anything!!" while covered in blood and holding out a demonic beast head as if it were a box of treats
anyways, totally random question guys haha if i made an svsss visual novel dating sim would you guys play it. no reason in particular at all.
#im actually learning how to code right now#if i hyperfixate enough ill turn this to reality bc im kinda bad at writing fanfiction#no promises though#i prob had this dream bc i stayed up till 5 am last night playing a date with death#idk if dream liu qingge was accurate bc personally i see him more as just being like 'for you.' before leaving#but its a funny thought to have with liu qingge acting like that sporty emotionally constipated tsundere character lmao#anyways dw if i do make the game i would build a chaotic ass harem route jesus fucking christ that'd be hilarious#the scum villain's self saving system#svsss#mxtx svsss#shen qingqiu#shang qinghua#liu qingge#cumplane
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Image based on tango's ep
#tango#docm77#hermitcraft#this is all I have#I might try and kinda stay up to date with hermitcraft videos for once#who knows
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At a human world beach
Levi, with only swim shorts on: Hm, Mc? Are you not going in?
Mc, who is fully clothed: No, swimming’s not my thing.
Levi: Mn..but, it’s not..fun without you.
Mc: …that’s real sweet, Levi.
Levi: …
Levi: Mm..okay.
Levi: *Sits down next to Mc.*
Mc: Levi, you don’t have to-
Levi: I’m not going in if you’re not.
Mc: …
Mc: Levi, seriously, go enjoy yourself. I just don’t like swimming.
Levi: But-
Mc: No buts, go have some fun.
Levi:
Mc:
Mc: Neither of us are backing down, huh?
Levi: No.
Mc: *Sighs*
Mc: Fine. *Takes off their clothes to show swimwear underneath*
Levi: Ack!
Mc: It’s just a little skin.
Levi: *Red*
#obey me#obey me leviathan#obey me mc#obey me mc x leviathan#obey me leviathan x mc#leviathan x mc#obey me incorrect quotes#incorrect quotes#beach day#obey me shall we date#obey me!#obey me! shall we date?#omswd#om!swd?#two stubborn people#oh how to solve a conflict than one giving up#i’m mc#that’s me#except I don’t go swim#i stay on my phone like rn
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myshunosun's favorites: Gameplay Mods
Last updated: 16 Oct 2024
Default replacements and visual mods
CAS room replacement, simsi45
Brighter Foundations, lotharihoe
Sunblind lighting mod, softerhaze
Even Better In-game Lighting Mod (Average), northernsiberiawinds
Classic Camera, VictorAndrade
No Occluder Small & Large Appliances Default Replacement, peacemaker-ic
Clear Bloom ReShade preset, amoebae
Gameplay mods, general
MC Command Center (all modules), Deaderpool
Wonderful Whims, TURBODRIVER
Less Intrusive Sims, TURBODRIVER
Home Regions, Kuttoe
Random Texts and Calls, Kuttoe
Ask Category & Menu Cleanup, Kuttoe
All mini-mod bug fixes, Kuttoe
All mini-mod tweaks, Kuttoe
Free Range, Lot 51
Fashion Authority 2, Lot51
Gameplay mods, career
Career Overhaul, kuttoe
Lower Payments, Satira
Unlimited Jobs+, TURBODRIVER
Gameplay mods, sims4me
Use the search field on sims4me's site to find these mods.
autonomouspickpocket
autonomoussharebignews
compatibilitymatters
confesscheatingforeveryone
divorceaffectschildrenmore
lessautonomouscheckontoddler
lessautonomouscomputer
lessemotionidles
longerprom
pregnantwalkstylelater
pregnantsimscandomore
scaredmoodtweak
thirsttweak
traitoverhaul
whimoverhaul
Gameplay mods, occult
Spellbook Injector (v2 by Simsonian Library) and all custom spells. r3m
Forbidden Spells, Kuttoe
Celebratio Spell, Kuttoe
Spellcaster Tweaks, Kuttoe
Traits, wants and preferences
Pizza Preferences, Kuttoe
Preferences Plus + optional addons, Helaene
Random Traits & Aspirations, graycurse
#resources#myposts#myshunosun#ts4#the sims 4#masterpost#i am updating my resources section by making separate and up to date lists! stay tuned for more updates#myresources
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Due to scheduling conflicts we're celebrating Tintin Day early this month! 🥳
Someone said in tags that they could totally see Tintin needing International Rescuing at some point. What better way for the Hood to put iR's integrity on the line than revealing all to a world-famous reporter? Would the Tracys jeopardise their whole operation to save just one life?!
(Un)fortunately Tintin hasn't shown up at work since 1929, so the only sacrifice here will be an old man's dignity. Again. 🪦
#the adventures of tintin#tintin#thunderbirds are go#thunderbirds#scott tracy#the hood#josie's art#obviously the answer is yes they would; and tintin wouldn't out them anyway#he's a good noodle and only hashtag-EXPOSES those who deserve it#but how is the hood to know that? he stole photos of the thunderbirds and scott and virgil nearly killed him#a last resort by refusing to give up the chase but even so. AND the whole ned cook thing#it's so funny to me that ToS scott LOSES IT at the sound of a camera shutter; RIP whoever takes their family photos#it's why john stays in space; scott's kneejerk reaction of socking him in the face when he tries to take a nice polaroid :/#almost as funny as tintin not having shown up to the office for a century but somehow maintaining his job#i'm sure his newspaper just keeps him employed for the clout at this point lmaoooo#anyway i'll stop with the tags but i firmly headcanon the boys calling hood out in WILD ways whenever they cross paths#their dad will NEVER date him; kayo will NEVER return his calls and if he even LOOKS at alan he's a predator!!!!#eventually he'll leave them alone because it's just too humiliating :V
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by reading this comic you've entered a legally binding contract to go vote for gemini's team in the sep au comp to help us tie <3
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#yes its the same joke twice idc#p plz check the tags/replies/etc on the vote poll to stay up to date on who needs votes so we can get a 50/50! rn gem team is behind!#fun fact drax is actually a pretty ok dad u w u#gemini au#rottmnt#rottmnt au#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rise of the tmnt#tmnt#tmnt 2018#rottmnt separated au#rottmnt mikey#rottmnt michelangelo#rottmnt draxum#baron draxum#rise mikey#rise michelangelo#rottmnt fanart#rottmnt comic#fidgetwing
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i think some rtc fans, usually USAmericans, don’t realise that misha would be, like, still very much in ukrainian infospace. "i headcanon that misha still has his phone set to ukrainian even after moving to canada!" no shit. believe it or not he'd be watching movies in ukrainian dub, keeping up with ukrainian news and memes, he would not start thinking in english and he would not act like someone who "carries his home in his heart as an old, bittersweet memory from the past life". he'd be more like "as soon as i have 500 bucks i'm booking a plane ticket and in 12 hours i'll be eating dumplings in puzata hata" and he definitely doesn't plan on assimilating
#and it still can come hand in hand with misha being up to date with world pop culture and staying in canada for longer than he intended#if that's your vision#but like#he probably starts his day doomscrolling on twitter where someone complains about finding a hair in their puzata hata meatball#also no hate to the person who said the phone set to ukrainian headcanon! i actually share that opinion#i just was surprised it was a headcanon and not a default assumption everyone shares#ride the cyclone#rtc#misha bachynskyi#mischa bachinski
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Obsessed with the idea of Solomon having dinky little reading glasses. Hand him anything with small print, and he'll whip them out, hold the page like a foot from his head, and do an open-mouthed squint.
Bet he and Lucifer both do "Dad Stances" too.
#i think i just really like the idea of lame Solomon#loser magic guy#got 72 demons but can't stay up past 8#and i think Luci having back problems should be canon already#what im saying is#my love is malicious#(affectionate)#obey me#obey me shall we date#shall-we-date-obey-me#obey me lucifer#obey me headcanons#obey me solomon#obey me nightbringer
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Dark link and phantom Ganon but they are weird Pokémon trainers. Haunter and runerigus for dark link. Rookidee, lampent, and zorua (only the tiniest guys) for phantom Ganon. Don’t question my Pokémon vibe check, it simply fits. Also shiny Pokémon for shiny ganlink
#loz#legend of zelda#dark link#phantom Ganon#what if we trained ghost and dark type pokemon and we dated#shiny ganlink#I’m sorry I have no self control I said I’d do this for October but I did it the next day#I stayed up yesterday vibe checking pokemon#I wanted a water type for dink but nothing fit#so he got all ghosties#there are others I want for him#but they’d not fit on the page#someone suggested rookidee for phantom gan#and I reminded myself of what it evolves to#and it’s perfect#zorua is perfect too cuz of the illusions#lampent reminds me of the poe lanterns#no questions asked#another little guy in the ranks
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The basegame wedding dress has a pregnancy morph??
#I can never be positive if something in my game is like. a third-party launcher addition#but this is so funny and I had such a strong hunch#because rushing to have your Sim get married before they give birth is such a thing so many players would do!!#and it would be so funny to pay attention to that detail by having the wedding dress show the bump!!!!#all your sim's wedding photos very obviously giving away the reason for the rushed date HAHA#the dress with the pendant at the back that everyone default replaces off (the one with the knife texture) also has a preg morph#which I know because it's the one your Sims get forced into if they attend a wedding#but it's kind of unusual because pregnant Sims don't have the opportunity to change into formal wear?#like pregnant Sims get new undies pyjamas and swimwear in addition to their maternity outfit#and if you direct a pregnant Sim to change into one of them then it changes them into the appropriate maternity fit instead of their usual#but you can't direct them to change into formal and if you use a hacked option like the shop any-wear rack it uses their usual non morph fi#so it has to be something external like a wedding that triggers them to change into formal. and I have no idea why#does this mean there's a BG suit with a preg morph for men??#or did maxis not think that pregnant male Sims would be quite so desperate to get married#anyway I'm probably the last person to know about this LMAO and I'm sure no one cares bc everyone uses wear-anything mods#but I'm a scrub who still prefers to use the default maternity meshes so this is yuge to me#also if you've never seen this dress b4: in the early game all Sims getting married under an arch used to be forced into the same outfits#actually I can't remember if the men got forced into the same suit or if they just used their regular formal#because most BG formal outfits for men were mostly wedding-appropriate#but at any rate. all women wore the same wedding dress. and it was this .... beauty#and I don't remember with which EP it changed but probably pretty early on they just let Sims use their regular formal wear for weddings#so you could pick their wedding dress yourself#but this dress remained hidden by default (I think?) so ironically it meant you COULDN'T use the wedding dress even if you wanted to#also this is completely off topic but you would also go away for your honeymoon#which meant the Sims getting married would literally get driven away in a limousine and stay off-world for a while#it was kind of cute because it really was like they took a vacation from the player too. got up to their own mischief away from your contro#then with bon voyage they introduced ACTUAL vacations and they turned honeymoons into an actual game mechanic#but again these offworld honeymoons are no longer a possibility#kind of like teens 'going out' with permission got replaced by going out on actual outings/dates even though it was a cute event#wow this note section is long and irrelevant. anyway enjoy picking up your wedding dress from a store called 'It's Not Too Late'
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911blr waiting for 7x05
#911 abc#911 spoilers#911 memes#buddie#bucktommy#I feel VERY normal I don’t know about you#can it be Thursday now#I stayed up til 1AM to watch the last episode#told myself I wouldn’t do that again#then the promo drops Eddie crashing bucks date#and I guess I AM staying up til 1am again this week
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