#self-description

[306somesh]

The Colors of My Soul: A Self-Portrait in Words

How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you? Introduction In a world where visual cues often dominate first impressions, describing oneself to someone who can’t see can be an enlightening exercise. It challenges us to consider the essence of who we are beyond physical appearances. So, how would I convey the core of my being to someone who perceives the world through senses…

[tofixtheshadows]

I've been thinking a lot lately about how Kabru deprives himself.

Kabru as a character is intertwined with the idea that sometimes we have to sacrifice the needs of the few for the good of the many. He ultimately subverts this first by sabotaging the Canaries and then by letting Laios go, but in practice he's already been living a life of self-sacrifice.

Saving people, and learning the secrets of the dungeons to seal them, are what's important. Not his own comforts. Not his own desires. He forces them down until he doesn't know they're there, until one of them has to come spilling out during the confession in chapter 76.

Specifically, I think it's very significant, in a story about food and all that it entails, that Kabru is rarely shown eating. He's the deuteragonist of Dungeon Meshi, the cooking manga, but while meals are the anchoring points of Laios's journey, given loving focus, for Kabru, they're ... not.

I'm sure he eats during dungeon expeditions, in the routine way that adventurers must when they sit down to camp. But on the surface, you get the idea that Kabru spends most of his time doing his self-assigned dungeon-related tasks: meeting with people, studying them, putting together that evidence board, researching the dungeon, god knows what else. Feeding himself is secondary.

He's introduced during a meal, eating at a restaurant, just to set up the contrast between his party and Laios's. And it's the last normal meal we see him eating until the communal ending feast (if you consider Falin's dragon parts normal).

First, we get this:

Kabru's response here is such a non-answer, it strongly implies to me that he wasn't thinking about it until Rin brought it up. That he might not even be feeling the hunger signals that he logically knew he should.

They sit down to eat, but Kabru is never drawn reaching for food or eating it like the rest of his party. He only drinks.

It's possible this means nothing, that we can just assume he's putting food in his mouth off-panel, but again, this entire manga is about food. Cooking it, eating it, appreciating it, taking pleasure in it, grounding yourself in the necessary routine of it and affirming your right to live by consuming it. It's given such a huge focus.

We don't see him eat again until the harpy egg.

What a significant question for the protagonist to ask his foil in this story about eating! Aren't you hungry? Aren't you, Kabru?

He was revived only minutes ago after a violent encounter. And then he chokes down food that causes him further harm by triggering him, all because he's so determined to stay in Laios's good graces.

In his flashback, we see Milsiril trying to spoon-feed young Kabru cake that we know he doesn't like. He doesn't want to eat: he wants to be training.

Then with Mithrun, we see him eating the least-monstery monster food he can get his hands on, for the sake of survival- walking mushroom, barometz, an egg. The barometz is his first chance to make something like an a real meal, and he actually seems excited about it because he wants to replicate a lamb dish his mother used to make him!

...but he doesn't get to enjoy it like he wanted to.

Then, when all the Canaries are eating field rations ... Kabru still isn't shown eating. He's only shown giving food to Mithrun.

And of course the next time he eats is the bavarois, which for his sake is at least plant based ... but he still has to use a coping mechanism to get through it.

I don't think Kabru does this all on purpose. I think Kui does this all on purpose. Kabru's Post Traumatic Stress Disorder should be understood as informing his character just as much as Laios's autism informs his. It's another way that Kabru and Laios act as foils: where Laios takes pleasure in meals and approaches food with the excitement of discovery, Kabru's experiences with eating are tainted by his trauma. Laios indulges; Kabru denies himself. Laios is shown enjoying food, Kabru is shown struggling with it.

And I can very easily imagine a reason why Kabru might have a subconscious aversion towards eating.

Meals are the privilege of the living.

[bloodysparklez]

guys help the protagonist isn't supposed to like me, what did i do??!? ;-;

[personalgrowthoasis]

If You Couldn't See Me, How Would I Describe Myself?

Embrace the unique qualities that define you. Whether it's your appearance, background, or the passions that drive you, own it. Your uniqueness is your strength. Let's explore the power of self-awareness together!

Picture this: you’ve just met someone, but they can’t see you. They ask you to describe yourself, not just your appearance but who you truly are. It’s a peculiar question, but it leads to an intriguing conversation. So, if you couldn’t see me, how would I describe myself? Here’s a glimpse into my world. Physical Appearance I’d start with the basics. I’m blonde with blue eyes, and I consider…

[wellhealthhub]

Beyond Sight: The Art of Elaborate Self-Description and the Power of Language

How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you? In the intricate and multifaceted realm of human interaction, visual perception assumes an undeniable significance as it serves as the primary conduit through which we understand, appreciate, and connect with others. However, consider a rather thought-provoking scenario wherein the sense of sight, an indispensable medium of discerning…

[cappadocius]

White-bread just-in-time gamer

I'm stealing this from Twitter

Here's the link

I am a high-definition gateway drug body double!

[pebblegalaxy]

Unveiling the Unseen: A Vivid Portrait of Myself for Someone Who Can't See Me

How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you? In a world where sight is absent, and visual cues are but a distant illusion, how would I paint a portrait of myself? How would I sketch the tapestry of my existence, composed of hues unseen? Come, journey with me through the corridors of words, where colors are felt, and impressions are woven. Step into the labyrinthine corridors of…

[growthgiggles]

Impress.

The Secrets of Self-Description. How would you describe yourself to someone? We each describe ourselves differently in different situations, because first impressions matter. Whether it’s in a job interview, a networking event, or a social gathering, the way we present ourselves can have a lasting impact on how others perceive us and relate to us. Photo by Shamia Casiano on…

[their-we-go]

[zankalony]

What is one word that describes you?

One of the most common questions people ask themselves is: what is one word that describes me? Whether it’s for a job interview, a personal profile, or a social media bio, finding the right word to capture your essence can be challenging. But why is it important to have a word that describes you? And how can you find it? The importance of having a word that describes you Having a word that…

[wellship]

He just can't stand by and watch...

Bonus:

[dakeus-art]

My take on the new cast!

[incendavery]

disclaimer: i have not harmed myself in any way, and i dont plan to.

these comics are a safe place for me to explore and externalize the intense feelings ive been dealing with. i am also taking practical steps, such as talking to my therapist and getting my medications adjusted.

if you are having urges to harm yourself or take your own life, please reach out to someone you trust to seek help.

[thepeacefulgarden]

[narliee]

Nick has learnt so much about himself through Charlie, and he can be totally himself with Charlie, but when Charlie isn't there... is he okay? Who are his closest friends? Does he have anyone he can truly confide in that isn't Charlie? - Alice Oseman

[seawing-vibes]

Happy [Incredibly late] Valentines Day !!! Decided to do a trio of illustrations as I’ve done in previous years of diff forms of love!! Its only 3 but heres the list:

Sundew & Willow -> Romantic Love [They’re a classic! First queer POV’s and impactful ones for me!! They’re sweet together <3]

Qibli & Ostrich -> Familial Love [they are Cousins to me!!! Adopted family who are very protective of each other]

Turtle & Peril -> Platonic Love [Their friendship is so nice to me!! I don’t ship them at all - the heart motif is just used to symbolize love!!!! Also Turtles scales are canonically “as strong as diamonds” so him & Peril can make physical contact without Turtle getting burnt lmao]