#radical lesbian

[radfemnotfemme]

CAN WE BE FR😭

[femalesdoitbetter]

everybody ganster until i say that my feminism includes only females because females are the only of the two sexes being historically oppressed. men in dresses are not and never will experience real sexism.

everybody gangster until i say that once we start letting transgender identified males into female spaces (ie: rape shelters, bathrooms, changing rooms, saunas) then soon all males will be welcome, whether they have good intentions or not.

everybody ganster until i have the most lukewarm feminist take on transgenderism that was widely accepted before men found out they could get away with hate crimes against women by pretending to be one of us.

[iamlessierad]

this

[liberate-women-now]

Lesbians don’t like dick.

[dollyprint]

it's so unfortunate how lesbians are labeled all sorts of derogatory terms and 'phobic's for simply living our reality. far too many people struggle to understand that a woman can genuinely want absolutely nothing to do with a male.

it's also extremely telling how it immediately comes down to insulting us. i will never understand why i have to be uncomfortable and silent about it either. leave lesbians alone and stop repackaging + spreading lesbophobic rhetoric bullshit.

[marblecakemix]

Radfem: *a really good argument backed by a lot of independent research and feminist literature*

Tras: Okay, but did you hear about this really hot and trendy lie I pulled out of my ass??

[kiawritesstuff]

If you tell a lesbian that she has to change her sexual attraction and to somehow start loving dixk ..Then my friend you are the bigot and a homophobe .

[wild-wombytch]

The amount of fantasies focused on cocks in the lesbian tags is disgusting and astonishing. I'm tired that males need to invade our spaces and make it about their dicks. It's not even fun anymore.

Dude, you're not a butch, you're a man and no, I don't want to read about your gay male sex fantasies or straight fantasies.

Also the entitlement and lack of empathy towards women triggered and repulsed by penises (you know. The actual lesbians there) is...not surprising. But you won't convince me it's not a form of violence and abuse.

[blasphemouspat]

the online radical feminist community sucks. there is so much fingerwagging and pearl clutching. also just plain meanness and ignorance. most of yall have never been to a lesbian potluck and it shows. if you go to a real radical feminist gathering and learn to stop judging other women so harshly you will be so much happier. at least send your radblr neighbors a DM and get to know them a little. save all the hate and bad energy for men. how many incredible women will be driven away from this space by the bad vibes before this community can come together?

[radfemnotfemme]

i cant stand tiktok

okay? we still know we’re women

no we’re actually not “trans masc” and insinuating a gender non conforming person is “trans” is homophobic & plays into sexist gender roles! hope this helps

[femalesdoitbetter]

yeah we do. very few of us genuinely feel 100% comfortable and safe around you. maybe if you werent misogynist pieces of shit it would be different. hope this helps!

[iamlessierad]

I can’t comprehend how men can be so cruel

[liberate-women-now]

Not wanting to be pregnant is the only reason a woman should have to give to be able to have an abortion. That’s it. No more explaining to misogynists that abortion can actually save a woman’s life, or trying to pull at their heart by showing a pregnant child, rape victim, or incest pregnancy. Abortion should be an unapologetic human right every female should have access to.

[radfeminized]

‼️‼️‼️ I created a Discord server that is radfem and TERF so please join if you would like to discuss things related to that and have a safe & private community without being judged and silenced‼️‼️‼️‼️ (im still working on the server so it will be constantly edited and better) 💜PLEASE REBLOG/SHARE THIS💜

[marblecakemix]

I remember that when I was maybe 12-13 y/o, when the trans thing wasn't well known and the internet wasn't my second world, I was so proud of my female body. I was happy to start having curves and it brought me joy to feel my breasts grow and shape. I was so proud of my body for having a period at the age of 11, that meant I was completely healthy and I had little to worry about. I was proud of my first pubic hair. I saw myself as a very attractive woman to be. I loved everything about my body.

The thing that broke that pride in me was boys laughing at my armpit hair and teachers saying I better cut it to stop the bullying and to be more hygienic. It was the gender roles my family tried to mold me into that apparently made you a boy or a girl. It was the influx of gender ideology in every day setting and the slogans that said "it's okay to hate your body! You'll just bend it to your will". It was my biology teacher saying that a person's brain gender is biological and equally real to first, second and third sex characteristic, feeding me the false idea of who I might be. It was trans content made for kids that encouraged me to "explore" gender, furthermore deepening taught hatred I started to feel forward my body. It was the cancellation of sapphic and wlw creators I followed, they were bad and transphobic and it only showed me that the love I felt for women as a woman was also flawed.

So I hated my body. I wanted to cut off my breasts, speak in the lower octave, take testosterone I didn't need, use different grammatical forms for myself. All of that so I could be a female without being oppressed for being one. Cut all of the things that made me one, so I can finally be happy again.

But that happiness was false and not lasting. I was depressed, anxious, and rarely happy. It wasn't who I was even if I thought this was me. I told myself "I'm just born in the wrong body, that's why I feel that way" ignoring the clear signs of my mind longing for the connection to my authentic self. That dissociation from my physical body let me into the most miserable time in my life so far.

I could never be happy with a body that wasn't mine. I understand it now and I'm once again proud of who I am and how I look. I hope that little 12 y/o me is proud of me too.

[giawdyke]

how do you as a trans woman claim to be woman and all about womanhood but end up being more misogynistic than a straight man, disgusting