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rigormortisangel · 2 months ago

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"but if youre skinny why do you have an eating disorder" those two things are not related

#rigormortisangel #people need to understand this #“you dont need to lose weight” “you look fine” tell me youve never had an ed without telling me youve never had an ed #even the thinnest people alive with eds will call themselves fat every chance they get #and people think they do this for compliment fishing or attention but i garuntee you most of them genuinely think theyre fat #its called body dysmorphia #plus my weight being lowish is not entirely bc of my ed im also chronically ill and eating is painful so i dont find the appeal #when eating the wrong thing can cause you organ damage and a hospital visit you lowkey tend not to do it !!#also my extensive sensory issues i hate the sensation of food in my body and im also prescribed laxatives so. yeah. take that as you will

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psychotic-nonsense · 2 years ago

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THANK YOU I'VE BEEN TRYING TO PUT THIS INTO WORDS FOR AGES

The reason Steve doesn’t have success in dating after high school/his relationship with Nancy, has nothing to do with him being stuck in Hawkins at a minimum wage job. It has everything to do with the fact that he’s fundamentally changed in the last two years and yet, he’s still chasing the same type of women he wanted when he was King Steve.

That’s what Dustin is trying to tell him at Scoops the summer of 1985. And it clicks for a minute for Steve when he mistakes his friendship with Robin for romantic attraction, but then Robin rejects him and Steve goes back to chasing the girls King Steve chased. Because obviously it didn’t work with a nerdy girl, so they must not be his type.

But neither are the popular girls he’s chasing because they still see him as King Steve. The cocky and charismatic King of Hawkins High.

But Steve’s not that person anymore and he never will be again for reasons he can’t explain to these girls. And they don’t get it. They don’t get how the so-called King fell so far because they haven’t witnessed the new and improved version of Steve.

But you know who has?

Eddie.

Nerdy, hyper, over-the-top dramatic Eddie who no longer sees Steve as King Steve, but rather the new and improved Steve who cares deeply about his friends and will do everything to protect him.

Which is why they would have been the perfect couple if the Duffers weren’t cowards

#pls write the essay #if you don't i will #people need to understand this

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guess1mjustheren0w · 4 months ago

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people need to realise there's a difference between

What they did was justified

and

What they did was understandable

ONE DOES NOT MEAN THE OTHER AND VICE VERSA

#shitposting #people need to understand this #Just because you can understand why a charater/person did something does not mean you are justifying it #And just because something is justifiable doesn't mean it's understandable

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ravenmccookies · 3 months ago

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Weird phenomenon I've seen on tumblr

#like i understand how frustrating it can be to make art and for it to get no attention #but that ain't an excuse to shame and threaten people into reblogging #some of y'all need to relearn some manners ffs #like christ #usually anything to guilt trip/shame ppl into reblogging does the opposite #because good god who the hell wants to spread the guilt tripping?!#anyways back to you regular tagging schedule #my art #doodles #rambles #comic #my sona #furry art #furry

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edlucavalden · 1 month ago

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Hm… it seems that they have something in common?

[BONUS]

Also, where did Mithrun’s monster knowledge come from..?

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novelcain · 2 years ago

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I am aroace. My fiance is bisexual.

I love my fiancé.

I'm tired of people saying that aroace people are broken or confused. I'm not broken just because I'm different than you. And I'm not confused just because I don't relentlessly chase after romance and sex.

I love my fiancé.

I'm tired of people saying that aroace people will end up miserable and alone. I. Am. Not. Alone. And I never will be. Because, unlike the majority, my relationship is not bound by things that could change. Many people do not understand that romance can fade and sex can get boring. (This is not always the case, but why do you think divorce is so common?)

I love my fiancé.

I say this to Ritz all the time, but I truly do feel that the love I have for her is the purest and truest kind of love anyone can have for someone. My love for her isn't dependent on intimacy or sex. I don't need those kinds of attachments, and while I know that for many those are extremely personal bonding methods, for many more, they can be selfish forms of transactions that others feel entitled to because they are in a relationship. (And that's not to say purely physical relationships are bad. I fully support all the hypersexual aromantic baddies out there.) I don't desire anything from my partner except for her to be here with me. Her time and commitment to me are the most valuable things I could ever ask for.

I love my fiancé.

Not in a romantic way.

Not in a sexual way.

But she is still my soul mate and I love her more than anything in this world and nothing could ever change the love I have for her.

I love my fiancé.

And one day I will make her my wife.

I love you, Ritz.

Edit: OP is my fiancé. Completely forgot to say that in case someone doesn't know 😂

We don't talk about platonic marriages enough

I am bisexual. My partner is aroace. We are in a queerplatonic relationship. We have been together for around 4 years and got engaged a little over 1 year ago. We don't do romantic things (we do sometimes, but not usually.) and we don't do sexual things. There's no romance, but we love each other. It is 100% platonic. But I ALWAYS feel the need to clarify this with people we meet that, it's not "oh haha we were best friends for so long we just decided to get married teehee" NO It's still love. We live for each other. We would die for each other. We are attached at the hip. We are each others most important thing in the entire world. Just because we don't kiss or have sex doesn't mean it's not love. I LOVE my fiance in ways words can't explain. And they love me just the same. Just because it's not romantic doesn't make it any less of a relationship. Just because it's not sexual doesn't make us any less engaged. I am going to marry my fiance, my best friend, the love of my life, and I need people to know that it's not because we couldn't find anyone else. It's not because we said we would if we were still single at X years old. It's not a trend or a phase or anything like that. I'm going to marry them because I LOVE them.

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daftmooncretin · 6 months ago

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iwtv fandom constantly arguing about who the real bad guy is when shit hits the fan like oh its lestats fault or armands or actually louis is the real villain!! IRRELEVANT. disregard. the reason everything always goes to shit in this show is because unfortunately louis and lestat do match eachothers freak and the resonant harmony of their freakiness sends pure unfiltered wavelengths of suffering to every single characters vampire brainstem and ruins their lives. in this business we call it the invisible chord.

#my brother in christ THEY ARE ALL THE VILLAIN #but seriously i dont understand why people need to choose a villain or whatever frome these characters #they are all terrible and horrible thats kind of the point #repeat after me: it is ok to watch people be gay and evil on tv without ascribing morality to it #iwtv #interview with the vampire #lestat de lioncourt #loustat #armand #the vampire chronicles

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cairafea · 3 months ago

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my favourite genre of seventeen is when they're straight up lying

ref:

#quite possibly the funniest still in the entire episode #“he's not that scary” with THREE WHOLE PEOPLE ON THE COUNTER #this is like the funniest episode of gose we've gotten in a while #gose writers understand the series and the medium so much they always know and commit to the funniest bit possible #i could write an essay on the going seventeen horror specials and how the writers subvert/evolve the going original episodes #the exit pass part of the episode was peak btw #i had to cross-reference their outfits + the next few camera angles + voices to figure out who the two crouched in front of jeonghan were #so if that wasn't them. rip.#seventeen #svt #going seventeen #gose #wonwoo #junhui #jeonghan #my art #fanart #art #comic #no watermark it's been 3 months since I've touched this account I forgor #dont repost or dk will start his 5 step donald duck zombie routine and you will not be able to escape.#i also need yall to know. when jun was zombie-talking to the exit pass people. he sounded like an angry bird.

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mythicalcoolkid · 5 months ago

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You don't wish your disability was worse or more visible, you wish your disability was taken seriously. Please stop confusing the two, I guarantee you would not get the support you need JUST by being more severe or more visible. Please listen to visibly disabled people when we tell you it isn't better on our side

#m/cc #mine #I tried extremely hard to word this nicely because I KNOW people don't mean bad and often even know there are unique challenges #and believe me I know the challenges of invisible disability too!!#I have invisible disabilities!#but as someone who has also been at least visibly 'off' since they were 10 I am SO SICK of invisible disabilities being hailed as like #a unique extra oppression that us lucky visibly disabled people don't have to deal with #there are challenges to invisible disabilities that visibly disabled people DON'T have to deal with!#but you need to understand that *the reverse is also true*#there are MASSIVE benefits to being able to lie about your disability for example #or not dealing with the overt ableism that comes with your disability being obvious to everyone #*I do not have the option to pretend I'm not disabled.* that is never an option I have #I walk weirdly. I use a mobility aid now. my speech and face are 'off.' I lean to one side #for a long time I wore sunglasses 24/7 and often didn't make sense. I sometimes can't speak or won't react to others #for the most part people will always know that at the very least something is wrong with me #and more obviously I have people telling me they'll pray for me; telling me I can't do things I'm already in the process of doing;#wanting to shake my hand to tell me I'm an inspiration for not killing myself; giving me dirty looks for existing in public #and yes. I'm aware that this is very much an in-community issue. I know the average abled person doesn't know invisible disabilities exist #that's why there's so much awareness happening for it #but as a visibly disabled person I get SO TIRED of constantly hearing 'I wish my disability was visible :'('#it's just 'I wish I had your disability!' but from other disabled people

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girlboyburger · 7 months ago

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#i used to be a lil more patient with it and ask like. why do you use *your* pronouns? you like em. right? but ive realized that explaining #myself over and over to ppl who (for the most part) will continue to not understand is exhausting #so. nyways. im gonna start linking people who ask this post #i use it/its for lots and lots of reasons but the one You need to know is because I Want To #anyways! hi! hello! i'm mostly moved in and the bugs are mostly dealt with #posts will be mainly comm work and lil mspaint doodlies for the time being #but #helllooooooo #:03 its been awhileee #oc: cow #fursona #mspaint mouse doodlie

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girlfictions · 1 year ago

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thinking about this poem by noor hindi today.

(donate to palestine here)

#palestine #free Palestine #at a loss for words really with every new update #please please please i urge you to donate #the palestinian people need our support more than ever right now #i do not understand how so many are blind in the face of this genocide

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 1 year ago

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going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:

There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’

like wow babe. good fucking point

#like you were on the ground biting the carpet and dry sobbing while you wrote that and still. good fucking point #not a shitpost #cptsd #and it's true. there's never a satisfying answer #the truth is i know why i wasn't loved #i analyzed my parent's traumas and abuse to death. i understand why i alienated and was alienated from my siblings #i know why my mom was too overwhelmed to be capable of nurturing #i know why my dad vanished into addiction and avoidance #the details of our cycles of trauma and cptsd and family history i have a phd in all of it #i understood perfectly. i spent years studying and now i knew the answer #and guess what? IT WAS NOT SATISFYING!!!#because they still didn't love me! and i still couldn't change that!#it was still a completely unsatisfying state of affairs!#so like. when the people who are supposed to love you...don't.#when the people who are supposed to take care of you...fail to #you can look for answers and reasons and explanations #but that's not actually going to FIX your situation.#and it's probably not within your ability TO fix the situation. (and definitely not your job)#because you don't need answers--you need a new situation #*inserts Just Walk Out. You Can Leave!!! (Running Skeleton) Meme*#and yes. walking out isn't always possible.#but for you i hope it will be one day soon. and i hope you build the courage to take that leap.#stepping away from the people who failed to love you...it feels like being untethered but also like being lighter than air #new and scary. immensely relieving. the future opens up. empty but empty like a canvas. blindingly bright until your eyes adjust #like climbing out of a pit you called home and for the first time realizing how bright the light of day can truly be #when you aren't just getting glimpses from the bottom of a hole

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curry-and-gunpowder · 9 months ago

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Dazai "everyone's project" Osamu

(Plz don't @ me with any suggestions or "corrections", thank you.)

Edit: holy shit this blew up way more than I ever imagined lol. Thank you to all who reblog, your tags are everything ❤️

#bsd #bungou stray dogs #bsd memes #this is a joke.#J O K E #just need to make sure people understand that #bsd dazai #bsd kunikida #bsd mori #bsd atsushi #bsd odasaku #bsd chuuya #bsd ango #bsd ranpo #bsd fyodor #bsd natsume

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ratbastarddotfuck · 18 days ago

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if you're a white person taking pleasure in the idea that Trump voters of colour are experiencing racist violence from white trumpers because "they got what's coming to them" I don't think you're anti-racist at all, I think you were just waiting for an acceptable target, and you're also fucking weird.

Bad Person Deserves Punishment For Their Sins give me a fucking break and get yourself out of the fucking catholic church. you're all prison abolitionists until you see someone you don't like.

#assholes still do not deserve to be victims of bigotry #people will crow this up and down until they find someone they think is a big enough asshole to really deserve it #watch your cognitive dissonance kids #i really am only speaking to white people here. as a white person.#POC can feel however they feel.#though i still don't think it's an appropriate sentiment to turn into Political Praxis there is of course a need to vent #like idk i don't find any marginalised suffering under fascism funny. i think it's fucking sad.#i think it is sad when right wing gay people experience homophobia and i think it is sad when right wing trans people experience transphobia #and when right wing disabled people experience ableism and when right wing women experience misogyny #leopards eating faces is funny when it's about like. rich people or misogynists or whatever it's.#do you understand that this is punching down?#why are we wasting our energy hoping for the victimisation of specific marginalised people #this would be a great time to do some outreach but instead everyone is just fucking MOCKING THEM #you're so fucking stupid you don't care about The Cause you care about Winning #this shit makes me furious.#have some compassion #the system speaks #USpol #Trump #racism #politics

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illuminchim · 5 months ago

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“Between you and me, there is no need for 'thank you' and 'sorry'."

#mdzs #mo dao zu shi #wei wuixan #lan wangji #wangxian #I found a reference that screamed wangxian to me #and some people saying that it was lack of communication to say #between you and me there's no need of thank you and sorry #tell me you don't understand their relationship without telling me it #having said that #please don't look at the hands #they're horrible but I was too lazy to do them better

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majaurukalo · 28 days ago

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ACCESSIBILITY IS A HUMAN RIGHT NOT A PRIVILEGE

#cripple punk #disability #cpunk #cripple #crip punk #crip revolution #disability justice #disability rights #chronic illness #disability pride #accessibility #human rights #privileges #accessibility is not an accessory and people need to understand this #not an afterthought #disabled people are human beings who must be treated with dignity and respect #actually disabled

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