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This vintage silver Claymore Kilt pin by well-respected Scottish maker Thomas Kerr Ebbutt is a real gem. Over 9cm long, it showcases some classic Claymore designs, and is similar to a sword suggested to belong to Robert the Bruce. The hilt has a classic quatrefoil design and appears to mimic the swirling pattern of tusk handled swords from the late 16th century xx
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IAN GALLAGHER + his journey with bipolar disorder
╰┈➤ “At times, being bipolar can be an all-consuming challenge, requiring a lot of stamina and even more courage, so if you’re living with this illness and functioning at all, it’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of." - Carrie Fisher
#happy world bipolar day to all my bp babies#(more thoughts at the end of the tags)#shameless#shamelessnet#shamelessedit#ian gallagher#cameron monaghan#*macygifs#bipolar disorder#hello pals how are we doin#i made this gif set in july of 2023 and never posted it because 1) i was terrified to share it and potentially see Bad Takes in the tags#and 2) because my hyperfixation was waning. and while both of those things are still mostly true (the fixation comes and goes)#i feel like it's really important to share as ian's bipolar storyline was not only so vital to his character it was a bit of representation#that isn't often given to the disorder and those (like myself) who live with it every single day#world bipolar day is a day where we can both celebrate ourselves and our resilience and also raise awareness of the reality of the disorder#which is both terrifying and beautiful at its core. this disease is not a death sentence or a sentence to an unfulfilled and miserable life#while there are challenges galore when it comes to balancing life with this disorder it IS possible to live a full and productive life#and i think it's really important to have representation of that in media - and while shameless dropped the ball on a LOT of storylines#over the years THIS is the one they really fucking nailed and i am incredibly grateful#i first started watching shameless while in the midst of a major depressive episode and i was later (finally) diagnosed during an extended#hypo/manic episode - this show and ian's storyline got me through so much and made me feel so seen and validated in my struggles#world bipolar day is also vincent van gogh's birthday (happy birthday buddy) who was posthumously diagnosed with bipolar disorder#and who experienced both depressive and hypo/manic episodes during his lifetime (and was regularly institutionalized)#it takes a lot of help and support to keep us going. it takes the support of our family and friends and *most* of all#it takes patience and kindness and understanding - which is so so so easy to give if you are willing to love and listen#so please. be willing. listen to our stories. be patient with us. show us love without conditions. support us in any way you can.#we are worth it#i promise#anyway. that's really all i wanted to say. happy world bipolar day to those who celebrate (me) and may all of us living with this disorder#go on to live happy fulfilling beautiful magical lives
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"Please... Take good care of him."
#kamen rider agito#kamen rider gills#ryo ashihara#ashihara ryo#tetsuya sawaki#sawaki tetsuya#kamen rider#userdramas#umbrella.gifs#tokuedit#please do not repost#umbrella.edits#umbrella.posts#translation: earthly subs#subtitles added by me#i do believe ryo would uphold this request#tetsuya did help him after all by allowing him a second chance at life getting mana to revive him and gave him a place to heal from his#injuries and build up his strength i also#ryo likes to pay people back it's why he looks over shouichi when mana asks him to#i like to believe that ryo would always check in and be a friend to shouichi since he values their friendship greatly but this adds another#layer to his actions and to tetsuya's character as well#i talked about it in my lb but i think this scene shows how badly tetsuya wants to make up for not saving yukina#he knows that yukina loved shouichi and he was her only family so he wants to make sure he's taken care of#especially when he knows that his life will not last much longer he just wants to do what he can right now what he couldn't do for yukina#he wants shouichi to have people to support him and he wants him to live a life like yukina would have wanted he wants him to be okay
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I Am Having A Bad Day......😢😢💔
Today, My Dad Had Refused To Take Me To School After I Just Missed The Bus, I Am Sad And Upset At Him After He Beats Me Up Which It Really Hurts...... And I Am Sad And Scared Of My Dad Who Already Wrestle Me, Good Thing I Am Okay And I Didn't Get Hurt..............While Bad Thing Is That My Family Is Started To Get Toxic At Me....................
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Hello guys 🤍
My name is Abood, I live in Gaza with my family of 9
We need you and your support to evacuate my family abroad, and complete my education
The last donation was 15 days ago
Why!!
Help us 🚨🚨
I ask you to re-share my posts and if you can donate 🤍
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#help gaza#gaza gofundme#free gaza#please help#send help#help families#support us#support me#help us#link in bio#fypシ#for you#fypシ゚viral#viral#my family
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edelgard <333
#got her first support scene (where she’s having a nightmare and tells you abt her family)#and got her & hubert’s first scene too (they’re CRAZY. he’s like PLEASE let me kill for you. and she’s like.#no. i gotta do my killing myself. you can help tho.)#fe3h#izzy.txt
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hi, just letting you know that ahmed 90s-ghost doesn't verify fundraisers anymore! he quit after it got too overwhelming, so you shouldn't @ him asking him to. you can probably find the post about it by searching his blog.
Thanks for letting me know, Anon...
I get it... I REALLY do.
I understand. Y'know I used to be so excited to get Asks. It means someone wants to talk about art and silly cartoon characters with me. But now all I feel is dread. Not because I don't want to help, but because the help I give is never enough. I used to privately mesage back to those Asks, but one became 6 became 10 to... Well. I can't donate. Euros and dollars are valued a lot higher here, thus the opposite is also true. The value of our money is but a paltry bread's worth and even if I split it in crumbs, with the amount of people who approach me for help, it'll soon run dry, but I'm just a student who still rely on my parents financially. So I thought I'd share instead, but that quickly got out of hand. I post one thing and get multiple asks by the HOUR. I already had to apologize for struggling to meet demands before and I only had 3 or 6 rare to come-by short Asks about art. Now I have a hundred and counting I have to check personally. I didn't want to admit it, but I've also long been overwhelmed. I just didn't feel like I had the right to say so. I still don't. But the truth is, anyone can say they're verified too, which is terrible because not only will I be partially responsible for my followers who got scammed by bots or scumbags who take advantage of those at war with fake fundraisers, but even worse is that the help and money may not even reach those who actually need it. I thought I would be fine the first time. I don't really like posting too much about our depressing reality or watching news in general because my account was supposed to be a "safe SPACE" and a "nice little BUBBLE" for us to be happy and escape for awhile, so I didn'tmthink much about rebloggingit at first. I only wanted to help. But it just kept going and I got swept away. There's so many of them, but there's only one of me and I've been spiraling lately. So for now, I will no longer take any Asks about this subject (which I always avoid mentioning directly because the algorithm has it out for putting you guys down and I wanted you all to make it so I didn't tag those reblogs with such). I'll still take Asks provided they're related to my actual content and of course I'll still support raising awareness for Pal est ine, yet I also get it if this may appear selfish to some of you. I tried. I really did. But if you'd rather ignore, unfollow, or block me for this decision, I understand. I'm just sorry it had to come to this and that I wasn't strong enough to help more. -Bubs.
#I'm so very sorry#asks#thank you for your hard work 90s-ghost#I hope you're doing better now#war serves no one#I know a lot of people needs help#but I can't keep up with the demand anymore#I'm feeling burned out and college just started back up again#I know I'm lucky to live the life that I do and I shouldn't get to complain#but I've been spiraling lately cause it's a thankless job that reminds me quick and repeatedly that I can't save everyone#I'm sorry for the onslaught of negativity from me lately#this wasn't what I made my account for#but I'll be back to making more content sooner than you think#it makes me happy and now I REALLY need that escape too#I know I'm a coward who's likely dooming people#I'm disappointed in me too#feel free to unfollow me#but never forget to support those families in need#they're just desperate to live like the rest of us#and please don't harass anyone because of this#that's the LAST thing I want to happen#I want to help them too but I'm stretched thin here#one person can't do this all on their own#so let's support each other instead and unite for this cause#I don't want this war. I don't want this discord.#the ones who does are monsters#people's lives are at stake and even if I barely helped#the same cannot be said if the lot of us were to do our part#please help these victims of war#but let's not forget we're not on our own.
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But…
Don’t stop the fight for equal rights!
Let your voice be heard!
And for those in a bad mental place, here are some links to posts that can provide you with helplines if you need:
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Never forget, you are loved 🩷
#hopefully some funny images can help lighten this heavy subject#us politics#stay safe out there#tw flashing#WARNING: tags will go into subjects of suicide and child death. be warned!#today (nov 6) marks 5 years since one of my friends killed himself. not a day goes by where I don't think of him. he's the reason I'm here#when all those anti trans laws went through I felt like there was no hope. the reason why I stayed was because of the impact he had on me#I knew that if I died I would leave my family in the same pain his death caused me#we didn't know much about each other. we just talked while we walked to our bus. the conversations usually lasted 10 minutes tops#then one day he stopped coming. it was cold and flu season so I thought he was sick#a month later (nov 6) I found out he had shot himself after being heavily bullied and his life support was being unplugged. he was only 14.#please don't die. people do care about you.#(for those who will be concerned: I'm doing a lot better now. lexapro has been saving my ass and my current life situation has granted me#more freedom so I'm a lot happier now)#mint mumbles
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you know. i get that people offer empty platitudes when they don’t know what else to say. but when that’s the only thing you get back, it starts to be fucking patronizing and it really starts to piss me off. it’s fine if you don’t have anything to say!!!! just don’t say anything! just say “i’m sorry you’re going through this.” and leave it at that!!! i don’t need the Soppy Sympathy Express to show up every time i express frustration over my situation!!!
#it’s just so fucking frustrating to be the person people come to for advice#but when you’re the one who needs advice everybody is all shoulders and empty platitudes#yeah i get it#you don’t have anything meaningful to contribute so you just say whatever sympathy thing you can think of#BUT IT’S NOT HELPFUL#AND IT FEELS LIKE YOU’RE PATRONIZING ME#like awwww obrecita you poor widdle baby who can’t get a wee jobbo#fuck#if you don’t have anything constructive to say#just don’t say anything. please.#very tired of being reassured that my inability to provide for myself and my family isn’t my fault uwu#it’s just like………..no shit sherlock. so what the fuck do i do about it.#*screams and rips hair and gnashes teeth and rends garments*#gods it’s so fucking infuriating#just….the whole thing#i KNOW people are just trying to be helpful + supportive#but i find it neither#i in fact find it vexatious and deeply irritating
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you know I was feeling like shit earlier today and I still feel kind of shit (not as much) but I also saw so many fireflies that it looked like the night sky was in the trees. The world isn’t filled with evil. There’s still some good out there. Just last year I saw maybe 10 fireflies the entire summer. This year they’re lighting up my backyard. There’s small things we can do to change the world, even if it won’t happen all at once. If you’re feeling as hopeless and helpless as I was, go outside and look at the fireflies. Smile that they’re living because people fought for them to live, and it worked. Smile knowing there will always be people fighting, that there’s kindness and gentleness out there that will combat any greed and hate generated. We may not finish the work, but we can do our part, and we can leave a mark. Every tiny thread makes the tapestry, there’s no thread more important than the other. I know I sound cheesy but honestly if you can’t handle it you need to learn to lighten up, humble yourself and accept the meaning.
#it made me so happy to see that the fireflies were back#they were almost gone entirely where I lived. they’re still not as numerous as they were when I was a kid but they’re lighting up the sky#if you have a problem with my cheesy prose you can write ur own version btw. bc I’m not stopping :)#and if you can’t write ur own version then sit down and eat ur food#I still feel low bc it’s not like I’m swinging right back up from where I was but I am doing better bc I have such good friends and family#and it’s not morally wrong to feel sad and hopeless sometimes. it’s normal. it’s important to learn to get back up however#even if I choose to keep on living I can’t continue to live in hopelessness. that isn’t living at all#there has to be some good to be found even if you have to scrape your knuckles till they bleed digging for it#and good and loyal friends will always be there to help you when you need it#that said even if you can’t find hope and joy it matters to keep trying. a good support system will help you until you can smile again#and if you don’t have one please don’t give up. you will find your people and they will be so happy you stayed alive to be in their life
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Another gypsy set ring here with diamond and vibrant pink topaz gemstones as the stars of the show. The simple gold band seeks to bring the eye towards its centre and creates a beautiful vintage shaping. This ring has an element of fun whilst still remaining an elegant piece xx
#etsy#small business#topaz#pink topaz#diamond ring#diamonds#topaz rings#vintage#antique#engagement rings#please help me support my family
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whatever *perseveres*
#im doing everything i need to at least and it will improve with time#i just need to keep pushing myself to actually react to things and do things just difficult#i dont actually want to be angry or have to be mean to anyone but the feelings i have are all justified and i know it#and its about time i make my life about me instead of being upset other people take advantage of my people pleasing nature#cus otherwise i just trap myself in a limbo where i cant do anything for myself or anyone else i should at least do thjngs for myself now#i spent most of my life living it for everyone else#i actually cut my mom off like a week ago and i think its helping also i just dont ever want to burn bridges with family#but at the end of the day i cant be the cinderblock holding everything in place she needs to build her own resources and support circle#just like i need to build my own and stop letting the expectations or judgement of others interfere with that#the only right way to do any of this is my way because im me
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I want to kill myself so fucking badly. I want to stop existing in constant torment and isolation and disappear whatever way is most convenient for me. I want to die through any method I possibly can. But then I think about elderly trans people.
#I want to transition and be accepted and supported and I can't let down everyone who died just so I could have the opportunity#to reach this age and live without constant unending fear in my house or in public#I'm going to turn 21 soon and I'm so angry thinking about how many queer people didn't get to turn 21#As much abuse as I'm living through and as worthless I feel just breathing oxygen at least I wasn't killed in the street#The first time I cut my hair#I did endure lgbtphobia i was sexually harassed and assaulted as a CHILD for having short hair#Correctively raped and laughed at for ever possibly thinking I could have a chance at being liked by the prettiest girl I'd ever seen#Constantly called nasty and unnatural and unholy and demonic by strangers and my family#I want to die but more than I just want to live somebody please help me live#Op
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how's the job hunt going? would you ever relocate for a job love?
Oh wow what a question lol! Honestly i dont expect to be able to find anything new till this strike is over, the competition is insane right now. In the meantime my plan is to teach myself faster hard surface sculpting in z*brush using hockey gear \o/ mostly because i dont want to pay the $150 a month for maya, that shits insane. Like a fucking health insurance payment.
For the second question - i dont think i've ever experienced love like that. I think it would take a lot of devotion and sacrifice to give up your dreams for someone else. Admirable, for sure. And also a sacrifice that historically women are the ones expected to make. Every time. :( For a job? Lol, i would move in a heartbeat. I stayed in pittsburgh 6 years after college for my dream job - i only left when i lost it. Knew the next dream job wasnt going to be there, so made my way to LA. And now im having to come to terms with the idea that the dream job doesnt exist as i imagined it - or only exists for a very VERY select few.
And actually, thats not totally true about me and love. I think if i thought for one second that nick could love me back like i diid him, id already be in new england. When i applied to this one job, that sounded like a dream come true it listed the salary, and brian and i just read it and gaped. We looked at each other and i was like i dont even know what the fuck i would DO with all that. And of course the first thing that popped into my mind was i could buy that sailboat nick always talked about. When i was writing my programming textbook a decade ago, and really going through it, and nick and i were up until 3 or 4am every night painting theater sets, he'd talk about his sailing adventures, teach me rope knots, that sort of thing, basically a mental escape. And so last week i texted him like 'hey no promises but what if im suddenly actually making good money. Do you still want that boat?' Because, nick's worked so long and so hard and all he's gotten to is the point of still working on boats other people own, and its just not fair how devalued physical labor is, you know? And his immediate reaction was to launch into our very old daydream - the whole 'yes and you're coming with me, sail off into the sunset' stuff. And that hadnt occured to me - my idea was just- id give him the boat, and he'd fix it up, and id maybe demand photos or a visit or two every so often. Because i think finally -finally- im at a point in my life where being in love isnt enough - i want the other person to love me back. And lol definitely not someone who declares love one minute and then stops talking to me for weeks or months, and the cycle repeats over and over. I think its possible to love someone enough that you recognize you arent the one for them, but still want them to be happy? Happier than you could make them.
So long answer is yes, i would relocate for love, but i have learned the hard way to know when i shouldn't.
#And if this anon is who i think it might be?#My friend i fully support your adventure across countries for love <3#Just please have back up plans cause as romantic as love is#Sometimes it can go wrong and you need to be independant enough to extricate yourself from bad situations#whether thats just having the savings or having family friends connections who can help wherever you are going#I know personally how VERY wrong love can go#And im not saying it would happen but if something does go wrong you dont want to end up trapped#Out of the frying pan and into the frier so to speak#Im on the negative side of this debate#a positive example of relocating for love would be my favorite youtuber couple justin scar*ed and ally war*en#Her whole story was absolutely an escape from her family the minute she could and helped by justin#but i feel like theyre the lucky ones not all of us get that#anyway lol if this isnt who i think it might be sorry!!#that was a long rant from me
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There should be some kind of system to match up adults of abusive parents to older people looking for someone to look after because there are certainly plenty of both
#that being said#if anyone wants to have a go at parenting me#please god do#I am hella disabled and need help with like#making phone calls and dealing with doctors and eating food and cleaning#I need support that I simply do not have#because my parents were assholes#and it really is just#sad.#I need like#a nosy family member with too much time on their hands#eris tag
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🧍🏻 girl help the blood tests came back and I do possibly have pre-hypothyroidism. They want me to come back in 3 months to do another panel just in case bc smth was apparently way way too high 😭 wtf !!
#I don’t know what they’ll do if it’s confirmed I mean. I mean they confirmed my levels are high but maybe it’s a fluke 😭 PLSS if that’s#actually fr a reason or contributing factor to my mental stuff I will lose it I don’t want another diagnosis I have enough shit wrong!!!#enoughhhhh like stoppp ittttt 😂 please. ☹️#I am also going to …book an appointment w a disability lawyer#I once again quit a job after 2 days 😔#but I’m alive! I survived a level 10 brain crisis . I can’t keep getting jobs and then having huge horrible week long meltdowns over them#it’s disability or bust!!!! if the lawyer tells me it’s not realistic and she doesn’t think I’ll get it idk 😭#but like. I’m not able to work rn. I can’t keep lying and downplaying it and then spending weeks recovering after meltdowns#it’s not sustainable!!!! it cannot continue!!!!#literally nervously admitted to my sister how bad it actually is and saying it out loud was so hard and embarrassing but…#I promised the crisis hotline lady I’d get help and tell my support system that I need help. I will not let her down 🫡 I will get help#if I have to drag myself. which I will .#lol…(pained) I rly hope the lawyer takes me seriously 😐#medical talk#sanchoyorambles#actually thyroid issues run in the family my grandma has thyroid issues!!! I’ve gone w her to a specialist that’s like 3 hours away!!!#maybe I shouldn’t be surprised but I genuinely am I am like wtf!! bro !!#I mean tbf I’ve had anxiety forever like even as a very small child so I don’t think that’s the ONLY reason but if it’s contributing…🔫#I don’t even kno how they’d treat that I will look it up I guess 🧍🏻
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