#radical bi

[old-acc-discourseisdumb]

stop assuming you can deconstruct gender without deconstructing sexuality when its all just people trying to communicate complex identities with limited vocabulary

aka if you can accept gender is a social construct of labels so bigender girlboys make sense, you should be able to accept lesboys

[pinkdrank]

One of the things that fucks me up the most about gender ideology and the trans movement is straight people literally transitioning into a homosexual identity or co-opting a bisexual identity while being only opposite sex attracted heterosexual. When you take sex out of sexuality and replace it with "attraction to gender" and anyone can identify as any gender, your terms get meaningless fast. The amount of confident straight men I've met that are now "uwu ultra oppressed transbians" is disgusting and SO offensive to actual lg and b people. Imagine struggling your whole life with your sexuality, wondering if you're going to hell for something you can't help, getting called slurs, then a straight woman who reads too much yoai is like "omg me too! I'm also oppressed for being a faggot! That's how I identify btw, fagboy is my gender and you have to respect that" It's literally wearing a sexual minorities identity as a costume because you think you relate to it, not to mention they do it in the most offensive reclaiming-slurs-that-they've-never-been-called way. I've met straight men who tell me they're bisexual and I think I've found my kind! But by "bisexual" they mean "attracted to two or more genders" and those "genders" are female woman and female nonbinary... so they're "technically" bisexual.. fuck alllllllllll the way off.

Straight people leave us ALONE go get a PERSONALITY instead of doing this Kool kid kweer appropriation

[gloaming-sometimes]

dear lesboy (and tbh any other nuanced identity) exclusionists who think your vein of thought is the majority in queer spaces id like to inform you that today at lunch with my (entirely queer) friend group the topic drifted to me being a butch lesbian and one friend goes "wait i thought you were a guy?" and i said "i am" and another friend interjected "dudes can be lesbians too" and that was that. no further probing about my identity, nohing about how im "invalidating transmen and lesbians", or whatever. everyone just accepted that thats how i identify and i dont owe an explanation for it and moved on. i promise u its not that deep 👍

[redditreceipts]

"we like young women because biologically, that means they're fertile"

then why do you find periods disgusting? those are the single most indicative sign of fertility. by that logic, you must be incredibly attracted to a women who speaks openly about her period, right?

[fixing-bad-posts]

queer inclusion my beloved <3

[edowayeye]

"sexuality is fluid! it fluctuates from day to day!" you're all just bi btw

[sapphic-boy]

Genuinely, if someone's own personal identity makes you feel invalidated then that's a personal insecurity you should examine and reflect on and maybe talk with a therapist about because people who are secure in their identity don't feel threatened when other people have a different experience with that identity

[myceliumbutch]

You say you want a "radical counter culture gay movement" but you're too busy arguing about identities that make you mad!! You've missed the whole point!!

[radfemnotfemme]

can we be so fr rn

[lesboytism]

୨୧ ˖ ࣪ ‹ rosboy .

a term (and umbrella term) for boys who experience a significant connection to femininity within their gender and/or presentation.

꒰ my flag redesign, not my coined term ꒱

[solis-angelus]

I am tired of straight girls agreeing with my bi-ness because men are apparantly "ew" and women are inherently the "better choice". I am SICK of being told by lesbians and other queer girls that I'm not "bi enough" if my attraction to women doesn't exceed my attraction to men.

One time these two friends of mine, 1 straight 1 lesbian, asked me who I preferred more, men or women. My answer was "50-50. Both are equally attractive to me." (I wasn't trying to prove any point or anything. That is genuinely how my attraction works. But percentages don't matter either way, you do you <3). And their reaction was "oh yeah she's confused" as if I wasn't sitting right there and haven't been confidently and stably out as bi for 2+ years at that point.

Both the two friends, once told me that they had thought I'd come out as a lesbian after some time because ofcourse the only way a girl can be bi is if she's a closeted lesbian or she's "just asking for attention".

One of the friends I made at the new city I moved to 2 years ago tries to be an ally by SAYING THAT SHE HATES MEN??????? LIKE WHAT?!?

I AM TIRED OF THIS BS

I find men hot as hell. The ones I like, I want to give them flowers, kiss them breathless against a wall. I want to make their world a heaven, split the bill on our dates, get enormously horny with them, motivate them and compliment them and put a smile on their face. And the same goes for women too.

These "men are ew" people need to be fucking right-hooked across their jaw.

MEN ARE GORGEOUS TO ME. DEAL WITH IT.

[pinkdrank]

Lots of febfem hate recently. Anyway,,, I love being febfem

Reminders that:

Febfem is bi females exclusively dating females

Trans men are female

Trans women are not female

Febfems are not lesbians

Febfems are bisexual

Bi people do not owe you dating both sexes

Bi females do not have to date males

Afab4afab is just as valid as t4t, les4les, and bi4bi

Be more normal about bisexuals having choice and preferences thnx

[insaniquariumfish]

People are not attracted to identities, feelings, or labels. That is not how human sexuality works. Someone recognizing you as female socially does not mean that they must recognize you as female sexually. Being capable of being attracted to trans people who have their clothes on does not equate to wanting to have sex with someone with a trans body. That is not how sexual attraction works. If you got in bed with someone you were attracted to, and they revealed that they had a wart covered purple and green horse penis, would you still want to have sex with them? Genitals matter. Some people are just not attracted to certain genitals. Attraction should not be moralized. People cannot control what they do and do not find attractive. The act of finding or not finding a person attractive is harmless and does not count as a form of discrimination or otherwise immoral behavior. The idea that attraction should be moralized and that sexuality can be changed is the basis for homophobia, conversion therapy, and the myth that homosexuality is a choice.

[redditreceipts]

the state of r/actuallesbians

"Whoa it's so gross that some men feel entitled and think that they can turn lesbians straight with their dicks" "Yeah, but also please don't forget about the even more entitled straight men who think that they are lesbians"

[mx-t4t0]

Anyways that post was stupid and if you're scared of complex labels you should take your ass back to hermittwt. Inner community queer discourse will be the death of us all and no one likes a cop <3

I made these out of spite and also out of love for all your mono-mspec and funny gender grian needs 👍

Mspec Gay / Mspec Lesbian

Bi Gay / Bi Lesbian

Pan Gay / Pan Lesbian

Poly Gay / Poly Lesbian

Omni Gay / Omni Lesbian

Turigirl / Lesboy

Grian can be any of these, but he especially loves and supports all queer identities <3

[hard--headed--woman]

just saw a radfem saying that we allow debates about bi women's sexuality that we would never allow about any other sexuality and this is so fucking INSANE and HYPOCRITICAL i'd like to remind anyone who agrees with that shit that radblr cannot last two days without going back to goldstar discourse