#so some of this is guesswork
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It's Juyeong clinging to Dohoe's father out of a desperation to still find that connection to Dohoe, to find that connection to the man he loved but also to the man who was abusive but who took him in, who beat him but did not leave him on the street or turn other people against him.
It's Dohoe pulling himself away from the brink of violence and escaping the life he most feared, trying to escapes the parts of himself he feared by leaving it all behind and knowing where Juyeong was but also knowing what he was doing and never going back.
It's both of them feeling betrayed and abandoned, both of them alone, both of them fighting the curse of the violence that haunts them. Because they are both haunted, each in their own way, by the violence done to them and the violence they did or almost did.
Juyeong tries to teach children what he learned but with kindness and excitement and joy. He tries to share what he found in taekwondo with them but also to show them kindness and care, to show them that they are worthwhile and worth kindness and tenderness and gentleness, all the things he was never shown except by Dohoe, to show them acceptance.
Dohoe left all of that behind. He saw the potential for violence in himself and pulled away from all of it, turning his back entirely on the concept itself. He made a different life, a different kind of life, one without the violence and without the need to forgive.
(They found joy in sparring but that joy was a small one, born of love that brought greater joy in many places and many ways and that joy is the joy they both lost, that joy of love and acceptance and tenderness and abuse stole that from them, the cycle of pain stole from them what could have been and now they must find a way to free themselves, to escape the curse of violence even the violence that they do to themselves.)
#let free the curse of taekwondo#dohoe x juyeong#hwang da seul#lftcot#korean bl#korean bl drama#queer series#korean series#kbl#korean drama#kdrama#bl drama#bl series#asianlgbtqdramas#asian lgbtq dramas#i feel like i'm a bit off on dohoe#but we don't know yet#so some of this is guesswork#and i don't mind being wrong
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ive seen ppl saying smth in the wider plagiarism discussion to the tune of "don't worry anxious people, it's impossible to accidentally plagiarize!" and i feel like that lacks a lot of nuance that anxious brains like mine latch on to to just dismiss the possibility outright, as well as a lack of life experiences fueling it.
it is possible to "accidentally plagiarize" in that you can read something, forget about it, then a while later have your brain spit the ideas back out without telling where it got them. so of course you just assume they're yours and share them as such, because That's Where Most Of The Thoughts In Your Head Come From! and it both is and isn't plagiarism, you weren't /intending/ to pass someone's else's work off as your own, i'd even say in a way you were just as much a victim of misinformation as your audience. but you very much so did still resuse the work of someone else, even if you don't remember it.
but in my experience, this kind of thing also happens to a lot of people. you tell a friend a joke then wake up in a cold sweat two days later realizing the reason they didnt laugh was because they'd told you that joke a month ago. you reply to a friend's text and after sending you realized you ended it with the same exact phrase as theirs. you're writing edgy poetry and write a line you really like only to see it in a text post two days later saying youve already liked the post. like, it happens. so if it DOES happens and you're just honest and explain, people will understand. something like "oh shit im sorry, i totally have read that, i mustve forgotten and only remembered bits and pieces and just thought they were mine. thank you for letting me know and for the source" works wonders.
people know you can forget things. people won't automatically doubt your apology just because all true plagiarists say it was accidental. HOPEFULLY people can understand the nuance between a genuine remorseful explanation, and a thief who hoped no one would find out scrambling for excuses for why they did it. and those who can't, that's a them problem, not a you problem, you've taken responsibility for your actions as much as you can. they think the answer is simple, that the only thing stopping you from saying "yes i did it on purpose, i knew the whole time and deliberately copied them" is shame/inability to admit to your actions. but sometimes things AREN'T that simple, so imo ppl who are shitty to you for not following the script they made up for you in their head should be ignored
#youre allowed to make up scripts for people in fact good luck stopping yourself since thats kinda just part of how conversation works#is you try to predict how your audience will react to a certain statement#and my therapist actually encouraged me to practice run stuff i wanna talk about in sessions because That Makes It Easier To Talk About#like who cares if it's rehearsed‚ it's still the truth‚ yknow?#however that only applies to the things /you/ want to say. you are the only one aware of this script and the only one who agreed to it in#the first place which is why you plan contingencies into the script#is because you only have control over one character and can only take guesses at what the others might say#if you guess wrong and they do something different that doesnt mean /theyre/ not following the script#it means /your/ copy was a misprint and you filled in the blanks wrong. so do what good actors do and improvise. you'll get back on script#eventually. or not‚ if your guesses devolved into wildly speculative fanfiction‚ but frankly you knew going into it that#most of your script was guesswork so you should be prepared to have to make some things up on the fly#or see again: prepare contingencies#if your guesswork on your copy of the script turns out to be wrong‚ wouldnt it be sooo handy to have a second copy which follows this#version of events much better?#and if not that one‚ maybe this third? how about this fourth? etc etc etc#but really just. when guessing at what others will say. know that you are guessing and dont hold it against /them/ if youre wrong#sorry ik that wasnt super related to the post itself im just also passionate abt that#plagiarism#james somerton
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Do you have the links to ashswag on internet archive ? (Hyperfixation has gone brrrr recently lol) ¤3
I can do you one better, and link you over to the lifesteal vod archive! It is honestly a godsend in the age of streams as lost media, and the archivists have my heart
You should be able to cell search if you’re in desktop, but mobile can be a dick about it, so if you’re not in the mood to column sweep:
House arrest vods one and two
He did WHAT to the mothership???
Zam gets sent to hell
Genesis SMP (one, two, three)
Kaboodle SMP (one, two, three, four, five, six)
KabSMP with lifesteal near the end
PVP legacy with a bit of gensmp at the end
PVP legacy part two electric boogaloo
Their health is linked?!
Lifesteal season five (one, two, three, four (marriage edition))
Minecraft singleplayer
Skyblock randomizer with Zam, Redd & KyleEff
Lifesteal public
#sorry for the copious amount of links! I love digging through the spreadsheet (as my friends can testify)#so I figured might as well go all out and grab all the ones I can find#I might have mixed up some of the gen and kab smp vods - I never really got into either so it was a bit of guesswork#anyways the hyperfixation going brr is SO real I cannot describe how many times I’ve watched the first four vods (all from lifesteal s4 lol)#thank you for letting me do this!! it was a whole bunch of fun <- autistic guy strikes again#have a wonderful day!! ^-^#asks
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She eyes the strange shifting landscape outside the vessel warily. It is blisteringly hot; her sweat is soaking the thin robes she wears. She considers jumping; it would be a way out, even if a likely fatal one. But she will not give her captors the satisfaction. She wants answers.
And vengeance... comes the implacable thought. They must pay for this pain in my head. I want them to PAY.
She frowns, stalks towards the far door which slides open with a sickeningly wet slurping sound. In the room beyond, she hears the first voice that has spoken to her since she awoke.
At first she thinks it is the man slumped in the chair talking, but he is slackjawed with agony - not quite dead but nearly so. Another prisoner in this place, but this one horribly mutilated. His brain is exposed, and it wriggles with each word murmured into the boiling air.
"Yes!" it hisses excitedly at her approach. "You've come to save us from this place. From this place you'll free us--" Its voice undulates and wavers weirdly and she feels a prickle run down her spine.
Narrator: The exposed brain quivers in expectation.
"Who am I talking to?" she asks uneasily. "A man or a brain?"
"A newborn..." the brain whispers eagerly. "Born new from this husk..."
Narrator: [ARCANA - FAILURE] You know no creature like this - one that is more brain than person.
Of course she doesn't. She knows nothing. Not this creature, not who she is, not anything at all.
The rage-fear churning in her stomach rises in a sudden clear bolt of blinding frustration and revulsion at this vulnerable target, and she lashes out with both hands, sinking them deep into the abomination's fleshy bulk.
Destroy the brain.
The flesh gives under her hands with extraordinary ease and she feels a cracking pop as she severs some vital nerve. The creature screeches in agony and then falls silent. The man's terrified eyes go blank.
Slowly she withdraws her fingers from the mutilated tissue and shakes the blood from her hands to spatter a vibrant pattern on the floor. A strange sense of satisfaction settles in her gut, and the rage-fear eases a little in response, as if sated. The threat is eliminated, the abomination destroyed.
But her sense of unease only deepens. Because she realizes, as the anger fades, that she didn't know she was going to kill the creature until it was already dead.
#bjk plays bg3 durge#rakha the dark urge#this post is a calculated risk because i haven't actually had a dark urge prompt yet so i don't know what they're like :P#so this involves some guesswork#but makes sense based on what little i know#cw mild body horror#rip us#we'll see you in jayce's playthrough
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I also made a card for him (Patreon)
#My art#SCII#Damned#DAX#Don't look at me lol#I considered making one from my bad batch of printouts but nah I have other uses for them still :P#Besides I get to use full colour here! And he deserves it ♥#DAX's cute expressions through Dex's cute face <3#A lot of the details initially started as guesswork but I feel a teensy bit more confident in them now that I've done some looking around ♪#Heights are still undefined tho lol! Max is 5'9'' and Dexter looks to be at least a good few inches taller than he is so#It's pointed at that Dex is ~6 years older than Max - I put him at 8 years older but I'm happy to move their ages closer in my mind <3#More than that I'm happy to have been so close! :D#It's most likely that he's actually 30 by this point but if Max took a two year rather than a four year college course fjdslafd#My thoughts around DAX's age have shifted a little as well bringing in the consideration that VUX have longer lifespans than humans :0#What does 10 years age difference look like when that's proportionally less for VUX than humans!#Speculation for another time lol#I probably could've added more names in his ''Knows'' section but I stuck with the ones I've seen drawings of haha#He probably wouldn't know DOX...#If I'd thought about it for a moment I would've drawn his eyes reverse-open-closed - I like the idea of him and ZEX mirroring each other <3#Well they can both switch hehe#No matter how many of these I make it's so fun to fill out the Personality section hehe - single-word descriptors are very fun!#Seeing how many simple words I can think of to describe someone hehe <3 With minimal overlap and considering connotation! It's fun!!#I love DAX <3 And I love Dex haha it's the same with Max/ZEX! I love them all ♪♫
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#vent/rant in tags#some people are JUST ABUSIVE.#i’m not gonna lie - it hurts so fucking bad to have done so much work all by myself - untreated - unmedicated - no resources -#just guesswork - just to have it not fucking matter because people discard me the SECOND they learn about my#TRAUMA BASED fucking disorder.#it’s not my fault. i was a CHILD. i was a CHILD who should have been cared for - not neglected - isolated - and abused.#i’m sorry that maybe some people take that and repeat the cycle - but everything about that told me that i HAVE to be BETTER -#i CANNOT repeat those same fucking behaviours that wounded me so deeply and ruined my fucking life#IT IS NOT MY FAULT.#and you know fucking what? my biggest abuser had NPD - and i rejected my diagnosis for YEARS. because of terms like narc abuse.#and because people demonized him on the basis of being a narcissist instead of on the basis of being an abuser.#rejecting my diagnosis only hurt me more - and hurt the people around me more.#i am so tired. i’m just a person. i am just a human being. i try so hard - i don’t even want recognition or praise for trying -#i’m just tired of being thrown away - i’m tired of being treated like my abuser just because of my diagnosis#he quite literally tried to murder me - believe me if you want - i don’t care - i was a child and he tried to murder me and i still think#that there is no excuse to demonize NPD just because he has it.#fuck all the way off - go die - i don’t care#none of my friends would ever know i have NPD because i’m not a fucking stereotype - i’m not an evil monster - i don’t want to hurt anyone-#the way i’ve been hurt - i NEED to be the best - i NEED to be as good as possible#stop demonizing my disorder - please - i am begging#screaming into the void#NPD#narc abuse#narcissistic abuse
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Thinking about Yoshi doing rat stuff and how his uncles feel about that. Like Yoshi is a rat mutant who got mutated when he was about a month old - this kid has zero memories of being human and looking at photos of himself as a newborn makes him feel weird, because in Yoshi's mind he's a rat, not a human.
At first, whenever he acted more like a rat toddler than a human toddler, I think it really worried his uncles. He couldn't talk yet, so they couldn't ask him why he did that and the parenting books they had were no help.
Taling to April wasn't much good either - June may not be entirely human (Utrom/Kraang genetics inherited from April), but she was more or less a normal kid. April had never had to worry about June climbing up walls with her claws, chewing through metal, and had no answers for all the strange noises Yoshi made. It takes them a while to figure out which bruxing means rat nephew is happy and which means he's distressed.
This is a kid who needs new stuff to investigate or he'll get bored and start destroying something. Before he was old enough to entertain himself, the Turtles spent as much time as they could finding things for him to do. This was properly one reason Raph and Casey taught him how to spray paint, as well as how this version of Splinter gets into smithing. Like if he gets bored he can paint something or make another sword! (Ageswap Yoshi has so many knives, it's ridiculous.)
The Turtles have to be careful about introducing new scents into the Lair cause there's a chance it'll confuse Yoshi and his sense of smell won't be able to make up for his terrible eyesight and he'll got lost on his way to the dojo.
The first time the Turtles saw porphyrin coming out of Yoshi's eyes, they pretty much screamed. They thought Yoshi was bleeding out of his eyes and were all in various stages of mental breakdowns thinking Yoshi was deathly ill and they'd failed to look after their nephew. Finding out that hey, it's okay, that's completely normal for him, its not actually blood, had them all either laying on the floor or going off on their own into a quiet room to stare at the wall for a while.
If Yoshi gets stressed out about something, they have to stop him from scratching himself or trying to chew on his own tail.
This kid has no poker face at all. His ears and whiskers are always giving him away, which is great for them knowing when he's lying, but terrible for being a ninja. This also gets really frustrating for him, because there are times when you don't want everyone to know how you're feeling, but those things give him away. Yoshi can forget about being upset without everyone knowing - he tries to compensate by pulling his hood up on bad days, but that kinda just lets everyone know he's upset and doesn't want to talk about it.
Just the Turtles and their very much a rat mutant nephew, who doesn't feel ashamed of being a rat, so doesn't bother hiding the ratty part of his nature
#tmnt#tmnt 2012#tmnt au#tmnt ageswap au#the turtles have a collection of very battered rat care books#and every now and again april or casey will go into a pet shop and buy a more up to date one#so they can make sure rat nephew is getting everything he needs#some of its guesswork though#like his dietary requirements are mix of human and rat#so he can eat stuff humans can't eat but rats can#and vice versa#but there's some exceptions like cheese#he loves it but it'll make him sick if he eats too much#and by too much i mean he's properly lactose intolerant
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i hate how i [momentarily] blacklisted sp1derverse and the miguel o'hara tag is still absolutely inundated with reader-insert fics with absolutely no grasp of his character and only exist because oscar isaac hot
#i feel like i cant talk much bc im only just getting into him and like. it IS because i saw him in atsv and was like damn he seems cool#but like ......... at least im reading the source material ??#poeple can enjoy fandom all they want and write all the reader insert they want idc about that it's just the fact that it's......so poor#and so very clearly from the like 30 SECONDS we have seen of him in atsv trailers and literally nothing else#so it's all guesswork and honestly half the time it seems vaguely racist but#iiiiiiii just work here i am just a little guy who works here#summer's text tag#and also To Be Clear spiderverse is no longer blacklisted i just wanted to find some fucking fanart to rb#and even with spideverse blacklisted i think i saw like.......5 posts total that were from 2099. and i scrolled. for so fucking LONG#and to be clear pt 2 i also think oscar isaac is hot#but like....besties. miguel is not oscar. please stop!!!!
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this comment by mitch stone (a hair stylist and photographer) was left on a MotA-related post made by kirstin chalmers (a hair and makeup designer for the show). if i'm right that he's talking about MotA (why else would he leave that comment?), i suppose there were reshoots in los angeles (at some point?) and isabel may may have been cast in the show.
neither may nor stone are mentioned on MotA's imdb page, but stranger things have happened.
#so onto the blog it goes#if some of mota was filmed in los angeles this is literally the first i've ever heard of it#same with isabel may. i thought i knew of all the women cast up til this point#'love interest' is such a broad term here tho. given the number of men in the show like. the love interest for which guy Exactly?#this could all be speculation tho. there's nothing wrong with a healthy amount of guesswork#it's hard to fact check when you're not 'in the know' but i'm still gonna see if there's anything more to this#masters of the air#hbo war#(i wish i had a 'speculation' tag bc idk if this qualifies as 'news'. but there's nowhere else to put this. ig it doesn't get sorted)#isabel may
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So glad they got wings :)
#359#mega absol#pokemon from memory#I mostly remembered fluff and wings so the rest was some guesswork lol#BUT one of the better mega evos imo :)
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i hope RE4R separate ways starts with ada sipping a mojito on the beach as she's rudely interrupted by an organization liaison who offers her the spain operation & she takes off her sunglasses, frowns & downs the rest of her drink, just as a fun contrast to leon's little edgy monologue about his really bad time under military service
#* file // : OOC — ( 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑'𝐒 𝐂𝐑𝐔𝐒𝐀𝐃𝐄 . )#absolute queen of coping mechanisms#she is doing the best of ressie cast in my heart owing to her own laziness plenty of time on vacation and recreational drug use#self-medication is such a great idea#given she's a corporate spy she isn't quite as present in active outbreak zones as any anti-bioweapon service#and having a very honed sense of emotional intelligence that's almost dehumanizing in a sense#she's hyperaware of what she feels / why she feels it and can rationalize her way through her own actions#and those of the people around her#even if there's some projection and guesswork to fill in the blanks#the necessity of serving symptoms of a larger societal issue to destroy them from within#and though the parallel would be funny i would love to hear talk about her work as a double agent for wesker#resurfacing after raccoon city as a complete mystery that her employers fear for their own lack of understanding#and the organizations plans to stifle wesker's ambitions through ada#those are partially hinted at in her last report in RE4 but fully expanded upon in the guidebook#and it's such an interesting era of her career#really do hope they didn't retcon any of it#wanna hear more#they're holding back a lot about separate ways despite what is already present within the game files#so it makes me think it's truly ada's expanded role they promised before the game's release#drug use mention /#drug mention /
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robespierre brushed his teeth. fascinating. remarkable.
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#idk anything about teeth in the 18th century#some quick googling tells me that toothbrushes were mass produced by a guy in the 1780s so I guess it couldn't have been too uncommon#and forms of brushing teeth (though not modern whatsoever) have existed since centuries before that#but also this is just speculation so#my guesswork is not a trustable source#robespierre#frev
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some newer films that imo have a shot of making the new sight and sound 100 best movies list: parasite, the handmaiden, spirited away, moonlight, uncle boonmee who can recall his past lives, oldboy, the tale of princess kaguya
#there're definitely some more contenders out there these are just off the top of my head#this is literally just guesswork. i don't claim to know how their minds work#but i guess we'll see if the list has diversified itself at all this decade lmao#ellistxt#fairly certain about some of these. parasite might even be top 10#kaguya is my wildcard#also i am so glad I’m not on film Twitter bc I bet it’s going to be obnoxious tonight
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#I’m NOT getting sick#this is just stress it has to be#and honestly most likely is#this pain is NOT real so if I ignore it it WILL go away#fyi to my stomach#I have to go to work tomorrow so get it together#though ironically I’m sure there’s probably some stress or not wanting to go back to work involved#ah the vicious cycle#sometimes I wish I could figure out what I’m stressed about/what’s wrong with me emotionally#instead of having to do guesswork and learn about it secondhand from my body#delete later
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we are so fucking back (kind of)
#:)#this is about the [redacted] from a couple months back (the thing that you could easily figure out with a little guesswork)#if i sort some things out i Could possibly be able to finally do it within the next week or so#really hope i can because this would solve some extant problems and would lay the groundwork for something in the future
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Good GOD I just sat on the floor for like three hours cutting up a shirt pattern, my hips feel like that of an old lady who's fallen one too many times.
#it wouldnt have taken SO long but Vogue apparently did not make patterns for fat people#so i had to do some guesswork on how much bigger to make everything#fingers crossed i did a good job#now to take a week to hand sew because the sewing machine terrifies me
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