#questioning transrace

[bone-candy]

[a-dragons-journal]

How exactly is being otherkin any different than being transracial by idea? I’m not pro-transracial, but I can’t really formulate an argument on where the difference is and why one is okay while the other isn’t

The difference, in my opinion at least, basically comes down to the fact that race and ethnicity are things other real people deal with and which have big cultural impact for a lot of people; species is not. You can't hurt theriform wolves by identifying as a wolf because wolves are not people and are not aware of any of this. Dragons may be people depending on the dragon, but they don't exist physically in this world to have an opinion. You can, however, hurt people of color by identifying as transethnicity and approaching it in a disrespectful way.

And I say it that way because if I'm honest, transethnicity is one of those transIDs where I'm... a little torn on it. I can understand the feelings and experiences they're describing, but I struggle to find a way to engage with the idea of being transethnicity that isn't going to wind up being racist in one way or another. And while I haven't exactly spent a ton of time in radqueer/transID spaces, when I've gone into their tags and such to do a little research on them, I have overwhelmingly seen transethnicity people being kind of if not extremely racist about it. The experiences are not inherently harmful, but it's really easy to slide into engaging with those experiences in a way that's harmful.

And yet... in this community we have, for example, fictionkin whose fictotypes are a different race than them all the time, and sometimes that's very important to who their fictotype is and how they view the world. And that works out fine. I think the primary difference is that fictionkin are generally expected to acknowledge that they're not a part of that group in the present and can't speak on the group's issues or experiences as if they were, whereas the minute you put a trans- label onto the word, the expectation is that you should be treating a trans[x] person as if they're [x]. (And if it's not, then... why are you calling it trans- anything to begin with when that's what trans- means in an identity context?)

So, I do genuinely believe that they're having these experiences, but... idk, there has to be a better way to frame and engage with those experiences. I don't know what that is, but it's got to be out there somewhere, though it may not be a one-size-fits-all answer. (And maybe there's a transID community out there that's found it, I don't know.)

Anyway, open invitation for POC to give their thoughts on this, since they've probably got better-constructed ones than me; if I'm honest, I haven't spent all that much time thinking about this issue. I think about it on and off here and there when it comes up and then it gives me a headache so I move on.

[report-rqs]

Hello. This blog is dedicated to two important things:

Archiving examples of radqueers hurting people in undeniable ways.

When I say undeniable, I mean not things which can be argued to be just a lifestyle choice that seems weird and are discoursed over, like ships or kink choices. I'm referring to 100% advocating for child abuse, animal abuse, r*pe, p*dophilia, CSAM, inc*st, m*rder, s*icide baiting, attacking people of color, and so on.

Providing resources for people who want to fight against radqueers.

I believe the most effective way to stop radqueer idealogy from spreading is to not interact with them, but instead report them. I want to make it easier for us to do that by providing examples. I feel the only way to eliminate these predators' access to the internet is to go straight to the appropriate legal channels. Please feel free to @ my URL in any posts with receipts but please know that actual Tumblr posts or web archived links are very preferred over screenshots.

To all radqueers who are considering leaving the community: There is a safe space for you in the anti-radqueer community - yes, even if you disagree with what I just said, even if you <insert thing here>. Radqueers are not the only ones who will accept you. You can find a place to feel safe that isn't rife with predators and racists. There are safe spaces for you. You can send me an instant message with genuine questions, I will never attack or insult you!

Tags

general receipts tag

radqueer flags

emoji codes (dedicated Carrd)

radqueers being pro harassment

radqueers sui baiting, radqueers encouraging si

radqueers sexually harassing (anti radqueers)

radqueers telling others their trauma doesn’t matter radqueers encouraging/producing/posting CSAM

radqueers encouraging/being in inc*st relationships

radqueers encouraging sexual assault

radqueers encouraging adult/minor IRL relationships

radqueers encouraging zoophilia radqueers being racist

radqueers being ableist

radqueers disrespecting IRL celebrities

positivity for former/leaving radqueers

Important Links and Resources

general resources tag

Step-by-step guide on how to report "transharmful" types to Tumblr for violence

Guide/example of reporting a "transrace winterqueer" for racism

Example of reporting "transparasocial" for transphobia

Example of reporting a p*do on DeviantArt

Step-by-step guide on how to report radqueers for p*dophilia (Not finished yet)

Guide on how to report a radqueer's post/Rentry for stealing your flag [Not sharing publicly! Please send me an ask/IM and I will help you with this.]

The paradox of tolerance and other logical fallacies radqueers rely on

Big masterlist of anti RQ resources

Inc*st survivor resource masterlist

PTSD resource masterlist

Interesting terms which are much better than "transID" [Link updated 9/3]

Archive.org(extension), Archive.is(extension)(another extension)

Cybertip.org

Ic3.gov

Iwf.org.uk

Tips.fbi

Radqueerinfo.nekoweb.org

*This pinned post is a work in progress and may change.

If you're interested in joining my Discord about reporting RQs, please DM me.

[navysamuel]

PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME

Hi! I’m Samuel, and I am very confused about the ‘transrace’ thing. I am incredibly confused on this subject, it makes me uncomfortable but I feel like I know nothing about it therefore I shouldn’t judge so quickly. Could someone explain ‘transrace’ to me? /genq

[sleepy-collections]

ANGEL'S INTRO!!!!

(aka tweek or sleepy)

hello!! I'm angel, but you can also call me tweek or sleepy. this is my hoarding tumblr! here's the tags I'll be using ;

#🐾 ꒱ . . . TRANSAGE - transage ids

#💤 ꒱ . . . TRANSRACE - transrace, transethnic, and transnationality ids

#🎀 ꒱ . . . TRANSABLED - physically transabled ids

#💫 ꒱ . . . TRANSDISO - mentally transabled ids

#💞 ꒱ . . . TRANSBODY - transbody, aldernic, etc ids

#🌟 ꒱ . . . TRANSLIFE - transoccupation/job, transpersonality, transcareer, etc ids

#💌 ꒱ . . . MRDISOS - cis mrds

#📀 ꒱ . . . MUDISOS - cis muds

#🩹 ꒱ . . . TRANSHARMFUL - transharmful (mainly transcriminal) ids

#🩸 ꒱ . . . TRANSBLOOD - transamia ids

#🎧 ꒱ . . . TRANSTRAUMA - transtrauma/diatrauma ids

#🍓 ꒱ . . . TRANSSYMPTOMS - transsymptom ids

#👥 ꒱ . . . TRANSPLURAL - transplurality ids

#🩰 ꒱ . . . QUESTIONING - ids I'm unsure of, or are questioning being

#🎟 ꒱ . . . TRANSSLASH - ids I id as trans even though I might be cis

I may add more later!!! cya!!!!

[doctordeathawaits]

Can you do some stuff on transaging to 4

TRANSAGE ( 4 )

Be curious ! Toddlers are especially curious of their surroundings during this time , so run around , question of why things are the way they are ! Do not care if something will cause a mess - destroy rolls of paper , draw on your floors with marker , test your motor skills with holding cups !

Re-Learn ! During this stage it's important to lavish all motor skills , look up fun games on pinterest of how to help yourself grip a pencil correctly , how to write letters , how to raise yourself up on a surface by yourself !

Language ! Very important to advance from the babbling stage , so watch videos that help kids with pronunciation , learn words with flashcards and pointing association ! ( if ur also transrace / language / etc , this can help with learning your desired language ! Intergrade !!! )

Have a schedule ! Keep inmind that toddlers generally need 10 - 13 hours of sleep !

Dependency ! Always seek out authority from others , don't be afraid to be depended on others for skills and tasks !

[cyrusbarks]

Iᑎ丅ᖇᗝ ᑭᗝᔕ丅

Hello and welcome to my dog-blog!

my name is Cyrus, I'm eighteen!

my theriotypes are (questioning whether English or Welsh) Springer Spaniel, Beagle/Foxhound and Gray Fox but I'm primarily a gray fox and am a transspecies gray fox. My pronouns are bark/barks, it/its, or he/him

I'm happily taken by my lovely boyfriend and handler so please don't flirt with me.

I love Dostoevksy and Camus, quadrobics, archery, hunting, fishing, playing fetch, learning languages and so much more! if you're also interested in these things don't be afraid to reach out/ask to be friends!!!!

How to interact with me!

treat me like the fox/dog that I am, send me asks or request moodboards, outfit ideas, and any asks relating to therianthropy advice or other therian stuff.

DO NOT INTERACT IF:

anti-transspecies, anti-therian, anti-kin, homophobic, bigoted in any way, "politically incorrect", fetishize my therianthropy and nonhuman experiences in any way that I don't verbally consent to, transabled, transrace, transdisorder, pro-endo, pro-contact paraphiles, proshippers, comshippers, profantasy, etc.

I BLOCK FREELY

[amityvilles-blog]

Hiii! Our original blog was termed so we made a new one :3 For those that don't know us, the info on us is below but first important info:

All alters that use this are radqueer and/or transID

Alters will often unknowingly mask as Amity. Some posts by still are made by another alter

We are a transendogenic system (cistraumagenic)

We are not interested in discourse. If you have a problem, just block us

Alters ↓

★ - Amity/Dreamie

★ - Alex

★ - Ember

★ - Nyx

★ - Ku

★ - Yuri

★ - Luna (fake name because I'm still kinda shy about this)

★ - Melody 🌐 [text]

★ - Aspen 🦊 [text]

★ - Spider Gwen/Stacy ����️ [text]

Information ↓

Amity/Dreamie

∅ - Name(s): Amity, Dreamie

∅ - Pronouns: quiet/quiets/still/stills/she/her/he/it

∅ - Species: shapeshifter for your convenience

∅ - Identities: zoophile, plushophile, rebornqueer, alterhuman, otherkin, therian, mediakin, songkin, more 'kin identities, alterhuman4alterhuman, queer platonic, transrace (black), transhypnoeyes, transcaibot, radqueerfamous, permakilled, transharmed, and more!

∅ - DNI: cis men (it's not because I have a problem with you, it's because of trauma), anyone who tries to start discourse

∅ - Extra: DO NOT refer to me using human terms or masc terms. However, you can use ones like creature/being and feminine terms. You can also ask what ones I am currently using. I am under the control of Alex (hypnosis)

Alex

∅ - Name(s): Alex

∅ - Pronouns: she/they

∅ - Species: demon

∅ - Identities: transdisabled, demi-romantic

∅ - DNI: anyone who has a problem with us

∅ - Extra: nothing really to say other than feel free to flirt I guess? Oh and I'm in control of Dreamie (hypnosis)

Ember

∅ - Name(s): Ember

∅ - Pronouns: void/voidself/•/•'s

∅ - Species: human

∅ - Identities: MAP, lesbian

∅ - DNI: people who want to flirt with me, anyone who's against any of our identities

∅ - Extra: I am in a relationship with Nyx, I come from an alternate universe and long story short do not mention war, guns, or anything similar (you can ask for more information on the world)

Nyx

∅ - Name(s): Nyx

∅ - Pronouns: she/her

∅ - Species: human

∅ - Identities: AAP, demi-sexual

∅ - DNI: idiots (those who have a problem with us)

∅ - Extra: I don't know? I'm goth/emo and in a relationship with Ember

Ku

∅ - Name(s): Ku

∅ - Pronouns: purr/purrs

∅ - Species: cat boy

∅ - Identities: transharmed, hypersexual

∅ - DNI: minors, anyone who disagrees with who/what we are

∅ - Extra: uhhh not sure! Feel free to flirt I guess?

Yuri

∅ - Name(s): Yuri

∅ - Pronouns: he/him/space

∅ - Species: robotgirl

∅ - Identities: femboy, hypersexual, technophile

∅ - DNI: idiots (people who have a problem with us)

∅ - Extra: feel free to send me smut (pictures of technology)

Luna

-Name(s): Luna

-Pronouns: he/it

-Species: not comprehensible :3

-Identities: questioning para, questioning transID, DEFINITE RQ ally :3, demiboy, AroAce

Extra: not sharing a picture because I'm scared someone might recognize me

Melody,

∅ - Name(s): Projekt Melody

∅ - Pronouns: she/her

∅ - Species: human

∅ - Identities: bi, radqueer, zoo

∅ - DNI: minors (that aren't okay with nsft related stuff)

∅ - Extra: I'm technically just a shapeshifter that chooses to always looks like Melody but she's a kin soooooo

Aspen

∅ - Name(s): Aspen

∅ - Pronouns: it/it's

∅ - Species: human-fox hybrid

∅ - Identities: bi, radqueer

∅ - DNI: anyone who has a problem with anyone in the blog

Gwen

∅ - Name(s):

∅ - Pronouns:

∅ - Species: human

∅ - Identities: radqueer, transrace (black)

∅ - DNI: other spider gwens. It gets confusing for me

Pictures (not important) ↓

Amity (link → x )

Alex (link → x )

Ember (link → x )

Nyx (link → x )

Ku (link → x )

Yuri (link → x )

Melody (link → x )

Aspen (link → x )

Spider Gwen/Stacy (link lost)

[ghosting-plural-userboxes]

Really quick question, what's a sysmed? We've been trying to find out what it means but we have a hard time navigating unfamiliar terms! Also if you can explain what radqueer is that would be nice aswell

happy to !!

Sysmed is short for System Medicalist . It’s a term for a specific subset of anti endos who believe that plurality / systemhood is ONLY valid if it neatly fits precise ( usually inaccurate and misinterpreted ) medical definitions and ideals . Sysmeds also( commonly ) hold aggressively ableist and sanist views and frequent subreddits like r/systemcringe

Radqueer, is a small “ community “ of people who support things like TransRace ( as in a white person trying to become black ) , TransAbuser and “ MAPS “ aswell as encourage harmful behaviors like “ consensual “ abuse , grooming , programming and contact between “ AAMs “ and “ MAPs “

extra: Radqueers have been commonly likened to a Cult .

MAP: stands for Minor Attracted Person( < adult )

AAM: stands for Adult Attracted Minor

hopefully this helps !!/gen

[antiradqueer]

Hey, I’m currently trying to leave the radqueer and transid communities. I keep wanting to go back, I keep wanting to be “the really inclusive one”. I know my time there hurt me, but I still feel like somehow they’re “not that bad” Can you send me links to some of the worst transids you have found. I know they have coined some really bad things, but I kind of need to see it with my own eyes. I’m messaging you because you’re the most well known anti-radqueer.

ive collected a bit most of these screenshots are from what we've collected for the carrd. anyone is free to add to this in the notes cus theres 100% more stuff we missed. also no spoons for ids cus theres just so many images

tw for: mentions of the r slur, antisemitism/nazis, lolishos, CSA, cults, RAMCOA, TERFs, Transphobia, racism, ableism. you get it.

these were like all the images i could fit on mobile

see also:

warning on kandiqueer(link) / Radqueer is a cult(link) / more shitty transids(links)

non links:

the existence and acceptance of pro c (not just for the "big 3" but for murder/assault paraphilias and ones that can put ones health at risk) , transharmful etc., kandiqueer and its variants, xenosatanists, loli/shotacon, csam, adults being intimate with minors/animals etc.

radqueers stealing terms or trying to claim terms are part of their shit (despite outcry from the communities surrounding said terms): transrace (adoptees), transabled/BIID, chronosian, aldernic, transgender, transpecies, etc.

the constant comparing of paraphilia, disability, race, age, etc. to gender and being trans/queer and the basically piggy backing off queer/disabled etc. communities

the large overlap of "youth liberation" and lolishos/pro cs

the sheer amount of "noone will accept you but us"

defending blackface, racefaking, disability faking, racist/ableist stereotypes, etc.

the constant harassment of not just anyone who doesn't like them but those who are in their community who question or criticise anything rq. and the harassment of ex radqueers, which goes from anonymous threats all the way to claiming their trauma from being rq isnt real.

the activity that goes on in the background outside tumblr (like discord) where alot of illegal material is being traded aswell as grooming and pressuring minors to send images of themselves, and very likely alot more im not remembering

aaaaaand if theres anymore ill add it later either by edit or by reblog. again. feel free to add anything in the notes cus it helps. especially image ids cus i can not do those rn or at all.

[ciphersbabygirl]

A Personal Blog, All For Me!

Hello~!

My name is Idia Cipher, daughter and wife of Bill Cipher 💛 and here's some basic information about me before you follow / interact!

Detrans Queer Woman, She/Her pronouns

Pansexual Polyamorous, Taken

Transage (12 or younger), Transrace (German & Black), TransWeight (Skinny, Extreme)

Consang, Insectophile, few other paras

Pro-Consent

Radqueer and Cassowaryqueer

CisDemon / CisHalfDemon /srs

Mentally Ill, mostly personality disorders

Coiner of Transharmed and Dovequeer

Fuck off list (DNI): Transphobes / TERFs / Radfems, Anti-Radqueer, anti-paraphile, anti-transid

Wanna send me hate? Go ahead. Wanna chat? Send an ask. Questioning radqueer? Shoot me an ask or a message.

Might coin things, might not, don't know.

Other alters of mine are on here, I'm the Host if you see me named.

[self-dx-culture-is]

Welcome Post

This blog is inclusive of everyone who has a self-dx! All submissions should start with "Self dx/diagnosed culture is" (or a more specific version, such as "self dx autistic culture is").

I will ignore any posts asking me to diagnose them (as I'm not qualified), and I request that no one ask for help in self-diagnosis either. If I can find reliable resources, I will link them below, under the cut.

Feel free to vent, but let me now so I can tag it appropriately. If you would like, you may also request that reblogs and/or comments be turned off for that post.

Anons are welcome!

EDIT:

Since we've been getting some lately, I wanted to state that while I have nothing against sending people financial aid, that is not the purpose of this blog and we personally are uncomfortable sending money over the internet due to paranoia. If we start getting too many, we probably will start deleting them as it's somewhat stressful to even post them for others to see the request. This is not directed at anyone and is just a general statement so everyone is aware.

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We are an endogenic system and may be collectively called (the) Werewolf Pack. Our collective pronouns are She/They.

We have professionally diagnosed Amblyopia, Sensory Processing Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, and Avoidant Personality Disorder. We have self-diagnosed Synesthesia and Visual Snow Syndrome, and are questioning Schizotypal Personality Disorder, Schizoid Personality Disorder, Autism, and ADHD.

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Resources:

DSM-5.pdf - Google Drive(link)

(Plurality:)

https://morethanone.info/(link)

What Is Plurality? – Plurality Resource(link)

powertotheplurals.com | Resource & articles for everymany - Dissociative identity disorder and other forms of plurality.(link)

More will be added as found! Feel free to suggest resources you've found helpful yourself!

[proshippy-fox]

hey uhm question what’s a radqueer? /gen

i see this term tossed around a lot and a lot of the sources i look at have very different meanings and interpretations and i just wanna know which one is correct /nm

I'd say that, like the term proshipper, it's best to ask someone who uses the term or specifically in this case, used to use the term. Not sure I'm the best to ask here because I am not radqueer nor have I used to term to describe myself, but I'll share my thoughts anyways.

I'm anti-radqueer because the radqueer community, from what I've seen (mainly from radqueers who post in the proship tag at times) support things like being "transrace," "transdisabled," and "transnazi," as well as some people who used to be part of the radqueer community saying that there are lots of pro-contact harmful paraphilias in there. I think it is a harmful community not only because of that, but because they try to co-opt queer terms (trans) in ridiculous, nonsensical, and downright harmful ways. You can't "transition" to be black, or asian, or white, or any race or ethnicity. You can admire other cultures, and want to learn more about them, but that is not something you can "transition" into being a part of. You don't "transition" into becoming disabled, you simply become disabled due to certain factors. You don't "transition" into hating an entire race of people- You are just a hateful person.

For that last one, having intrusive thoughts about potentially being racist, sexist, a pedophile, anything harmful at all- Those are intrusive thoughts. That is not a trans identity. None of these radqueer labels mentioned have anything to do with gender, and trans is a term used for gender. I will not doubt that there are radqueer identities that do deal with gender, but as the radqueer identity accepts people who use the term trans for harmful and disrespectful purposes, I am very anti-radqueer.

There is also a difference between rad-inclusive and radqueer- I've seen people who are rad-inclusive say that they are anti radqueer. Rad-inclusive, from what I've seen, means they accept transgender and queer identities that seemingly contradict each other, such as m-spec lesbians. I personally have no problem with queer people using labels like that as they please- gender and sexuality is very fluid, and being queer hurts no one.

I suppose the main problem I hold with radqueers is just how disrespectful and harmful many of the terms they use are, and the way they try to claim these terms should be associated with gender and sexuality when they are not.

Again, it's probably best you ask people who have first-hand experience with radqueer spaces. I am lucky enough to not have any personal experience with any of them, considering how some have said grooming and encouragement of nonconsensual paraphilias are rampant.

I'll put the proship tags in, so maybe someone else can help answer your questions more accurately. I myself am also a bit curious, and would love to see what other people think^^

[sewers-headmates]

Welcome To The Factory

welcome to cyberlife! we are here to provide you a headmate with all your needs! what makes our blog unique you may ask? we only do fictives, factives, and songtives once in a while. you can request from any source not on our blacklist. we have no dni here but do block freely. this blog is radqueer, proship, comship, darkship, pro-endo, pro transID, and pro Para friendly! In short we love and welcome anyone here! we will be referring to the alters we make as androids to fit in with the blog but again you don’t have to request anything from DBH!

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feel free to change whatever you want or just a blurb of what you want for your android! for example “a fictive of connor from Detroit Become Human” or “a hatchetfield alter who is transHarmed and childish” anything like that! if you want our more advanced androids (longer form) you must ask for it and it has to be on our fandom list!

This is the template we use. It is preferred that you don’t just copy and paste this and summarizes what you want. We get overwhelmed easily! /nm

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[redtail-lol]

Presenting, Enderqueer

[Image ID: 2 6-striped flags. They are the same flag, but the one on the left has an end portal overlay, which makes it darker with lighter rectangular speckles. Colors on the right's, in descending order, are: pink; light purple; dark purple; black; dark teal-blue; slightly dark sea green. The right has darkened versions of these same colors. End ID.]

My own blankqueer label. I've been wanting to make one for a while. Name and flag based on the End dimension from Minecraft.

Core principles of Enderqueer:

The core principles of Enderqueer are as follows

The right to self identification with little restrictions and rules.

Inclusion of non-harmful identities in the communities they say they belong to.

Respecting the identities of people even if you do not understand.

Giving everyone a chance to explain their identity before deeming it harmful; as well as respecting someone's choice to not explain and assuming good faith rather than passing judgement.

Putting experiences over definitions; allowing all labels to have outliers if they're comfortable with the label even when it doesn't fit them perfectly.

Queer liberation and the advancements of our rights.

Destroying heteronormativity, cisnormativity, exorsexism, intersexism, allonormativity, amatonormativity, and mononormativity (all 3 meanings of mono: monosexuality, monogenderism, and monogamy).

Enderqueer beliefs:

On identity, enderqueer believes the following

Most forms of self identification are valid, however anything that is identified with for harmful reasons (such as transphobia, biphobia/multiphobia, homophobia, ableism, racism, etc.) or things that are harmful regardless of reason (such as transabled, transrace for non-adoptees, transnazi, shit like that), are not valid.

It is okay to ask questions about identities you don't understand or think are harmful before fully accepting them without question. However, if a person doesn't want to answer, that is their right, and it doesn't give you the right to argue against or hate their identity. Assume good faith and maybe ask others who have similar identities.

Identity is complicated and every label, regardless of definition, can and will have outliers, and this is not a problem

Experiences and personal comforts are more important than definitions

All mspec identities are valid and are not biphobic

All aspecs are queer unless the aspec person in particular says they aren't.

All Polyamory, ambiamory, and other nonmonogamy is queer unless the polyam/non-monogam person in particular says they are not queer.

Redundant terms are okay

Multigendered and genderfluid people are "really" their genders. The existence of their other genders or the temporary nature of their genders don't make them less real

On paraphilias, enderqueer believes the following

Paraphilias are morally neutral. Paraphiles who's paraphilias are nonconsensual or harmful to themselves or others deserve support and recovery, and paraphiles who's paraphilias are not harmful should be allowed to act on it. Paraphilias that can either be harmful or not harmful should only be practiced in a safe and ethical way.

On flag discourse, enderqueer believes the following

Flags should not be gatekept from certain groups unless they are specific to one identity or one group of identities. people can decide to use your flags based on your beliefs.

Controversial original flags can be used regardless of if you agree with the creators, but replacement flags should not be used by people who don't agree with the sentiments behind the cancellation. Racist transphobes should not use the orange and pink lesbian flag. Mspec lesbians and supporters should not use the new pan or aroace flags. This is because the new flags have a goal: punish the original creator for a belief by replacing their work. Using replacement flags is accomplishing that goal, and if you agree with the original creator, you shouldn't punish them.

Multioriented and abrosexual people are "really" their orientations. The existence of their other orientations or the temporary nature of their orientations don't make them less real

Other things enderqueer believes the following

Queer labels should not concern themselves with non-queer issues, as that is a different part of one's identity. Making queer labels that concern themselves with non-queer issues excludes the people who are either uneducated on the topic or have no business voicing the opinion because they are not a part of the community or even adjacent.

Gender is real. Social constructs are powerful things that can cause real and observable phenomenon in the brain, and gender being real doesn't invalidate any funky gender identity

Gender Abolition is transphobic. Gender is the identity, and taking away gender leaves nothing but biological sex which may still allow binary trans people to exist if they experience dysphoria but will definitely erase all nondysphoric and nonbinary people.

Transmisogyny and transmisandry are real

POC queers are an unremovable and important part of the queer community

What does enderqueer explicitly support?

Enderqueer supports the following identities, actions, or forms of identification:

Unlabeled identities

People who use few labels for themselves

Termcollectors and labelhoarders

All aspecs, including loveless aros, any sex stance for aces, romance stance for aros, friendship stance for apls, etc, and atertiaries

Anti-contact, pro-recovery paraphiles who's paraphilias are harmful to themselves or others

Paraphiles who's paraphilias are not harmful to themselves or others

Paraphiles who's paraphilias can be harmful or can be safe who only act on them in a way that is safe and ethical

Mspec monos

Mspec gays, veldians, lesbians, cenelians, enbians, straights, etc who do not consider themselves monos

Straightbians, straight gays, straight veldians, gaybians/velaurians, and other labels often used by multigender people

Lesboys, turigirls, ceneliboys and ceneligirls, enbiboys and enbigirls, trixiboys and trixigirls, and toriboys and torigirls

Any other form of "contradictory" labels

Aspec and non-aspec SAM

Xenogenders

Xenidens, or xenoids used in reclamation

Allion orientations

Gender nonconformity, including pronoun nonconformity

Neurolabels, when used by people who have those conditions

Reclamation of slurs and derogatory terms, even when used as an identity

Transracial adoptees

Transspecies therians

Transage chronosian or transage age regressors

What does enderqueer explicitly denounce?

Enderqueer denounces the following identities, actions, or forms of identification:

Radqueers

Winterqueers or Winterpunks

Transidentities that are not transgender, transrace adoptees, therian transspecies, or chronosian/agere transage

Pro-contact harmful paraphilias or neu-contact harmful paraphilias. This also applies to unethical or unsafe ways of acting on a paraphilia that can be done in a safe, ethical way

Comp-contact for paraphilias that can never be safe or ethical in practice

Anti-recovery for ANY paraphilias. Nonharmful paraphiles may choose to recover anyway

Anti-contact for paraphilias that are never dangerous or unethical

Radical feminists

Not recognizing attraction to elsegender people as being just as real and valid as attraction to aptobinary people. This includes calling all exclusive lesbians monosexual, saying all sexualities inherently include elsegender people, thinking enbians are choosing to date nonbinary people or cenelians are choosing not to date aptobinary people, rather than recognizing that they are attracted to other elsegender people, potentially exclusively, or calling WLN and MLN labels transphobic or enbyphobic

Bad faith labels such as superstraight, quasihomosexual, animesexual (though animesexual can be reclaimed by fictosexuals), and others made to mock queerness or justify bigotry

What is enderqueer neutral on, or what does enderqueer not believe needs to be part of a blankqueer label?

Enderqueer is stanceless on the following:

Syscourse

Shipcourse

Self diagnosis

Furries

Alterhumanity (OP supports and it's close to queer discourse but ultimately I decided it was far enough removed that it didn't need to be included)

Engaging with problematic media and/or creators

Kink at pride (I know this one is super relevant but I don't have any strong opinions and the ones I do have are very mixed)

Enderqueers may have no opinion on the above issues, or a stance that they do not believe is important to a blankqueer label. Or they may just agree with everything else included under enderqueer and choose to use it.

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Hello, I have a question, what exactly is TransID, and why are they vaild?

This is a genuine question, I swear I'm not trying to be rude! I just want to learn and figure out my own opinion on this. People say they aren't valid then others say they are, I just don't understand, and I'd like to.

1. Definition from TransID.org:

A TransID person is an individual who uses identities different from the ones assigned to them by society based on their physical body. This includes identifying as an age other than ones chronological; an ethnicity other than inherited from ones parents; and ones appearance other than the one that can be perceived by an onlooker.

2. Definition from TransID.carrd.co:

Transid short for Transidentify is an umbrella term for any individual who is some form of trans such as transabled, transage, transrace, transspecies, transgender, etc.

My opinion:

In my opinion they are valid because

1. Identity is very complex and diverse.

2. Our feelings are always valid because they are always subjective, of course someone action motivated by the feelings cannot be valid, but the feeling itself is always valid and if someone feels that way it’s valid.

3. You cares, as long as you do not willingly promote harm or be ignorant about possible harm you cause, who cares as what and how you identify as. It’s your life not mine.