#parenting my inner child
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AHEM
The snaggletooth is officially going to be gone! We've set a date to get my braces put on, and by my 40th birthday I should have the straight smile I've always dreamed of!
I will endure temporary discomfort for a higher pay-off. I can do this!
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Brownies❤
Ink!sans by Comyet
Palette Roller by angeutblogo
Paperjam by 7goodangel
Undertop!Gaster by stylincheetah
#Feeding my inner “Ink is trying to be a good parent” ao3 tag part 2#I headcannon that Ink has too many kids and their memory mixed it up a little of what each of them like#tbh I have no idea which is Inks ship child that has brownies as their favorite#ink sans#palette roller#paperjam#undertop gaster#utmv#sans au#gaster au#fanart#digital fanart#artists on tumblr#art#my art#comic art#comic#digital art#I made vey few comics so I hope this was at least okay for yall#its mostly for me tho#and a bunch of other Ink sans enjoyers out there#lol
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The Bad Batch makes even more sense when you remember that they’re basically all in their twenties.
#I was looking online the other day and looked up how old Crosshair is supposed to be and it said 26#I felt in my bones that they were all twenty-something’s but seeing it confirmed is so funny#as someone who is in their twenties and has peers in their twenties this all checks out#like we got someone in a relationship someone becoming a parent someone joining a social justice cause someone healing their inner child#and someone who was radicalized#star wars tbb#star wars the bad batch#the bad batch
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Lil' comic of a scene from a fic I haven't gotten around to writing.
(basically Vi and Jinx have reconciled, Silco is alive, and Vi is begrudingly finding herself beginning to look up Silco as a mentor/father figure. She accompanies him on an errand run, one of which winds them up at the old cannery, and emotions bubble up biiig time 🥲)
#y'know the 'makings of greatness' treasure planet scene?#yeah#arcane#arcane fanart#silco#vi#drawing#this is so messy lkg#just going to call these my post-it note doodles#vi with parentification issues resenting that she wasn't the soft image of their mother that powder likely needed#and still not knowing how to work through that - especially since she feels like jinx no longer *needs* her (even though she does)#and dad silco daughter vi just#hits something man#because they *hate* each other and they have every reason to#but there's just#aughghg#so much potential for character development with them#silco and jinx is codependent central and we love it but silco and vi is the hard hitting boundary setting raging arguments and i eat it up#very much hcing that silco sees his inner child in jinx vs. his angry young adult self in vi#and both of those effect his (somewhat disastrous / sometimes okay) parenting#it's a sliding scale
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love elizabeth s.
#original poem#original quote#love elizabeth s#childhood#childhood trauma#trauma#mental health#parent trauma#estrangement#quotes#my poem#poetry#short poem#sylvia plath#dark acadamia quotes#virginia woolf#relatable quotes#poems and poetry#writeblr#mental illness#dead poets society#abuse#child abuse#inner child#sad poem#spilled ink#poetry community#books#booklr#book lover
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one of the most surprising part of finally joining the batman fandom was reading older comics and finding out that this guy wasn’t an abusive monster (at least in most comic runs) but was just some obviously mentally ill suicidal guy who’s continuously indulged and even manipulated (sometimes) by his closest friends and remaining family to jump off of buildings and sob to the ptsd induced hallucinations of his dead parents and kids he glimpses in the mirror
this is an alfred hatepost lowkey. like alfreds whole reasoning was ‘well I just wasn’t ready to be a father (i abandoned one kid already it really wouldn’t be difficult to do it again) and bruce was sooo hard to deal with 🥺 (i don’t even parent him in any meaningful way)’
Alfred is literally like “hmm schizophrenic 14 year old child. lets let him go talk and train with assassins and murderer detectives to figure out his ‘true self’ since he very obviously doesn’t want the nonexistent encouragement and help I’ve totally been giving. I’ll even pack his suitcases because THAT couldn’t send any wrong ideas to the kid I repeatedly tell to grow up and learn about life.” and he expects him to come back to Alfred’s expectation of ‘normal’???
don’t even get me started with his whole ‘indulging the continuous cycle of robins’ thing. Bruce is like “wow let’s get this kiddo to a foster home with emotionally stable people who can properly raise him” while Alfred is already picking out the fabrics to sew the robin costumes. like worstie you started the cycle of emotional unavailability and crappy parenting!!!!! you (and a lot of people in the fandom included) can’t keep blaming that on just Bruce forever!!!
#im so ashamed this brought out my inner Bruce Wayne defender but GOD Alfred just pisses me off so bad sometimes 😭😭😭😭😭#how are you THAT bad at raising a child you literally volunteered to raise???#aughhh and his continuous victim blaming of Bruce…no wonder the guy can barely stand himself good lord#it’s not Alfred’s fault tho he’s British 💔#like I know he has good qualities. amazing ones in fact. but pls can u properly care for a child#his style of parenting bleeds into the robins except he’s way more understanding with them for some reason#whatever#batman#bruce wayne#batfam#dc robin#alfred pennyworth#dc comics#bruce wayne meta
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#sadnees#tw depressing thoughts#depressing shit#i'm sad#tw depressing stuff#depressing life#childhood trauma#quotes#poetic#childhood#childhood ptsd#childhood truama#inner child#child abuse#tw abuse#narcissistic abuse#emotional abuse#truamacore#generational truama#tw selfhate#wound tw#tw ptsd#ptsd vent#toxic parents#mixed art#kill my thoughts#kill my life#i am in pain#mother#i am alone
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Anamaria Vartolomei & Isabelle Huppert in 𝑀𝑦 𝐿𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑃𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠, 2011.
dir. by Eva Ionesco, and inspired by her relationship with her mother, the well-known artistic photographer Irina Ionesco whose pictures of her young daughter caused controversy when they were published back in the 1970s.
#movie#my little princess#isabelle huppert#cinematography#filmmaking#film photography#movies#film#filmedit#photographer#cinema#drama#biopic#cinematic photography#photographers on tumblr#cinephile#movie review#this is a girlblog#ultraviolence#inner child#childhood#child abuse#toxic parents#narcissistic parents#girlblogging#girl interrupted#female manipulator#femcel#tw childhood trauma#just girly things
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You know what is still making me boil with rage is not the fact that Helena is raking Chris away - that she finally got what she wanted - it’s that she clearly thinks so little of Eddie that she is abandoning him when he very clearly needs help and support - the help and support of his family - their love - and he isn’t getting that.
Putting the Chris of it all to one side - Helena has abandoned her son on multiple occasions - she only ever sees his flaws - but isn’t interested in helping him in, supporting him, she is only interested in herself and how it makes her look, so she ignores his struggles because she would have to admit she is a awful parent and that she is responsible for so much of what has happened to Eddie and who he is as a result of her treatment throughout his entire life.
Eddie was always doomed to fail when it came to her and she sees Chris as her chance to have a do over - to mould Chris into what she sees as the perfect son she thinks she didn’t get with Eddie. It’s truly vindictive and that is the most horrifying part of it all and what makes her irredeemable in my eyes
#she is evil personified#once again she has abandoned Eddie when he needs her - for her own ends#Eddie’s inner child is breaking once again#he needed his mothers love and support and all he is left with is an empty house beciase she has taken away his child - his soul#a child he didn’t want to go to them if he wasn’t able to care for Chris because he knows what she might do to Chris - how she will stifle#him and who he is in the same way she stifled Eddie himself#my rage towards her is unending#I know Tim likes to redeem people - especially bad parents on this show but she can never ever come back from this#911 spoilers#eddie diaz#Helena diaz
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I'm sincere when I say I don't know how y'all have the energy to scrutinize Mori treating his successors like they're competent when the Port Mafia's skill users have been culled thrice over within seven years by men who can't act right (Rimbaud, Verlaine, Shibusawa, Gides, Fyodor), and the longevity of the tripartite framework relies on Mori not patronizing who's left.
Especially considering, like, there are foreign military police in modern Japan, British Somaliland appears to still exist, and Ango has seemingly kept Taneda in a medically induced coma for an irreversible amount of time so that he can unilaterally leverage Taneda's fictional authority within a very-historically-real cabinet in the Japanese government that hasn't existed irl since the Meiji constitution.
Like, I'm not asking anyone to engage with media in any other way than the way they enjoy most. It's just. Has anyone else noticed bsd!Russia appears to have annexed bsd!Abkhazia and bsd!South Ossetia.
All of this to say: you don't really have to beat the same dead horses if you don't want to. If you do, then by all means, lay into Equus with your whole chest. But, also. There's a lot in bsd the fandom scarcely, if at all, touches, and the incongruity between the work's layers and worldbuilding and even niche fandom engagement with the material is stark.
#bsd#bungou stray dogs#this isnt a value judgment#i just feel like a conspiracy theorist sometimes#because i have reread and rewatched and rehashed this work over and over and over again#and each time there's a whole college major's worth of new things to lose my mind over#and then i open tumblr and there are fan weeks that wouldnt permit much of the canon and source material#and like. discourse about mori's parenting when that man's womb is barren in bsd.#why do you think he's like this. mori ogai was meant to spoil children and kafka asagiri put him in an existentially threatened mafia.#that's a girl dad without any girls. instead he just has dazai and chuuya.#and verlaine's undernourished inner child#and like q who is the personification of avant garde freudian psychoanalytical theory from the 1930s#like. we know what's wrong with mori. now someone explain to me how the united nations is structured without ww2 creating the p5.
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#theres nothing quite like your mother saying Well maybe you shouldve been more careful because now your boss might think youve been flirting#with this male coworker (whom i like splendidly as a friend) and now maybe she thinks youre not trustworthy#and maybe she regrets hiring you because you said you feel like youre making a lot of mistakes this week and she might assume thats because#your head is filled with this boy.#so dont make her regret hiring you.#MA'AM I TOLD YOU I WAS ALREADY ANXIOUS BECAUSE I MADE SO MANY MISTAKES TODAY WHY ARE YOU MAKING ME ASHAMED#OF SOMETHING THAT I HONESTLY HAD NO CLUE I OUGHT TO BE ANXIOUS ABOUT AT MY FIRST NEW JOB AFTER IVE GRADUATED????#anyway going to bed i cant take this anymore LOL she said it so lightly and im like. well i never even considered#being afraid of making my boss regret hiring me somehow because of some kind of behaviour that i had no idea was sending some kind of signal#anywaysssss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#and then she was like why are you crying?? 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀#not to be like this is partly why i didnt want to move home but confound it all why are things like this#can i not simply confide in my mother my anxieties and worriws#worries#and not also have to worry about her potentially being like Well have you considered you ARE right and it IS your fault?#idk man something something firstborn child eldest daughter can i have some room to breathe. please#also not to whine but Not my father walking in on me eating dinner at 10pm because i was holed up#in my room in a semi depressive state after so many gong shows in a work day and straight up having no appetite#but deciding my body needs the food anyway its better late than never.....walking in and then saying#you know if you eat this late you'll gain weight. SIR??????????????????#sorry to complain and rant again i simply cannot in this house and whats more am doing my best to honour my parents#but why is it so hard out here and how can they say stuff like that with a smile!!!!!!!#also i DO have an inner critic who is always like Its your fault you are the worst you should be ashamed always........why do my parents#not understand after knowing me for so long and watching me grow up#that i can make myself so ashamed of the smallest thing so easily and that what they say drives me to shame almost as easily?#ANYWAY LOL WHAT A DAY#you guys!!! i am working so hard i promise i PROMISE I am!!! it is my first full time job ever and i am working so so hard#i am doing my absolute best and no one sees it and that is FINE i just wish my parents would see that i AM trying!!#i come back home so dead every single day because i put in 120%! this is literally my first job after graduation#and my parents KNOW this has been the most exhausting taxing and soul crushing year ive had in my very short life so far
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It’s a traumatic thought to know I would have needed a Fairy God Parent. I needed one, and if it’s gonna be anyone it’ll be someone who can teach me my culture
#fop#fop fanart#juandissimo magnifico#fairy odd parents#healing#digital art#digital artist#disabled artist#ibispaint art#healing my inner child#age regression#agere#sfw agere#age regressor#agere community#safe agere#agere caregiver#fandom agere#fop agere#fairy odd parents agere#age regressive#he would have taught me my culture#he would have taught me Spanish#where I came from#what I am#and not leave me in soild clothes#God I’m full of trauma#so full of trauma#ugh#art
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yes, i understand its their first time living.. but why, do i have to carry that burden of thought? why didnt they think "its her first time living too" i was merely a child, learning how to cross the labyrinth of emotions but the exit was no more even before my eyes could search for it.
-Me.
#dark academia#quotes#relatable quotes#dark academic aesthetic#life quotes#poetry#childhood#inner child#literature#love poems#quotes about life#my writing#my work#my words#parenting#children#family#toxic household
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rewatching Deadpool 2 and he was so hot for two things just now: clocking how that kid was abused, and putting holes in those abusers heads
#tw: abuse mention#i'll always love that part of him#deadpool 2#wade wilson#deadpool#deadpool 2018#deadpool wouldn't have let my parents speak to me the way they did#he would have saved the inner child i'm saving
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I never properly said how they met so...
#(🍰) *.✧ — Maroon#(☆) 。.゚— Silver#everytime I draw Giovanni I lose a year of life because I hate him with all my life you have no idea#now I need 🧘🧘🧘🧘 inner peace ooom#ok back with the comic#as I said. I never properly talked about how they met I think#so basically that's what happened yes. after that Giovanni kept visiting because Silver would start crying sometimes#because little baby missed Maroon's soup#I think Maroon would have give Giovanni the recipe at some point but it wasn't the same#also theybstarted to get along because Maroon loved Silver and. and. slowly started to love Giovanni too#and of course he had his own feeling for her because wow she takes care of my child and me wow she cute#eventually happends tha thing. and well#this is a reminder for myself to update Maroon's lore post#maybe tomorrow if I remember#BUT HEY I FINALLY MADE ONE OF THE COMIC I HAVE ON MY LIST YAHOOO 🎉🎊🎉🎉🎊#still got a few more on pending but for now I have to work on other things for valentine's day 🫡🫡#I missed Maroon that's it#should I add Silver's tag here too?#pokespe parents#📖 // Pokespe comics#pokespe#pokemon special#pokemon adventures
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Excuse me, my inner child is in an absolute rage and throwing things again...
#children#cptsdsurvivor#dysfunctional family#dysfunctional parents#ex fundamentalist#religious trauma#narcissist parents#bad parenting#actually autism#ex christian#ex fundie#stress#structural dissociation#adhd#inner child healing#inner child#my inner demons#inner life#not physically#overly emotional#emotional regulation#did#ifs#internal family systems#intergenerational trauma
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